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God why?
What reason do they have for arresting this guy? What did he do wrong?

Any one that protests next thing they are thrown in jail, or is there any other reason?

CHoccolaTE:
OK it's 351 likes so far, I honestly thought it would be more.
Imagine the nonsense. Don't raise your voice, give him a treat.
tufia.

Yeah it isn't much compared to the disasters of likes we see on foolish posts today.

Any misogynistic nonsense you type. Will give you millions of likes. No matter how foolish. Stupid. Idiotic. Unfair, irresponsible.
Just make it against a woman, and support men,

And likes shall flow into your L&S

CHoccolaTE:
Of course na,
Another one is that when it suits them they say women are not polygamous and were created to stay faithful to one man.
When it doesn't suit them you see them claiming women enjoy sex as much as men and are only pretending so they should stop acting like they are doing men a favor by having sex with them.

Confused people.

I found the thread An except of the pound yam advice, I can't stop laughing

Secondly, ur husband, u know his weak point, maybe pounded yam, or one food, or maybe d oda room, give him a good treat, after he is calm and relaxed, confront him, just ask him why he did it, he will tell u , don't raise your voice o,

I remember that thread. and they were seriously serious, seriously agreeing with that comment they even called the guy a wise man. Said he has so much wisdom oh my god

What I have seen on nairaland when it concerns a man vs a woman eh.

CHoccolaTE:
I remember reading on this same Nairaland, a certain thread where a married woman came to complain about her cheating husband, she said she caught the man having sex with another woman inside their matrimonial home, right on top of their matrimonial bed.
If that isn't the height of disrespect then I don't know what is.

But guess what out wonderful Nairaland men said to her? They advised her to pound yam for him and prepare his favorite soup and then in a loving respectful tone of voice she should ask him what happened that made him cheat and help him work on those problems.

That particular idiotic suggestion to pound yam for a shameless cheating husband gathered more than 500likes, and many more heartless beasts that call themselves men were cheering the person that wrote the comment and advising the wife to follow his advice.

You men deserve a taste of your own medicine.

Some idiots will tell you women find it easier to overlook cheating and forgive and in the same breathe will tell you how women are softer and more emotional than men so how can the same weaker more emotional person withstand blows and heartache better than the logical unemotional one?

And no, women can have sex without attaching emotions. Women have friends with benefits and sugar mommies keep sugar boys they sleep with on a casual basis.

No gender cheating is better or worse than the other.

@ bold they become whatever they want depending in how the situation benefits them, but no matter what. Always remember that a man is never wrong
That is the golden rule.
So when it benefits them, women are emotional & weaker.
When it doesn't, it becomes. Women can withstand cheating (emotional torture and pain) better than men

cococandy:
I would tell you if I knew

Or even know who’s behind that and all the trolling. Plus it’s been long.

All right dear, good it's been long and it has died down.

These days sef if I start fight I’m not usually around to finish it I just gave up..

Lol

cococandy:
One of them told me he had a crew and their job is run people like me off the forum by whatever means no matter how long it takes . I created a thread about it then but too much uproar from different corners and royalroy had to delete it. It was funny don’t be sorry. We used to have fun then

The more you give me drops of tea, the more I want to ask about what happened.

All right. I won't be sorry
Glad it was just fun then.

Eketem:
Just here to see the male hypocrites telling him to divorce, if a woman caught her husband cheating you will be saying she should forgive him that it rains everywhere that all men cheat and divorce is a sin.

Smh

You know it

cococandy:
Lol. I can’t even narrate the genesis.

I was just very vocal about the BS on this forum for the longest time. So, any time someone had something to say about “those evil feminists”, Coco always got the first mention.

And any lady who agrees with me was part of the coven of witches. The non-virtuous women who didn’t preach for women to wear red pant and bra and lay down to get trampled in order to keep a man.

Lmao lol
The way they rant and rave against feminist you would think feminists are evil demons, ask them the issues they have against feminist now and they can't even say a reasonable thing.

Got so many inbox threats. oh my

They took it that far?
Wow

Anyway long time sha. I guess the less active you’re, the less you come across BS. That’s sort of reduced now.

That name is just so funny. Lol,

sorry dear.

Thank ya

tabithababy:
Na wa o

Forgive her, Pray and fast for her, start dressing seductively, give her monkey in snake shadow

Una Don start

Cococandy please how did your middle name come to be "evil feminist"?

Can I get the story? please?

In recent times? Nah, this has been going on for decades.

Amen to your prayer, in addition, God please kill those useless men who won't allow ladies live in peace. Amen.

IPOBrep:
The girl child have become an endangered specie in recent times.

Either they are been raped by their father/guardian or they are been mortgaged for money by their parents.

The killing by ritualists also comes to mind plus the increasing practice of incest on them by their brothers.

God please protect out daughters from scavengers

What is this?
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dingbang:
what's this one saying? Are you daft to recognize the fact that girls aren't mature and shouldn't be taken seriously by men your reply was boys shouldn't be taken seriously and I did well to affirm to your comment as well as hint your daft mind that boys , girls are diff from men and women. Jeez. Get some understanding

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You said never take girls seriously, I said never take boys seriously, simple and short.

