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The assumption that menopausal women are sexually dry is hilarious.

Duke studies say that's when they become most Hot.

adambeatz:
Ohhh Gentlemen there is no need to go about shooting sporadically when you are supposed to aim it at those who know its meant for them.

You see women are of different breed and one needs to understand how to identify them immediately you come across them.

Now most times when one comes across a female whom they wish to date the first thing to look out for are red flags. (Don't be a goat and be looking for red flags in a woman o, it would surely backfire).

You see this country that we live in has programmed 90% of ladies to always be on survival mode and as such they are always on their toes at all times. Now some women who were virgins and not lucky enough to have met a player would have obviously had her heart broken at the end and now walks with thr mentality that all men are the same. Due to this anyone that isnt sharp that enters her lane is finished, now these kind of women obviously have enough body count that would make a man worry about his future if he ever knows the truth so what she does is play the manipulative game. The game is in 2 ways, a woman knows if she wants to sleep with you the moment she first sees you (believe it or not). If she wants to sleep with you, you are in luck, if she doesn't, your doomed. If she wants to sleep with you, she would either make you sweat for it by laying down investment( incase you men don't understand this is how a man shows a woman he loves her, a woman has access to free dicks so why would she pay for it, a man has more access to money than pussy and as such he most pay for it). A woman knows the moment you sleep with her it is game over and she also know a man who has invested so much on someone would find it had to leave her, you see a man's treasure is where his money is and a woman's treasure is where her heart is. If he invests and she is sure he has done the needful she allows him access to her body which inturn is her heart but you see the one that she doesnt allow access to her heart/pussy. That one is doomed, she friendzones him while giving him hope that he would one day enter the pussy and as such he becomes the errand boy whom she asks for help and he been the mr nice guy would be offering her gifts hoping to get a piece of the national cake.

Now years have passed and a girl doenst get a suitor and all her assets are in rapid decline, she knows the sharp guys wont near her cause who wants a lady that has wasted the oil of her youth so she contacts the mr nice guys, the ones she friendzoned to let them know she is available, now these unfortunate sheeps would just go straight to the slaughter house and just like that she has found a husband to suck the last of her remaining oil before menopause hits her.

Aunty, 28 is not a girl biko.

Virginity is not a prize.

Congrats on your family.

November24:
Well,baba,me I'm a God-fearing woman o.
I lost my virginity at 28.

I was just a naive girl.

My immediate ex is late. He had heart disease,I stood by him for 3 years before he passed on..

People are different sir

The assumption that a young lady is useless is crazy.

No two people are equal.

A good wife is a good wife at 18 or 32.

yorubakid:
And what's wrong in marrying 32 years old lady. Some thrash I read in NL baffles me. Do you want to him to marry an 18 years old girl who is unemployed and have nothing to offer him apart from sex. Some of you in this section have lost touch with reality

Nonsense is spewed by both sexes.

I have no hope that these gender wars still end anytime soon.

InTheCloudySky:
The nonsense some of you spew on Nairaland is alarming.

So why is she (still) your girlfriend?

ufotty2001:
I have a girlfriend all what she think of is how she will collect money from me and career.. !!! She has never ask me how is business? How is life?? How are you managing... All are calls are complain that she need this or that..

Check the kind of account you have.

Perhaps you are using a Savings account like a business account.

You may need to open a business chequing account.

MMXX:
Business men and women out there, I'd really like to know how you people cope with this much charges from banks.

I went out since morning to hustle only for me to come back with more shortage than I even left the house with,not a single profit for my struggle..I checked and boom bank charge crushed me.i never get this much ever

e pain me sha

Kagame's Rwanda is a lot of the more you look, the less you see.

They have money to put VIST RWANDA on Arsenal's sleeve, but 39% of the population are in abject poverty and 32% of people who start primary school do not finish primary school.

There are a few grand projects in the cities that have not lived to expectations, while village poverty remains for most Rwandans.

They have (or had) the most female MPs (due to the bloody genocidal civil war) yet have a "President for Life".

Sad.

Congrats. The makeup cake is blocking her natural naija beauty (most of our people are beautiful).

What I know about some pageants close friends did does not inspire confidence. I hope they did not make the contestants 'cheap female entertainment'.

I have dated a few Nigerian ladies.

The FEW too much drama, shady ones: amicable end.

The less drama (las las drama go dey ), sensible, lovely, etc ones: amazing relationships (past & non-past).

No be do or die biko.

Never.

Marriage is continuous.

You don't just "get married", you have to "stay married".

Oblongata:
The stupid things that men do...

How can you wake up and say you don’t want her anymore?

Marriage is only for people with balls!

Use your photoshop skills on Fiverr.

With reviews, you could easily earn $500 legitimately a month.

Carrying this kind of childish relationship into a marriage is scary.

So what happens if when you guys have a disagreement as husband and wife?

Communication is key o!

Some strategies I like are:
- Must greet each other every day (& night), even when annoyed
- Must not sleep out of the bed due to annoyance
- Must talk out issues when they arise
- Both apologize, no egos.

Don't think I'd be interested in any particular app.

Instead of you to get sense. Terrible path but you are both adults.

You or her should do the decent thing and inform the husband.

Perhaps he's aware, who knows.

Truly terrible story. Thanks for helping. Can NAPTIP be involved and the predator arrested & tried?

The guys that will mumu their money to women will remain.

Avoid material women. Date or pursue the people who are pursuing you. NEVER 'woo' a lady. If dem no like you, mumuness no go change am.

Intersexxsherry:
well, the minute a guy asks me for money, he starts loosing respect in my eyes. We expect men to be hardworking and fend for us sorry to say. You have lot of brothers to borrow from. Lot of high paying jobs are offered to men. Men are blessed with higher energy levels to do any job. Those men who beg women for money, we see them as mumu men except if the condition is very critical.

