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MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR BOYS AND GIRLS, JUST ONE YEAR AFTER MY MARRIAGE, I STARTED WISHING I COULD TURN BACK THE HAND OF THE CLOCK, I REGRETTED THE VERY FIRST DAY I TOOK THE DECISION TO GET MARRIED, I WISHED HEAVEN COULD FALL AND THAT THE END SHOULD COME. ALONG THE LINE, I TOOK A DECISION AND THE DECISION WAS THAT MY MARRIAGE MUST WORK, I HAD TO PUT EVERY THING ASIDE, INCLUDING "PRIDE, EG I AM THE MAN OF THE MAN HOUSE, SO I MUST BE RESPECTED" I VOWED THAT MY MARRIAGE MUST WORK, THOUGH MY WIFE WAS A HARD NUT TO CRACK, BUT WITH A DETERMINED HEART, I WORKED TOWARDS ACHIEVING IT, AND IT WORKED LIKE MAGGIC, FOR YOU TO HAVE A HAPPY MARRIAGE AS A MAN, YOU MUST LEARN HOW TO OVER LOOK A WHOLE LOTS OF THINGS, WOMEN ARE SPECIAL CREATURE, WHEN THEY NAG AND YOU RESPOND TO THEM, YOU HAVE GIVEN ROOM TO WAHALA, IF THEY NAG AND YOU DONT RESPOND, THAT'S MORE WAHALA. TODAY AFTER 8 YEARS OF MARRIAGE, IS JUST AS IF OUR HONEY MOON IS JUST BEGINING.

WILL IT LAST?

Nigerians and Africans with superstitions. Tracker used to monitor the distance or Nations which the bird has covered or gotten to, at the early 2000 we saw in the news when some birds were let loss some where in USA and we saw that the birds got to Nigeria.

NEWS SUCH AS THIS 8S COMMON 8N NASARAWA STATE

MrLondonder:
calm down babes...therris no need for violense
do u relice am from London & if not for nairaland...u can never get shance to talk to a londoner....so becuz u donbt have moiney, u tink that Hut is a mansion...correct? is that how mansion loooklike there in Nigeria? brick wit no rooof? Bros from were we come from sir...that thing is a hut sir..!!!(no oofeinse)

. FROM THE LAST TIME I CHECKED IT IS SPELT THIS WAY REALIZE AND NOT: relice as you spelt, AGAIN FROM THE LAST TIME I CHECKED, THE BRITISH THOUGHT US THE USE OF USE OF ENGLISH, WHY IS IT THAT YOU CANT EVEN SPEAK OR SPEAK LIKE AN ENGLISH MAN WHO LIVE IN LONDON AS YOU CLAIM YOU ARE? INFACT YOU SEEMS TO BE A CLAWN.

MrLondonder:
calm down babes...therris no need for violense
do u relice am from London & if not for nairaland...u can never get shance to talk to a londoner....so becuz u donbt have moiney, u tink that Hut is a mansion...correct? is that how mansion loooklike there in Nigeria? brick wit no rooof? Bros from were we come from sir...that thing is a hut sir..!!!(no oofeinse)

. FROM THE LAST TIME I CHECKED IT IS SPELT THIS WAY REALIZE AND NO relice as you spelt, AGAIN FROM THE LAST TIME I CHECKED THE BRITISH THOUGHT US THE USE OF USE, WHY IS IT YOU CANT EVEN SPEAK OR SPEAK LIKE WHERE YOU CLAIM YOU STAY?

MrLondonder:

calm down sir..,..am a londoner and altho my range rover is only £37,000(cash), moiney is not everytin. i live in expensive flat near riverside. and we dont have huts like that hear in london bro. even my dog cannnot eat brealfast there sir
Op live in a hut but say the hut is a house. Can u honestly carrry a babe to a junk yard hut like that? who leaves in that kinda place in 2022?....are u kiddddin me sir? I notise 98% of the people in these thread live in hut like that which is why they tink is a great home. Am sorrry but I cant even park my range in a junk place like that...they should break that hut down & sell the brick to homeless pooor people!!!(no oofeinse)

. YOU ARE COMPLETE ARINDI, ODE, OPONU, EKPA, OKPO, THATS WHAT YOU ARE

captainspear:
I find your comment insulting and I will not take it, I demand an immediate apology. What you explained only happens to greedy people, if your fish was worth it's price, you would have gotten your deal but you met someone more cunning and the tables turned now you're bitter, calling people names on the internet will only deepen your pain, I am not looking to buy on credit, neither does my mum owe anyone. Learn to do business with honesty and see how honest people look for you. Apologize now.

