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Ihatelove:
I hope her boyfriend sees this!!! Some things are just meant to be locked in a box

And if her man sees it what will happen? Doesn't he have a past? If he doesn't and he can't handle hers he will leave, she won't die.

HappyPagan:
200 million of the world's dumbest. Not dumb on an individual scale, but dumb on a societal one. The society's decaying, rotten, yet we do not realize the corpse is us.

Is that too dark a picture? Too grim an opening? Truth hurts, lies too. Maybe I'm lying. Let's take a stroll round the cities.


Noisy. Dirty. No organization. It's an OYO-zone, from Oyo to Maiduguri. The earth is good, but those who walk it aren't. We've been misled, miseducated, missed our direction. The motherland yearns for a father, a strong figure on whom she can depend.

A Messiah was promised, and his name was Buhari. He carried the cross, thieves beside him. They asked if they could be in paradise, and the cross broke. The Messiah became a mess of a sire.

Shall I continue?

Why did you start and pause it? Continue na

what has been done to the soldier?
hope the soldier won't go Scot free?

hopefully the boy pulls through

Very brainless bunch

Metuh:
The most painful aspect is the way his brainless supporters are abusing the baby mama like she impregnated herself.

They forgot that one day, their daughter or sisters will be in this type of situation too.

Nah I don't pray for such a useless father for wizkid for any child. No child should suffer for the sins of a brimless uncle, I also don't expect such brainless men to have children, before they infect their sins with their foolishness and the girls with low self esteem.

That wizkid will learn the hard way cos if that girl should sue him, he will loose a lot of things starting from endorsements and his visa might even be revoked.

I hope she deals thoroughly with him, how can someone be so shameless to have a child and refuse to support the child. He is not the one raising the child. She has full custody, just bring money and he is disgracing himself everywhere. SMH

Metuh:
Someone should advice the irresponsible deadbeat dad to pay up.


I pity his dying career already.

I hope she really deals with him, let the foolish ones who think they can just have babies and throw them away learn..

MizMyColi:


Of course, I was kidding. But it's good that you want do.

Lol, I know you were dear

MizMyColi:
Stop mentioning me
I'm reading please.

Never

Lol, let me modify the names.

Na wa

zaynie:



Women fighting like women......

If we were all living in a yard, Maringeles would be tying and retying her wrapper, Iomge would have omorogun in her hands, Mizmcoli would be at her balcony exchanging words, Liftehands would have her chewing stick in her mouth (dorrttyy girl )
There would be some shouts of gbéborùn, a lot of fake laughter, some back clappings, high 5s, yansh shaking, ashewo would be the name of the day.
The men would attempt to chook mouth.
The children will stay one side while their moms continue to display craze
Landlord will be targeting who to give quit notice just cos the wife is too quarrelsome


But since this is online, let us all be keyboard warriors

Chasrs, no need to call out names except if one of your beneficiaries or beggars follow abuse you, then Call It!

Sensible people

udemzyudex:
Naa, blame the useless man that also refuse to control his third legs too.

If to say he use condom, he for no dey pay all this bills.

john650:
Wizkid should thank his God that the girl did not approach the courts to settle this because the amount would-be substantially higher. The sum of $2,000 per month in America isn't anything to brag about having a child for a music star.

The American entertainers that have children out of wedlock with some of these girls pay substantially more in child support, like $20,000 to $40,000 per month.

Like I said, Wizkid should send her the checks immediately before she approaches the court and does serious damage to his finances.

nduchucks:
$2000 is way too low to support the child of a super star such as Wizkid in the USA.

He shouldn't have to involve lawyers before investing that much money on his child. Here's a man who spends more than that on Alcohol and possibly weed on a weekly basis, not to talk of money spent on groupies.

Wizkid needs to step up his game before he ends up in jail. The girl needs to tear up the agreement, initiate a paternity lawsuit ASAP and have Wizkid served the next time he steps in the USA.

Nansense.

plaetton:
Shut up your stinking mouth.

It takes more than a dixk to be a man.

A real man takes care of his responsibilities.

A man's children should be his first and primary responsibility.

Any fool out there who calls himself a man, but fails in his primary responsibilities to his offsprings is obviously far far less of a man.

Joshuazedd:
All these ppl wey dey support wizkid. How can you blame the girl for coming open? everytime na to dey shout olosho this olosho that... Who dey go after the oloshos?
if u hv been raised by a single mom u will dislike wizkid for his actions. what if someone impregnates your daughter and refused to take responsibility?
Na wizkid use e penis envite trouble. e go play for away sef

It's only misogyny and stupidity that will make someone type this rubbish you just did.
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jaxxy:
She’s stupid i don’t support Deadbeat dads bt if Wizkid doesn’t do anything can’t she cater for her own child? Why all this show of nonesense. Like her life and dat of her baby depends on Wizkid like a hungry as$ gal.

