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Baby mama: I don't care what she does,the man is calling her parents to report her and badmouth her to his people
If he can't handle whatever the problem may be between them then he is not mature enough for marriage
Period

Baby i'm not saying it's right for the guy to report Op to her parents or whatever he does, what i'm saying is the lady in question shouldn't trigger issues and expect a pat on the back. Why is she always giving him things to report her for?

Im not trying to be the judge here but one sure thing is that if the guy in question comes on here to tell us what the op does, im sure we will aslo ask him to run from the lady without looking back.
Op knows herself and her relationship better than we do.

We are asking the Op to run fast, have we asked the Op her roles in all the drama?
If she is the one that triggers the reactions (i'm not in any way applauding the guy's immaturity)then i'm sorry running won't solve the issue 'cause the next relationship won't be a smooth sail either.

Op please give us a scenerio here, does he get angry over petty issues? and what do you consider petty?
You guys should stop getting on each others nerves and try to be adults. We can only give our opinions but the decision is yours,choose wisely.

Every relationship comes with it's own challenges, but if you can't cope with those traits after marriage then it's the best time to quit.

Calm down and think things over, please don't act while angry. Take your time and make your decision wisely to avoid future regrets





My opinion

heavy g: She turns thirty this year. So you lot wouldn't mind her being single, huh? To prove what point exactly?

I have tried apologizing. Moreover, this happened nearly three years ago. No need trying to bite off my head.

She has been found by a better man. She is 30 and so what?.
Only wise people know that it is more important staying married than getting married.

nairaman66: Cut the goose chase! you already answered yourself young man! However, let me give you a clue- I believe you are still under the supervision of your parents! Get a handwork, make money and see if this defiant girl wont come back speeding to you!

And what makes you think she isn't making her own money? Gone are the days when women were viewed as liabilities.

@Op, u had the chance and you lost it. Move on with your life and let her be, perhaps she has someone else already.

Excessive dehydration.


May her soul rest in peace. I pray God grants her family especially her parents the strength to bear the loss.

This reminds me of God's grace upon me, even in my filthiness.
Life is a gift we must appreciate every single moment we have.

m.esther96:
hello auz
ive bin down wt serious ear pain
n now my ear is bleeding (blood)
i pray i dnt lose my ear coz i cnt evn hear properly now,cnt recieve calls

So sorry about this, try as much as you can to get medical attention.You'll be fine.

Please get well soon!

labodinho: Oh Dear,i've missed alot o..*Muah*

Da Boss,how is it going?

I've missed too

Chillisauce: OP, tell your friend to get her a ss up and be useful for once to the society.

As a runs girl, I'm sure she still has money, let her go and adopt. There are many children wandering around for someone to love and care for them. As much as getting a job/business to keep her going.

She should send a copy of her divorce letter to her eloped husband and focus on putting her life together.

Not everyone will be married
Not everyone will remain married
Not everyone will have kids
Not everyone will age.




That's life, make use of your condition and find happiness in it.

Thank You for this comment.
It's not the end of the road for her,she made the mistake already. She should just learn from it and get a life.

wwwkaycom:
Bilateral tubal blockage/linear damage, are we saying its the end of the road for this woman? Isn't there medical solution to this? Just asking.....

It means her two fallopian tubes are blocked and the sperms cannot have access to the ova naturally.
It's a serious case but not the end of the road for her 'cause ICSI(IVF) can help.


The problem i have with peeps is that they hardly think before taking actions, she didn't think she might need a healthy uterus sometime in future.
If her husband can forgive her,they can actually work together to have a plan B.

She's not worse,i know someone who had 15 abortions ,i'm not exaggerating...lets assume the 1st was a mistake,then 2nd,3rd,4th........and counting.I really don't know if a special clearance is needed before buying a condom.(people still make the same mistakes over and over)

Definitive: As a way of introduction, I'm a medical doctor. I'm gainfully employed. I live and work in the largest city in West Africa.

