Sonofgoodness:
The girl's husband sister has been pressuring her and convincing her to take the guy back, while the brother wants her to date a yahoo rich guy. And this now happening. She is a very good girl. I can belt she loves me so much

GuyWise101:

Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

A person from Bayelsa shouldn't have mouth to call Abians dirty.

Ebube98:
When you leave school, the first thing on your
to-do list shouldn't be going for NYSC.

The first thing should be loosening up your mind.

Stay with me...

An experiment was conducted with an elephant. The elephant was chained and tethered in a way that it could neither go free, nor afford much movement.

For weeks, the animal struggled but couldn't free itself. Until it finally accepted it's fate and decided to settle into the new life of bondage.

One day, the chains were removed and replaced with much weaker ropes. The elephant was tied in the same fashion with the ropes.

It shocked people around to see that the guy didn't even make any moves to break the ropes at all. In fact, the chains didn't just do a perfect job of holding him down, the chains held down his mentality.

With a single swipe, that elephant would have torn the rope into shreds, but its spirit was already broken. Look, the goal of this system isn't to give you a life you deserve. This system was built to oppress and suppress your dreams.

The sooner you realise it, the better. I cringe when I hear that first class, second class upper and whatever class graduates are earning N30k monthly and working 5-6 days a week.

Transporting to work and returning late.

With all the inflation? All the frustration?

Not cool at all. E no make sense

But you see... The system might drag you, rough handle you, beat you, injure. But don't allow your mindset to be chained.

There's this guy I follow here. He teaches maths here. The guy has this way of teaching maths and furthermaths principles such that even people who don't have a strong foundation in maths will understand easily.

Esomnofu is his name.

But aside his teaching techniques. I'm impressed with the way the guy leverages on the internet to build a business out of his teaching career.

He runs a YouTube channel, live streams on Facebook and Instagram. Sells small, affordable courses to secondary school students in and out of Nigeria.

He sells CDs in bulk to schools. He also gets invited to handle students from different schools around Nigeria .

Meanwhile... his comrades and colleagues, some who could even be better at teaching than he is , are scattered around Nigeria complaining that the government isn't paying salaries.

Oga is there, collecting funds from different sources proudly sponsored by the internet.

The point is... Focus a greater part of your energy thinking outside the box. Get creative, drop your academic knowledge and certificate for now. Go and learn very relevant skills.

Education is different from enlightenment and exposure o. Exposure is gained from practical and first-hand experience.

A lot of people will leave for camp this week, and after the next 3-4 weeks, majority of them will be earning the first salary they ever earned in their lives.

It will continue like that for one year. A lot of people will forget themselves and think it will last forever.

Some will think that, once they are done, a magical job of N250k/month will be waiting for them.

Just a handful will be lucky. The rest will be forced to face a very harsh reality check.

A lot of them will earn N33k/month for one year, and come back to earn N27,380 (after Tax)

I've seen it happen a lot.

Start unlearning the rubbish you learned in school. Especially the people who studied those courses that can "give you work anywhere".

Start building meaningful connections. Begin dey show your face.

The illiterates of the next generation won't be people who can't read or write .

But people who can't learn, unlearn and relearn things. Open your mind, embrace courses. Go for knowledge, keep taking in. Gradually work on implementing what you've learned.

I will never get tired of saying this - LEARN HOW TO SELL. This is not for people doing internet marketing alone. That guy that teaches maths, doesn't just know how to teach it. He knows how to sell his knowledge using 21st century tools.

His mates are out there thinking the only place they can sell their knowledge is within the walls of a classroom and it has to be for a salary.

Some of them have this unique way of teaching kids simple hacks to add and multiple big numbers. Some of them have tricks that could be taught to pupils to help them memorise the spelling of words.

Some persons here write the best short stories and poems. Learn how to package your stuff properly and sell online.

Whatever you do, don't be like his mates. Don't be like that elephant. Allow the system to bruise you and beat you, but win the battle in your mindset first.

Realist12:
Nigeria youths with entitlements , yes all the nominees tried , but someone has to win it which is an elderly woman ,who's more experienced . Now let's relate this to our local politics.

Awesometouch1:
Do they want a second round with Japan after they were given a knockout the last time?
They've not been able to overcome small Ukraine as expected they want to dare the country that beat them to a pulp at their last confrontation.
It's when Bombs start falling in Moscow against Japan their heads will reset.

Skyfornia:
Seriously I watched the game and I wondered to myself, from all over the country, is this the best set of players the coach could pick? They didn't play like professionals at all, no focus, no tactic... Even a village match will be more entertaining.

Igbofam:


It's RUBBLES and not RUMBLES. Learn your grammar first before defending a leprechaun like Putin the defeated

ginabarry:
Congrats dear na this kind husband we dey pray for

Ademola47:
But contrary to the way the media usually portray the man as uneducated thug, he seems well enlightened.

The way he quoted the law in tandem with his action shows he understands the constitution perfectly. Even if it was a written article by his lawyer/PA, he still tried.

The tone used was full of maturity. No hooligan language.

Shoodboi:
First, this is not true:




Secondly, I knew you were going to mention internet fraud the moment I started reading and you didn't disappoint.



Plus the fact that you included it with things like content creator, a programmer, content writer, and then added "and the likes" at the end instantly discredits your argument in the faces of people in those fields (including me).

What links do those careers have with fraud? Seun Osewa who owns Nairaland is a programmer.


But I'll put that aside since I understand what you're trying to say (unless you have hidden intentions).

You need to understand how the world (and the method of generating wealth) is changing and how people follow those changes, without even realizing it.

In the past, wealth was generated from farms. Basically, the more farmland you had, the more money you had.

