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Not a bad concept

Well, congrats to him

jeromestarks:
2023 is coming to an end. We don't know who and who will see 2024.

If my post, comment or reactions have offended you , please find a place in your heart to forgive me .

Let us be our brothers and sisters keeper.

nlfpmod , help me move this to front page. Grant me this one last request for the year 2023.

I have forgiven you

Shollyjay90:
Dear Applicant, this is to notify you that your CV has been reviewed by WOMAI. You are hereby invited for a job interview (written and Oral) scheduled for:
Date: 01-12-2023
Time: 9:00a.m
Venue: WOMAI building, Opposite Olowotinfowosannu shopping Complex, Iwo Road, Ibadan. Oyo State.
Kindly come along with photocopies of your Credentials, CV, and writing Materials.

Thanks.
Mgt.

p.s
kindly acknowledge a receipt of this invitation.

I know the owner of WOMAI, the building is opp Zenith bank, iwo-road.

All for his faith... That is his own version of GWR.

He did well

Nelsonprince1230:
I will run 1k YouTube subscribers for you for just 35k.

Yes,

35k naira only.

I'm doing this just because I love you ooo...

Send DM on WhatsApp 081-025-245-42 if your ready....

#osakwenelsonuchenna

payment before service or after service?

Trevor125:
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🥶🥶🥶🥶 i don't know who has cast a spell on me,i want help...say something please 😭😭😭😭😭

Join a compulsory savings scheme that deducts directly from your salary as it is paid.

UnproudLife:
So it happened that at this certain time, I was running a lucrative business that had so much cashflow., to the tune of about 2-4m monthly and I married my long-time girlfriend whom I disvirgined and had been dating for 7 years.

The moment we married and started the family journey, I tried making conversations about having a core family standard that would make harmony stand the test of time. Note that I am a man who is disciplined and goal-oriented. So first I approached my wife with a conversation on how to both make meaningful contributions in getting the family from point A to B at all times, to be more detailed, one of the conversations we had was about our finances because I also mentored her in the same business and she was raking in cash as well and was profitable.

I asked her that we make it a habit of both of us making contributions, having a certain joint account where we drop in cash from a certain amount we make sure we get paid monthly from our businesses. This was because while I was a reasonable spender who knows that if I go broke nobody got my back in the whole wide world. I'm the kinda person who when I spend, let's say for example, 200k just knows I'm worth times 30 of that but even with that I didn't have a concrete structure in business, I just spend money or do things as though my business was an extension of me, which the same was my wife's as well. And this was the reason I wanted us to make the conversation and also do things together. So I told her when we get paid monthly from our businesses we send a certain percentage of it to a joint account to run the family and if I was doing let's say 70k she should do like 30k because, with all honesty, I valued her business at if not half of mine or slightly above it was close at the time. And this was immediately we got married oh.

I was met with strong refusal, as she told me I married her and it was my duty to cater for everything, but as a patient person that I am in not making my judgement rashly I kept trying to convince her. I did till when it dawned on me that we was stern with her objection. And then this created in me a sense of deep selfishness from my wife and also note that I wasn't ever nosey about her income and even though I had a way to access her accounts to monitor Everything I wasn't interested and I was being the sole provider in the family while I watched my wife spend her money how she liked, making decisions that should involve me with her sister and calling some things to surprise me, and I don't mean it negatively.

It happened that i started a project in building a house 3years before we married which I'd credit to her sisters's advice and by the time we married we were already done with the roofing, remaining plastering and the rest. We were living at a very moderate house in town but had this project at a suburb in lagos which we all know that as a lagosian is still Lagos but only that the area would be less expensive. So at a time we were planning moving to a better apartment in town when her sister and her friend advised we pour money in completing our own place to move in. After much convincing I agreed and God blessed the most during this period in business so I had a dream house kind of finishing to the interior and we moved in.

During this time we were managing living at our business place because I was still accommodating her in my business space and we lived there and went home ones or twice in 2 weeks as it was easier with my driving. We then had a certain disagreement that made my wife without my agreement move her business and everything to that house and the area sighting her sister advicing it be done. I winked at it for peace to reign and because I wasn't a fool. Sorry without having to correct what I typed up there, this was the real account of what happened. When we had our first child she moved directly there and I went home weekends while running both businesses with me just directing her staffs and guiding them with discipline. We all know when you leave business for strangers it's OYO but all that doesn't mean I was also having access to her money, the money went to her while I managed the business.