I'm a practising christian and of the Roman Catholic extraction. Honestly, speaking very modestly, I'm averagely good looking - if not very handsome. I'm adroit at my professional responsibility and communicate pretty well in English language.

Ordinarily, I have no problems. But that's where the problem indeed is: I seem to have huge problems getting a good woman to settle down with.

Now I'm almost losing my mind. Women often complain that men are fake, are smokers, womanisers and all of that. Now here is one who doesn't drink, smoke, womanise or party. I can't even dance to modern nigerian hip-hop. I get on well with the old school music however. That'a where the issue is: I seem to be too definitive, too God-conscious, too Catholic or too 'rigid' to whatever is right and appropriate in the sight of both God and man.

I would love to meet a woman who has my orientation about life - as I'm nearly 30 and haven't simply met a Catholic lady or willing-to-be-Catholic lady who is willing to keep a sex-free definitive relationship which would lead to marriage. Often times, when I get to meet a lady who can speak and present herself in the society as good as I do, they come as proud, unchristian or warped mentalities. On the rare occasion when I thought I had met the woman I so badly prayed for, we couldn't work out because she was rigidly stuck to her pentecostal faith.

So I have come to appeal to all of you: Nairaland please help.

I'm in need of a beautiful lady for marriage. I'll prefer a hardworking professional with global horizon who can communicate in impeccable English and who is a Roman Catholic or is willing to become one before marriage.

I can be reached by replies here or by texts to 08036698683. My whatsapp # is 08156133790.

I'm genuine. I'm optimistic that there is a lady out there who shares my orientation.

This is one of the reasons i can't have anything serious with a Doctor, i would rather end up with a carpenter on the street. The bolded parts of your post reveals a lot about you and alota male Doctors in Nigeria(80% of them) have such annoying mentality.

You said/think you don't have any problems(from your post).You are barely 30,yet you've dated close to EIGHT persons(from your post),What does that tell you of yourself?

Seriously, HUMILITY is a VIRTUE.

Things can only become better the moment you stop seeing yourself as Mr. Impeccable. Do an inward search and discover the problem, i still believe most women can give up anything to be with a good man,your case is not as extreme as a Muslim wanting a Christian,it's still within the christiandom and changing from whichever denomination to another shouldnt have been too difficult a task for those your 7 exes. I still think you have serious attitude issues(i'm sorry if i come across as judgemental).Stop expecting everybody to be smart just because you are and stop seeing yourself as a saint better than everyone else because you are certainly not. People are different and will always be different.

If you couldn't make something out of your relationships so far, there is no guarantee that the next woman you meet online is gonna be better.

Ikemsinachi: Plz docs help us with dis qustion; Are platelets NOT cell? Give reason for ur answer!

omg! i never thought of this but i know they are cell fragments 'cause they are formed when some parts of megakaryocytes are pinched off(megakaryocytes are large bone marrow cells). Are they cells or not? no conclusion yet. .
124 pages already? i must have missed a lot. Its good the thread is still kicking and still on the first page.

Thanks to all the peeps who contributed in preventing this THREAD from undergoing Rigor Mortis by supplying sufficient ATP,you are all sweethearts


To all my ogas at the top,im still loyal oo.

Fadelex: I'm not tryin to form patriot here....btw, y would u wanna impose you mental picture of Nigeria on me?? na by force? the fact that you didn't make it in Nigeria doesn't mean nobody would... as I said earlier, unless you are pushing drugs over there, or doin yahoo plus, or tryin ajudua style you can never be beta than most focused guys here.... things might not be rosy for now but I'm sure d future is bright..keep deluding yourself, if u like come pack your entire village go US, e no concern me...

Good for you then,but the fact that you think every Nigerian living abroad is into shady deals is so pathetic and myopic.
I'm not trying to impose my opinion on you,i quoted your post because you called someone else an iddiat just because you didnt like his comment and the mod. became stupppid for hiding your post.

Living in self delusion is not my thing,i'm real and true to myself.
whatever you choose is good for you, but please let people have the freedom to express themselves without calling them names,
that shows maturity and civility.