. APOLOGY TENDERED IF YOU ARE NOT IN THAT GROUP.

captainspear:
I find your comment insulting and I will not take it, I demand an immediate apology. What you explained only happens to greedy people, if your fish was worth it's price, you would have gotten your deal but you met someone more cunning and the tables turned now you're bitter, calling people names on the internet will only deepen your pain, I am not looking to buy on credit, neither does my mum owe anyone. Learn to do business with honesty and see how honest people look for you. Apologize now.

. APOLOGY TENDERED IF YOU ARE NOT I. THAT GROUP.

SINCE 2008 THAT I BECAME INDEPENDENT FROM MY PARENTS AND STARTED EARNING, I HAVE ALWAYS DEPENDED ON BUYING BAGS OF SACHET PURE WATER EVEN WHEN OUR BOREHOLE IS NEATER THAN MIST OF THESE PUREWATER, DOWN TILL LAST YEARS, BUT RECENTLY I HAD TO CALL MY WIFE AND ON A ROUND TABLE MEETING AND TOLD THEM THAT, GOING FORWARD, IN THIS HOUSE THERE 8S NO GOING TO BE BUYING 9F BAGS OF PURE WATER AGAIN AND STOCK THEM ANT LONGER, WE WILL MAKE DO WITH THE WATER FROM BOREHOLE. SINCE I TOOK THAT DECISION, 8 NO LONGER GIVE A DAM ON HOW MUCH A SACHET OR BAG OF PURE WATER IS, AT LEAST CLOSE A YEAR NOW WE DONT CARE ABOUT THE PRICE OF PYRE WATER.

"YOU DEPOSITED THE MONEY INTO YOUR FOREX ACCOUNT, AND BEFORE 30 MINUTES, THE MONEY WENT VOOOM" RIGHT?, GUY 5GERE IS NO SPIRIT ANY WHERE CAUSING ANY COUGH AMD STEAL YOUR MONEY, FROM YOUR FIRST, I HAVE WHERE I PUT THE MONEY, OTHERS ARE MAKING IT BIG THERE", YOUR LAST STATEMENT BROTHER GAVE ME N30K, THE CAUGH CAME AGAIN, 8 DEPOSIRED 5GE MONEY INTO MY FOREX. GUY, THERE IS NO ANYTHING ANY WHERE STEALING YOUR MONEY, RATHER YOU ARE THE ONE DOING YOUR SELF, YOU ADDICTED TO GAMBLING, BETTING, STAKING AND FOREXING. YOU JUST NEED TO BREAK YOUR SELF OUT FROM THOSE ADDICTION. THE CAUGH YOU USUALLY HAVE IS AN IMAGINARY THING. ONCE YOU ARE ADDICTED INTO GAMBLING, STACKING, FOREXING WITHOUT RESULT, EVEN IF YOU HAVE 100M, YOU WONT KNOW WHAT YOU DO WITH THE MONEY.

I 8ntend starting a mini yoghourt production outlet, how much do you sell your culture?

Your mum is one of those who had rendered Cat Fish farmers useless with ridiculous process, Fish farmers are now wiser that they only sell their fishes to those good buyers who stick with them during the glut, thereby snubbing the type of your mum as customer, I remembered that year, a woman came to my farm, we I told her my price, she said I should drain the water from my pound, she say we should start harvesting, we have started the harvesting there and then she now is no longer buying it at the same same price we agreed, she had to price it half of the price because she has seen that the fishes has gone through stress, if I am not careful I might loss some of them, I had to order that all the fishes should be returned to the pound, thank God it was a natural pound, I had to chase the woman a way with insult and warned her never to get closer to my pound again. During scarcity of that was how we saw the woman at our pound, we had to chase her away, she saw others buying. A serious and good fish buyer wount have problem getting fish to buy in bulk at this period, ask your mum that how long has she been in this fish business, who and who is she owing because that's their second name, they may go to place like Ibadan buy fish wort N800k pay N300k with a promise to return and you will never see them again they will run to Osun or Ogun state. If truelly she us a good and sincere buyer she would have built a good customer base with farmers. Stop looking for supplier for her, she knows how this thing is done.

ABIA HAS NEVER HAD A GOVERNOR SINCE 1999 TO DATE, RATHER BUT HAD HAD BUNCH OF IMBECILES. THE ONLY RIGHT THINKING OR REASONABLE CANDIDATE TO OCCUPY THE SEAT OF ABIA GOVERNOR IS ALEX OTTI OR THE DOCTOR UCHE, THE CURRENT STATE MINISTER FOR MINE...., THE CURRENT GOVERNOR IS EVEN THE WORST.

