₦airaland Forum

NgeneUkwenu:
As you can see, the next presidential election is just some few months away, and it is becoming clearer, that the incumbent president...Buhari is going to be re-elected unopposed, going by the inactivity on the part of the supposed opposition elements.

In any democratic settings, those who choose to vie for the highest offices, always show their hands early especially when you are contesting against an incumbent.
Take for example, as early as 2012, political watchers had already known, that Buhari was going to contest against Jonathan. Again Trump started campaigning for the office of the POTUS as soon as , Obama was sworn in for the Second Tenure, and so many other examples..

But back here, it seems Nigerians in Unison have decided, to back Buhari for the 2nd Term, in the interest of Justice, Stabillty and Fair play, aside the giant strides he has accomplished within 2 Years in office.
Please drop your picks with reasons..

INEC needs to make provisions for independent candidates.

They should get rid of the provision that requires a candidate to pay a fortune to run for the presidency.

Safiaa:
I know most men will be triggered by the title of this thread, without reading what i have to say. I really couldn't care less lol. This thread is directed to the ladies !!!


Now ladies, i'm not encouraging you to be lazy gold diggers with no ambition. I'm not encouraging you to use a man entirely for his money. Get your education, work hard and make something of yourself. Strive to be successful. HOWEVER....

Don't be lured into what we call 'ride or die'. A lot of men are deluded by their unrealistic dreams and goals, and believe they can sell you that dream. They'll tell you that they want to do this and that, but they never work towards achieving their goals. I call them empty vessels. Its really sad, because I've seen so many women waste their youth on men who sold them a dream, and end up suffering for the rest of their lives. There's a difference between a broke man with a vision, and a broke man with a fantasy. KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE TWO. This is not Bonnie and Clyde, this is the real world, and if you can clearly see that this man is destined to be broke, RUNN!

As a woman, you need to use your YOUTH and BEAUTY to attract the best man who is financially stable as possible. This is not gold digging this is being SMART. Think about your children, think about your future. You don't want to be in your 30's wishing that you spent your younger years with another man. Money is very IMPORTANT in a relationship, and you need to be with someone who will compliment your finances.

Stop making excuses for men, who clearly don't have plans. Stop trying to be the ride or die chick, because you will die in poverty. Yes, we know that women can be the breadwinners of the house, But i can assure you that most women want to be taken care of. If you want to struggle with him now, open your eyes and be sure that you will NOT struggle with him FOREVER.

LADIES BE SMART, YOU'RE ONLY YOUNG ONCE! USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE.

Yeah right! As if every situation is permanent. You forget that people's situations change and that you are not God to know how a man's life is going to play out.

It's this pathetic reasoning that causes ladies to end up with the wrong men because of money. This men cheat on them and brutalize them but because of money they stay with them. What else csn you expect when a marriage was built on sand? Absolutely pathetic.

We need to raise our young daughters to know there worth and that there love cannot be bought by a man with a big pocket. Also that a man's worth is not necessarily correlated with what he owns but what is inside-his character.

Lastly, ladies should go after guys who love and adore them not someone whose only narrow definition of love is only financial generosity and sex.

AbakalikiPress:
I am not that surprised really.
Even in my own state, among the Ezza and Izii people of Ebonyi, we still consume Human flesh, although it is very secret.
Only our neighbors from Cross River actually know about it..... The funny part is even that those who engage in it prefer to consume strangers or visitors lodging in Ebonyi.

Wait whaaaattttt?!?!?!

Divay22:
Stop wasting your time over those who hate you and talk bad about you..
If it won't matter this much to you in the next 5 years to come,it's definitely not worth wasting your time over..


Just here to see if i can still book space

One of the greatest quotes i have ever read is "someone's opinion of me is none of my business".

Yomieluv:
if a decent guy had toasted this slumbag,she would have rebuffed him,saying proudly"I have a guy.

I don't pity lady with animal brain.

am angry she didn't die,how I wish she did, so her life can be a lesson to other.

call me wicked,I don't care.

nonsense love.

Oh wait! So because a girl turned you down you are now lashing out at all females? Interesting.

So a woman should now agreed to date you even though she is in a relationship? See reasoning.

youngbelieve:
forget other stories man, I too have heard and also seen alot of situations. what am trying to say is dat based on logistics, this story doesn't make sense either its fake or it was over exaggerated

Like I said earlier, it might not make sense to you but that does not prevent it from happenning. The fact that you dont believe something doesnt mean it can't happen or didn't happen.

vanida6:
RIP!!