So why are you ranting and posting bs stories for me?
Did I ask you for useless stories?
You dished it out. I dished it right back, take it and stop crying.
Typical boys. Can dish it out but can't handle it when they are served back.


Next case abeg.

dingbang:
boys, not men. its a pity you are still a girl, not a woman.

You referred to girls, I referred to boys. Why are you crying and trying to take it to me personally. Can't handle what you dish out? Typical.
Big baby

Don't cry too when girls take your advice and don't take boys like you seriously.

What's good for the goose will always be good for the gander.

dingbang:
Never ever take girls seriously..

Girls should never take boys seriously. Let me balance it out for you.

And please don't cry when girls take this advice and never take boys seriously

Why not just let the girl go?
People spend a lot of time seeing things they don't like but instead of actually doing something about it. They come complaining.
Do you like the way she is acting? No, let her go, you saw her like that, don't try to change her.
Move on.

Lol

Nysc has dragged him back to Nigeria

Op you are very wrong. I understand your husband's anger.

I'm really pissed at you op, you're desperate and selfish. Imagine if you had been unable to have kids, that is how you will drag him into stress he knows nothing about. It wouldn't have been an issue had you both found out together about your issue after marriage, but you knew and you kept it to yourself. Lied and deceived him so you can finally get married. You knew he wouldn't marry you if you had told him so you lied in your desperation to get him to marry you,

And the worst part is that, When he tried communicate his feelings with you, (he is right by saying it was a wicked and expensive gamble,) you just callously brushed his feelings away as if it doesn't Matter.

"it worked and that's what matters" what the hell?
Why won't he lose his mind and insult you?

Kiishii:
, i knelt down and told him everything, i held nothing back, he was shocked that i could do something like that to him, he said i should have told him before we got married, i told him he wouldnt have married me if i told him, he was angry, he said what if the hormonal injections didnt work, it was an expensive and wicked gamble, i told him it worked that's what matters now, he abused me and walked out of the house, he didnt come home till the next day, since then things have never been the same.

He hardly talks to me except when necessary, we dont gist and joke anymore, i always beg and beg him, he says he's forgiven me but he goes back to his moody self,

Now he doesn't talk to me at all anymore, i'm about to tell both our families everything cos i've begged and begged him and i'm tired, i want anonymous advise that's why i'm here, please please married men and women or whoever, how do i go about this?

Now you are here crying that he won't talk to you? How can he talk to you when you don't care to listen? When he tried to talk to you did you listen?


Now you're saying you're tired of begging. Imagine the arrogance . You coldly played with a man's life. Forget that it worked. But you still played with him,
What were you expecting, you'll beg him once and he will forgive you? He has every damn right to be angry with you for as long as he needs to calm down and he has every right to divorce you if he feels that what you did is something he cannot forgive. Just carry your cross in peace, make sure you both take care of the kids and don't complain. You laid the bed, be ready to lie on it.

If not for his problematic actions later. I would have said you should allow him to be angry for a while. He deserves to be angry. What you did is more than wrong.

.however him asking you to quit your job to take care of the kids since you are no longer fertile is really nasty.
(I may be wrong) but It seems he is preparing you for the devastating emotional, verbal and financial abuse he wants to inflict on you, covering all grounds so you have no way to escape when he starts.
If he really wants the kids taken care of, why can't he quit his job to take care of them himself? Why didn't he consider that as an option?
He wants you totally dependent on him so that when he starts with you, hmmm,. It will be hell.


Either you leave the marriage now, or you observe him, if he keeps insisting on you quitting your job with an increase in the way he insults you or how badly he treats you start getting ready to jump ship, or hopefully, he will later calm down and tell you that his actions at the beginning were because he is hurt and you guys find a way to move forward.



I don't really care for op or her husband. You both are nasty people.

LivingFree:
One gave me physical respect

He said he'll pay me emotionally, and I won't want for nothing

Our brothers when they chat ehn


Let him apologise emotionally okay

Loooooolll!!!!!


Lol, all right. I will

Xisnin:
Wait, so you believe all women are interested in frustrating their life of their daughters-in-law?
Some have better things to do than meddle in the private life of a married adult man.

Just leave the mother in-law issue first. She really thinks that in the future. we will still have women who have time for mummies boys? We will still have women who will choose to marry Men who allow their mothers to run their homes and tell them what to do? She foolishly thinks that?

Women are getting wiser and stronger. The time of dealing with mummies boys is passing and hopefully will end soon enough.
If any man will sit down and allow his mum to give his prospective wife trouble. Then these women will walk away without looking back.
Last last the mother and son will marry each other.

On the issue of divorce, no civilized man will seek divorce because his wife refuses to change her maiden name.

But we have barbarians (both men and women) running around on nairaland. Thinking that they are civilized not knowing they belong to the stone age.

In fact, most divorces are instigated by women, not men.

They can't know that, they pull stats out of their ass to fit what they want. After all, We still have fools on NL claiming that women are more in number compared to men.

