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Question: RIGHT or WRONG

The answer is BOTH.

Right because he established the business for his wife with the sole intent that it will be used to support the family. And since this was not happening, then logically there's no point in keeping the business.

Wrong because he didn't destroy everything properly. I can still see some goods unaffected in the photos.

jaxxy:
I don’t like the fact Trump isn’t conceding Bt he does have the right to legally contest the results if he feels so. This is way Better than Democrats crying for 4 years over a non existent Russian enquiry or sm collusion just to distract Trump. For 4 damn years!!! Aren’t such people nut cases 4 years non stop bruh


Now y’all have the audacity to call trump names Smh they hypocrisy is Terrible

LOL...

PropaMan:
he admitted smoking weed during his collage days. i think Democrats are in support of legalization of marijuana, joe biden stated he would release all criminal charge from drug addicts in exchange for rehab, Kamala Harris has been fighting for legalizing marijuanna for years, she also admitted been a former pot head, we might see legalization or decriminization of marijuanna few years from now.

PS. i've never seen anybody quit marijuanna for life , people only take short and long breaks, but if you were once a weed smoker it will be almost impossible to stay away from it forever. every once in a while you'll always have to say hi to your old friends. lol

This is true.

But I believe it has more to do with a certain unwritten code – you can't refuse a blunt that has been puffed and passed over to you, especially by a friend.

There's something I always found fascinating about this chic, still can't place my hands on it.

I do not believe they resent being women, as a matter of fact a lot of women are who, what, and where they are in life due to the benevolence of a man/men who loves/loved them.
Even though they may not love this man/men back, they can't deny that they enjoy the benefits and perks of being women who are desirable.

What they do resent however is the fact that there are still some men who don't put them on the pedestal they assume they should be put on, even when they have neither merited nor earned it.

My personal opinion regarding the unending blackmails about how women are burdened by marriage and raising children, has largely always remained the same – I believe that women of this school of thought should simply not get married...but if already married, should get out of it so they can enjoy a life without stress, since it's of no benefit to them...
It's quite simple really yea.

You can't be complaining about the stress y'all go through in marriage, yet still desire/pursue marriage and having a husband. Don't let their online posturing fool you boys, these people do desire marriage a lot more than anything else in life.
All they think about once they come of age is being a wife, having a wedding party and being provided for by a man.

A man could decide to date a woman for many years and not think of wifing her, but the very day some of these so-called 'marriage-is-too-stressful' type of women have sex with their boyfriend, you see them asking yeye questions like what are we now? OR where is this going?

The real issue is that modern women just want an easy life, a baby girl lifestyle, an enjoyment life... everything na stress to them.
It's not like desiring these things is a problem, everyone ought to desire a stress-free life... the problem is that unlike men who usually plan their lives based on how to achieve personal comfort on their own efforts, women prefer comfort to be provided FOR them by men simply because of an erroneous belief that having a vagìna entitles them to it.

A male extremist whose video I once came across on YouTube said something very interesting, he said:

"Once you take away a vagìna from a woman or take away her ability to birth children for a man, she basically becomes masculine in a sense and will ultimately find a way to become responsible for providing her own comfort without waiting to be pampered and taken care of – it's almost as if they have been conditioned into tying their sense of self-importance & entitlement to the organ between their legs"...

I find the above statement to be true, unfortunately...

KevinDein:
Crackhaus has gone and done it again.

Yes o, that's the summary...

jesmond3945:
you acting as if you know the wife, swear that you don't have a girlfriend or wife you cater for. Are you telling me if your babe's hair is unkempt you would ignore her?
From what Op said, the wife is not good in business but that doesn't mean if she was to a white collar job she would not do it

Why would I do that when she has been well-behaved, not going about the house insulting me and throwing tantrums?

The OP's sister-in-law is not even bathing her own kids anymore or doing anything, and you're suggesting he should pamper her on top of all that so she'll stop frustrating him.
Na so!

If it's a job she needs, she should go out and look for it herself. She's the idle one with enough time on her hands, not her husband who's already running around trying to make ends meet the little way he can.