It my birthday friends

Really? You just had to make this all about you?

modelsms:
But why would she fly to Naija from the UK?

Cos it's not cheap to do surgery over there? Not everyone can afford that stuff man.

AuroraB:
Lillian don turn this guy to puppy
Ife love na eme

Translation please.

DjAndroid:
Everything Na photoshop to una. Even the house wey you dey live Na photoshop

Don't mind den jare.

Ginaz:
I'm not a yoruba but I love this guy. I and my family too.

You don't have to be from someone's tribe to love them.

youngbelieve:
lemme turn a blind eye to de insult up dere,,, ,,, I kw alot of women go through this buh this story jus doesn't add up, imagine a sane pesin would go through this maltreatment for good 6yrs!!!! and again if u read de story well u will come across de part she said she left de guy buh later came back after he called her to bail him out!!!?? does dat make any sense?? he didn't care to kw how u were doing those past months instead he was flexing with another babe and then the only time he called u was to bail him out. I mean jus looking at the actions of this lady it doesn't add up to someone dat was in her right mind or de story was made up

Dude, I have heard stories about women who have gone through similar things and it's not far fetched for the woman to go back and bail the man out. It might not make sense to you but it does happen. People dont don't always make rational decisions especially when they are emotional.

jayseehe:
ehm, if they are beautiful, why do they use Igbo and Yoruba girls as their state representatives for miss Nigeria pageant





*looks left, looks right... runs away from thread

I guess cos they are too conservative. Which Muslim will be comfortable walking around in a bikini for the whole world to see.

Nowenuse:
Is this real?

Dude, if you think this is real then i must be an African prince.

Don't believe everything you see on the internet.

myright:
can't believe my eyes

Lies!!!!!! That's a mosque. Gosh! The lies in this thread eh? Don't you people have any dignity?

Always trying to claim to be something you are not. You are not Jewish. Get it into your thick skulls. You are Africans! The earlier you wake up to this reality the better.

silvolexy:
I will just tell him to step down from power..

20 seconds ke? Haba!!! That's waaaay too small. I would prefer a day. I will like to be with him alone in a room and explain things to him properly and advise him on what to do cos it looks like the folks around him are either not giving him good advice or they are speaking over his head.

Jcolston89:
I've heard a few African Americans express to me that Africans have told them they aren't African and to not say they are even after taking a DNA test and finding their heritage. Why do you think this is?

I haven't had this experience and even though my family were born and raised here over the hundreds of years we have been here I just don't feel a connection to America and my household was very cultural based, though I never been to Africa my parents always had African paintings and artwork in the house and reminded us how special we were.

Rubbish!!!! Don't let anyone ever tell you what or what not to call yourself. The fact that someone who happens to be African can tell you what or what you can't be is absurd. Feel free to identify with whatever you want to be especially if it's your heritage.

Have a good day sir.

Vivipop:
What is that on her leg? Eewwwww!!!

I believe it's called a tattoo.

youngbelieve:
there re two things involved here!!
1) either de story is fake. or

2) the girl was under a spell.... dassol

Oh great! Another cynic.

Why is it hard for y'all to believe that stuff just happens? It doesn't have to be jazz or fake?

A lot of women who stay in abusive relationship stay because they have no where to run to. They have no other options. Or some of them simply stay because they don't think anyone out there is going to love them again. Look at this lady here, she had committed so many abortions for this dude and it looks like she had being lied to so many times and manipulated that she stayed stuck on the guy. This story might seem extraordinary to you but to some it might not be so far fetched after all.

klax:
Pls who is Ahmed Muse and Jamila Is that same guy that used to play for Nigeria that alway ran faster than ball in the field

Yoooooooo!!!! Savagery!!

youngbelieve:
sup guys! oya my story goes like this...few years back while I was still in sec school, there was this particular guy that always comes to my area and due to de fact i see him alot, I decided to greet him anytime I see him. One faithful day like dat, as I was passing I saw de guy looking so frustrated so I greeted him as usual nd was still going when he called out to me and began asking about one other dude lyk that who stays in the area seemed lyk dis dude owed him money. He then borrowed my fone to call de guy owing him because he wasn't picking his calls buh he still wasn't picking so he jus thanked me requested for my name,where I stayed and stuffs lyk dat adding that he was gonna come back de next day to check for de dude buh asked me to call him should incase I saw de guy.