Good Luck!

Fadelex: so because I asked one idio1t calling Nigeria "hell" to shut his soak-away, the stewpid moderator hid my post...
so dat baastarrd moderator sees nothing wrong in calling Nigeria "hell" but d bootlicker feels it's wrong to caution a slave? hide dis one too.. I no send.... mschew

Nigeria is HELL. Yes i said it and i will say it again.
Nigeria is HELL. Maybe you've never left that hell 'cause if you have, i'm sure you would understand the point people are trying to make.
Nothing works there just as nothing works in hell .I hate hypocrites trying to appear as patriots


Things should be better than they are period.(maybe you should ask any Nigerian Student around you what (s)he thinks,i guess we can start from there).

alutacontinua: My boss, how are things on your side?

Guys, it's time to start preparing for USMLE oo....i gotta write that exam next year by his grace!
i am scarrreeeeeeddddddddd............don't even know where to start from!
Sooooooooooo many things in my head.....should I start with the organ-system approach or subject approach? Should I just start with videos or textbooks? Should i buy hard copy textbooks or keep using my soft copies? I don't even know where to start from...there are just soooooooooooooooooooooo many things to read and I cannot afford to fail or 'just pass'...I gotta pass well! Somebody should please tell me it would be fine! pleeeeaaaassssseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its gonna be fine.
I suggest you start with the videos,then the textbooks(helps you understand and comprehend faster and saves lota time trying to figure things out too).After that,you can test yourself with the question bank so as to discover your weaknesses(brush them up) and your strengths.
Just do the best you can,you gonna be just fine.I believe you will share your success with us soon.

Will thread this path next yr.God willing.

All the best.

Goalllllll! Emenike has done it

CFCfan: The match will be streamed on youtube. Type in 'Nigeria - Malawi | CAF African Qualifiers 2014 | 07.09.2013'

Thank You

Pls how can i watch the match online?

ifyalways: While offering prayers and all what not,can the OP please shed more light as to how the girl disappeared?
Where,which part of the camp was she seen last and when? I was at that camp to see my mom and the crowd is frightening. There is a small village/locality beside the arena gate,did you guys spread her posters around there and even at strategic places within the camp?

Wow!@ Ify.
Nice to see you your handle again,its been a while.
Sure you are good.

Tenison96: Sup guys.. New here

You're welcome

deols:

thanks to aluta for inviting me here.

Never knew this thread existed.

Welcome on board Deols

lomaxx: New semester. What's new?

Everything's new.
New courses,new Lecturers etc.and ofcourse the show's getting more interesting.

lomaxx: Good evening ma'am. It's been a while I saw your footprint around here. How is medicine treating you? Or should I paraphrase?? How are you treating medicine??

On the other matter, my aluta deserves a good man. And I have come to stay She'd be here soon to tell you how sweetly I tucked her in last night . And if she wishes, she would tell you how she hasn't met any like me before

Interesting......


As for medicine,i just resumed a new semester.Its been good so far.

Amb Fitsaint: Make all the medics and paramedics thank God for me ooo.
I am officially admitted into the great Oba awon university,ile-ife to start the 6-year medical race afresh.
God is indeed faithful. The Lord has made me a testimony after 3 years of hoping. To yet to be admitted medics.. Keep hope alive. God is able

Congaratulations!!!
I wish other aspirants testimonies as this

m.esther96:
;Du c,lif aint fair
lomaxx left me 4 aluta,can u imagine

Yeah i noticed, so sorry about that. Its good you got back on track already,no time to waste

That Lomaxx guy,i no trust am sha! Aluta beware you might be the next victim of Lomaxdumpy

labodinho: My sister frm another mother(D_best Doc)........I sight u,lngxt tym.Busy i guess.

I sight you too my Bros. How have you been?
Love in Tokyo tins,aren't you game?just bring her to Momma.You got my blessings as always

:oHuh?

This is serious
LOVE tins.Aww!.......I'm loving it



Ride on Peeps you got my blessings but something reasonable has to come outta these....Two pages of LOVEish must not be in vain

Dygeasy: There Are Four Nollywood Stars In The Picture Babes.