This also was playing out while we dated and got married in how she never likes making any expenditure in even the cost of executing her jobs, and she would rather blackmail which I don't buy and because at those times I stick to mindset in business she'd rebel and take rash decision that would later backfire. So that was how she came one day and moved her everything to the area where we built saying her sister advised it.

I was a faithful man, a born again personality who ever since I gave my life to Christ about 5years to our marriage I stopped having fornication even with her or anyone and till that point in the marriage. So as she had moved, ye little things I knew in her business started diminishing while I was running the family financially. But this lady was always making me feel less than a man because she was so so not submissive even though I married her with the us being both core Christians and born again where she was even more fired up than me so we all knew submissiveness was the watchword but she wouldn't sub to it at this point and when I was home she'd make life miserable for me shouting in an area that the voice travels far, insult my life telling me that she regretted marrying me because I was a person who just wouldn't budge and I used to say I don't "think" as in the thinking that leads to depression and I guess this was why she wasn't having it. I always found ways to channel my thoughts to things positive that gets me going and even forgiving her on time while she sometimes take days to stop keeping malice.

This lady graduated to the aspect of telling me she stooped so low marrying me and I could go out and meet other ladies that she wouldn't even give a damn, and this went on for a long time. Without exaggeration, I myself was someone that in her words she feel for initially because of my looks although I was 5"7 and she like 5"6 in height which isn't that short for a man. I knew how young in thought and look I was when I start taking care of myself and dressing nice again and without a doubt an handsome man, so it got to a point I said to myself I've had enough. At this time I was already lusting at my spec in ladies out there in which I married her like but she refused to remain at. I brushed off and even while being in my early 30s I had several ladies saying I looked 23-26 in age and I started meeting ladies and having affairs with multiple through platforms and it was mind-blowing to me because they were telling me I looked better in person even though the profile pictures I had were compelling themselves. So I had several young ladies wishing we were dating for real but u didn't want that and wouldn't lie to get them laid with promises but the only lie I told was that I wasn't married neither with kids which some weren't even suspecting not to talk of asking such. But something was just not clicking with the way guys if this age behave when I relate with them and this is when we have more deeper relations and then they start sensing the nature of responsibility which makes them ask if I was married.

So at this point I said to myself, I was separated from my wife and I told her in several occasions because I wasn't going home as often as before she noticed all the changes in my looks but cared less. I was so far gone in having other ladies that I didn't even know what could ever make me wanna get back with her again. But in all these I was still a man who doesn't believe in divorce, which is what I always tell her made her misbehave. Then lemme note this. I was so far gone playing churchy Al these years I never knew the age had turned around and ladies were now so much for sale, I could remember hearing the word hookup for the first time 2 years ago when I had started contemplating cheating and I turned so many girls down on those platforms when I understood what hookup meant. I mostly kept them friends online for whining and all and I went off without meeting anyone until last year, that same last year by almost the middle of the year I had my first encounter with a lady who was almost begging I had s*X with her right in my car as the car was tinted at the back, and this was while being friends. I refused and explained I had never done it before. But a month later I started getting in the act until miraculously this year at mid year I had been longing for a change in lifestyle when I got the gift of repentance right in church and I just at this moment didn't care what my wife had ever done to me, I just forgave her in my heart, asked for forgiveness from God. Then it has been happening lately by then that she had been begging me and her sister was saying she in the person of my wife was already fed up and wanted to beg back in good terms with me but you know basking in the love of flesh I wasn't into it and knowing she was the kind that goes back to her vomit. But at this point I determined to make her come where I was and then we reconcile. But shortly after I did restitution with her and told her all I had done and what she made be go into but to my surprise she was so disappointed crying and telling me all sorts which was surprising to me because I expected this woman should have already seen the writing on the wall because I don't know how to pretend at all but she said she never suspected that she knew I was a Christian. Although I played a clean game but was was obvious was the fact that I changed in looks and all and shouldn't that be glaring. And now she only sober occasionally when the thoughts kicks in

My main problem now is that, while my first child is a copy of me, I started seeing the looks of my sister in law's last born in my last kid, which my mum has vaguely noted and I seconded. We can't even nurture the thought as we just said it. But personally each day I now stay with the kid I keep looking the semblance and thinking what if my bro in law which is my sister in law's hobby fathered this child. You see that would have out the child conception at about 3 months before I ever started having affairs outside marriage. I just wish to know what you guys think because I haven't even been able to ask any question relating to that as my wife just seem to off to ever fall into such.