That was how one thing led to another, we became friends then I noticed he started visiting frequently.. One very particular day as I was strolling back home after visiting a friend, na so I jus sight this guy oo he was climbing our stairs going to knock on my door na him I run sharp sharp call am because my parents were around (they are de strict types that don't fancy me keeping a male friend let alone allowing one to visit)..As he came down na so I ask am wetin happen wey him no fit call me instead he wan go knock for my house hmmm na so the guy tell me say he came to see my father regarding dat issue, chisos!!! de kind fear wey hold me ehhh......meanwhile my pple de issue this guy came to talk about was when he jokingly made a statement that he wants to marry me, me sef bin dey joke when I tell am say make him bring bride price come meet my father.

I never knew that he'd take it serious and its not like we were dating or anything ooo remember I said I was in sec school then buh I had this body that made me look bigger than my age and again the way I spoke and acted also contributed to making him think I was 20yrs and above,,,,,,,na so there and then I take clear the matter between the both of us, who this one wan give BP mtcheww from that day I jus reduce the way I talked and related with him b4 tomorrow him go go bring him village pple come meet my papa lolss

and to my fellow nairalanders dat was my experience ooo, hw about u share yours so that we can smile together.

Hahaha hillarious, lalasticlala front page please.

Horror Story. Kai!

Thank God she has left the mad man.

Bros, it's so horrifying to read that I dont even know what to believe. Wow!!!

Mjshexy:
A friend shared this story of a lady in an abusive relationship on Facebook, yes some ladies may be going through similar situation even in marriage but common this is just too much and i'm still in a state of imbroglio as to why any sane woman will remain in such nightmare and still claim to love the guy, kilode
Any man who wishes to show some strength should go do that in Sambisa and not on a lady naw, ladies be wise!

Wooooowwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!

Just when I think I have read it all. O ga o. We truly need to spread this messsage. This should be a public service announcement. I don't care how old it is it's relevant as there are many people going through similar things right now.

Dominique, lalasticlala, mynd44, seun. This is of extreme importance. This should be on the front page abeg. This could save someone's life. Please please please put this message on the front page and it should be the thread of the day meaning that it should be at the very top of the front page. Every other new thread that gets introduced to the front page should be placed under it and it should also be the number one thread at the romance section so as to be a cautionary tale to every one in an abusive relationship out there.This is extremely serious abeg.

CaroLyner:
guys declare love for her all the time
so because hes white makes it special?

I tire o. I love you is one of the most overused words by guys. They just throw the word love around almost meaninglessly. It doesn't mean squat but some people actually think it's a big deal.

BeeBeeOoh:
So after eating so many wedding jellof rice, semo & bitterleaf soup, small chops & the rest you want to have Simple and Straight To The Point Wedding?? Oga e no go work, kole work. We must eat your wedding rice




You can't cheat us lai lai

Bros, you could have included that orubebe meme: we will not take it. That would have been complete.

doctimonyeka:
No.. Not exactly..

Yep you are. It should I read your original comments back to you? You said
"
I wonder what might be his reason for dumping such a beauty.... Well, I wish him the best...
"

As if a beautiful woman is so different from the others that she can't have character flaws. Anyone who Is grown knows that lòoks dont tell you much about the character of a person. A woman could be super pretty and just be as flawed like every one around her.

bezimo:
There are many beautiful devils out there, beautiful in appearance but a disaster in character and behavior.How can you enjoy that kind of person, na quarrel every time.Thats why guys must not marry a girl based on beauty alone, it's a would be regrettable decision most often.

I heard live, a bitter complain from a guy who left his God ordained fiancee and married another woman based on beauty, the man don tire.If you see him bitterly complaining, you would pity him.That lady dealt with him, embarrassed him, scattered his life ,he was crying making the complain.I looked at his story, I watched his story and I received wisdom.

For real?

ChopBellefull:
Atimes some ladies can choose to act funny....
Derz ds babe hv known for close to 2 mnths we chat and had a snappy date once..
Only for me to see her in a bus two days ago.. And i was like "what's up babe, so u dey my back since nd u no holla me?"
D response she gave me shook my bladder and kidney..
She said " hello hv we met b4" I still think say na play o i kon say babe y u dey whine na.. D nxt tin b say Mr please u r disturbing me, i dont know you" pple for bus kon dey look me..
I was so embarrassed. Guys share yours too. I no sure say person own pass my own

Yaaaaaaaaay!!!!

Love it. It's hilarious. It's a Simple and funny concept.

Yaaaaaaay!!!! Does anyone have that gif of that guy answering the phone and collapsing? I thinks it's from irokotv

doctimonyeka:
I wonder what might be his reason for dumping such a beauty.... Well, I wish him the best...

You are putting way too much emphasis on outward beauty.