Zzor:
make the first move, you know she's the lady here,dont be too stiff. What's the special thing about you sef

I don't reward bad behaviour.

Zzor:
nothing,just don't like the way you are doing with her,you don't treat someone that likes you that way

Na story you dey find, abeg leave me jor...

She knows how to reach me if she requires some form of closure.

Eriokanmi:
Oh well, I agree on some terms you've posited but I'd also like to make something clear. USA has the best electoral system in place in the whole world. You've got to be a superhuman to game the system. In 2016, the democrats claimed Russia rigged election for trump which was unfounded. Trump won that election. It's happening again as trump is alleging fraud in battleground states...but with no substantiated proof. Even those who claimed they had proofs were hiding behind the camera. They couldn't show their faces during interrogation. There's one thing I'd like you to note this morning. Trump may not have been the first contender to doubt the electoral process as you've said but he's merely making mockery of himself because he's expected to have understood the system better. You see, politicians are same everywhere in the world. They don't want to believe they could lose any election. I blame all the trump's political stroghead on the pollsters, the media and false projections. All these don't work all the time. Ahead of polls, the projections made always cause what I can call overconfidence on the part of the candidates. But when the opposite begin to happen, they start kicking and protesting. In 2016 ahead of polls, all the projections had leaned towards Hillary, with Democrats underestimating trump, the then dark horse and a new face in the American politics. When he won, they kicked.

Yesterday, same GOP won 2 more senate seats but has refused to call for a recount or file lawsuits like they did in battleground states and that's politicians for you. It also happens here. When the ruling party wins, the election isn't free and fair to the opposition but when it favours the latter, they hail the ruling party for not being partisan. They've forgotten the fact that, its the people who decide whom they want to win and not all the greedy politicians.

Trump only disgraced and disreputed America as a nation by behaving like a hooligan. He ought to have conceded defeat within 24 hours after losing. 2 days ago. The highly respected and unbiased independent observers called OAS said 2 days ago that, no evidence of rigging as alleged but trump still refused to concede. Can we say the OAS, the electors , the personnel employed to count ballots in various centres( most of whom might have bias for different parties but might not show it openly) , the traditionally republican state of Georgia where biden won and the former republican presidents and presidential candidates and members of the GOP who congratulated Biden were all working in favor of Biden? The answer is a capital NO! The people had chosen whom they preferred via the ballots so, Trump should just do the needful by conceding defeat. He should try again in the next 4 years like Israeli prime minister and some world leaders who had come back to prove their mettle and got reelected in the past had done. The USA ballots pass through stages before being counted, including screening and scanning by the computer, same way your visa is being scanned at POE and you can't game the system. Its a hard barrier to break.

LOL, believe me I have no personal bias against the electoral system. I actually consider it a good one compared to most other countries.

My point however is simple and that is, two can play the game.
If for the better part of four years, democrats could continuously doubt the legitimacy of Trump's presidency by using keywords such as 'Russian interference', 'Russian Collusion', 'Russian Hackers', then I see no reason why Trump should be vilified for doubting the legitimacy of Biden's victory.

No opposition ought to have monopoly over stupidity and I expect that even when Biden gets sworn-in, the next four years will be an interesting show filled with lots of attacks, conspiracies, and trolling of his presidency from the opposition... just like what was done to Trump, which I believe in all honesty is fair game.

Zzor:
crackhaus don't you think foy has fallen in love with you?why are you treating her like that,maybe you should be friends with her,what do you think?

What are you up to zzor?

Your brother has found himself tethered to one of the worst types of women a man can ever be cursed with in life – she feels entitled to a good life, but is jobless and has no interest in working her ass off to acquire some of that life for herself.
On top of all this, she's also someone of poor character, completely lazy, and a spendthrift...

I can't help but wonder why your brother did not see traces of any of these things (and there's a lot) before settling down with her, this I cannot understand... Is it that she has Rihanna looks combined with Beyonce's nyansh?

What a pity!

Now I won't be surprised if she's already cheating on him... and even if she isn't doing that yet, her type won't be too hard to seduce at all.
Either way, she's a lost cause because any woman that can disrespect her husband like this should ONLY be kept close if the man has a death wish.

