Business › Re: Anthony Stimler Turns On Colleagues In Massive Africa Bribe Cases by cooooooks(m): 2:47pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Oil is extremely corrupt but a strong dear of jail or prison keeps them in check. |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Lady Reportedly Denied Australian Visa Due To Homophobic Post by cooooooks(m): 2:44pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
I've been warning people about this for many years. |
Politics › Re: Rivers Government Drags FG To Supreme Court Over VAT by cooooooks(m): 2:42pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
There was a judgement of Kuala Vs FIRS last year. In that judgement, FIRS was found to have no grounds to collect VAT. It was based on that judgement that the Rivers State Government took the FIRS to court and passed a VAT law. Sirjamo: This is not Onoghen's Supreme Court that always favour the Poverty Development Party.
Rushing to Supreme Court when the matter is still pending before the appeal Court is no longer allowed in this era of Tanko Mohammed.
Wike is looking for his retirement package in form of value added tax. He just realized that VAT exists, after almost seven years in office. |
Romance › Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by cooooooks(m): 2:38pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Magnolia making sense without unnecessary gendering? Ah ah! Have the gods come down?  Magnoliaa: Lol. It feels somehow sha. And really uncomfortable. I mean, people are just out there trying to live and do something, I will now ''sit down'' to be talking about whether me, I find what they are doing attractive or turning me on? Like. Ki lo kan aye? It leaves a judgmental taste in my mouth somewhat. I don't feel like I have that right.
Matter of fact, I think there's a 'shaming' undertone to it - it's just my opinion. Because I'd feel unsettled too if guys started talking about how women who hawk and sell agbos, okrika tops or wigs or are career women who travel around the world, models, actresses and lawyers turn them off. I'd even be the no.1 fighter in such a thread... I mean, what's their business with women's works? Women who do not give a fk about them? I don't know how the fine line between preferences and shaming can be towed, though. I guess it's the former the OP had in mind. |
Romance › Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by cooooooks(m): 2:35pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
You seem to imply that all female bankers are prostitutes? What's a video vixen? People have dated strippers, the question is what relationship do the two have? What are their boundaries? What type of stripping? You need to understand that strippers in big cities in the US make ~ $15,000 a weekend on average. Iyaebe: Can you marry a female banker,video vixen or stripper? |
Travel › Re: Pls Which Country Can I Travel To With ₦1.5 Million To Hustle? by cooooooks(m): 2:33pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Check out "nurse Glory" on YouTube. She has given the cost of schooling in Asia before. Hahnemann: Luke how much can it cost to get this? |
Travel › Re: Pls Which Country Can I Travel To With ₦1.5 Million To Hustle? by cooooooks(m): 2:32pm On Sep 15, 2021 |
Google is your friend. "More info" is not specific. Ask specific questions sir/ma'am. Hahnemann: I'm interested in this, plz give me more info |
Romance › Re: Careers Of Men That Turn You Off As A Lady? by cooooooks(m): 6:23am On Sep 15, 2021 |
I don't think there's a profession that is a complete turn off. |
Politics › Re: Epileptic Power Supply: Nigeria To Partner Egypt On Electricity Generation by cooooooks(m): 4:33am On Sep 15, 2021 |
I'd be happy if the Egyptian Electricity Holding Company is allowed to bid for and execute a PPP contract in a local government, area, or state for say 100 years.
As long as power results.
The problem is once they succeed, vultures will try to chase them and claim the project. |
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Wows In Sexy Bikini Pictures by cooooooks(m): 5:29pm On Sep 14, 2021 |
Celebrate people in their 40s and above that are still fit. I'll be one of them. kokoA: Carry you 50 something years old body comot abeg make we see front. |
Romance › Re: Female Twitter User Gushes Over Uber Driver Says She Is In Love With Him by cooooooks(m): 8:18pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
The Uber guy would be a fool to contact her. He risks deplatforming. If she likes him, she should make the move or forget it. |
Car Talk › Re: In Need Of A Bolt Driver In Porthacourt???.. I'm Available by cooooooks(m): 12:54pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Very interested. 2 cars available. Ugik: If you are looking for someone to drive and make weekly returns to you as a bolt driver in porthacourt, I'm very much available and ready to start work anytime. reach me on zero seven zero six 5436920 |
Car Talk › Re: Suggest An SUV Of 2m To Buy For My Wife by cooooooks(m): 12:53pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
For 3 m, you can do ford escape. For the 2 m, I can sell you Mazda 5. Nacoss25: Good evening all. i want get my wife an SUV this month and budget is 2m. Suggest for me any SuV with the following specification 6 cylinder 4×4 Not Toyota nor Honda. Thanks guys |
Car Talk › Re: Suggest An SUV Of 2m To Buy For My Wife by cooooooks(m): 12:53pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
For 3 m, you can do ford escape.
For the 2 m, I can sell you Mazda 5. |
Car Talk › Re: What Is The Highest Car Odometer Reading You Have Seen? by cooooooks(m): 12:50pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
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Car Talk › Re: What Is The Highest Car Odometer Reading You Have Seen? by cooooooks(m): 12:49pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
It is not uncommon for Toyota vehicles or ford trucks to reach 1,000,000 (million) Kms or miles. |
Health › Re: COVID-19: Gorillas At Atalanta Zoo Test Positive For Coronavirus by cooooooks(m): 12:37pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
I guess all gorillas need to mask up.  |
Crime › Re: Solomon Oboh Commits Suicide, Wills Mobile Phone To Girlfriend by cooooooks(m): 12:36pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
The Nigerian approach of shaming does not work and has not worked for a long time.
