Romance › Re: Ladies Must Go On 1st Date Without Make-up – Joro Olumofin by Daeylar(f): 8:22pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
koyyes: Yet, deeper life peeps and co are not hot cakes.
Its those ones that paint to their very chest you look at.
Abeg swerve!!! I'm telling you Joro will see deeper life woman and pass. Will go to a slayer and start giving her rules and regulations as if she is a robot under his command. Joro and any man that will accept this is nothing but an abusive control freak, na so e dey start. First date that is meant for you to get to know each other is where a man will foolishly think he can start giving commands. These men who follow joro should just be ready to leave the women alone when they turn down these stupid rules. |
Romance › Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Daeylar(f): 9:07am On Jan 21, 2019*. Modified: 10:19am On Jan 21, 2019 |
cococandy: You don’t joke with your space but you joke with your peniis. 
One month and you’re already having sex. What did you tell her that got her so relaxed to have sex with you in less than a month. To the point of doing your other chores for you. Some of you guys think you’re smart. You want a wife without the responsibilities and also want the freedom to sleep around. I’ll bet my shoes that’s why you don’t want her having the keys. So she won’t walk in on you with someone else.
Why not be a responsible human being and tell her the truth about how you feel concerning the relationship. And keep your peniis in your pant if you’re so concerned about not getting serious.
Hypocrite. I didn't even read this part of the thread. I hate guys like op. Manipulative assholes. See how he tried to make himself look like a helpless innocent "nice" guy who has problems setting boundaries and who is being taken advantage of by this pushy overbearing desperate girl.  Why did he hide the information that he has been having sex with her in the thread?  why didn't he put it in the op?  Now wonder she feels like they are moving towards marriage and feels comfortable enough to ask for a key, She is sleeping with him. Cleaning for him and they are cooking together, but op wants to act like he had no hand in this happening and he doesn't know why she is acting like this. That's why women have little patience for these so called "nice" guys, manipulative A**holes. Users, All of them. He is just asking what he will tell her to ensure that she keeps doing chores and sleeping with him even though he refuses to give her the key. This one he is pretending that he and his girl have known each other for barely a month. If you check well now you'll find that they have been together for up to 6 months. These so called nice guys  Mtchewww It's even a new moniker  |
Romance › Re: Guys!! Is It Wise To Give Her The Spare Key To My Apartment? by Daeylar(f): 7:55am On Jan 21, 2019*. Modified: 9:47pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
Whitewolf8: We've only known each other barely a month, but she acts and behaves like we've known for years, Cooks, cleans, etc acting like we are about getting married when I obviously didn't say anything about commitment to her .... Did you make this thread just to bash women?  You didn't remember that you've known each other barely month when you let her cook and clean for you, It didn't bother you that she has been acting like you guys are about getting married when she kept her acting to cleaning and cooking for you. Now it's time to give her keys to make her work, (cooking and cleaning) easier Now she wants to have a spare to my apartment so she wouldn't have to be calling Me for keys anymore... you suddenly remember that you've know her for barely a month. Mtcheeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww She is acting like you guys are about getting married because you have made her feel very comfortable to be able to think and act that way. Actions also speaks. So even if you feel you don't use words. She can still hear you.. Your actions are giving her free rein to feel that way. Thing is I'm an introvert and I love having my space sometimes, how do I decline her request without making her feel untrusted or rejected?? or do you think I should give her?? Why is this reading to me as. How do I decline her request without Making her stop cooking and cleaning for me?  Lol, don't give her, you don't want her to have the keys so don't. Lol I don't trust you op. |
Politics › Re: Fela Durotoye Describes His Running Mate As A Delectable Lady by Daeylar(f): 7:00am On Jan 21, 2019 |
M. I is right. Such a serious and formal setting is not the time to describe someone as a beautiful and Delectable lady. Is it a beauty pageant? Can these men stop focusing on the physical attributes of a woman for once? |
Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa Slays In Army Camouflage by Daeylar(f): 9:12pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Love her fashion sense. Her IG page.  |
Romance › Re: 7 Unavoidable Regrets People Have After A Breakup by Daeylar(f): 4:16pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
Mine has been 1,3,4 & 5 |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is Abortion the same thing as Murder ? by Daeylar(f): 9:54am On Jan 20, 2019*. Modified: 8:45pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Look at a question Ihedinobi3: I don't understand. Do you know the moniker to have ever identified as male? Take a look at the question.  Now Just look at the answer to the question. MuttleyLaff: Does it matter what pronoun budaatum decides to use for himself, afterall at the end of time, there'll be no male or female, for all are one in Christ Jesus. My god  People that answer straightforward direct questions like this are deadly  |
Family › Re: Is There Anything Wrong With A Wife Buying A Property In Her Name? by Daeylar(f): 11:59pm On Jan 19, 2019*. Modified: 8:14am On Jan 20, 2019 |
obembet: Is there anything wrong with a wife buying a property in her name?