Lol Uche and Genny i mean...........

couldn't help but noticing just those two

My two favourite nollywood stars
Uche and genny

alutacontinua: If you ask me, this is the advice you need!
You just have to know yourself, i had a room-mate about a year ago who reads practically all through the nite, I mean even when she's sleeping, her laptop is open beside her and any attempt for her to just open her eyes, she starts reading. She'll sleep off after lyk 2 hours to wake up in 30 mins time again. She even had to be sleeping on the tiles, so she won't be able to sleep conveniently. On the other hand, nothing messes with my own sleep. I can count the number of times i've had to be awake for 6hours at a goal in the night before. Mind you, we were in the same class. That still didn't mess with my result and I was fine. As for me, nothing tampers with my sleep, play, nairaland, church services, movies etc...and I still pass my exams WELL! I have friends who are even in lower classes and doing easier stuffs than me who don't sleep, most especially when examz is approaching and they're fine. Do I judge those other people or seem dem as over-serious Abso-freaking-lutely NOT, if that is what they have to do to pass, then, so be it! Do I see myself as wasting my father's money Abso-freaking-lutely NOT, I'm trying my best by God's grace but i don't need 8 hours in a day to have my REALLY GOOD SCORE!

In conclusion, sweetie, do what you have to do to excel, but don't tamper with your health along the process.
GOOD LUCK!

Lol at your roommate sleeping on tiles , she could use alarm clock actually.
I agree with what you wrote up there,people are wired differently. You just have to know what works for you and follow it.

My roomie doesn't study like i do, she considers my style "depressing" in her exact word,yet she does "very" well in school. I consider her very intelligent and i mean it. Why? because it takes her approximately two weeks of consecutive studying to cover up whatever it is that i spend three months studying(i'm not exaggerating)...,I'm a slow reader hence i take things bit by bit over a period of time(not really good with pressure/last minute rush),i need more time to get things done than she does.We've both come to term with the fact that we are different when it comes to studying style.If i choose to emulate her style,then im in for a real shocker (na my result go tell me ) and she on the other hand cant just cope with mine.The bottomline is****MAN KNOW THY SELF****, what works for A might not work for B.

meipsum1: Good evening Drs and Med Students in the house. I have been following this thread enthusiastically. I salute Sir Lagusta, Aluta Continua, Charley Med, Dr Gboy and everyone. Pls I need your help. I'm a pre-clinical Med student in a Nigeria University. I really want to know how many HOURS OF SLEEP PER DAY is deemed necessary for a MEDICAL STUDENT. I have been coming across alot of articles on sleep recently and I am afraid that I am not sleeping enough. The side effects of inadequate sleep in those articles are really scary. Sir Lagusta( you are already a Doctor), how many hours per day did you use to sleep when you were in Medical school? Other Drs and Medical Students in the house, pls CONTRIBUTE. Thanks.

Sleep is very important as we all know, but in Med.Sch something has to give. I discovered i couldnt cover much if i'm to adhere judiciously to the 6=8hrs minimum sleep time requirement per day.
The longest i can sleep is 4hrs per day and thats after classes from 6-10pm,any time after 10pm to 4am is for studying although with short breaks in between for internet stuff. It's almost impossible for me to sleep at night and i also find it difficult to study in the day time, so i do my sleeping in the evening and stay up all night. This routine works perfectly for me.

Quit worrying about whether you are getting enough sleep or not,sleep when you need to.
Just try to balance things up... even though i know there is no such thing as balance in med.sch/pract(sth always gives). or rather, just live with it.

Fedric: Charleymed. Flirt? I missed my Best Doctor doesn't mean am flirting. Didn't you miss her? Smile.............

Fedric: where have you been? I missed you here.

I've been around sir.

charleymed: Haba fedric, u just came and u'r already flirting! Mai i no catch u with my best doc oh. Be warned.

e-Flirting is allowed.lol

I hail you all.

*HUGS*