Please ignore any typo as it was long and I'm trying to get by with a new course and it'll be hard to go through what I've written again. Pardon me

To clear your doubts, do a DNA test secretely

Emma513:
I AM A STUDENT NEEDED TO LEARN DIGITAL SKILLS, LIKE PROGRAMMING, DATA ANALYSIS, ETC OR LEARN MINI EXPORTATION. LASTLY, REAL ESTATE WHICH SHOULD I GO FOR.

learn programming and data analysis. Then, visit upwork to start your freelancing journey

Sad and disheartening

MisterBash:
Good day my people
I need your view on these phones nairalander
Samsung S6 edge
Samsung A6
Samsung A20 and A30
If you have any of these phones for sale UK used only , please quote me with pictures and price , and if you have reasons why I shouldn't go for any of these ,please I'll appreciate your contributions, lastly who knows how authentic and sincere lugas phones in Ikeja and Ajah is, I spoke with him yesterday and the guys seems to have clean phones with very cheap price ?
If you have any good and affordales Samsung for sale, quote with pictures and price Lagos only .

Samsung S6 is outdated

HanisahZuwy:
Please nairalanders, patronize my younger sister. She has business with Monie Point. She's into the business of selling/registration of Monie Point POS machines. She sells the machines and also registers accounts. In case you or someone you know wants to have a Monie Point POS machine (s), or register/have an account with Monie Point, she can do that for you.

Please, I would appreciate if you can patronize her and also recommend her to people you know who might need these services.


Her location is Abuja, FCT. But, the machine can be sent to you anywhere you are, as soon the necessary registrations are done.

She also has a pickup point in Anambra state, for those in the Eastern part of the country.

For more enquiries, you can quote me.


Thanks!

May God bless her hustle... How much is the POS?

Eeeya... I hope he keeps to his promise

FreshGuy2:
Good day my people , please I'm considering moving all my funds from Nigerian local bank to binance Usdt. With the way naira is just loosing value this thought has been on my mind for some time now...

Please I hope I'm not making a mistake

You're not making a mistake... Just know that market speculation is a gamble.
Ensure you keep abreast with the news

MaztarKool:
There is someone you really like and want to establish a serious relationship with. You both have started getting along slowly but not yet officially dating.

So it's the person's birthday and you decided to surprise the person with a little token to celebrate. Your plan was to send 20k just for the person to hangout with few friends to celebrate the birthday and you already told the person you will be sending a little token for this purpose. But due to some carelessness you sent 200k instead of 20k and the person calls you to really appreciate the money you sent.

If it were you, will you tell the person to send you back 180k as you only intended to give 20k as a little token gift for the birthday.

A single zero makes a lot of difference in the world of money. I would ask for the refund.

Proud daddy!!!

He saved a lot of lives... kudos to him

guobe:
I was in the traditional marriage ceremony of my colleague in the office today,and when I was there with my other office colleagues,the bride whose traditional wedding rite was just concluded walked up to me and whispered that I was actually the reason the marriage was holding .
I has to do a flashback and remembered that when she was a youth corper in my place of work,I
Jokingly took her hands and introduced her to all my male colleagues in the office telling them that she is a nice person and that they exchange contacts with her.
One of my sharp colleagues I introduced to her will be getting married to her.
May the good Lord bless their union in Jesus name.