All that talk about how your brother is seeking a means to lay complaints to her family is a complete waste of time in my opinion. The best way to send a strong message is to kick her out – let her go to her family herself and report him for throwing her out, they will request for an explanation from him themselves regarding what happened.
Even if they don't do this but choose to make a decision to take her side because of whatever tale she must have spun, nothing spoil... it's still good riddance and bye-bye to yeye wife and yeye family.

As for the kids, you can go stay with them to help out after his wife is gone, at least until the families can reach a settlement – whatever that will be.

Meanwhile, please tell your brother to disregard any advice telling him to open another business for his wife to get her busy, or to buy her any those things she's been nagging about.
Even if doing this will bring peace, it won't be a lasting peace because she will simply increase her demands as time goes on knowing how he'll always concede to her just to avoid issues.

A sensible man should never reward a woman's bad behaviour.

AlexyA:
it's funny and hypocritical of the self acclaimed police of the world to even be an election observer in other countries yet they cannot put their own house in order.
The sanctions and blockade of Venezuela was because the incumbent president won a conducted election yet the same USA went ahead to support the opposition and brought suffering to all the citizens of Venezuela.
Look at Syria, they supported the opposition and neglecting the elected President. if Russia and Iran have not stepped in, then the Syria President would have been a goner.
Yet the same USA President are crying foul and shouting aloud rigging and he won't concede defeat but if it's another lesser country's president that didn't throw in the towel, then sanctions from every angle would have come in.
is that not the two faced of the Self acclaimed police of the world.
Despite Jonathan's errors while still s president, he became an elder statesman the moment he picked that phone and gave a call to Buhari. now he is celebrated worldwide.
At this point, the USA have no right to interfere in any country's election from the charade of Donald Trump.

Beautiful post you have here, but one thing I'll love to correct is the insinuation that this hypocrisy of the US began with Donald Trump.

While some of us who are very much anti-imperialism have always known about the United States' duplicitous nature, Donald Trump simply made it more visible for everyone else to notice, which is actually part of the reasons why the 'deep state' never liked him – unlike most politicians, he doesn't pretend.

You see, it's not just in elections... in nuclear proliferation, in trade, in government, in spycraft/sabotage, etc.. the US has always been hypocritical and as such, has very little right to police/control other countries when in fact they are the ones most guilty of a lot of these things.

Is Trump the first contender to doubt the electoral process that elected his opponent? Absolutely not!
Didn't Democrats spend more than three of the past four years talking about how Russia hacked and helped Trump win his first term?

I remember making a comment on this long ago, and I noted that these people didn't realize that by announcing to the world how hackers in Russia could successfully manipulate the US elections to favour Trump, they were actually making a fool of themselves by admitting they don't have a secure electoral system.

It's Trump's turn now, so make we all just sit down enjoy their shït show...

TooMuchStuff:
serious O!
Love na scam. Real men wey sabi no dey dull.

No woman truly loves the stranger forced on her by the societal norm as husband other than for procreation.

Women can only love/trust their DNA carrier.
As husband you have 0% of your wife DNA.
The children have 50% while her siblings have 100%

Think about it....!

Something to think about indeed...
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/well-there-you-have-it.gif

Funny...

Don't worry, by the time your konji has reached astronomical levels, nobody will tell you to dive your wife.

Humanoid01:
I read one of your posts a few months back and I recall I made a comment about your brain being extremely rich in oxygenated blood. I'm going to reiterate that your brain is very healthy and nairaland is blessed to have someone like you. Well done boss.

Lol, thanks my brother...

Regex:
You are very much right. I know two gay actors who actually act straight and I've never seen them act gay in any movie at all. Matt Bomer (Neal Caffery of White Collar) and Neil Patrick Harris(Barney Stinson of How I Met Your Mother) are both gay but act straight in their movies.

Some people and their emotions sef!

Yup, and that's the professionalism in acting.

There are also straight actors who have played gay characters, some even going as far as having gay sex just to be convincing.

