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dawn21: he says he has alread paid 150,000 naira towards his visa but is now asking me to give him £600 towards the rest of it n will pay me back when he gets a job.....thats wot is worrying me....if he wants to come over to b with me then he should find the money to do it .....

A wise woman learns from other peoples experiences.

druid06: OP, do not adhere to the negative advices some spectators are giving you on here. I best say you should follow your heart. There's no gain without risk and if the dude is trying to use you to get a green card or something, there's no biggie. It's like you're helping out a fellow brother. Have fun while it last but do not forget to consider the other part that the dude in particular might be seriously in love with you and he wants to be with you and can't wait for you guys to spend the rest of your lives together.

The Brother you mentioned in your post can come out clean and ask for help rather than use the sharp guy means.
That would be deceit and raising her hopes to her detriment.

baibijay: so he cant be in love or what?
how can you be so sure?
abeg no spoil the brother garri wif you sand.

Love ke!
na today we begin hear love? This is sure cracking me up.

991: Hahahahaha! U sound like am chasing ur god with a marchet..
I am protected by the aura of Lord Enki.

Who cares
Eknki or whatever
Do your thing and leave God outta whatever business you chosed to indulge in.


i'm sensing this is a cry for help anywayz.

ChEkWaS IyKe :
A frnd n also a bed mate to my GF wants me to dis-virgin her today pls advice!

what advice do you need?you know what is right,yes you,hmmm you know.do the right thing

991: what more can he do than watching watching watching and hiding, unable to stop earthquakes, tsunami, flood, etc.. yet when ordinary humans do a great job his worshipers will start praising him.

Oga please go and sort your issues out(whatever it is that is eating you up) and leave God out of it.

LadyCCP: 194 views yet only one contributor. Na wah ooooo!!!!!.

You are a very funny person,seriously.
You never stop cracking me up.
Just cool down, the masters will soon arrive. You will get good contributions from them.




im sure loving this woman!

(@ least i've posted something)

dominique: Methinks our op married one of my former roomies back in uni. That gal's has got to be the laziest filthiest person I've ever seen. She never seems to know how to do anything. Few times she cooks (indomie), she burns it then soaks the pot for days! (Stinking up the whole room in process, we got into a heated quarrel over this). I've not seen much of her since we parted but I learnt she's married now (maybe to our Ekenedilickukwu ). First thing that came to my mind when I heard was, the husband don enter one chance o .

You made me LOL

alutacontinua: Why did she remain a virgin till 29?
That's the first question to ask...for some people, they keep it for religious purposes, personal moral values, family values etc. Some people have been made to believe that S*EX is sin. If she kept it till 29 for good reasons, she wouldn't let you tamper with it till after marriage. So, it's either she doesn't want to let it go yet and you're just forcing her or there's a bigger reason why she kept it till that age. You get my drift

My thought exactly.
A case of some1 making you do what you dont wanna do.There is really nothing wrong with her except that you've made her do what she didn't intend doing.

fedico21: [/b]
cramming maybe the only way out, especially when u have just a few months to learn and know it all. MD2 is already messing with my head. Neuroanatomy pathways are so scary. I Left the class today, I tink i will do better with Pharm. How did u study neuro? any easy way?

Neuroanatomy hmm...the same happened to me the first day i tried studying Neuro on my on,nothing made sense.i had to stop and go to bed cos i felt so miserable.
Doctor Najeeb lectures did the trick for me.made it so easy to understand,i mean very very easy.

i suggest you try it,then study your text afterwards.It will flow wella

labodinho: Wadup miss,aw'r u doin? It been a y tho,tanx for dat help.I went on wif majority wich u'r included too.Hw's tinz over there n hope no stress?

I'm doing good, thank You.
There will always be stress but we create ways to manage things.
Thanks to the medics on here who contributed to helping you make a decision, i hope it turns out well.

I wish you the best in your endeavours.

buzyguy: Thks ma,am gr8tful

You are welcome Sir,it's my pleasure.

Obinnau nominated.[b][/b]
www.nairaland.com/obinnau

buzyguy: Pls gr8t docs help me,i dnt anymor av the incentiv to writ oau putme due to mass pass in cbt it slims my chnce.i really want to chang my institutn,pls is uniuyo ok and recognised 4medical programme like mbbs?thks in advnce!

