₦airaland Forum

AfroKnight:
I don’t see why the way I think should make any woman hide the fact that she’s a single mother.

She should be upfront with it once a man asks her out. Not after he has begun to develop affection for her and then she springs it on him. No. That’s manipulative.

If he knew from the beginning then he could make up his mind whether or not to continue.

Gobdddd:
Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.

ogbiwa:
https://www.dailystar.co.uk/real-life/ive-never-female-friend-because-24917631

kingsolium:
Good morning house, pls I need your views and opinions on this subject matter.

Ok, I currently work with an FMCG Coy in Ibadan as an inventory officer where I earn N175k net on a monthly basis. It’s important to state here that I was living in Lagos prior to my getting this FMCG job.

So, I moved to Ibadan 2 months ago and currently put up with a friend in his apartment while I try to figure out how to move my stuffs to Ibadan on relocation basis. But along the line, I got a job with a big agricultural establishment affiliated to a multinational agricultural firm and I’m being offered N259k for a start excluding other benefits such as airtime(15k) which is different from my main salary.

Also note that the N259k is gross so my take home could be around N230k or thereabouts.

Now here’s the challenge. This new job is in Kaduna(the state capital) and I’ve not been to kaduna before. So, house what do you think about this. I need your candid, sincere and factual advice on this matter.

Thank you

DaddyRochie1642:
If the person is touched by the Holy Spirit, the person can decide to Carter for the child, as long as the person was touched by the Holy Spirit to do so.

People respond to Betrayal differently, and most of the time, people always seem to respond to Betrayal in a Violent manner.

Lollittaa:
Unfortunately you're not the only one who feels that way. The ways of God are foolishness to those who think themselves wise. I know if the Lord wills, someday, He will draw you closer to Himself.

Righteousness2:
I am sought of them that asked not for me; I am found of them that sought me not: I said, Behold me, behold me, unto a nation that was not called by my name.

USA Built on Godly Judaic Principles is Exporting Lgbt, effeminatism , Abortions and all sort of Evils to the world.

China that does not Know GOD, respects Godly Principles. And you ask why China is advancing and USA Dwindling ?

GOD is no Respecter of Persons!
They that Honor HIM , HE Honors. They that Despise HIM, HE Despises.

Lollittaa:
I've seen and heard of queers getting their sexual orientation reoriented by God. Ex gays, lesbians, bisexuals, transgender getting body dysmorphia crushed under the cross of Calvary. There's nothing God cannot do. You don't have to accept to live in any sexual orientation that's a perversion of God's original plan for humanity. God who did it for them, and they're married to opposite gender, with children and you can see the happiness in their eyes, very visible, can do the same for you.

aribisala0:
If you have nothing sensible to say then shut your mouth

Lollittaa:
He told you exactly what you wanted to hear

Lollittaa:
are you evil

Magnoliaa:
Meaning??

Magnoliaa:
You no be one of them?

Yeah. I can see it. I don't even see it as "men being territorial" as some people with no inkling of a loving relationship are already waxing analytic about *rolls eyes*. Some husbands are even saying they could go with them, or wear it in a private car...just chills and vibes LOL.

Lollittaa:
are you a bobrisky

Lollittaa:

are you a female

Lollittaa:
Where's my birthday gift

Lollittaa:
Because the church is snoring. When we wake, there will be a revival and miracles will follow, like the old days.

Petyprincess:
" why woman can't stop billing you?" Isn't it obvious? Because most Nigerian men have nothing to offer except money and the tiny carrot between their legs so you can blame the women.

Lollittaa:
The one that likes you will still bill you, but not too much

chatinent:
You and I know what the society has turned into. There are standby pedophiles waiting to ruin every gullible child in the puberty!

Coming to think that my dad actually bought one (smartphone wasn't then) for my sis when she entered SS3 then, and comparing it to now is so not adding up.

I just saw a JSS2 girl whose parents have refused buying a phone for borrowing one from another girl to call her boyfriend! How can I tell? Oh, fam, what does the “you too” signature infer after the call with an overjoyed tone?

I understand there is really no way to prevent a child who has destined themselves to be useless...but does it mean there shouldn't be limitations?

I know of another teenager who ...clearly tells her parents she is going for evening choir classes..but enter Edu’s apartment 24/7! Of course, we hear the choir ringtones! We also know Edu!

Have parents lost their roles completely? I don't want to think so.


What do you think?

When is it best to purchase a phone for a girl child, and what measures must be put in place because it looks like until we train the girl child first, this generation is losing it completely?!