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sexkillz: [color=#000030]Make sure the flowers are not from a long distance. . . [/color]

Thanks for the tip bro...short distance flowers it is.

rokiatu: Thanks for your concern.

I could bring flowers if you wish. That's if you aren't allergic to them.

Sexkillz why did you hide my posts do you have any proof that the pic in my profile isn't me?

rokiatu: STFU!!! What made u think I had a failed relationship just because I have an opnion?

You did see your post below.

rokiatu: I understand luv. Been there done it. I wouldn't wish it upon my enemy thats all. Good luck mate.

Note the bolded part, I believe it answers your question.

Also, going through this posts, a blind man would see the anger in what you wrote...your last sentence shows you're yet to recover from whoever it was that tormented you...hence you wrote "I wouldn't wish it upon my enemy"

And like I stated earlier, that your relationship was a failure shouldn't make you conclude that all distant relationships are bad.

rokiatu: You guys are really stoopid and clueless to jump to such conclusion.....I don't want to bring my relationahip online so ya all can continue being cueless.

And who's interested in your relationship?

You've already made it clear to us that you had a failed distance relationship so the best we can to for you is to wish you a speedy recovery cos I can still feel your bitterness in this post...get well soon.

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The op should stop comparing her failed relationship with others.

That it didn't work for you shouldn't make you conclude its a folly.

yhemite: and wat if u are together 4 nw, but schooling,work or smthing worthwhile take him or her away.... people have problem shaaaa... believing they must get wat dey want at all time... what if u marry military men? or dont they get married? wat of scholars,bussiness men and govt officials who could travel for months...the message is know the kind of person u are...dont advice others that its as bad as u think...we have wives that dont see ther husband for years and dont hang themselves but rather keeping it cool with there children and helping to build the home front..so if all u care about is a man or woman that would hug u every morning,have sex with u all day or those that wolud tell u all those unclad sweet words in these world..then u are missing it..God helps!!!!!!!!!

Well said.

I believe the killing is related to terrorism...the girl is dressed as a westerner jeans trouser and a spaghetti top, she also has a european look. The guy on the other hand is arabic...at least he spoke it on the video, another is with a shovel probably digging her grave...a car is parked which means she was abducted, (probably drugged) handcuffed, taken into the car and brought to that spot for execution.

The guy makes statements in arabic and holds the head to the camera...from my observation, the video is meant to provoke the western world.

Kslib: @OP, can you please tell me what's wrong with someone licking his own soup,with his own tongue.. So cos this is the bleeping 21st century he shouldn't lick his soup again cos the society said people shouldn't do that..
I like people like that man cos they have nothing to hide and do stuffs cos they love it and cos of what some jobless idle self-righteous person thinks about it,.. No be only 21st century nah 31st decade.. The man didn't commit any crime,he didn't hurt no one,so mind your business. I am embarrassed at how some people reson sef.. Msssheeew

Take it easy I understand the point the op is trying to make.

Believe me, it can be irritating watching a grown adult lick his place in public.

If the food isn't enough for you, you can simply order for an extra plate...if you're at home, you can cook the food quite big so if the one you dished into your plate isn't sufficient, you can always fall back to the main pot for more...I do this always.

Licking your plate whether at home or in public is a very bad habit...you musn't play the role of an animal simply because you're hungry.

Join the discussion here.

https://www.nairaland.com/1163849/prospective-nysc-batch-b-2013

Godside: Amen bro. Pls can som1 help wit a simple list of wat 2take along 4camp....

See this thread.

https://www.nairaland.com/1090795/55-things-nysc-members-should/

Happy birthday...I wish you the best.

Uniquexty: Hy

Are you now with batch C?

Niel baba: Greatest B13. Happy sunnday .just wannt to ask in advance incase such appenns ,if I want to redeploy wat r d complains I cann gv n ow do I go about it ?

There are only three grounds by which your application for re-deployment would be considered...they include.

Health: You're expected to report to the camp you are posted to with a valid medical report. Consideration would be given to those who present medical report from a general state, federal or military hospital.

You're to fill the report stating your ailment with reasons why you need to visit your physician regularly in your state of resident.

If possible, you can go with the prescribed drugs you use for such ailment.

You're expected to begin this procedure in your first or second week in camp.

Another reason is on marital grounds. This option is strictly for the ladies...you would be asked to present your marriage certificate and any other relevant documents.

The final reason is on security grounds: Usually when there are signs of insecurity in any state, the NYSC board would grant affected corpers the option of redeploying to any state of their choice.

Niel baba: also wat r d disadvantages ?

The disadvantage is that if you begin your application late (like a month or two after you've began your PPA) you're likely to encounter problems in collecting your alawi.

Niel baba: hope I wut b denied my alawi?? Pls I need response

You won't be denied your alawi if you re-deploy in camp.

hornipipe: the question reads ''how do you feel when you tell people the truth and they don't believe you''

NOT


''what you have to do so people will believe you when you tell the truth''

When people don't believe your side of the story and you feel bad, the next step you should take is to provide valid proof to back up your story so they can believe you.