May others announce your own source of happiness as well. Amen

Edo will surely top the list any time and any day!!!
Those people can travel out no be small

Letitshine:
Good afternoon sir/Ma
The most painful thing happened to me in January, I lost my baby, I believed a ex friend of my put abortion pills in my food or drink but I really don't have proof, so I just kept quite and continue life.
Since I lost the baby, my period have been so light that i use one pad a whole day and it still won't be full, I no longer ovulate as well.
I did scan and it confirmed my womb and eggs are okay and there is nothing in my womb, I also drink antibiotics to get rid of any infection, I don't have any STD. Please help me

All will balance out soon

somethinghot:
I'm handsome..smart and intelligent..educated..good in za oda room..kind..gentle..cool...No Cash...I will marry any lady that gets me a good job ASAP..

Let me offer you a little job. WORK hard at it and I promise you that you'll be able to get married on your own terms in no time.

Foodhub2023:
Please house what can i be doing (business) with 30k capital to be saving 1k daily.... Pls help this family man as demand waht to kill me. Anything legit.......

1k daily on 30k seems quite impossible as that will translate to 100% monthly.

Saudi on the beat

peretei2024:
My fellow Nairalanders,

Please help me look into this before I swing into action so people will not say am a bad man.

Yesterday being Sunday, I decided to use my car on Uber so to make extra income. There is this lady I picked( 1:13pm) from Egbeda to Command road and the fare happens to be #4,500.

Actually when we got to her final destination, it was her boyfriend who came out to do the transfer, and he show me the receipt of the transfer but I never got the money, so immediately I throw his attention that I didn't receive the money because the account I actually gave him was Opay, and Opay doesn't waste time to receive money . So the guy told me he doesn't have any money again that the only money he had was what they removed from his account. So I should wait till 6pm if I didn't get the money then I should let him know, and at that moment I don't have any fuel to move around again but because I don't want to look wicked, so I decided to give him that respect.

Around 6pm, I chatted the guy and he said how come I have not gotten the money. So he said he call his bank and get bank to me, at that moment I was already hot big time. So he didn't get bank to me, I had to chat him again after 10mins. He then replied that the bank said they will reverse back the money to his account after 24hrs that I should wait because he doesn't have 1kobo on him. At that point I knew these people are looking for my trouble. I actually have the link to arrest them without going to his house. I have link to the Commissioner of Police Lagos State, I only pity them because they will parade them as scammers and it going to be a big case.

At about 8pm last night( yesterday..12th November, 2023) , this same guy who claims he doesn't have 1kobo in his account, placed a request on the app to get a driver, I immediately screenshot it from the app and share with them only the lady to reply me that Im harassing her with my messages. She said the guy is going to bank this morning and once the bank confirm that the money hasn't left the bank that they will resend the money back to me. She even called me a thief by saying"" who knows if the money is not with me sef ""

Please guys advice me, should I get them arrested? Am trying to take this seriously so this Country will be a safe place for everyone

Please I need a matured advice.

Give them the much needed 24hrs... If they're still messing up, take it up!

Man was just been repetitive

kestolove95:
Na everyday them dey withdraw

My thoughts exactly

sheldonbbt:
As a married man, what do you do when you realize your wife is self centered? Marriage is just a year old.

She is quick to question when I need to send money to my family. I transfer 40% of my monthly salary to her for savings as I am not so good with money, but when it comes to her family, she is very swift.

I intend to stop giving her the savings.

Your marriage is still young. Sit her down and discuss the issue

Happy birthday to him...

VerifiedGrace:
Hello house, thanks to everyone that contributed to my recent post about choosing between 20 tons gas plant or agricultural business. I have decided to go with farming to add more value to our country and give back to the community. I’m in the middle of negotiation to buy 50 acres of farm land in Ogun state for green house organic crop farming , goat, cattle and snail farming. But the issue I’m having right now is that living here in Lekki Lagos and going to my farm can be a bit stressful, so I decided to buy one plot of land in owode egba which is closer to the farm land. Now I’m thinking of a simple container house since I will only be staying there anytime I visit the farm, but someone is advising me to build a 2 bedrooms which I don’t think it is necessary. The container and the interior fixtures cost 7m which is slightly negotiable , attach is the pictures of the container tiny home. I will appreciate if anyone can advise me on which one to go for. Thanks in advance

I prefer the container house cos it is movable just in case you change your mind in the future.

I just hope they will not move you with your container one day while asleep.