To me, I think many of we ladies and married women misbehaves whenever we are privilege to have some properties. So I think it's better to let our husband aware of any steps we want to take.. Some men will even approved and support it.
Guys let's hear your opinion, let others learn from your views. If you want to put a chain on your neck and wear it proudly, then wear it in peace and don't disturb the rest of us. Which one is we ladies misbehave?  you and who?  koyyes: Is a woman not a human being to own possessions ?
If she can go to school, get a job, own a business, why not own a property ?
1800 question in 2019. Op sef  |
Politics › Re: Atiku Issues Statement On Absence From Presidential Debate by Daeylar(f): 9:30pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
id911: I told you guys Atiku was at the debate venue and was about entering when we heard that Buhari has refused to come. Buhari is who we want to be in the podium with because he's our main opponent. Why do you speak as though you are one of Atiku's aides? And was with him when the decision was made to opt out of the debate? Buhari can't behave as if his Father is the owner of Nigeria and we continue to look the other way because we ain't all stupid
Buhari should choose time and venue that he is comfortable with to debate with Atiku and we will be there live. Any day or time he chooses, we are ready |
Politics › Re: 2019 Presidential Election Debate (Live Updates) by Daeylar(f): 8:01pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
egojeny1: Jesus. Moghalu has finished Buhari and Atiku. He did, and he's right. Atiku and Buhari didn't come because they feel like we have no other choice but to choose one of them. |
Politics › Re: 2019 Presidential Election Debate (Live Updates) by Daeylar(f): 7:58pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Moghalu: The reason they are not here is because they cannot answer the Questions. |
Politics › Re: 2019 Presidential Election Debate (Live Updates) by Daeylar(f): 7:56pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Isn't Atiku in the building?
Moghalu is telling the truth |
Politics › Re: 2019 Presidential Election Debate (Live Updates) by Daeylar(f): 7:55pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Bad coin that has 2 sides?  APC and PDP will hear it today  |
Politics › Re: 2019 Presidential Election Debate (Live Updates) by Daeylar(f): 7:55pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Seems Atiku only came for Buhari.
Look at excuse.
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Politics › Re: 2019 Presidential Election Debate (Live Updates) by Daeylar(f): 7:53pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Moderator asked oby on her opinion about APC and PDP's absence. Oby says she is not surprised that APC and PDP candidates aren't here. She then says that there is a political class that needs to fade away If the 2 dominant parties cared about the Nigerian people they would come here. |
Politics › Re: 2019 Presidential Election Debate (Live Updates) by Daeylar(f): 7:14pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
Atiku and Buhari should be ashamed. Peter and Osibanjo both participated in the VP's debate.
What's their excuse? |
Politics › Re: 2019 Presidential Election Debate (Live Updates) by Daeylar(f): 7:12pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
demzey: I can officially switch off my TV and goan play ludo since the two candidates did not come  |
Politics › Re: 2019 Presidential Election Debate (Live Updates) by Daeylar(f): 7:09pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
So Atiku and Buhari didn't come?  |
Family › Re: How Does A Working Couple Cope Without A Maid? by Daeylar(f): 3:37pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
yvelchstores: I appreciate your encouragement. Thank you. You're welcome. I have to add, I have been making money online via my shop on Instagram so I won't say I haven't been making money from home all these while. That's good. You're doing great. More strength to you  |
Education › Re: Funny Collective Nouns For Some Animals You May Not Know by Daeylar(f): 3:32pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
OkaNaUbe: An evil of Nigerian politicians OK this is funny  |
Education › Re: Funny Collective Nouns For Some Animals You May Not Know by Daeylar(f): 3:32pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
coalition, Shrewdness, convocation, conspiracy, pandemonium, venue, Implausibility
Some of these names are just plain stupid.