Answer to your last question-UNIUYO is recognized for MBBS

I go with Biochemistry.
I don't advice people to opt for basic medical sciences like Anatomy and Physiology,you gain a great deal of knowledge about the structure and function of the Human body but their markettability isn't encouraging especially in Nigeria.Some of them Anatomy graduates compete for slots for bank jobs these days.




My opinion though!

chidyhels: ^^and since it has happened y watch it?

Because you need an evidence. just to prove what you think.

sigolisis: Hi great Docs,
Pls why are we creating threads inside thread now?Ask your question openly and let others benefit from the advises or have you forgotten that open suggestions and advises given in the past have answered similar problems and prevented such questions from being repeated. Also, I read through D_BestDoc's experience and I was moved, I even commented on it, but I noticed that people don't want to ask any question openly again, everybody now exchange email, fb addresses for private consultation. I believe D_BestDoc experience but if care is not taken some people can formulate stories in order to get connections and attention. It is good we connect people with similar minds
and same goals but we must still keep this thread alive and relevant
Just an observation, subject to correction anyway. Thanks Docs

Noted!

Peach45: After I broke up wit my guy late last year,some of U̶̲̥̅̊ may ve read d story here on nairaland.started goin wit a guy february dis year.so d guy told me dat if I shud get pregnant dat he want me 2 kip d baby dat he is old enuf 2 ve a child cos he is 32yrs.so recently I told him ve nt seen my menses which is a lie,n he ask me 2 a pregnant test 1st 2 knw if its true n am plannin 2 lie dat its positive.wat wil b his reaction if he found out dat am liein.wil he eva 4give n trust me again.pls ur candid advice

What sort of games are you guys playing

If He is old enough to have a baby,then he should get himself a wife,
and why the hell are you risking your life?You've got a future babe! un rotected sex is a risk(a huge one that could cost you alot)

I dont understand what your question is and what advice you need

labodinho: Tanx Miss,yur story is much more encouraging.Sometimes when you think bout situation of things in this country of our's,yu will jst QUIT.For a lady to keep trying for a whole 8 years is a great challenge for guyz... Here is mine labodihoo at gmail dot com.God bless you and all on this thread.Amen.

God Bless Us All

Lagusta: i read everything about you, and i am quite speechless.....

i even thought i have gone though alot, not knowing i am still a learner!!!!!

please keep it up, we need more female docs like u

Thanks Boss

sagaciousblog: mine is sagacious18@gmail.com

Sent

Chelcy10: almost crying, tnx 4 dis counceling

haha! You're welcome.
Pathetic right?
You could imagine how much i cried ,how helpless i felt,how miserable my family especially my parents felt,how much i prayed and fasted and i stopped travelling to my village.lol
How people mocked and told me to stop being UNREALISTIC .

God sees every tears and struggles and Hardwork, He always rewards them with what He knows is better at the appropriate time,and things will almost always work together for good.




Those years of tears are gone Btw[size=8pt][/size]

Chelcy10: charlings9@gmail.com
or facebook.com/udehwing
tnx

i Sent you an E-mail

Prince adebayo: www.doalabi99@yahoo.com

I sent you an email

Gleefreak125: U're indeed inspirin ma'am. U story is enof motivation 4 any1 who's got big dreams 2. Its 1daful meetin folks lyk u whose story can challenge jst any1 who seems 2 av lost hope. I luv bein a doctor. I've wanted dis since childhood,I've bin tryin my best since I left HS, mayb it aint jst gud enof or I jst av bin simply unlucky. I'd luv 2 tell u more of my story n wuld luv 2 hear urs 2. I'm sori, Pls can I av ur contact(2go, fb) 2ru my inbox here in nairaland or u can post it here if u want 2 so we can discuss beta. Thank u so much ma'am.

You're welcome.
I've posted a part of my experience.

buzyguy: U really inspired me doc,av bn thnkn am d best loser cuz this is my 8th yr aspiring 4medcine and i pray i am in this yr inspite of my low jamb score.thks!

One thing is Nigeria has a way of killing people's dreams(no offense meant).
The corruption there is something that knocks me off each time i think towards that direction.

