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Plead:
Good... she should be prosecuted and jailed with hard labor.

Most women are naturally wicked to people below them and that’s the reason I don’t pity them when they get whooped by men (unapologetically).

Most women are fond of beating up kids anyhow ,I don’t know what makes them think it’s right ? But if they’re given same treatment they’ll start crying on social media. Nonsense

Lordswazz:
Someone that ALWAYS doesn't give in to sex until it is tied to a financial reward or promise of some material reward. Even in so-called boyfriend/girlfriend relationships and marriages, some ladies don't give in until you promise them a new hair makeover, shopping spree, or some pricey gift.

If it happens from time to time, then no problem. But when e turn habit, say before you go down, you must drop cash or some sort of promise of a materialistic nature to be fulfilled in the near future, then it's prostituting in disguise.

that she dates only you BUT always demands for something before sex doesn't make it any different. Even wives sometimes hold husbands to ransom too in that sense, yet they would still call themselves married. It's actually prostitution in the guise of marriage or relationship. That's how you know a prostitute from a normal chic. One ALWAYS makes materialistic demands before sex, the other does it occasionally or never.

sassysure:
Of course there are!

But why don't u preach what u claim u do?
Why are u guys always on about money.

sassysure:
Because you guys has made money the sole focus!

CrackHaus, can u have fun comfortably with your lady without using money to be in control?
Money gives you guys power to massage your egos.
It may be hard to believe but some of us see beyond throwing money at our feet.

Any man that start throwing money around is hiding something.That's the first sign of a controlling man
Babes hardly know how to read characters. Money and what money can buy makes them live in fantasy land.

marvel2011:
Stay away from prostitutes. How will he identify one?

Biglittlelois:
Wife not girlfriend, resolve not conflict or revenge.

Godoverevery:
Hi guys ....so D's happened to me over last weekend and I have completely changed towards my wife to be....
my fiancee came to see me over last weekend...Wen she was leaving very early Monday morning....I gave a thousand naira as tfare I saw d look on face change but I felt maybe she thinking I shouldn't av given anything since I wasn't dat cash up but to my amazement dat evening she actually told me she was disappointed with wat I gave her dat she was embarrassed dat it was too small .....I was really shocked and angry cos D's someone dat comes and I give 5k sometimes for tfare(her actual tfare from her place to and fro is actually less Dan 1k)...so during the chat I told her she knows I just invested heavily in a business I run as side hustle and am not dat cash up but she replied maybe I shouldn't give her money henceforth until am financially stable back...it was my first time of giving her 1k and she complained.
ds someone dat has a pretty good job..... till now I av completely changed towards her.
Trust me she is a good lady but D's incident made me really angry infact she was meant to come to my parent side for Xmas party but I have told her she can't come anymore.

coming from my previous relationship dat was a big mess I don't want to have another big issh again.
I just need honest advise on how to go about ds...thanks

Vyolet:
It's no ignorance, it's what it is, drawn from experience.
Funnily, one of my friend was good with calculations, top of her class (statistics) , a body to die for and a pretty face but then, she is one of the exceptions.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Mtcheww.

Jammyudom:
Age b/w 24-36yrs
Single no kid
Medical/law/ Engineering
Good in mathematics
God fearing
Willing to relocate
Sense of humor
Working
Versatile on world event and politics
From a family that have values
Have a great deal of humanity
Love romance
Chocolate or light skin
Have zero tolerance for tribalism and nepotism
Have a good eating habits
If you have above qualities as a lady, contact me, else I go foreign,I can't come and kill myself
Here are my qualities
32yrs
Engineering Field
God fearing
Chocolate in color
Well organized
Realist
Idealist
Have eyes for investment
6feet tall
Adventure in nature
Love humanity
Believe in romance
At peace with myself
Love reading
Etc
If you are ok with the above, write me at jamesudom30@gmail.com or contact me at 08030719957. Mod pls move it to front page for wider view

Vyolet:
Op, that your in between that you've been writing since is "by the way" (BTW).
Good luck in getting your dy/dx woman, it's just that they are mostly ugly facially, rough skin and no touch of class.

sweetonugbu:
Yo need constant and quality sex with oga

UyaiIncomparabl:
What?

