₦airaland Forum

habeny:
Good afternoon, am a 26 years old lady and am getting married next month, but anytime I have an argument with my fiance he insults me,telling me am a fool, an idiot, etc, have tried to correct him several times but he doesn't see anything wrong with it, just this morning we had an argument and he started again calling me all sort of names. Am starting to get really scared, because if he's doing this when we are engaged what will he do to me when when we are married

Like they say, when someone shows you who they really are, believe them the first time.

succyreal:
Itid and mfed primary school eket

What? I lived there once but I don't recall ever hearing a name like that.

chantebas:
Well well,am 5ft 11 nd I wear heels up 6 inches high.....I ave neva felt disadvantaged by my height,infact I looooooove it,it makes me stand out,nd people dt meet me hardly forget me,for various reasons dough......its d guy's disadvantage if he can't handle it nd maybe he isn't jst into tall gals...that's his choice

Word??

temilolaoluwa:
The Lord appeared to julie meyer in a dream. A choir member of the International house of prayer, kansas city. He said to her '' i want you to meet my friends''. She jumped up, thinking she was going to meet isaiah, abraham or david. He took her hand, and flew up. She wasn't afraid. but before they got there, she started having pains all over her body, she felt as if her body was tearing that she began to cry. She thought He would notice her but no, He was set on where He was going. When they got there He said ''i want you to meet my friends''. He took her to three places. The first one was india where she saw a lot of children and women suffering. And Jesus was with them, even while dieing and going to eternity. He was there with them, not one is fogotten in His eyes. The second was an hospital where she saw children aborted. Some were dead, some alive, some injured. Even though they were silent, they have their father's ear and he hear their cries. And in all these, both the pain and sadness she felt made her cry the more. Then He said to her ''until your heart is torn and ripped just as your flesh is now, you don't know my friends, you don't know me''. When He said this she cried the more. He said to her again ''its time to dance'' and he began to dance and stomping his feet. It was so wonderful seeing His majesty dance. He was dancing on injustice. The third place was isreal where she the saw Lord opening the eyes of the heart of the rabbis. And immediately he did this, the men would shout ''Jesus is the messiah''. For more information visit www.elijahlist.com/words/display_word/5413 Julie meyer had her experiences with God. She learnt that no one is forgotten in God's eye's. Even though we forget Him, He never forgets us and he loved us equally and also those that do not believe his existence. And also when our is broken the most, that is the time to dance the most

Wow!!!! Great story. I have actually being to the international house of prayer before in Kansas city. It's a 24 hour worship and prayer room. They also host multiple conferences year long.

uyiekpen26:
Myself and this particular girl have been dating for quite sometime (let's say like 2yrs) now. This is someone I do everything for. I pay for the house she's currently living in, send her money for her upkeep, paid some of her fees in school and once in awhile take her on some of my trips within and outside the country.

I've noticed that most times when I call her in the evenings she's never with her phone and she doesn't even pick when I call. I thought maybe she's reading or something. So I don't usually bother to ask her. At some point I noticed some strange behaviors in her. This was someone who was never a club person and all of a sudden she started clubbing and smoking shisha. I confronted her and she said it was just once but I kept quiet. So I decided to do a little investigation without her notice. So I called her one day and a guy picked up and asked who I was. I ended the call and decided to pay her a surprise visit. As soon as I entered, I saw a guy on boxers and singlet sitting on her bed and as soon as she saw me she almost developed high BP. But I pretended like nothing was happening and told her I just came to check up on her.

I left her house that in anger. I went straight to the bank the following week I opened an account for her and closed the account. I stopped with immediate effect the visa processing I was doing in her name. Burnt all the clothes I bought for her from dubai recently and gave all the jewelries I bought for her too to one of my neighbors. I told the landlord to issue a quit notice to her in the house she currently stays. I'm supposed to be renewing the rent by October 17. I'm equally thinking of coming to remove everything in that same house by the weekend with some mobile policemen. As for the school fees she can forget about it. She will have to source for that herself. Just yesterday she and some of those her useless friends and family members have been disturbing my phone begging. Saying I'm taking things too far.

Bros, run for the hills. Runnnnnnn

Nnemuka:

I am reacting to the soot. Don't they have a Environmental Protection Agency over there?

Wow!!!

davibid:
For your information I'm not from his region



But only stating the fact

Then why are you supporting someone whose admonistration was so devastating to the country?

calberian:

What kind of useless meme is this? I pity the person that follows this advice.

Chibaba247:
All I see is still old faces ....how will this nation ever get rid of this old thieves?
Before u will know, u will hear that the aggrieved apc and pdp members have defected to the party.
This country need more than prayer, because we don pray tire

Then petition INEC to create a system that allows for independent candidates.