All generalization and no substance.

Which men are you surrounding yourself with?

Magnoliaa:
''One-off'' situation? LMAO. Go conduct a poll or carry out a research on this topic, yo. Even on this thread, you'll find more guys agreeing with what I and the person I quoted said than guys disagreeing with us.

Why does it kill y'all to actually agree with things a lady say? When women come out to share their wins, you say it's pussy power...when women post ass and all on IG, you say it's to attract clients; you talk about the evolutionary kinikan about how men are attracted to women and want to sleep with them, bla bla bla... I don't care sha. The fact is men spend on ladies than on their fellow guys. If a lady comes to talk about how men sponsor her and bankroll her, you'll lap it up and call her all manners of name. Now I'm saying men bankroll ladies (NOT ALL) MORE THAN, AS COMPARED TO their fellow guys. Hence, some lady might not go broke or hungry because she has a man giving her money. (I know it might not exactly be what the OP is talking about, but this is just my perspective).

*That* (women collecting money from men) is another scenario and point that could require its own discussion, but *the* point I'm pointing out here is that men give women money more than they give guys. You can see it from the moral aspect and equality aspect or whatever, but HERE NOW, I am choosing to focus on the fact and part of MEN NOT HELPING EACH OTHER.

I know it's because I'm saying this from a critical and condemning stance , hence some of you will disagree with me, but if I switch to a sympathetic and empathetic tone, and start criticizing the ''so called olosho girls'', you'll be lapping up what I'm saying.

But alas, I'm not a fighter for men nor a pick-me or a virtuous woman that wants to win you over with my tone, mannerisms and delivery. So disagree all you want.

It's a free Internet and it's your data.

Have a good night!

P.S: Oh. Even in your spendings one one another once in a while, it's to carry yourselves to beer parlors and clubs and buy the most expensive drinks, bathing yourselves with beers and champagnes, drinking peppersoup and eating cow heads- you call it simple life, because you're not complicated beings. But to give yourselves worthwhile money, in a life-transforming way, for things that actually matters, like responsibilities and buying pampers, taking care of family? Na stories you go start to hear.

Anyway, I don't think I need to mention that exceptions apply to all the things I've said here sha.

Were money discussions had before you finally tied the knot?

reel14:
Hello Nairalanders. I got married late last year.
Even though I got married late, I made sure I was gainfully employed before taking the giant stride.

I love my wife and she loves me too. I carry 98 % of the home responsibility, recently, because things are on the high side and my wife is working as well, I told her to be taking care of filling the gas while I handle other bills.
I have observed that anytime I go near the gas maybe to make food or boil water, she will remind how expensive gas is right now, after all, if it finishes, I won't give money to fill. These words hurt me alot as this is the only thing you do for us in this house. I know how much I pay for rent, DSTV etc with other utility bills.

My thoughts now are;
How do men which their wives are feeding them cope with insults and embarrassments that come with every meal?

How do unemployed/underemployed men cope?

What if anything happens with my job, will I be able to stay in a verbal abusive home?

Hello teachers & educators,

I am looking for suggestions for standardized resources, primarily:
- Schemes of Work
- Lesson Plans

I am especially interested in Science, English Language in Primary school as well as all JS subjects.

1. Don't buy. Do hire purchase or rent for Uber. Let him do it solidly for 3 months first. Saving everything.

2. If he can buy land of less than 1 m, he should buy.

3. He should invest at least 500k in stocks.

To be fair, birthing without a relationship is on the rise.

If your stated age is correct, you probably need to do it sooner.

Also, please seriously consider adoption (if you haven't already).

pocohantas:
Kids are lovely. So why not? Something about abroad guys creeps me out. Like they will stab me to death there over a little quarrel. I am not even joking. Maybe it is all the front page threads getting to me. I love them though. They are way more openminded that homebased guys.

What were the goals of the project?

udoakwa:
Udom should go Bleep himself, he deceived us with Ibom 3000 project, he made me resign from my job to go for the training since March till today no certificate, no information or anything. You people should stop hyping this man please we're suffering in the state

Naijabdcs have stopped publishing.

Newboss:
There are lots of foreign exchange market research firms in Nigeria. They simply go to the street, get data, analyse the data, and publish. It's even part of journalism.

Newspapers also maintain steady record of parallel market exchange rates. You can check and see for yourself. There is also Naijabdcs website. This CBN governor is too incompetent. He wants to hide his incompetence from the world.

Market research is not hard. You can even set up a website that conducts market research on price of anything you can think of.

If not that parallel market rates was well published, CBN would not have raised exchange rate from 381 to 412. The real value of Naira has fallen past 500 Naira to a dollar.

CBN should solve the problems instead of looking for how to mask the problems.

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Must be experienced with primary and secondary students.

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It is all talk.

These guys are trying to stand in a sea of fellow 'simps'.

The country isn't safe. If you're not a huge somebody, there won't even be a serious investigation into your death.

We're all zombies in this country.

Aile Lamido was probed recently.

Many others have been probed too

marooh:
;South South and South East Governors Have you hear where Noerthen Governors are being probe?

Use ur tonque to count ur teeth?

Looks good. Not everyone needs to be this aesthetically fit but EVERYONE needs to care for their health.

Can you run for 5 minute without stopping?

Can you walk 3 flights of stairs without gasping for air?

Can you last 3 10-minute rounds with d madam or oga?

If you didn't say yes to all three above, work out!!

Start by literally walking for 30 minutes a day.

Take a 20 minute walk to go home instead of that extra drop.

Do pushups (girls included). Do body squats. Start with 50 a day...even if it takes you 2 hours to do it!!

HEalth is wealth.