RIP to this brother. |
Romance › Re: My White Neighbors Are Giving Me Attitude by cooooooks(m): 12:05pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
My hotline didn't bling o. Lollittaa: what of me that's calling you now nko? |
Romance › Re: My White Neighbors Are Giving Me Attitude by cooooooks(m): 10:04pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Just call me when in trouble, I'll sort you out. On behalf of MIS Alumni. Ilamina: still obsessed
I just hope the obsession will not put me in trouble, one day |
Family › Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by cooooooks(m): 6:27pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
8 to 18 months until a mutual decision to desire to marry.
6 - 12 months after such decision to get engaged, see families, ask for list, etc
2 - 6 months after engagement to be married. |
Romance › Re: My White Neighbors Are Giving Me Attitude by cooooooks(m): 6:23pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Wait. You're from PH, live in Canada, talk about MIS, Jephthah, etc. Are you sure we don't know each other? Ilamina: canada |
Crime › Re: Italian Kills Nigerian Wife For Filing For Divorce After Three-Year Marriage by cooooooks(m): 12:14pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Rest In Peace.
Insensitive to make assumptions about this matter. |
Family › Re: With The Situation And Economy Of Nigeria, How Many Kids Would You Have? by cooooooks(m): 8:51pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
2 - 3 |
Family › Re: We Quarrel Because Of Sex by cooooooks(m): 8:49pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Today I learned that every Christian agrees on everything. You told the OP to not allow anyone to make him feel bad about not linking the situation. I completely agree with that statement (I thought NOTHING you say will make sense to me). Some other commenters, probably Christian, said he should relax, that she's given birth to children, that's there's nothing else to worry about, etc. You disagree with Christians on this forum ALL THE TIME.  This is Vs them approach does not apply here. Lollittaa: I think he knows that already,yet chose to come here. And I'm not assuming anything. I'm a Christian, you're an atheist. Except you're genuinely concerned, NOTHING I say will make any sense to you. Why? Because you don't believe. |
Family › Re: We Quarrel Because Of Sex by cooooooks(m): 4:38pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Stop extrapolating your feelings to me. I'm not disgusted by anything. If you want to be disgusted, do it with your full chest. Do not extrapolate it to me. Do not out words in other people's mouths. I think OP should take advise from people who are married and have gone through this. Not from people who have no clue. Lollittaa: there, you're wrong. How am I moralising with his life? Is he a child? I'm telling you that Christians, real Christians abstain from fornication. You're an atheist. On the opposite end of the spectrum. How do you expect not to be disgusted by what I say when you don't even believe in God? There's no correlation here between my thought pattern and yours. We'll never agree. Let's leave it at that. |
Family › Re: We Quarrel Because Of Sex by cooooooks(m): 2:06pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
The fallacy of moralizing with lives when many if not most of the people teaching you the morals can't keep to it themselves. Lollittaa: the fallacy of hasty generalisation |
Family › Re: We Quarrel Because Of Sex by cooooooks(m): 2:03pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
I don't think religiosity changes people. People are people. People who 'believe in this nonsense' (something I don't think you've heard me say or seen me write; Nne, no dey extrapolate your experiences with one NL atheist to another person); are cheating on their spouses. Including daddy GOs. Lollittaa: I'm aware. Even a ton of Christian articles will not advise couples to fornicate without first getting married. And how about you guys that don't believe in all these "nonsense"? Why do we keep seeing people going back to their exes, even on their wedding days, for a quick roll in the hay? Shouldn't people settle for whom they're compatible with sexually? Moreso for those who make it a law to eat the forbidden fruit before letting their heart go too far? |
Family › Re: We Quarrel Because Of Sex by cooooooks(m): 12:03pm On Sep 10, 2021 |
Talk is cheap. The way the issue of sex is broached has led to this irrational fear in many Christians. You're not the only Christian in the world. There are Christian articles and research papers on this issue. Lollittaa: Christians understand that God made sex and romance for us, to be fully enjoyed WITHIN the confines of marriage. It doesn't stop intending parties from discussing about it. And if you have the Spirit of God, there are things about the other person, even things they hide, He'll reveal. |
Family › Re: We Quarrel Because Of Sex by cooooooks(m): 11:35am On Sep 10, 2021 |
The 'fear of engaging in the act' is pervasive. It stops people from even talking about intimacy. It can and had been linked to vaginismus. This OP's issue sounds like sexual apathy/asexualism though. A life partner is not (just) a prayer partner (for those who pray). You must be able to discuss money, plans, family, and intimacy with your life partner. The partnership does not start the day you get married. It starts the day you two mutually agree to be 'working towards marriage'. Lollittaa: talking about intimacy is encouraged in Christian courtship. It is engaging in the very act, before marriage, that is forbidden by God. |
Family › Re: We Quarrel Because Of Sex by cooooooks(m): 11:20am On Sep 10, 2021 |
I didn't say sample, I said know. Ideally, couples should consumate their relationship's before marriage. However, it is relatively easy to know if your gf is scared, or has an unhealthy relationship with sex, before doing anything. Couples must be able to talk about intimacy. Not being able to is a big red flag. Lollittaa: so then if you meet someone good in everything, like his wife but doesn't initiate sex, you leave them? And then move to another, and then another. How many people will you sample to find the ideal partner? |
Romance › Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by cooooooks(m): 11:18am On Sep 10, 2021 |
If she absolves herself of all responsibility, and blames the devil, society, or her child's father, run!
Check where her family is from. Are her parents together? Is she working? |