A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE, DONT SELL, GO AND LOOK FOR YOUR BUSINESS MONEY SO E WHERE ELSE. YOU SELL IT YOU WILL REGRET 8N FUTURE. I WILL RATHER ADVISE SOME ONE TO SELL HIS CAR AND STAR BUSINESS THAN SELL HOUSE. WHAT IS THE POSIBIILITY THAT THE BUSINESS WILL FLOURISH IN SHORT TIME?

IF YOU WATCH SUNDAY ROUNDEVOURE AND YOU ARE STILL SINGLE, YOU NEED DELIVERANCE.

A YAHOO OR RITUAL BOYS, RUNS GIRLS OR PROSTITUDE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO PRAY AS OTHER BELIEVERS DOES, BUT ONE THING WE SHOULD KNOW IS THIS, GOD DOES NOT ANSWER EVERY PRAYER THE BIBLE SAYS THAT THE PRAYER OF A SINNER IS AN ABOMINATION BEFORE GOD. God only listen to prayers from a broken heart, a broken heart and a contrite spirit mean to experience “godly sorrow [that] worketh repentance” (2 Corinthians 7:10). ... Those who have a broken heart and a contrite spirit are willing to do anything and everything that God asks of them, THE QUESTION NOW IS AFTER THE PRAYER WILL THE YAHOO+RITUAL BOY AND THE RUNS GIRLS GO BACK TO THEIR EVIL WAYS IR STICK TO GOD AFTER THE PRAYER?, IF THEY WILL TURN FROM THEIR EVIL WAYS AND STAY PUT WITH GOD 8T MEANS THEIR IS ANSWERED, IF IF THEIR 8NTENSIIN IS AFTER THE PRAYER THEY GO BACK TO THEIR EVIL WAYS, IT MEANS THEY JUST SUCCEEDED IN WASTING THEIR TIME, AND THAT'S THE KIND OF PRAYERS WE CALL AS AN ABOMINABLE PRAYER. IS JUST LIKE A BABALAWO ASKED YOU TO MAKE A SACRIFICE WITH A CAT AT 7PM IN AN OPEN PLACE, AND YOU FEEL THAT USING CAT IS TOO SMALL ANS YOU GO AND BUY A BIG GOAT AND MAKE THE SACRIFICE AT MIDNIGHT, TO A NATIVE DOCTOR,YOU HAVE FLOP THE RULE OF THE SACRIFICE, IS EITHER TWO THINGS HAPPENS FOR SURE, EITHER YOU RUN MAD FIR GOING AGAINST THE LAW OR... JUST GOD OUR GOD IS SO MERCY THAT'S WHY WE TOLL WITH GOD.

And tomorrow you will call the white racist, call South African Xenophobians not k owing that you are the head of the racist.

CONGRATULATION AND WELCOME TO THE CLUB OF FATHERHOOD, HOPE YOUR MANHOOD WILL NOW REST FOR A WHILE, NOT TOO BAD, A TI OF NAN ONE 8S JUST N3,500 AND NAN TWO ALMOST SAME PRICE, AND IS I TIN EVERY 4 - 5 DAYS, PROCE OF PAMPERS NOT EQUALLY SMILING.

Cameroun is not a west Afrique nation, but a Central Afrique. EQG on the other hand is also Spanish colonized Rich Central Afrique nation with Malabo as it's capital. Small but rich and organized place. Most Camerounian take to EQG as their own America and very few EQGns stays in Cameroun because they see Cameronians as corrupt people, and on the other side Cameroun learn their corruptions tendencies from the giant of Africa because because of the common boundaries the share with us from Taraba, Cross River et' al. EQG is Purely 95% Christian nation, with less than 3% Muslim population, you can imagine what a sweet nation such a country will be, sorry I am not sounding religious but the obvious fact.

Cameroun is not a west Afrique nation, but a Central Afrique. EQG on the other hand is also Spanish colonized Rich Central Afrique nation with Malabo as it's capital. Small but rich and organized place. Most Camerounian take to EQG as their own America and very few EQGns stays in Cameroun because they see Cameronians as corrupt people, and on the other side Cameroun learn their corruptions tendencies from the giant of Africa because because of the common boundaries the share with us from Taraba, Cross River et' al. Purely 95% Christian nation, with less than 3% Muslim, you can imagine what a sweet nation such a country will be, sorry I am not sounding religious but the obvious fact.