And the tribalists have descended on this thread |
Career › Re: Physique Of Cameroon Miners Who Dive Under River To Collect Sand For Living(Pics by Daeylar(f): 12:13pm On Jan 19, 2019*. Modified: 12:53pm On Jan 19, 2019 |
kingkuntaval: After all these sweat and grind, one useless slay queen will be asking "hello, baby have you sent it?" Na Ogun go kee u.. Why is she a useless slay Queen,  Did those men tell you that they mind if a slay Queen asks them for money? Why are Nigerian slay kings parading about as men so jealous of women?  Do you want to have a boyfriend and ask him for money?  Why do Nigerian men love to count another Mans money for him while using that to attack women? Ogun should kill you for this your stupid jealousy. |
Nairaland General › Re: How Do You Control Your Anger When Seriously Provoked? by Daeylar(f): 11:57am On Jan 19, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mr Eazi: I Don’t Own A Car, I Use Uber by Daeylar(f): 9:03am On Jan 19, 2019 |
Charmingrascal: You mean Eazi said all those trash up there? No sense in what I read up there, the only people that will find sense in this are the "vanity gang" they will say everything is vanity. This is not living a simple life it is a spiritual problem. He doesn't have a car wat nonsense.
Any power that says I will not enjoy my money die by fire. LMAO  It seems as though some people have been insulting him for not having a car and this is a response to them specifically not the generally public, because it makes no sense otherwise for him to say this. |
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Crime › Re: Michael Asiwaju Furniture Commits Suicide In Lagos Hotel - Punch by Daeylar(f): 7:57am On Jan 19, 2019 |
So he actually committed suicide. As sad as that is. It doesn't automatically mean he didn't rape the girl. |
Family › Re: How Does A Working Couple Cope Without A Maid? by Daeylar(f): 9:01pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
yvelchstores: I have sacrificed 3 years of my career just because I can't bear to see my daughter hurt in any way. I know I will go back to a career eventually and if I could turn back the hands of time, I WILL NOT DO IT DIFFERENTLY. Growing up, my mum was a busy business woman and I know all my childhood scars from house helps and what not. Money isn't everything, tho it gives happiness. I will take my time to instill in this one, all the values I uphold so she will help me set the right pace for the ones that will follow her. I guess what I am saying is, follow D beats of your own drums, don't dance to someone else's. If it doesn't give u peace, it's not worth it. They won't be children forever. I have only one chance at doing it right. Sacrificed 3 years of your career? From birth till your daughter was 3 years old right? I love that, and you're right, they aren't children forever, and you do only have a chance. Do the same for the ones who will follow her. You did good. |
Family › Re: How Does A Working Couple Cope Without A Maid? by Daeylar(f): 8:57pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Keepingmum, imnotconfused, AFONAMARO, LewsTherin. Love your examples of how you keep your home going strong by working together. More strength to you guys. |
Family › Re: How Does A Working Couple Cope Without A Maid? by Daeylar(f): 8:47pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
UknwownGuy: It all comes down to effective planning and team work. Parents, not constrained to just the man or woman should get jobs that give flexible hours, so they can have time for children. One should know that parenting isn't about just dressing them up, feeding, dropping them off etc. Many times you need to spend time with these kids and know what's going in their lives and I wouldn't really suggest just any house maid, cos I've heard a lot and witnessed amongst many people I've come across. If at all you want to get someone, make sure it's someone you trust and observed. You don't just say because you are pursuing a career, you bring a strange person to your home. This part in bold needs to be framed, for everyone who wants to have kids. |
Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa Shows The N405k Perfume She Got From A Secret Admirer by Daeylar(f): 2:05pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Look at all the faux care for the poor and needy pouring out.  before any if you come for Toke. Sell all the expensive gifts you've gotten or expensive things you've bought for yourselves and give it to the poor and needy. Then you can talk. |
Celebrities › Re: Toke Makinwa Shows The N405k Perfume She Got From A Secret Admirer by Daeylar(f): 1:51pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Kingwizzy16: No be only secret admirer format Wey them de use hide the person name
If i hear say the niqqa no bleep you wella before that gift Why must the secret admirer be a man? Can't it be a lady? Why do men like you think it's only men who have the monopoly of gifting out expensive items? Besides, lets assume it's a man, Do you have sex with someone just because you gave them N400? Don't you think people can give out N405k the way you can give out N400. |
Literature › Re: What Is The Most Difficult Book You've Ever Read? by Daeylar(f): 12:35pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
Love this thread. Writing down names of books to read. |