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luminouz:
Its really fuqin simple bro. Its called COMA.

He could have been in a coma all the while. Some comas can last for several years. Google it.

Meaning you don't actually know for sure.

delishpot:
What more you look less you see? Are people there not covering noses? Doesn't that tell you he was decaying but doi g so slowly? Will a man breathing be buried whe still breathing? He was cleay not breathing in that video. Also, did you investigate the type of embalming fluid used on him? Have you carried out studies on other corpses embalmed the same way? How are you sure most people embalmed like he was are not also taking time to decay?

What part of my comment exactly is responsible for making you ask all these directionless questions?

I was wondering when this story was going to appear on NL.

An elderly acquaintance of mine talked about this on Saturday (two days ago), said he was sent the information on WhatsApp and was asking our opinion.

I had no opinion then, I still have no opinion now.

This is one of those things that is the more you look, the less you see.
I can't dismiss it outrightly, yet at the same time I can't believe it outrightly.

Ikpongiton:
stop being shallow minded bro . Reno will destroy Burutai the way david destroyed goliath in bible

You don't like Reno...

I like the man which is why I don't want him to go and die for nothing.

For someone who looks likes he has not lifted a dumbbell since the day he was born to challenge a military man to physical combat, I'm interested in that brand of marijuana he has been smoking.

Reno just wants to die.

Does he think Burutai needs weapons to beat him thoroughly? An army man with all the physical and endurance trainings he has undergone in his career...

Reno must be high...

ImaIma1:
I cannot even comprehend why a woman will beat, slap, push her MIL. That is abnormal and just sick. Something you can never do to your own mum.

I agree that some MILs can be provocative and intentionally difficult. The best way is to try to live in peace and avoid clashes. I have studied the kind of person my MIL is and I relate with her accordingly.

Witchcraft

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nwaezeemmanuel:
You're just trying to downplay the negative influence of porn subtly.

The OP talked about more things than banning porn, and i responded. We have no reason to drag this further, i already know your stance.

crackhaus:
Be aware that I do not hold brief for the porn industry by my submission above.
I'm simply intent on letting you know that with or without porn, there'll still be sexual assaults/rapes and there'll still be unproductive people.

If at all there's a decrease in the number of persons in those groups after banning porn, it will be so negligible that the ban on porn would have been unnecessary.

Way ahead of ya...

I deliberately inserted that caveat in my first comment specifically for 'people' like you.

Cheers...

fredwill1357:
Our sexual urge is one of the most strongest urges in our body, people sometimes lose their senses when they are aroused, that is why people make noises and stupid promises when having sex, they just can't help it, you can't compare the hot blood that runs in our veins when watching porn and aroused to what we feel when watching violent movies and listening to degrading music's.

No one is comparing the instant feelings of pleasure you get when watching these things.

It's the behaviour they can induce overtime we are talking about.

You say, porn = rape, sexual assault, unproductivity.
I say, movies/music = drugs, prostitution (half-nakëd women), gangsterism, fraudsters.

nwaezeemmanuel:
I'm not holding porn responsible for every crime. I'm saying what it is capable of. Whether it is banned or not, it is not my concern.

The entire thread was premeditated on the idea of banning porn, if you now don't care whether it's banned or not, what is your argument here?

Movies glorifying crime have the potential to aid criminal activities.

During the Akin and Pawpaw days, i saw kids take on deadly mischievous pranks, out of misguided influence of their movies.

Music has the potential to create societal problems as well. If the toxic hypnotic ones weren't there, things maybe could have been not as bad.

Good, Ban them all!

At the end, we are always responsible for our individual actions. This doesn't excuse porn from being a negative influence still.

No where have I stated that it has no negative influence. Even drinking too much water has negative effects on the body.

fredwill1357:
Most developed countries where people watch porn a lot have security, with cameras installed on streets and people minding their business and living a secluded life, it is far easier to rape someone in a country like Nigeria, where you see minors hawking on unfamiliar streets and people giving out under aged children as house helps. Moreover the white man and black man way of thinking differs.

Good, finally you're warming up to the real issue.
Took you long enough...

So what do you think is really responsible for high cases of rape, sexual assaults, and unproductivity?
Is it porn, or is it how developed a country is?

And by developed I mean – good security systems, professional law enforcement carrying out investigations, laws against rape/sexual assaults that are enforced strictly, etc.

And in the area of unproductivity, job/wealth creation can take care of that to a good extent.
But let's say porn is indeed banned in Nigeria because you assume it's behind the high levels of unproductivity, what happens when an unproductive person still has no access to jobs or low-interest loans to start businesses after this ban?
Don't you think they will seek another vice to invest their time in?

All in all, given the fact that porn adds no benefits to our lives except the addicted minds that runs to it, it is in the betterment of our lives and the society at large that it gets banned all over the world or at least in Nigeria.

This opinion is purely subjective because you live in a country like Nigeria where nothing works, which is why you think porn is responsible (even a little bit) for the state of the country.