Wealth later moved from farms to industries (factories, etc.) during the industrial revolutions. And people followed...

That's why we had lots of craftsmen and technical schools in the 80s and 90s compared to today since there were lots of industries in the world and most of the tech stuff we take for granted today were evolving at the time.

Now, wealth has moved from industries/factories to services and people are following suit.

That's why you're seeing less people in craftsmanship these days.

And let's not talk about our increased population,
The increasing complexities of skills required to become a craftsman,
The destruction of the middle class who are the biggest spenders, which means fewer jobs for craftsmen,
The massive deindustrialization that has been happening in Nigeria since the 70s due to poor government policies and forced us to focus on importation over manufacturing/assembling, and so on.

That said, you'll be surprised to know that everything you're saying now was the same thing everyone else said in the 80s and 90s:

They complained about people leaving the farms for craftsmanship. And now, you're complaining about people leaving craftsmanship for the digital world.

You'll be surprised again to learn that someone in the future will make the same complaint about people leaving the digital world for something else.

It's just the world happening and is nothing to bother about.

eherbal:
Idiot doesn't probably know what he stole. Car will be rejected and parked somewhere angrily. Color is a turn off too. Pls let's know if recovered. I'm guessing between today to Sunday

mrvitalis:
It was impossible to maintain ..those two needed to go please

spyglaxx:


Go to your village and buy a big farmland and plant palm trees , put fishpond inside with solar borehole.

Then get a laptop with solar backup and learn an it skill.

when you start making money from the above you can now travel away.

nobody can take your skills away from you
you can pass your skills and farmland to your children but you cannot pass your masters to your children

keentola:
A great book should leave you with many experiences, and slightly exhausted at the end. You live several lives while reading.”

If you're looking for ways to update your library with good books, you can contact me.

Notable books I have in my library:

Soldiers of Fortune by Max Siollun
All Chimamanda's books
Ben Okri's books
Dan Brown's
Munroe, Osteen, Benny Hill and other Christian authors.
Books on civil war.
Books on self-development.
Books on Politics and Philosophy.
Autobiographies and Biographies.
Rare Books

You can get these eBooks, Paperbacks and Audiobooks in minutes.

naija4life247:


30 countries gathered together to fight just only Russia, yet they are not brave enough to confront Russia. Instead, the pushed a country headed by a clown, a comedian and an actor to go fight Russia. And instead of supporting the comedian from the back, they are standing aloof.

infofta:
NATO abandoned Ukraine

US would have sent 5 nuclear capable bombers to Kiev air base and flown B52 bombers around Ukraine airspace when Putin was putting troops along the borders, that would have sent a clear message to Putin to back off. Instead Biden went on World television to announce he will not defend or send troops to Ukraine to fight. That was the signal Putin needs to press the trigger.

infofta:
NATO abandoned Ukraine

US would have sent 5 nuclear capable bombers to Kiev air base and flown B52 bombers around Ukraine airspace when Putin was putting troops along the borders, that would have sent a clear message to Putin to back off. Instead Biden went on World television to announce he will not defend or send troops to Ukraine to fight. That was the signal Putin needs to press the trigger.

chubinwa:
He is right on this. NATO is just as confuse as foolish Putin. After they will be claiming humanitarian entitlement. Nonsense NATO and u.s that cannot fight for the right of her allies. What are they even afraid of? Putin or world war? So sad

Siwisheswereesh:
Seizing plants here and there. Ukrainian soldiers definitely don't want to be exposed to radiation.

Is that why they invaded Ukraine

What an overhyped army!

Ukrainian soldiers definitely don't want to be exposed to radiation.

Over to pro-Putin loooonatics...

mizz2posh:
He met her in the banking Hall and gave her a lift, how did they get to that point? Then they also exchanged number. If it's his fellow man, he won't give him a lift, and even if he does, he will tell him to come and collect his wallet him self. He said he didn't want to put his wife's life in danger but if she had open legs for you like you wished, and you most probably Bleep her raw, you won't be putting your wife's life in danger abi? Abeg getat and bury your head in shame, ashawo man.

YinkaOlusesi16:
i ve been noticing u on diz forum, u like defending women when they are wrong, dem nova show u shege, that`s why u like defending them when they are wrong.

liricaliblunt:

You've probably used that medium to get into Canada right?

Francashy:
I know a particular state in Nigeria(SE) that is still struggling to construct a single flyover

judatech:
That's a tablet of meat

MartinsD12:

this na planned something na, Andy ubah kidnap am when he was governor, una think it's easy to forgive your enemy when you no be Jesus Christ

Lovenorth:
He is hurt because no one invited him

Sebastine1994:
One day, a man was walking down the street and sees a dog on a porch that was just sitting there, whimpering, whining and moaning. ... Your dog is sitting on a nail. Why doesn't he get off?” “Well, it just doesn't hurt him enough.” This is a good analogy for how many Nigerians act in this country



All you guys do is to condemn people, I would have done worst than this man, I would have stopped going to church and carve a statue of buhari and worship it instead.

You guy are not ready for change, I rather stand with the winner. Until you guys unite, learn to think like a war general, or perish

ignis:
If Nigeria with a population of over 200 million people with youths constituting a higher percentage can have 85 years old Buhari as president and 72 years old Osibanjo as vice president. There is nothing wrong with 42 years old ighalo playing for the super eagles, since we are all mad in this country.

nonut:
Akeredolu don turn to southern attack dog...
I hope he knows what he's doing.

berrystunn:
Huh

People will still vote APC again


Even the people that posted her there ...will never wish to see them self in a dream around that region.

ThinkWISELY:
So cutlass too na charm?,are these defenders suffering from acute gullibility or outright blindness??