₦airaland Forum

sassysure:
And if she strong pass you?

U guys eeh.

Women dey beat up their husbands o.
Serious beating.

sassysure:
Cos u guys are Nigerians and example of what we see at home.

I'm very serious.
Men abuse women emotionally more.

One sentence and the woman will die

sassysure:
If a woman abuse u with words, u get mouth too.
Make use of your mouth.

Meanwhile men get bad mouth more than women.
The only difference is that women can endure more than men for peace to reign.

sassysure:
And u have not seen men who emotionally abuse women?
These days, we have more men who emotionally abuse men than women.

Starting from nairaland

lilmax:
You should always slap a woman when she enters that idiotic phase

healthserve:
Bro you've Ben outta the street for a while. Trust me. If I wasn't preempted to conduct a survey when I saw the manager of a multinational prostituiting at lekki at nite I wouldn't have properly understood what was going on. It's a lengthy manner. However I maintain, while education ought to refine and build up, it's doing the opposite of its objective with our ladies. Yes there are exceptions, however the norm is too many are destroyed by their fakeness. I conducted real life surveys even supported by women to the facts I publish here. Not just speaking from boredom. You know me

bukatyne:
I am serious.

Blessings and curse need a platform to work.

Blessings even more so.

You know how many people who are delivered from curses every service?

bukatyne:
It works.

Unfortunately, blessings don't work as fast or as potent.

Twoclans:
[s]Don't take your character into 2020

You are dismissed[/s]

Omar09:
The first option, I was being sarcastic ni..

sassysure:
Oh, I stopped taking you guys serious after the ass of lots of you were busted here

SBL28:
You are only human. And a person can only take so much. But please cancel the curses and ask God to fight for you. By laying curses you have removed God from the equation. Please go back and cancel the curses, ask God for forgiveness and leave everything in his hands, stand on Exodus 14:14.

My Ex did a lot of things that could have made me go naked to curse him but I didn't. I know God is fighting for me, He knows best.

Twoclans:
LOL

Abeg shift

sassysure:
Here of course

sassysure:

We are indeed!

Alooone:
I got married to my husband in 2013, we are blessed with 2kids (a boy and a girl), in 2017...barely 2 weeks after giving birth to our son I was diagnosed with puepurium psychosis...a kind of mental illness that afflicts women that have just given birth and since it has been from one medication to another...now since after my diagnosis my husband has been a source of emotional, verbal and physical abuse... He blames my parents for everything as he feels "cheated " feeling that they knew all about my "sickness " before we got married and kept it from him..... He felt I was a liability and feels he is too young to shoulder such... There was nothing my husband didn't do to frustrate me... So around June this year I left my home to my father's house and have been there since, ...now since I have been there my husband hardly calls when he does he wants to speak with his children...he doesn't call my parents to ask about my well-being or that of his kids...sometimes I feel abandoned...now the issue is that the love I have for him is beginning to reduce sometimes I feel like letting him go and starting all over...other times I want to stay cos I think of my children's future.
....as for the psychosis ALL the symptoms have gone as am typing this now I have a job with a small private school and planning to either proceed with my masters or start a nursing programme
so please I need your advice should I let him go

Twoclans:
This is a strong one ,I had a colleague who laid such a curse on her husband and the guy lost a well paying oil and gas job then and things went under for him for years .That guy was jobless for almost ten years Until recently when she by her self went out and found solution for him and he got another job.Their is power in the tongue.

bukatyne:
@bold:

Still a feminist

I can't remember when I defined myself as a Christian/Yoruba/Woman or anything else. Who really cares? If someone doesn't ask, why should I divulge?

The posters hounding my threads now are actually new except they are old posters with alternate monikers.

Strangely, all my topics have been somewhat similar on women, ladies and family life.

See definitions:

Eku se oluwa!

Omar09:
You could Fight for her love, do everything possible in your power to get her. She will one day recognize your efforts. It's not an easy task, rather a herculean one. Or you could just move on without her which is the easiest way out.

crackhaus

bukatyne:
Sister Sassy

I like the sound of that

How will I know Crackhaus kwanu? No bi Nairaland all of us dey?

My dear, whatever people claim to be here, I relate with them based on that here and log off to my life outside.

bukatyne:
Very funny at the bold.

I still do not know what you mean by pseudofeminism nor have I been a SJW.

All my threads have actually been controversial however, I wasn't very open about my stance on certain issues.

While I have never supported some things e.g. homosexuality, I was more on the 'as you please' side of the divide.

I stumbled on this article by Matt Walsh and it resonated with me: I did not want to be seen as close-minded so I was not too vocal about them.

I even created a thread out of it and resolved to be more vocal. It was also the year I would be 30 so it was part of my self-actualization goals.

Someone asked me if I changed church on a thread. Sad if people couldn't pinpoint my stance on certain issues earlier.

I have also stumbled on some posts of posters I never agreed with and realized that most posters (myself inclusive) read people's posts with previous fracas and conclusions without absorbing the specific post in front of us.

Some others even leave the issues at hand and tackle previous issues. Most read to respond and not understand the poster's particular point.

So I learnt to focus on what the poster is saying at that point whether I think he/she is anti/pro a particular stance.

I remember advicing a poster to follow doitforyou's opinion on a thread because it was brilliant. Doesn't change my opinion of her/him though.

I also engage to better understand and change my stance on housewifery for instance.

It has been all good.

http://www.dailywire.com/news/22991/christians-america-arent-close-minded-or-matt-walsh

sassysure:
Believe me, I wanted to spit fire on this thread until I saw brother
My mind did somersault
Of all the people here on nairaland, u better call me sister sassy too.

I know u have been on both sides of the coin with him for long but u really don't know crackhaus at all

Brother, i hail o

bukatyne:
Maybe they wanted to live the life through you. Which makes them technically same as you

And the fact a lady doesn't drink, smoke, party, club, change sex partners like underwear etc. does not mean she is boring or not exciting.

Let's just say I pursue pleasure with a conscience.

Anything pleasurable without being morally wrong or a sin, count me in.

truthsayer009:
What is your take on polyandry though, do you think Nigeria women can cope in reality? It would also involve giving birth for 2 different Men living in same house.

I know Men cannot cope.

truthsayer009:
Ouuuuuuuh! How did I miss this? Mama the Mama.
Bukatyne & Crackhaus would not be a bad idea at all, For real yo!

Guys, I'm already booking a Luxurious space @ Radisson Blu Victoria Island, Lagos. Crackhaus please hit me up for the keys!

Jokes apart though, I like both of you.

bukatyne:
Is crackhaus interested in becoming a second husband?

I prefer virgins though

DavidEsq:
. I take God beg u, no let me disturb my family wey dey sleep abeg.

bukatyne:
[code][/code]

I need to leave this thread!

I have been laughing since.

I have read the OP twice and I want to blame it on spiritual attack.

Nothing else makes sense if this is the true story.

sassysure:


At least, u can be diplomatic about some shits.

midnighter:
Lol, and you must definitely be female.... in fact all of us are lying

bukatyne:
You know I saw the male and said oh well! Troll? I must be a super active one with a single moniker of over 7yrs.

But a crush? Their senselessness crushed me.

To think I was even using the crush analogy to explain my points.

Sighs.

bukatyne:
Hahahaha @ different social rules for the sexes.

This your grooving did not involve the ladies?

I actually hold guys and ladies to the same standards morally.

Maybe that's one of the reasons I am very very very pro-young love.

I didn't want a guy who has been there and done that.

I nor want ajeku.