If porn is really that big an issue for you, then banning it all over the world should be preferable.
Most of the content Nigerians watch are not made by Nigerians.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Porn aids rape and sexual assault. If you've ever watched so much of it, you should understand his perspective.

If you've watched a lot of it and deny that it aids abuse, you will be lieing to yourself.

Definitely! Not all rape cases have roots in porn consumption. Whatever your perspective, it wouldn't change the fact that porn to a degree can aid abusive behaviours.

If your intention is to make the world a better place then you're doing a piss-poor job of it
Why stop at just porn?

Ban all movies that glorify crime and gangs, this will reduce armed-robbery, and street gangsters.
Ban all music (rap specifically) that objectifies women, glorifies drugs and encourages the make-money-quick lifestyle. This will reduce drug addictions, prostitution, and internet fraudsters.

fredwill1357:
It is a principle of natural justice that nobody can judge a case in which they have interest, only few people will be able to judge their causes fairly. Porn isn't the only factor that perpetuates rape and unproductivity in people, but it plays it's own roles with the lot's of dirty and perverted fantasies being played out in many porn movies, given the fact that it adds no benefits to our lives, except the addicted idiots defending it, it should be banned for good.

Obviously it isn't, the question is how much of it is really behind unproductivity and rape.

Let me help you with a perspective...

Think of a country where you know that cases of rape and unproductivity in the younger citizens are very low in comparison to Nigeria.
Do you think they don't watch porn in that country?

nony43:
Let's discuss if you understand what this topic is all about.

I understand the topic, but there's not much to discuss.

It's simply witchcraft, nothing too complex about it.

What should be discussed is how to deal with/handle a witch.

fredwill1357:
If porn is banned sexual assault and rape cases will reduce and over a million people will become more productive and useful to themselves and their society, which will create more jobs and more responsible citizens.

Faulty Premise 1: You assume that watching porn is the reason there's a prevalence of rapes and sexual assaults.

Faulty Premise 2: You assume that unproductive people, and people who are not useful to themselves and society, have a porn addiction.


Be aware that I do not hold brief for the porn industry by my submission above.
I'm simply intent on letting you know that with or without porn, there'll still be sexual assaults/rapes and there'll still be unproductive people.

If at all there's a decrease in the number of persons in those groups after banning porn, it will be so negligible that the ban on porn would have been unnecessary.

All I did while I was reading this was quietly calculate how old I'll be in 2068.

bukatyne:
I am always on point

I read those posts and saw nothing extraordinary.

The standard of Nigerian husbands must have fallen if filling gas cylinders and preparing a kid for school in the morning is 'simping'.

Considering her religious background, I get her referring to him as 'feminist' even if all she wanted to say is 'supportive'.

I would group humans into two:

1. People who look at labels and not actions: once you claim the right label (feminist, anti-feminist, red puller, Christian etc.) they don't care about your actions.

2. People who look at actions and not labels: they don't care what you call yourself or don't, they look at your actions.

People triggered by this thread and similar threads across divides fit into box one.

Some husbands here might be more hands-on than Aisha's husband. However, the label 'feminist' automatically makes him a Simp. On the flip side, the label 'feminist' makes him perfect and ideal even though he did not know when his son wrote common entrance.

I'm in this category.

Not just actions but overall lifestyle...

OK2NVME:
The SBS guys were at the Akanu Ibiam Intl airport everyday waiting for a diplomatic breakthrough that will allow them be part of the main mission but to no avail as the Army insisted it could secure the release of the hostages without their help. The Army and other security chiefs to then Goodluck Jonathan stated that it will amount to shame on them and a violation of Nigeria's soverignty to have foriegn troops operate within Nigeria.

This is why the US did not bother to inform the Nigerian govt and also why Idris Derby just strolled into Nigeria and avenged the killings of his soldiers by BH wtthout also notifying the Nigerian govt.

How certain are you that the Nigerian government was not informed before the operation to rescue the kidnapped American took place?

bukatyne:
Interestingly, their 'complementing themselves' still fall within standard gender roles. Maybe a 'I change the gas and my husband goes to the market' would have thrilled me.

I am happy for this little expose. At least awon 'marriage stop your goals as a woman' would give us breathing space and realize that their own husbands and not marriage is the problem.

I am curious though: how old is she to be married twenty years?

I thought she was in her early thirties.

You're always on point, okay not always but mostly...

Honestly, there's nothing out of the ordinary in their family dynamic if we are to go by what are on those screenshots.
Perhaps the fact that she used the term feminist to describe her husband is the reason why people are reacting.

I mean take a look at this particular tweet below – she says he didn't know when his own kids were writing exams. Doesn't that imply he was not a hands-on father, or perhaps he was, but not to a large extent?
This kind of contradicts that whole feminist narrative.

I get her point though, the summary of it all is that her husband supports her aluta hustle and does not hold her down/back, which would be typical of muslims.

What I don't know is if this makes him a feminist, or it simply makes him a supportive husband which is what every sensible man with a sensible wife actually is.

However, being the latter (supportive) does not automatically make one the former (feminist), and she may have been conflating the two.

bukatyne:
Add hot prayer warrior too.