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No she cannot cater for this child on her own because she didn't make the child on her own.
Get that into your skull.
Her own child indeed. As if the child isn't wizkid's own child
Nonsense

When its time to fuxk raw now useless men will be very happy to do so. Even when they know they cannot handle it if pregnancy results from it.

When it's time to pay up, they start running from pillar to post and misogynistic people like you and those with your mindset all over this thread will come out to lick their ass.

Misogynists and complete fools everywhere on this thread,

If the idiot wizkid. knew he didn't want to pay child support or take care of a child, he should have wrapped it up, if you refuse to take responsibility for your actions by wrapping it up or having a vasectomy, no mercy for you at all. You deserve whatever and more you get from your baby mama especially when it is court approved

Next time people won't be so stupid and wicked to bring children into the world that they know they don't
plan care for.

Instead of people to be outraged that a fool brought. A child into this world that he has no plans to care for and his baby mamas have to call out his irresponsible behavior. They are busy arguing about money, and turning this into a man vs woman fight.

How can some idiots say she should take care of the child 100% on her own, Did she create the child 100% on her own? misogyny will make people type the most stupid ignorant trash.


Wizkid better start paying up,
To raise a child requires far more than money, it also requires physical and emotional care,

Now just to bring money, has turned into war.

Stupid selfish men, so stupid and so selfish to even kids they brought into this world.

"Who got time for beef when you on a vegetarian diet."
This punchline though, cool

omoiyalayi:
I don't like what dis woman is promoting everywhere

How can you be flaunting a pregnancy and not showing us who is responsible

planning of having a baby without father?

Hope she can remember she's a role model to many women out there

I hope some of women who sees her as a role model will not start copying this

Smh

Why should any woman show anyone who is responsible for her pregnancy? Who are you that she will show? What kind of irritating entitlement mentality Is this to demand that someone should explain herself to you.


Women will do what they think is best for them, not what you expect them to do, get that into your head. Also Learn to mind your business, stop bothering about what women who are grown enough to have a child will do.

Timekeeper:
Advise me as a guy, shud I just cut
communication with her totally and move on or I shud
still call her and talk Sha...
Seriously to me, I don't Wana be friend zone Cox I
truly wanna court her..... But she on the other side,
is damn too free with guys and I don't think I can
take it...... BEFORE I told her how I feel, I use to call
her to meet outside her hostel and we talk for some
hours.
But now that she is not ready, do u think I shud still
be doing all wat I use to do to her or I shud just cut
her off and move one....?

what do you feel you should do? you're the one living the life. so ask yourself that question, what will make you happy? doing what you used to do or cutting her off?
if you feel like you can handle it. continue. if not, then just bow out. stop talking to her. move on

you've already courted her by the way, and she refused. nothing else you can do.

besides, I don't understand your love for her. you keep complaining about the way she is free with guys yet you met her like that, did you expect her to change for you or to fit your standards of what you consider appropriate behavior ? that's not right and that's controlling behavior,
try and take people as you meet them, don't try to change them in any way, either you can handle them or you can't. it'll help you alot

HungerBAD:
I just detest the term Slay Queens.

I compare women who call themselves slayqueens to like pubic toilets.

They should compare men like you who have nothing better to do but to attack women and call them public toilets just because you don't like what they call themselves, pit latrines

Once upon a time, women pranced about, giving the men a good run in the achievements department.

They paraded degrees, awards, successes,modesty, good dress sense and a background of good upbringing.

Once upon a time? When did women ever stop?

Mtcheeww.

But now, they seems to be selling themselves short by only sexualizing everything they do,and in doing so, making the men look at them as sex objects only.

A woman can be minding her business, going about her way and men like you will come from no where accusing her of sexualizing herself.

Take responsibility for your actions, you are a man, a grown man, nobody makes you do anything, if you look at women as sex objects, then that is on you and you alone. Look for help so you can stop seeing women as sex objects, not to shamelessly start playing one stupid blame game and blaming women for your nasty thoughts.

Women please know thy worth please.

men please mind your goddamn business, keep your usually stupid advice to yourselves, stop being misogynistic, fix your your lives and stop trying to give women stupid advice.

9gerian:
I hope they didn’t forget to add palm oil!


The media platform just used this high achiever to trend and gain brand recognition

as if it is sacrifice I can't stop laughing

IBBG:
lol. why are you crying more than the berieved. so it is only guys that is good to be friendzone and be recieving the short end of the stick.

my advice to this guy has been to walk away from this girl.

When the same is being dished out to girls, you cry fowl play. For your information most guys became what you claim "fuxtboys", because when they were the good, nice guys, full of emotion and love for the girl they were crushing on, how did the girl repay them? instead the girls repayed them by calling them weak, boring, no swags, not fun to be with and taking them for granted.

nope. I don't support mistreatment of both, which is far more than can be said for you.
those girls you're talking about who treated you badly,
face those girls. those girls who offended you. face them and them alone. don't make innocent girls suffer for someone else sins, because you're here complaining about girls using boys, but some how you think it is acceptable for men to use ladies.