Intellad:
Direction less gov... so embarrassing and pathetic... the main focus should be the way about of our President and the way out of this mess called economy.... not this attention diverse .

I don't agree! You can walk and chew gum at the same time. Part of being an executive is being able to do multiple things at once. You have to put your team in the right place and tell them to do there job. In soccer, It's not the job of the manager to be tackling or scoring, it's his job to put his guys in the right place and STEP OUT of the way. That's how leadership should work.

How was she even able to come across this money sef?

barrybanbi:
EFCC... Wasting tax payers money, only knows how to win case with media, being flogged like small pikin all d time in the court room, ... Stupid agency

So they should just ignore it and look the other way?

davibid:
Witch hunting, that's what APC have been busy with ever since they assumed office


I don't even know what APC has turned EFCC & DSS into

Smh





If they like they should crucify all the cabinet members of GEJ, still we will love him more





#joblessAPC

Why won't you love him more when he is from your region?

She should freeze her eggs instead of looking for a baby daddy.

Evablizin:
Lols are you tired of being a slayqueen you now want to change your qualification to a slaymama,happy searching hahaha

Chei!!! See meme! Haha

capatainrambo:
I'm not a nigerian.

Then why are you on here wasting your time on this thread getting worked up about things that don't concern You?

ragiluhivo:
Sorry to burst your bom bom, I am my family are not in the zoo

Well you might not live there but your extended family does or at some point live there so you can't escape that fact.

OlanreJohnson:
Zoogeria wants to lick Chinese shiit at all cost just to get loans that they will siphon into politician's pockets and buy weapons from the Chinese. Nothing progressive! Useless contraption that can't fend for themselves and have an independent mind.

Yet some monkeys will be singing the worn out 'let us unite and move nigeria' lullaby.

So wait, if Nigeria is a zoo, doesn't that make you an animal?

ragiluhivo:
Get out of here. Nigeria is a zoo and if ever (God Forbid) Biafra those not come in my generation, Biafra is an ideology andl my kids would still know that Nigeria is a zoo.

So if Nigeria is a zoo what does that make you and your family who live there?

capatainrambo:
sorry forgot the zoo is even worse off compared to shit holes like afghan, Somalia and all


on a world scale you see where your beloved zoo is positioned?

So if N8geria is a "zoo" like you say, doesn't that make you an animal?

sharpshooter01:

Chei!!!! That picture ehn!

chiefolododo:
D

Hahahahahahahahagagag chai!! Nairalandes where ima dey get these memes sef? Habahahaga

Venica:
ok. is she not qualified to b your wife ?

She probably is. Cooking is not the only thing on the list but it is definitely one of the most important along with character, compatibility and temperament.

SAMBHOSS:
Izzit overrated??

And have you seen THE MUMMY

wah bouh Alien:Covenant....... No one seen this movie yet

I enjoyed Wonder Woman and hated The Mummy. I am yet to see Alien Convenant yet.

Venica:
moi you mean money , me or morning ?? which one dear

Me.

MrsAdadinmma:
Finally Exposed : How to make Nigerian men spend money on you without demanding for sex
Yes!
It's possible for a man to spend money on you without demanding for sex!


Disclaimer: Every man has a different mentality either because of his nature or nurture so there may be an exception to the rules am about to give you but relax this rules have worked over the years and will still work on mist men especially Nigeria men.
Ok girl, you are this babe that needs one or two things to do with money but you are not ready to trade sex for money, then this stuff is for you. Probably men always come to you, offer you lots and lots of goodies and ask for sex in return but you don't feel you should give in for some reasons best known to you, then you need to read this.

I love going straight to the point, the rules are just 3
1. Be Natural
2. Act Independent
3. Amuse him


Ok those three rules up there will not only get any man attracted to you but will also make him spend money on you without asking you for sex. If you offer sex to him he will count it as joy not as his right. Ok let me strip the content of each of this rule so you'd know how it works.


1. Be Natural
The natural is one who attracts people's admiration to themselves. When we see a child, we unconsciously like that child and feel at ease and at peace with the child because the child acts so natural. There is something about children that makes us put down our defence. We don't try to impress a child, we don't even expect anything from a child rather we feel happy helping a child and making a child happy.


Adopt the natural nature of a child and see men spend on you because of the likeness they have for you and not because they want to lure you into sex.


How do you do this? Act natural! Don't try to impress him, behave the way you'll behave in front of your females. Admire him with innocence, don't go throwing any pranks that he will misinterprete as a 'green light'. Laugh heartily and always appear happy, let your presence give him a sense of peace and happiness.

How do you achieve this? When he compliment you, don't sneer or pretend you did not hear him, don't blush also. Just simply thank him with honesty, this will make him realise that he's not the first person that is complementing you.