Cameroun is not a west Afrique nation, but a Central Afrique. EQG on the other hand is also Spanish colinised Rich Central Afrique nation with Malabo as it's capital. Small but rich and organized place. Most Camerounian take to EQG as their own America and very few EQGns stays in Cameroun because they see Cameronians as corrupt people, and on the other side Cameroun learn their corruptions tendencies from the giant of Africa because because of the common boundaries the share with us from Taraba, Cross River et' al. Purely 95% Christian nation, with less than 3% Muslim, you can imagine what a sweet nation such a country will be, sorry I am not sounding religious but the obvious fact.

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT CHAT, DONT GO AND BE KILLING YOUR SELF. THE LADY IN QUESTION IS NOT INTO THAT RELATIONSHIP RATHER THE GUY 8S THE ONE FORCING HIMSELF TO THE GIRL. BUT GIRLS BEEN WHO THEY ARE, THEY WILL WANT WANT TO OBTAIN FROM A,B,C WITHOUT GIVING EITHER ANY POSITIVE RESPONSE. SHE IS LOOKING FOR EVERY AVAILABLE MEANS TO CASH OUT FROM ALL ANGLES

I HAVE LIVED MY LIFE BOTH IN ABUJA AND LAGOS AND WILL TELL YOU THAT LAGOS IS BETTER THAN ABUJA ANY DAY ANY TIME. COST OF LIVING IS FAR BETTER IN LAGOS THAN ABUJA. LET ME USE THIS AS AN INSTANCE, PURE WATER HAS ALWAYS BEEN N20 IN ALL PARTS OF ABUJA SINCE 2001, AND PURE WATER RECENTLY BECAME N20 IN SOME 0F LAGOS, FOOD IS CHEAPER IN LAGOS THAN ABUJA, COST 9F TRANSPORTATION IS CHEAPER IN LAGOS THAN ABUJA COST OF ACCOMMODATION IS LIKELY THE SAME.

44 YEARS IN MARRIAGE CHARLEY MAN, YOU BE REAL MAN INDEED.

I WANT ALL OF YOU HERE TO COPY THIS MY WORD AND BOOK MARK IT ON YOUR DAIRY.

YOU WILL BE DISAPPOINTED YO KNOW THAT OSIN IS NEVER AND WILL NEVER BE BABA'S MOST PREFERRED, THE ANOINTED ONE IS A PARTICULAR FOVERNOR IN A NORTH EASTERN STATE WHICH HAD BEEN RAVAGED BY BOKO HARAMS ATTACK, AND INSPITE OF THE MASSIVE DISTRUCTION BY BOKO CUM HERDSMEN, THIS GOVERNOR KEEP PERFORMING WONDERS, THAT GOVERNOR IS BABA MOST PREFERRED CANDIDATE. SOME PEOPLE WILL BE DISAPPOINTED AT THE END OF THE GAME.

UNMARRIED AN INMATURED PEOPLE WILL BE HERE TELLING YOU NONSENSE THAT THE LADY IS BAD, SHE IS A GOLD DIGGER OR BLA BLA BLA, MARRIAGE AND FINANCIAL PLANNING DOESNT WORK THE WAY YOU JUST PAINTED IT NOW TO BE. THE RULE OF HAVING A SUUCESSFUL MARRIAGE AND HAVING A SUPPORTIVE WIFE GOES LIKE THIS. BE OPENED TO WIFE, DO NOT PURKDIVE INTO HER SALARY OR WANTING TO KNOW ABOUT HER SAVING, DO YOUR PART AS A HUSBAND BY PROVIDING THE BASIC NEEDS OF THE FAMILY, EVEN SHE IS EARNING 500K AND YOU ARE EARNING 100K, STILL ONCE IN A WHILE BUY THINGS FIR HER, THEN ONCE IN A WHILE AS WELL, TRY PRETEND YOU DONT HAVE MIBEY, THEN YOU WILL SEE HER DOING ALL THE UNIMAGINABLE, THOUGH WE HAVE SOME HEARTLESS WIVES, THOSE THAT EVEN IF THEY ARE EARNING 500K A MONTH THEY WONT EVEN DROP 10K AT HOME FOR SUPPORT, BUT GENERALLY WHEN A HUSBAND ALWAYS TREAT THE WIFE WELL, YOU DONT NEED TO SHARE RESPONSIBILITIES WITH YOUR WIFE BEFORE YOU SEE HER DOING THE NEEDFUL AT HOME. IS EVEN A SHAME ON YOUR PART FOR YOU TO CALL A LADY YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO AND START SHARING FINANCIAL OBLIGATION WITH, IT SHOWS YOU ARE NOT EVEN MATURED, IT SHOW THAY YOU ARE A BABY MAN, YOU ARE THE GOLD DIGGER HERE, THE YOUNG LADY DID THE BEST BY SAVING HER HEAD AND RUN AWAY FROM A POTENTIAL RISK LIKE YOU. WITH YOUR KIND OF MEN, NO LADY WILL WANT TO SPEND HER LIFE WITH A MAN LIKE YOU, BECAUSE YOUR TYPE WONT MAKE A BETTER HUSBAND, WHAT YOU SOULD HAVE BEEN CONCERNED ABOUT SHOULD HAVE BEEN, HOW DO I GET A LADY WHO CAN MANAGE WITH YOU, WHO IS NOT EXTRAVAGANT IN SPENDING ETC. AND NOT A LADY YOU SHOULD BE SHARING FINANCIAL IBLIGATION WITH. IN YOUR MIND, YOU THOUGHT YOU ARE WISE?, YOU BE MUMU, 70 YEARS OLD MAN.. EVEN THE ROAD TO....