At the same time falling head and shoulders, drooling for the so called "fuxtboys". Since birds have learnt to fly without perching, the hunters have decided to learn how to shoot without missing. Morever what the girl the op is talking about is looking for is what you termed "fuxtboy". She doesn't want to be hooked, she wants to be free and have fun.

she is not emotionally ready does not translate to she wants to be manipulated and treated like trash, how are the 2 even equal to you?

So who falls into this category? your guess is as good as mine. So it is simple, the guy can decide to give her what she wants or cut her off completely based on what he wants.

and I ask again, how does a girl saying she isn't emotionally ready for a relationship mean she wants to be manipulated and mistreated. what happened to walking away and acting like a decent human being?

There is nothing wrong in what the girl wants, and there is nothing wrong in what the guy wants. The only difference is trying to reach a middle ground between the both of them based on their expectations.

the middle ground is not manipulation and sick games.

yes this is how you handle these kind of girls. playing with their minds, emotions and feelings, using them for fun, instead of just acting like a decent human being, respecting her opinion and walking away,

instead you want to toy with her feelings, manipulate her and treat her like trash and what is her offence?
she dared to day she wasn't emotionally ready for a relationship, just because when a girl says she isn't ready for a relationship you think it is acceptable to prey on her and use her for fun.

disgusting

later I'm sure if one girl says men are trash you'll jump out and say not all men,

nonsense.

I hope there aren't still girls falling for this manipulative nonsense?

please, ladies if you have a guy that wants to try this rubbish on you, cut the MF off and pretend like he never existed.(even if they come back begging, or start harassing you, na their way, ignore like they don't exist. ) then move on to look for better men to give your time to.

don't waste your time on manipulative fuxkboys like this one below.

IBBG:
no offence intended to the person i'm quoting, but baba if you do what this person is saying she go friendzone you o. she will never take you serious at all. she will only see you as one of those admirers she can use or on her beck and call. From what you have written, what i can deduce is that she doesn't want a committed relationship just yet. she wants to be free to explore her fantasies without being caged in a relationship, atleast not yet, while she has the opportunities. And from all indication you seem to her like someone who will be monitoring and policing her if she gives in to you in the name of love and it will be choking and irritating for her. how it works out between the both of you depends on what you want. If you are desperate for something serious then cut her off. But if you are open to just having fun then play along with her, and don't ask her out again. just start acting like she is already your girl friend when she is around you. But when she leaves your side just ignore her totally by allowing only her to be the one calling or chatting you up. Even when she complains about it don't change. otherwise she will friendzone you. Act cozy, friendly, romantic when she is around, but when she is not with you just ignore her completely. And watch how the tide will change in your favour. Thats how you handle this kind of girls.

Timekeeper:
What does it mean when a lady you expressed your feelings to tells you that she is not ready emotionally. I asked emotional in what aspect? She was like she is this kind of free person and been in a relationship will restrict her freedom. To be sincere, since I have been close to this lady, I noticed that she is truly free (as in male friends and so on) but I'm not sure if she is dating anyone... But as a guy I reason am, can I cope with a lady that is so free ? I don't just want to rush and crush and I Wana take time to think about it... I told her that she has her freedom but as a decent lady, even freedom shud be limited.

Ladies, I know you must have felt this at one stage of your life. What do you expect a guy to do to convince you or make u ready? Seriously on campus, I don't really befriend ladies like that but this particular lady, I like her so much.. Within the space of 3 weeks, I have called her countless times on phone and she never gave me attitude. Most time we even meet in the night and talk for hours. Then I concluded in my mind that if this lady doesn't really like me, she wouldn't have given me all these attention... But her fear is her freedom, she doesn't want to lose her freedom... As a guy too, I respect her freedom but I expect a lady freedom shud be limited especially if she is in a relationship.

Ladies help me out, if God will do it for me like I want it, I want to know her parents and wife her in the few years to come but the only problem I have now is the freedom she talked about... I have read and experience so many things on nairaland and others too about ladies brouhaha Cox of freedom and so on but I don't Wana experience this...

Note: if a lady tells me that she can't date me Cox she is dating sumone else or doesn't feel for me, I know that as a man of value, I will walk away forever. But didn't say that, she just said emotionally n I asked to know if it was past experience, she said no.. Later she opened up to me that her freedom will be tampered with... Honestly, before me met yesternyt, my spirit told me that this lady will consider her freedom and she didn't disappoint me when I told her how I feel about her... I can't give up Cox of her freedom but I can give up if she is not interested at all. Ladies understand me...