When he dresses nice compliment him and when you feel what he's putting on is not so great let him know, don't try to impress him! Tell him it doesn't fit him. Now you must know you have to do this with concern and honesty not arrogance, there should be a smile on your face when you let him know this don't go frowning like a bitch while talking to him, it will disgust him and he will tag you arrogant.



When you two are together and he hints things about sex using metaphors act like you don't know what that mean. Ok here is a great example that happened to me personally some years ago when I was trying to sexting a guy. We got chatting and I was chipping in some naughty words that hint on sex. I told him
"My pu*sy is damp" (yes! Am quite a naughty girl)
And he replied naturally
"Awww so you have a pussy cat and I never knew"
That line sounds so stupid but it worked on my being, The sexual appeal reduced. Why? He acted like he doesn't know what 'pu*sy' in my content means. He finally got me laughing and not feeling Hot with the way he chatted so naive and I swore I would have sex with him someday! And yeah! Don't ask me if I finally succeed.



Ok! Here is another example, he's chatting with you and he says
'My cock needs you'
You could just reply 'woow! What colour is your cock?'
He will probably reply 'Black' or 'brown' or whatever his cock is.
You simply reply him in a sarcastic way like
'I love the using cock feathers to tickle people's ear'



This sarcastic reply will make him believe you don't know what he actually meant. Such replies makes guys believe you are naive and not exposed to the world of sex. And most guys naturally don't like asking a girl who is naive for sex. You doubt? Then listen to Falz 'Soft work' where he say '...a girl that already knows the koko...' most guys wants sex with a girl that already knows the 'Koko'
NB: You must not dare to apply this rule to a man you want to have sexual encounters with because he would be shocked when you suddenly turn naughty. You can only switch over from being a natural to a naughty girl by letting him believe he is seducing you into a bad girl.



2. Act Independent
As I will always say, nothing turns a man on like an independent woman! He respects an independent woman so much even though he will never say it. Yeah! Men don't express emotions that much, but inside them, they acknowledge truth.



If you are independent and focus driven men will love to spend money on you without asking about sex because they'll feel you are just a unique lady and to win a place in your heart they'll want to invest in your dreams!
Am sure you have heard when some men say 'That girls is smart, I like her' they just like the girl and for that reason they always don't say no when she ask for assistance.



A man once told me 'You see that girl? I can send her money if she ask me for it but you see this one? Never!"
I was surprised and asked why and he says the former hardly ask for money while the later always demands for everything. Don't be a pest girl! A girl who asks for nothing gets everything.
Don't do mistakes other babes do! Get exceptional.

3. Amuse him
We all are freeks for amusement! Entertainment and pleasure! This is one secret the organisers of Big Brother Nigeria know about and utilized it fully! Don't you wonder why the have so much audience even when many people feel the show promotes immorality? This is because human beings love reckless entertainment! Get creative! Learn to amuse him!
Most girls make that mistake of only allowing the guy to amuse them or they get bored. No! Turn the table towards you! Make him love and appreciate your presence by entertaining him!
Do you have a good voice? Sing for him! Make him wonder how you do it!
Can you dance? Entertain him!!!
Play reckless games like 'Truth or dare' with him.
Give him gist that will make him get so interested in you and when you see he's beginning to fall, flee! Give him space and watch him chase you. Why will he chase you? Because you are so active and entertaining! Your presence makes him feel at peace! You are not like every other girls.
As he's chasing you to get back your attention he'll be spending on you unconsciously not to have sex with you but to have you back as his friend!
NB: These rules work like magic only if you adhere strictly to it and practice it!
You can always get a deeper analysis about men in my bestselling book for the Nigerian woman which many women possess but will never show you because they don't want you to know what they know.

Peace sister.

Why would you want a guy to spend on you in the first place? Is he your father?

Venica:
its possible with her using #800 worth of meat for all d soup n stew. anyway she de advertise herself. abeg who d find wife?

Moi

ADENIKETINA2015:
Haba bros! There's nothing wrong with the things I said. We just love to be pampered. That shouldn't be a problem for future boo

Pampered ke?? What am I, your father? You girls need to start learning how to distinguish between your father and your husband cos the earlier you understand this, the better. There is not too many guys out there who want to marry a diva.

Chubhie:
captplanet, come and see wife material!

Abi o!

DancingSkeleton:
FOLAKE GO WASTE MY 10K COOK SOUP NO TASTE

Flexygist:
Acclaimed virgin Nigerian singer, Adokiye has ousted a fan who slid into her DM to ask her for her most priced possession - Her virginity!The singer shared the chat online and said she isn't ready for sex until after marriage!


Source: http://www.flexygist.net/2017/06/14/my-body-is-the-temple-of-god-virgin-nigerian-singer-adokiye-declares/

What kind of so called virgin is this? If you truly believe that your body is truly the temple of God then why are dishonoring it like this?