UNMARRIED AN INMATURED PEOPLE WILL BE HERE TELLING YOU NONSENSE THAT THE LADY IS BAD, SHE A GOLD DIGGER OR THAT, MARRIAGE AND FINANCIAL PLANNING DOESNT WORK THE WAY YOU JUST PAINTED IT NOW TO BE. THE RULE OF HAVING A SUUCESSFUL MARRIAGE AND A SUPPORTIVE WIFE 8S THIS. BE OPENED TO HER, DO NOT PURKDIVE INTO HER SALARY OR SAVING, DO YOUR PART AS A HUSBAND, THEN ONCE IN A WHILE PRETEND YOU DONT HAVE, THEN YOU WILL SEE HER DOING ALL THE UNIMAGINABLE, THOUGH WE HAVE SOME HEARTLESS WIVES, THOSE THAT EVEN IF THEY ARE EARNING 500K A M9NTH THEY WONT EVEN DROP 10K AT HOME FOR SUPPORT, BUT GENERALLY WHEN A HUSBAND ALWAYS TREAT THE WIFE WELL, YOU DONT NEED TO SHARE RESPONSIBILITIES WITH YOUR WIFE BEFORE YOU SEE HER DOING THE NEEDFUL AT HOME. IS EVEN A SHAME ON YOUR PART FOR YOU TO CALL A LADY YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO AND START SHARING FINANCIAL OBLIGATION WITH, IT SHOWS YOU ARE NOT EVEN MATURED, IT SHOW YOU AS A MAN, YOU ARE THE GOLD DIGGER THERE, THE YOUNG LADY DID THE BEST BY SAVING HER HEAD AND RUN AWAY FROM A POTENTIAL RISK LIKE YOU. WITH YOUR KIND OF MEN NO LADY WILL WANT TO SPEND HER LIFE WITH A MAN LIKE YOU, BECAUSE YOUR TYPE WONT MAKE A BETTER HUSBAND, WHAT YOU SOULD HAVE BEEN CONCERNED ABOUT DO GET A LADY WHO CAN MANAGE WITH YOU, WHO IS NOT EXTRAVAGANT IN SPENDING ETC. AND NOT A LADY YOU SHOULD BE SHARING FINANCIAL IBLUGATION WITH. I. YOUR MIND YOU THOUGHT YOU ARE WISE, YOU BE MUMU, 70 YEARS OLD MAN.. EVEN THE ROAD TO....

THE ALFA SHOULD BE BEATEN AND ARRESTED. HIS MUMU TOO MUCH.

For you to enjoy this business, you need to have your own grinding machine, travel to the North to buy your pepper your self. A bag if dried pepper as at when I know was N15,000 per bag. This is the way you can buy the pepper , we have the real dried pepper and dried seed pepper, the seed alone is cheaper than the real pepper and also pepperish. You buy one bag of real pepper and two bags of the seed, then blend everything together. You can still make your good profit going this way, people will also call for your product than going for the adulterated pepper. When you see a real pepper is very easy to identify, It is only an evil minded individual person that will go about mixing pepper with dawa, spoilt dried colanut etc.

YOU MEAN AT THIS KIND TIME AND PERIOD HE WAS ABLE TO SAVE N500K FROM A SALARY OF N30K IN A YEAR AND WANT TO RESIGN THE JOB, EVEN WHEN SOME ONE EARNING N100K A MONTH CANT EVEN SAVE N500K A YEAR. PLEASE LET HIM HOLD ON WITH HIS JOB, MAY BE HE CAN SAVE MORE.