I believe I answered the post correctly.

lanre2009: President Goodluck Jonathan on Saturday said despite the security challenges in parts of the country, his first name had brought some good luck to Nigeria.

So Mr president, you're aware of the security challenges in the country...if I may ask, how does it translate to good luck?

All we see in our national dailies are killings, killings, killings...if that's your definition of good luck then Nigeria is doomed.

lanre2009: an affairs, within this period, we have our challenges. Of course, you are aware that we have our security challenges. But in spite of the security challenges, the country is moving on. I will say yes, it brought some good luck to the country.”

Mr president, I don't think you're aware of the security challenges...people die in their thousands in Nigeria everyday,

If its not boko haram its ombatse or street cults or robbers or accidents or as a result of our failed medical system...just name them.

Any leader that cannot guarantee the safety of his people shouldn't boast about any positive achievement.

lanre2009: On the legacy he would want to leave behind at the expiration of his tenure, Jonathan said he would like to be remembered for sanitising the nation’s electoral system as well as fixing the power poor and security challenges.

Action the say speaks louder than voice.

You want to sanitize the nation's electroal system...this is laughable because we're all aware that such statement is like shooting yourself on the foot...you cannot sanitize the electoral system without sanitizing your party PDP.

lanre2009: “If we can stabilise the electoral process, sanitise the political environment, then we make sure that we have power in this country and of course, security, every other things will take off on its own,” the President said.

We can if we want to...question is can do you have what it takes to respond to those who would oppose you?

It took you over a year to respond to boko haram who were going about killing and blowing up innocent people.

I wonder how many years it would take you to respond to the power and electoral issue.

lanre2009: Jonathan said he would also like the sanitation going on in the electoral system to be internalised in all sectors of the country.

He said, “People should be allowed to decide who governs them, who represents them at the parliament, who runs their affair at the local government level; the country never had that opportunity and the elite were no longer interested even in voting.

Can this be achievable in Nigeria...

Chimaritoponcho: How do you feel when you tell people the truth and they dont believe you?

Always look for valid proofs to back up your own side of the story. Eg if you're accused of theft in your place of work, you must provide convincing evidence to enable people believe that you're innocent.

The rule is everyone is a liar until proven otherwise...even judges make use of this rule.

In the court house, a judge would set a suspected murderer free if he can't find enough evidence to convict him of the said crime.

So when saying the truth, be sure you have enough evidence to back up your statement and I can assure you that people would believe you.

greatgod2012: I think this man is taking us as fools, and im getting furious towards the man.
Last year April, one of our neighbours came to hubby for financial assistance, he said, he went to the bank to withdraw some amount at the bank with his ATM card, and he claimed that the machine swallowed his card, it was on a Friday, and he came to hubby and asked hubby to borrow him the cash till Monday, when he would have sorted out his ATMcard issue with the bank. Hubby gave him the money,(with my knowledge, of course) and since then, the man has refused to pay the money back. Now, what is making me furious is that, the man never talked about the money, he has been relating with us as if nothing is between us, he has never talked about the money, not to talk of how he is going to pay the money. I asked hubby to ask him the money, hubby said, there is no need, all he know is that, the man can never come to us for financial assistance again. We reported him to his wife, his wife said a lot of bad things about him, how she has been managing/coping with his uncomely attitude. The wife even promised to pay the money back, but hubby asked her not to worry, because, the woman do not have much with her(shes a private school teacher). Now, im feeling like confroting him, not in order to collect the money, but to just let him know that we aint fools, and to also let him know that its not good to behave like that, to let him know that he isnt smarter than us, but hubby wont allow me.
Now, please, advise me, should i confront him or i should just leave him alone. Each time i see him, i feel like hes just taking us as fools, what do i do?
Thanks.

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There's no need to confront him...Do what your hubby advised and let him be...in that way you can be sure that you've gotten rid of him repeating such attitude in future (asking you for money)...truth is shame and guilty conscience wouldn't make him ask you for financial assistance anymore regardless of how urgent his needs are.

So please avoid confronting him.

val021: wen our allwee go reach #38,500?

When you elect credible leaders come 2015.

Where is your source to back up this story?

REVOLUTNIS: Gun will be appreciated

So after spending 4-5years acquiring knowledge in an institution of higher learning, and one year serving your country, all you can wish for is a gun! Shame on you.

[quote author=LaryBoy ]It is not a new hint in Nigeria that 85% of our ladies in NYSC uniform are all pregnant. what is going on?[/quote]Don't you feel that your claim about 85% of NYSC ladies being pregnant is absurd...I'm aware of the immorality in camp but 85% is a very poor estimation to use in rating the number of pregnant ladies.

lukulukuboy: Hv u asked how much other banks pay their contract staff?

Good question...she should know that in some banks, their contract staffs receive as low as 65k.

swtchicgurl: Secondly, Hell is a place of spiritual and eternal torment. Have you ever heard of 'spiritual fire'?

Can you post a bible verse to back up this statement...?

The passages you posted about God being a consuming fire has nothing to do with the eternal torment in hell.