Or how would you explain a situation where Medical aspirant A who scored 296 in PUME not gaining admission and Aspirant B with a score of 242 or there about gaining admission to study in the same med university(federal).both chosed as first choice and same catchment area

Or how do we explain another scenerio where only abou less than 70 medical aspirants scored between 240 and 320 and at the end of the day the published list showed about 250 admitted candidates with the name of an aspirant with score 280 missing.Where the hell did they manufacture the other names from.Its a case of giving preference to people who do not really deserve it.

Or getting 86% and being refused admission just because you are not an indigene

Or again the case studying very hard for jamb and finally get your result cancelled

or the case of applying for a Pre-degree programme and finding your name not shortlisted for the programme after meeting the criteria for enrollement.

The list goes on and on.Yet this was an experience of an intelligent and above average student.

Just believe in your dreams and do things better each time.
In my case i couldn't c myself doing anything else except what im doing now.The thought of Medicine alone gave me Joy and Strengthened me,though my friends had all gotten to the University,they all thought i was chasing after the wind.

But my family never losed Faith and confidence in me, they saw what others couldnt see in me(they saw me as Doctor even before i went to Med. Sch).Medical knowledge was kinda innate in me,read a lot of medical texbooks and was well informed on medical stuffs while still at home.Would always start up a conversation on a medical topic with my elder Bros who is a Haematologist,i could discuss with him like i had been to a medical school.Movies that interested me the most were films like Grays Anatomy.
Medicine was like life to me,couldn't figure out what else i will do better and excel in.Despite the failures and disappointment, i knew that what would be would be.If what my GUTS and instincts made me believe are right,then it will surely be.

Then i had to let God's WILL be done,cos i suddenly discovered that the problem wasnt ME,rather, the way the country is being run or something else i couldnt control.

JUST at the right time,though years had slipped,i got more than i asked for.....better.....and still hoping for the best...
Come to think of it,how come i'm toping my class here(people from different background,continents and countries)?someone that couldn't succeed in something as common as securing a sit in a Nigerian med. School.
Was it my Problem? or was it Nigeria? or was it a predestined plan that i needed the experience and an international studying exposure or something else i do not know about?.In all I give GOD THANKS.....

This is for persons going through what i went through,you might just as well try again and do better than you did previously.... you never can tell what God has i store for you.
The end Justifies the means.But if your PASSION can't drive you enough,then try something else which might turn out to be your original calling(you may end up finding success and Happiness in it).

sagaciousblog: inspiring!!! plz can i add u on fb?

Sure!leave your email address so i can send you my fb contact

labodinho: you chose that due to the country or ..?

Nah,not country.

Generally(my opinion again)

labodinho: Helo Ma great Doctors,been a y ve been here.UTME downgraded me buh ve gat no choice dan to change cos.Plz,i need info and the possibility of securing a good job on these courses....Physiology and pharmacology...To be honest,i dnt like pharmacology..Plz i need yur help Dr.I'm a Unilag aspirant if ders any Dr frm der too,i'll need yur contribution.Tanx

Pharmacology is better(my opinion though)

Gleefreak125: Is all hope lost? Has my medical dreams been dashed? I scored 210 in jamb 4 medicine in Unilorin & UI. Shuld I jst get d Change of course form n wat courses can I change 2? I'M FED UP

Sorry Bro, but that is not the spirit of a good Doctor.I rarely reply to posts except the ones that catch my attention.If truly you want to be a Med. Doctor and you are convinced right in your heart that thats what you would do best,why dont you put up a little determination?i call it stikability(which you need even when you eventually get to medical school)thats the spirit that keeps you going when you have labs 5 times a week and classes inbetween,plus voluminous books to cover.the spirit that keeps you for 5-6yrs in med. sch.Dont allow Situations in Nigeria to ruin your Drea.ms Dont quit just yet if medicine is really what you desire,dont accept what life throws at you.Search yourself to know how you can do things better next time and 210 isnt really bad provided you have the chance to prove yourself and do better in the PUTME.
How many times Have you tried BTW?


I spent 8yrs after high school before i got into Med.School.I couldnt think of anything else but Medicine,so it depends on your passion and driving force.My experience really might not hold true for everyone anyways!