Women have been taking men's name for ages in marriages. Women have been giving their kids the surnames of their men
There has been no problems,

Women just said that they don't want to take their husbands names, and just said they want to add their surname to the name their child will take.(in addition to the man's surname) the insults and the attacks started

Now imagine if women paid men back in their own coins, insisted that men should take their names and give all kids their (the women) surnames alone, if they want to marry the women, Attack the men brutally like this, call them all sorts of disgusting names if the men refuse and say they would rather just keep their name.
Then laugh in their face and say that they will see who will marry such men.

You all can dish your bullshit but can't take half of it.

Is there any good reason why the idiots on this thread are against a woman retaining her name? Or a child bearing surnames of both?
Why the thoughts of a woman retaining her name even in marriage brings about so much nastiness?


And someone will stupidly say that what these women are saying have nothing to do with feminism.

All of you (men or women) insulting these women, are nothing but bloody bastards.

Nonsense.

LivingFree:
Man never spiritually apologise to you before

Babe abeg, if you see as I take burst laugh for here eh.

The matter tire me, and the guy no wan follow me talk

This is very mean @bold
Please don't say the part in blue. Some people can wreck you oh.
They are taking this too far now.

chasers:
Please am so sorry for doing this in the first place...Please You guys should find a place in your heart to forgive me. At first i thought since the photo is not taken from Google, am allowed to post it. Because is food section.
Please I ask for you guys forgiveness. Typing this, my eyes are full of tears, this is the third time receiving call from her and my crew today.. Please whatever you want from me, I promise to do it for this to go away. Please stop sending Dm and spoiling her blog with messages, I knew its gonna get to this, reasons I was trying to hide and protect her name..
Please just this I ask from you guys. Nairaland Food Section we are family, all my photos and some of my comments are down please. it doesn't need to come to this.if I committed any crime, I should be the one to pay for it not her please.

Please relationshipG what does emotionally apologize mean?

cruchenutii:
Both delugackson, franchag and Daar are the funniest people on this thread !!!

delugckson: Big Bros you should be a Comedian honestly. You are really angry oh! Actually I think I know the First bank guy, He's name is dingbang

francng: Please, can you create a thread with your POST. So much reality in it.

Dlar: Miss, at the end of the day, nothing like true love (At least for most people). Everyone of us is looking for how to use the other person to survive.

I think this post is directed at Willexmania, he is the one asking about True love.

Willexmania:
calm down miss. i'm not angry. i'm only saying a lady should not use a guy as an ATM machine.
it is only a shameless and poor girl that would decide to use a man as her source of income..

And I agree with that, no one should be used, that's despicable behaviour.
If you anger is only for women who use men for money then no probs.

As long as you don't go about getting angry with women because they have a man who willingly spends on them even if they are poor or rich,( like you tried to do with this lady, ) even if they don't have a source of income or they earn 7figures. Or saying they don't love these men and only see these men as magas just because the men willingly spend money on them.

It's all good.

Willexmania:
Can't You Read? She Clearly Stated She Gets All Her Money From The maga she's dating..

And I am asking you, why are you angry? Why are you angry that a woman has a man who spends money on her? And how do you know she doesn't love him

she also said he is 4 In 1 . Which Means He Plays The Role Of The Previous 4 Guys She Dated Before.. Including The "HOUSE BOY ROLE" . now tell me if it is right for a MAN to perform house chores as a houseboy for a lady?

I don't understand, It's not what you or I feel is right. It's what she and her man are ok with, and If they are ok with it, what's my business inside?
Once again. Why is it bothering you? Why this anger?

fakuta:
some Nairalanders and judgement are 5&6. most of the posters above me may not even count the number of girls they has s--x with. she is only advising others to learn from her bad expirience. but see how you are guys are raining insult on her.

We know

They are all fools, any excuse to insult women.
Check well now and these guys using her as an excuse to attack Nigerian women may have or have had multiple girlfriends for reasons like this lady gave, but here they are now using this Lady as an excuse to show their misogyny and attack Nigerian women.

Don't take them serious. They lack sense.

Willexmania:
Learn What Exactly?
Currently , The "BoBo" She Is Datimg right now is her "MAGA". She Does Not Love Him.. She's Just Spending The Guy's Money. What Happened To True Love?

And how do you know this? Are you in her mind to know how she feels?

What Happened To Making Your Own Money?

How is it your business how she gets the money she spends? The person giving her money did not come out to complain, but you're here crying unnecessarily, why? Who told you that she doesn't make money also?

Why are you guys always so bitter about women who have men who give them money?

Is She Just Teaching Girls To Use Guys As Their Personal ATM? After When Guys Read This Shi.t she just posted and decide to carry out revenge on other girls , these girls will start shouting all men scum.

This guys better come out truly and say that they are devils who hate women and are just looking for ways to treat them badly instead of hiding under what this girl did.

Someone one who wasn't in the situation will open their stinking mouth and say they want to carry out revenge on innocent girls.
Such a stupid excuse for the evil they were planning to do anyway.