Kuku kill the man eh...
No wonder husbands dey first die on average.

What does he get in return for all this pro bono work sef?

jornwhite:
some of you are just naturally lazy, men cook,men wash, men take care of their home before marriage, why women makes all these things a big deal after marriage is what men don't understand. if e possible una for say make men dey help una carry belle, yeye people

I am rolling from laughter...

If they had the power, even menstruations will be outsourced to men to menstruate for them.

You need skunk-amola, it's a specific type of marijuana that will make you feel very happy...

bukatyne:
@bold:

You are learning fast.

All these in addition to protection. It is not easy to be the daddy of a family.

The OP messed up (especially with the threats) that's why I suggest they work it out one last time.

The girl also has issues however she is not here to receive her own kpankere.

If things don't work out this last time, he can move on with the knowledge that he tried and lost.

Lol, nor be only learning fast...

bukatyne:
Is your concern lack of access to your son and fear of repeating same cycle you had or your dying relationship?

@bold: the hunter has become the hunted. After years of threats, she has learnt and perfected the act. Maybe if this works out, you will learn a lesson on effective communication.

You are a very good monetary provider, well done sir. Apart from money, what else did you provide in the relationship? There are no emotional security with the constant threats of 'I am no longer interested'.

Reach out to your girl's father if his influence on his daughter is greater than that of the friend's.

And Oga, when all is well, ensure you provide emotional security so your woman doesn't have to run around confiding in friends that are faster to destroy than build.

Goodluck

Kai, wahala for who go land inside relationship with a needy woman.

Provide emotional security, provide financial security, provide sexual satisfaction, provide orgasm, be a comedian, make her happy all the time, support her inside kitchen, massage her body and feet... Jesu

The guy's ONLY concern should be his son, there's nothing to salvage between him and that woman. All that talk I've been reading on the thread about him trying to make amends with her na just fabu.

You can't keep a person who does not want to stay, it NEVER works... and even if it does, she would have gained more power to misbehave in the future knowing that he will always come crawling and begging her not to leave.

@OP, please find a way to retain connection with your son however way you can. He's your son, you follow born am and you don't need to beg her to have access to him...you simply DON'T.
Her only grace here is the distance between both of you and the fact that she knows all you care about is your son (which is not a bad thing at all), so she will use all this to torment you – it's what they usually do, but don't let it get to you.

If you have family in Nigeria, let them hold the fort for you and keep in touch with your child on your behalf.

Anything that makes you still go ahead to marry this particular lady after all this, then it will be clear that village people are really on your case.

Broken2020:
Her advisers are winning, not sure I want to spend my life with a woman that dug a hole around me with her friends. I didn’t notice till I fell into it.

Ohh wonderful, your brain is still in form...

Faulty Premise: You think that because a man has a side-chic, he won't be taking care of his children or paying their school fees.

Nigerian films don finish you...

Most of those men out there who are doing right by their families and taking care of their children, do you think they don't have one side-chic somewhere?

Nor be only 13 girlfriends... a needless exaggeration.

bukatyne:
So patriarchy is who cooks and cleans: OK.

If she is so concerned about balanced teaching and the simplistic way gender roles are portrayed, then she should have also complained that fathers are portrayed as only providers.

Fathers cook, clean, drive, repair stuffs, protect, encourage etc etc etc.

Perhaps we should list that too so her son doesn't think the only duty of a father is monetary provision.

Anyone who thinks women belong to the kitchen or cooking is meant for only women because his pry 1 social studies teacher said so must be living alone in a forest.

I am sure a lot of people did not even remember until this mother brought it up.

Wouldn't our teachers be over - joyed if it is so easy to retain and apply what they taught us?

LOL...

You even have the patience to explain something so glaring.

Odunharry:
She should be more concern about what the children learn from the house, peer pressure and media.

The lady just wants to be relevant, nothing more...

All this woke women sef...

What a child learns in school is just a tiny fraction of what they will inculcate as they grow, the rest is up to her and her husband.

I wonder why she did not complain about the part regarding fathers providing for the family.

Awon I am woke geng... but in reality, they are usually only half-woke...

RuudVanNisteroy:
No one understands what you saying...

Lol...
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RedPhoenix:
Like I said. I've been to these states on ground and ran my own independent research. They operate differently from the bulk of other states. You'll know by examining the workers in their record.. They operate an economy of employing massive numbers using this as their financial model for distribution of monies.

Please communicate, I'm honestly trying to figure out where you're heading with this.

In summary, you wanted the guy to either pay for your entire shopping or keep his 50naira.

Your insolence aside, my only issue in this story is why that fellow even tried being nice to you.

I can usually "sense" people like you from afar, and will ensure you pay for your own shopping, and if you don't have change in cash, ensure you go and look for aboki or tomato seller around to make change for you... all to piss you off.

Las las, na only vex you go vex go house, and I would have satisfied myself.

frozen70:
Just keep quiet and don't speak for women

How happy do you think a woman without child will be

Just like saying an impotent man is happier

LOL... Your very obvious emotional & mental health issues, are responsible for making you miss the sarcasm in that comment.