HuntSon:
Bros stop lying, nobody is forcing anyone to be gay!!!!!!!! All they say is that, leave gay people alone!

Everyone knows that y'all hetrosexuals are the one that always force and want gay people to be like you!!!! Don't come and act the victim now

LOL...

HuntSon:
Nothing like sympathetic, the simple logic here is "human rights" and it's not only LGBTQ that are there!

You really want gays to live according to whatever laws you chose for them? When have you ever allowed them to be gay in their house in peace? Oga rest!

People like you will never get the point...

Who's talking about rights here?

Of course they have rights, they can even marry, they can have families, and so on and so forth... What they cannot do however is force people to like them, because this would be trampling on those people's rights as well.

Get it now?

When it comes to movies, few people are comfortable watching two men cozying up or even fücking themselves on TV, and I bet that even you with all your progressive views would feel some kind of discomfort too – it doesn't mean you hate them, it just means your natural stimulus against an unnatural thing is working in spite of how you think.

As for Miller, he is not a smart actor. If he was, then he would have known that he does not have the leverage to be making such statements.
Apart from Prison Break, no one can attach his name to anything of importance in Hollywood. No producer is going to break bank to star him in their movie because he does not have the star power to sell a movie, he's not on a Brad Pitt level... so he's actually shot himself and his career to shreds.

But like I noted earlier, he was never serious about acting... so maybe he doesn't mind.

In addition to producers not wanting him, a statement like that also proves what an unprofessional actor he is, because what is the point of acting? It's to be someone you normally are NOT, it's all pretence, it's make-believe.
In Prison Break, the man was an engineer with an exceptional IQ who can plan escapes from high security prisons – he is not and cannot do any of these things for real.

If every actor only acts what they are in real life, then there's no point in acting.

Wentworth Miller was never very serious about acting in the first place, otherwise he won't be making statements like this.

He says that the only roles he wants to play in movies are gay roles... well, good luck with that because 98% of the time, male leads in movies are usually cast as heterosexual Alpha-Male types.

Just imagine if they made lead characters like Thor, Iron Man or Jon Snow, gay in their role.. Lol, those films would have struggled to make money.

Despite what liberalists would have us believe about how the western world is sympathetic to homosexuality, the truth is that majority of people don't want to watch them on their screens.

You can be gay, but be gay inside your house and don't try to throw it in people's faces.

Goldensword:
there is a video about it, but i think it was produced by Hollywood and ken saro wiwa was depicted as a young Lady called i think Ebiele. the title of the movie is called I think Black November.

Hmmmm...

This was a good read...

Vexedkid:
Na true oo but our ogas at the top go ban the film after u don spend money do film

This is true, and it will probably make the producers edit the story in such a way that it won't put the government in a bad light.

Which implies that whatever they end up releasing will be half-truth.

RenaissanceGuy:
Go and watch Black November; the storyline is about 90% related to this. One of the best-produced Nollywood movies I've ever watched - a collaboration with American producers anyway.

Ohh wow, really?

Thanks, I will look for it to download.

Why does Nollywood never produce historical movies that depict these kind of events?

Stuff like this about the lives of our heroes past actually make for good cinema, and it will also educate viewers.

bigjackass:
You have failed as a parent if they grew up to not see each other as siblings

This summarizes everything that is wrong with that question.

Lmao... These people are not giving up, I like it.

The same thing the opposition did to Trump for 4 years, they're about to feel it too.

Zzor:
Whats that special thing about you sef, i think you should initiate peace with them,the way you type about them isn't good,be a gentleman,gentlemen don't fight with ladies

Nothing oo.. So let them free me naw

I can't initiate peace with strangers who have no effect on my life.

And I'm not fighting, you're the only person I've been responding to there. Didn't you notice?

Zzor:
Thats if I really mean to.Settle yourselves already

What is there to settle really? Are they my wives?

The best way I know how to avoid all this drama with strangers I don't give a toss about, is to ignore them and not start conversations with them... which is what I do, yet even that doesn't keep them away.

They should run insane and keep giving me mentions, I want my mansion to become as big as Buckingham Palace inside that their heads.