Wonderful ladies of nairaland, I trust you that you can help me out.. What can I do pls?

Help me push to front page. God bless

Timekeeper:
Read through again.. I can't and don't know how to force a lady.. I just came here to understand what freedom means to ladies.. That's why u directed my questions to the ladies in particular... Pls be gentle

sorry
my comment came from these parts in bold which showed you asking for tips on what will make ladies change their mind from the freedom they (this girl in particular wants ) to the relationship you want. not how to understand what freedom means to ladies

and the last part in particular where you said you can't give up because of her freedom but you can if she isn't interested,
to me,
you were basically saying you don't respect her wish for freedom, you can't respect her wish because it doesn't make sense to you, but you want to date her? you want to date someone who you won't respect what the person says as long as it doesn't make sense to you? even if it means a lot to her? this is somehow

which is why I posted this

Daeylar:
A girl told you what she wants,
you came here looking for us to give you tips on how to disregard what she wants, so that you can get what you selfishly want as if the relationship is only about you and what you want.

however if you say that is not what you are asking for then all right.

A girl told you what she wants,
you came here looking for us to give you tips on how to disregard what she wants, so that you can get what you selfishly want as if the relationship is only about you and what you want.


she is not emotionally ready, move on

why is it hard?

nairalanders always so angry and so jealous about how ladies live their lives.

why are you all always so bitter about ladies who have men who give them money? ?

the ladies aren't getting the money from you, the men who are giving them the money aren't complaining,

yet people who aren't in the situation are dying of anger and Jealousy.



you can't even praise this girl painting on her own, you're complaining about what you foolishly refer to as "small girls with big gods"

when will you all learn to mind your business and stop shaming people who don't have the same values as
you do?

Babyforever:
Can't stress myself like this......Don't she have a boyfriend ?

JeromeBlack:
You can't fight corruption.

You can't fight for human rights.

You can't fight against poverty

It is gays that you want to fight against.


Shithole Nigerian

don't mind him, out of all the problems we have in Nigeria, it's Gays that he wants Christians and Muslims to arise and fight against

Newboss:
See who is talking about brain.

Just read the kinda grammar you dey blow. "... beauty can KEEPS a man"
"... to settles"

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Movic1:
Men like me are more attracted to your Brain than your Boobs,ass whatever Even if you have full stop as breast i don't care... The brain of a woman matters most.. What's the use of big boobs without brain....


Modified

Can't stop laughing, more than 20 quotes and majority are calling me a liar The truth is that every man has a different background, different upbringing, different mode of behaviour and life itself is about choices. We all have Irresistible qualities we want in a woman, yours can be different from mine.. there are still men out there, who don't find big boobs or big ass attractive, we sometimes refuse to accept this fact... Don't live in the shadows of people's judgement. Make your own choices in the light of your own wisdom.

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milemimi93:
This is what most women don't know.

Your beauty can't keep a man. Beauty fades.

Your brain is what holds a man down.

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that's the problem with some of you, always trying to feel relevant by trying to insert yourselves into The life of women.

she is just thanking God for her body. yet you 2 came here to say be about what you consider attractive or not. or what can keep a man or not, who cares ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? who the fuxk cares!!!!! ?? ?? ??

did she tell you she wants you to be attracted to her? did she tell you she is interested in your attraction to her or your lack of it? did she tell you that she is looking for how to keep men?


boys like you cannot mind their business, always trying to jump into everything related to women and trying to insert yourselves into it.

nonsense.

Koolking:
You are asking too much bro. NYSC is not a stepping stone to privileges. If your request was tenable and do-able, no Corps member would ever be unemployed during and after national service.

Some people just walked into privileges while some work for privileges. Life is a risk, go out there and take it as a man. Don't wait to be shown life.

Peace!

he actually is not. those are basic questions to ask when going for Nysc, where to serve, accommodation and hope of being retained.

what's too much there and what privilege are you talking about?

if he doesn't ask these questions what will he ask?

I agree with him on this but I would love to see the views of those who are Christians and feminists here.

Would love to get your opinion.

People on Stella's blog are saying it is Tonto and not Time though.

baby124:
Young Nigerian men, shame on you. Especially the young ones crying of hunger and joblessness. See what your useless politicians are doing with your money. Old ones that are almost dead for that matter. The only power you have is [b]to beat women and insult women on NL[/b]. Or embarassing yourself all over the world doing yahoo and drugs. Don’t deal with those old patients in 2019. Some fools will even carry guns for them. Till you open you eyes small girls with big God’s will continue to win. If I see any of you insult her here eh?. Mtschew.

Congrats Toke

MrMcJay:
The lesson is that whatever you are doing, do it well. If you want to be a prostitute, do it well.

IntrovertedK:
Na wa ooo. Girls are enjoying ooo. Just meet the right big god and that's all. How i ended with that third leg is still a mystery.