Thecodingslayer:
Feminism is a social theory or political movement which argues that legal and social restrictions on women must be removed in order to bring about equality of the sexes in all aspects of public and private life. That's the essential truth of it. People who fight for women's rights are feminists, for example in Saudi Arabia, women were just allowed to drive cars recently, and in many other places the rights of women, and in many other places like that women are unjustly treated one way or the other and that's what true feminists fight against. Feminism doesn't say women shouldn't get married, it doesn't say you shouldn't cook for your husband, it doesn't say the roles of a wife and husband should be switched, it doesn't say that women should not clean their home, it doesn't say that women should not have sex with their husbands, it doesn't say women should dress indecently,but it does say that women shouldn't be forced into a marriage, it says that the place of a woman is not in the kitchen and she can pursue life goals, but if she doesn't cook and her husband doesn't know how to cook and they can't afford a cook they will starve, it says that women can provide for the family if the man isn't capable and she is free to go out and do what she wants, it says that a man can clean and a woman can also clean if they both wish, it says that a woman can have sex, but if she doesn't want leave her, or it is rape even if she looks like it or wears revelling clothes, and it says that women are free to dress how they want without oppression of any kind, and most of all it says that a man and woman should have equal rights. Therefore I'm proudly a feminist

UyaiIncomparabl:
I am never happy. For every reason I have/find, I'm just always happy and content with my sadness. I always find a reason to be downcast and burdened. I'm very skeptical about everything/everyone around me. I carry scars of everything I have seen and see; pain, sadness, disaster, sickness, death etc. I wear on the gloom and doom of a hundred persons. I can't even say if I'm a sadist.

I constantly seek the meaning of life, the reason of my existence, and as soon as I can't find the meaning, I pass aggression or get mad at myself. I don't have trouble building relationships with others, but I don't strive to build them anyway. I don't like people. I have a huge difficulty fitting into the norms of the society. Could it be that I'm not in the right society for me to be appreciated?

I strive to make friends but I cut them off before they even come close. I'm a realist but people misunderstand it as pessimism.

I'm a very good, ambitious, nice, lovable, generous and approachable person, but people scare me. There's no real love in the world. I have a fairly good life to be thankful for. I have good people around me too, thankfully, but I'm still not happy.

I have a stable job. A fairly good business by the side. I have a good shelter above my head, in school and enough food to eat, in fact, I have totally everything to make the average young adult happy. On here, people might mistake me to be an outgoing and bubbly personality, but in real life, I'm not that. I only come here to have fun, and out of here, feel miserable.

I'm not even passionate about what I even do. I have a job but I don't enjoy it. I just love to be by myself and still get angry for being by myself. In turn, I'm called non-challant.

I'm very passionate about the arts, fashion, poetry, academics, but I lack the right motivation to forge with these things. I usually am very immersed in my emotions to do anything reasonable. In totality, I'm just a sad person.


Is there a help to combat recurrent melancholic symptoms? Do other people feel this way? Am I okay?

Fountainofyouth:
Jakande you are joining a crackhead to insult me? Me? If you know who I am, you won't do that at all, and if you know the genesis of me and that guy, you wouldn't say all you're saying.

Fountainofyouth:
My love, stop crying, you know we are in love right, you can't just do without me I know, don't feel so bad about it, it's a good thing really

Oya reply me with your usual cancellations and meme, it's what you do best

sassysure:
You called it funny abi?
I mentioned that cos I know what that issue has been causing all over the country.

As per the topic, don't blame the lady. Every woman want acceptance from her husband's family. Even when it's not working, u still see them trying harder hoping it will work.
But at the initial stage, if it is not working, be yourself and ignore all of them

jakandeola:
u mean fountain of stupidity crauckhouse

sassysure:
I may be joking but if we should dissect this, u will know that women- women fight in marriage is better than wife versus brothers in law.

Actually, I will love to fight with my sister's in law and know where I stand than kiss and kill brothers in law.
Women will only talk, fight, carry face etc but the brothers, father lawd.
Don't ever have a near jealous brother in law.
He will dissipate your husband. Men in other to spite their wives use brothers as next of kin( hope u are following my argument), once they kill him, property and money wahala. They will pursue u from your house and take over. If u will stay, u have to abide with their rules which might include sleeping with them.
Sisters in law can't fight custody of your husbands property with you, they will only instigate their brothers to act.

See, if our property is secured and my problem is only my sisters in law and I'm earning my own money, I will blank all of them. Wipe them away from my memory so anything they do won't bother me unless they came to my house to do that. Won't ask about them. And my husband deny me my conjugal right, I will give him time then report him to my people. Mtcheew.

jakandeola:
its enuf. see how I ignore d other one she want to run. mad. just stop d insult please shes a person I respect. she cant be right all d time

ImaIma1:
[s]Let him continue his wailing. When he's tired, he will quit.[/s]

jakandeola:
be matured u can say ur point witout insult. I dont like how ur speaking to her pls.stop bro

sassysure:

sassysure:
Leave my engrish alone.
I go evening school abeg

sassysure:
Some are very friendly.
The worst is brothers in law.
Don't argue with me on this today.