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That is a beta male move...you did not know how to carry the conversation to where it can be fun for the both of you.

Don't blame your inexperience on being an "alpha male"

Cutehector:
Alot. I love it.

It's cool right? I always think and clear my head that way, some of my best ideas have been formed while taking a stroll.

Do you stroll often...?

Integrity and honour are not feminine traits.

How can you be a woman of principle when you are being led by emotions...one day you feel this way the next day you don't.

Any man who banks on the words of a woman in a moment that she feels a certain way, is in for a surprise.

If you smoke loud enter here eh......

There is obviously something she benefits from you. Maybe you are her sponsor.

She loves the other guy more, she can't afford to loose him, that's why as you said, the other guy doesn't know about it. She can't tell him that she still likes you because she fears losing him more than you. She is bold enough to tell you because she doesn't mind loosing you. Because any man with a healthy self esteem would not subject himself to be degraded in such manner.

She done see you finish sha, I no go blame am because your brain dey twerk.

HARDSHIP!

Lol.
Relationship wahala na your mate. Your "gf" want to go on a date with another man, and you are here asking if your worry is insecurity.

You have to give it up for women,they are better in this game of relationship, guy man is doubtful himself because he doesn't want to be insecure...lol

If you are minority you have to stick together.
Muslims in countries that are 90percent Christian show more love to one another and stick together, Christians too in Muslim countries.

They are facing a common stronger enemy in nairaland males, so they can't afford to fight each other and still fight we the redpillers. Lol

bepositive11:
That's unbelievably selfish. I'm sure it's even impossible for women to tell what the guy is doing. Is there a way that women like OP can know? I feel so sorry for them

solipsism. only her feelings matter.
The man should cater to their emotions alone because she read in a female magazine that they are the prize. Men have feelings too, we are not very outward with our emotions but if a woman really looks outside of herself she can understand a man.
Men are not complicated. The only reason she didn't know that the man was detaching slowly from her and attaching emotionally to another is not cause he is a good actor, it's because she is too self centered, thinking she is the best thing since sliced bread because God gave her a hole men want, forgetting that other women possess same hole.

bepositive11:
That's unbelievably selfish. I'm sure it's even impossible for women to tell what the guy is doing. Is there a way that women like OP can know? I feel so sorry for them

solipsism.

playfrank:
Bcus he smoke you think he doesn't have feelings?

oga I dey smoke wetin no good too.
It's not cos he smokes it's how he always wants to shoot person left leg with kala

Ishilove:
The stuff that makes me sleep better is definitely not ignorant comments like yours on Nairaland, believe that.

Have a good day.

Ok

Ishilove:
You mean your own point of view, because I know several men who prefer ladies in their 30s.

What does 'market value' even mean sef? I am truly speechless

whatever makes you sleep better.

Ishilove:
Hold up... Wait... Are you saying a 31 year old woman does not "market value" or whatever the fvck you Nairaland males mean?

I'm speechless.

From a mating and attraction(physical) point of view.

I'm confused. Don't even understand.

DryMouth:
Exactly bro. My own cheated on me and broke up with me. Bow she is back to me and hoping i would marry her. I will graciously waste her time cos am obviously not in love with her anymore and marry another person.

She thought she could do better, she found she couldn't, she doesn't love you.

Graceihotu:
His Mum is late but I am extremely close to his only Brother

He may be a sociopath. Does he show empathy in his daily interactions? Do you guys talk marriage at all?

Graceihotu:
Aswear with my life, I never cheated on him. As a matter of fact I tell him whenever any guy asked me out. If it's based on cheating then I am practically innocent

How is your relationship with his family? Does his mom like you, are you friends with his siblings?

FalseProphet1:

what do you see? Prophet of doom.

I'll block all nairaland feminist.
They know themselves.

That guy has been detaching himself emotionally from you little by little and you failed to notice it. It's not easy for a guy to move on to another lady if he is emotionally invested for up to 5 years.

Here is what I believe, he is paying you back for something you did to him in the course of your relationship, he felt hurt and betrayed, he may even have discovered something you did behind his back and chose not to confront you but just to waste your time as revenge. Did you cheat on him in the 5years period and thought he won't find out, after all what he doesn't know won't kill him.

It's easy to be an angel when you are 31 what about when you were 26 and you still had market value, did you do something that you thought he may have forgiven you because he can't do without your hot body.

Think hard and well, nobody is that terrible of a person,it's just that some people don't forgive betrayal.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram I COMPRISUN ur CAPRISUN!


So SORRY MAN!


U have to hold tight and be strong..


E fit be sey God de TRY save u from something!


BETTER days ahead bro...


D PESIN u want might NOT really be for U!


I believe God is trying to SAVE u from something!


I have dat STRONG BELIEVE!


We humans don't really UNDERSTAND de ways of God or d wayz of d SPIRITUAL!


make I no too CAPRISUN MUCH..


just take HEART and be strong.. MAN wey deserve U, go JAZZ in ur Life..


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

So you be normal human being with feelings? No ashawo house banny with standing boobs?

Datboredberri:
Some men thinking money impresses women... Smh

No one cares...

Use a taxi...

If you're good, you have nothing to fear... The police would let you be...

is it poverty that impresses women?
We know most women love money, nothing wrong with that stop pretending.

4tomandchi:
Afonja pretending to be Igbo!!!

where did they write Igbo woman in the post?

It may be the usual thing girls say "we girls don't do makeup for you guys" it could be that or it could be something more...

Cardealer2021:
Self love is very important bro
But you hate everybody else ?
Na cruise you dey jor

Lol
Nairaland na cruise o, anybody wey take nairaland serious dey do imsef.

My favourite nairaland member is czarr.

I hate everybody else here.

Nothing do you.

The all wanna take a ride...

ukaface:
Are all girls sluts.

This sentence is a wrong defence.
The topic says something, and you are defending with something so myopic.

are all guys broke?

The thing is when we say we don't want to settle down with non virgins, retired but not tired runs girls, gold diggers the girls here say we should stop complaining because we are broke.... forgetting the fact that there are more broke girls than guys.