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fieryy:
I was honestly feeling fly until this hahaha

But thank you

Lol. You are welcome

Kriss216:
Bitter truth.

And there is no fraud without karma and her sorrows, bozo

Klass99:
I totally agree with you, I am working on leaving already.

Good. God's grace.

fieryy:
I might be the next Chinua Achebe in the making

You wish

More seriously, you can be the next you that can break records in your own field or gifting. It's in you.

Klass99:
Wetin I wan talk again nah?

But I bet you, if they put you with my male colleagues you will choose your female ones over mine.

My own people only need to see us together in your car (you giving me a ride home after work) and the story will be that we are shagging each other.

It got so bad at one point that the MD called a meeting with some PH staff and Lagos staff. PH people were flown into Lasgidi for this meeting to address damaging gossip and rumours some of them were peddling

You go fear men nah

Plan to leave that workplace for the good of your career and your emotional and mental wellbeing. That's my advice. An office where rumours and gossip is the order of the day is a walking corpse. There is no future there.

Ezennwa:
why is Yoruba politicians afraid to visit Orji Kalu, because he is a threat to their 2023 Presidential ambition.

You want this renowned looter to become President? Tufiakwa! God forbid!!!

Perhaps you are a troll or a fool, I know not.

Ezennwa:
Yoruba people are using EFCC against Igbos, while
Tinubu and Osinbajo are walking freely, after
embezzlement of public funds.


They are using EFCC against Igbos just because of
2023 presidential election.


Since Orji Uzor Kalu came out of Prison, no
Yoruba politician had ever visited him, only
Northern Politicians have visited him.

It shows that Yoruba politicians hate Igbos with
passion. Igbos now know their real enemy.

One South indeed.

Orji Uzo Kalu and T.A. Orji are Aninis and political Hushpuppis, that's all we want to know. Bloody looters apologist.

fieryy:
My akwa ugo, nkem. You look so onu ugu and tomato jos today.

Op, how did I do?

A little rough on the edges but not bad at all.

bigfrancis21:
Olaedo is gold. Edo means yellow color in Igbo and gold is yellowish in color, hence the name: olaedo.

Olaocha is diamond, ocha referring to white/clear, which diamond is.

Also there’s no upper comma in Igbo orthography when indicating possessive statements, i.e. olaocha m, not olaocha’m.

Overall, nice one.

Olaocha is silver not diamond.

20 years for the Anini in a US jail, not bad, not bad at all.

Alooone:
this is exactly the situation i find myself now...we grew up in the north...but my parents made sure i could speak igbo...so i grew up learning how to speak two languages...hausa and igbo (i can speak the igbo but cant write)...now where the problem started is when i got married...my husband who is igbo prefers and is comfortable with my kids speaking english (he feels it makes them posh and modern)...he feels since they are growing up in a city like port harcourt they will pick up igbo at some time..of which am not comfortable with,...now whats the end result my kids can hear igbo but cant speak...my 5yr old daughter initially was speaking it but her daddy made sure he douse out any remenant of igbo in her...my two and half year old "hears" igbo but cant also speak....am with my parents now...and hopefully am trying to seize this opportunity to teach them how to speak igbo...i dont want to raise" My mama say i be igbo " kinda kids.

Your husband got it all wrong. Kids can speak up to 5 languages by the time they are 12. You can Google this. Kids are language sponges. Many Igbos made and still make this same mistake of speaking only English to their kids so they don't turn out razz. Some believe it affords them some form of advantage in life. Absolute bunkum.

Chimamanda is in the US and speaks only Igbo to her daughter. She says her daughter will be able to pick up English when she starts schooling and interacting with others. Chimamanda was raised that way too by her parents. She and her siblings are well grounded in Igbo language and culture yet their spoken and written English is top notch.

Enough said.

Chris525:
We good bro. Thanks all the same.

Cheers.

Good! Lest we risk derailing the objective of this thread.

kingthreat:
God bless. The primal objective remains say no to cultism. My apologies to Chris525

Nice one bro. Commendable is the way you've handled this.

butterfly777:
Here we go, "don't judge". It is when it's about speak up against evil among men that some of us come up with that. And we misapply the word of God.

To judge can mean two things literally:
1. To access, form opinion on what is good or bad.
2. To condemn to punishment- e.g, this one will go to hell, be destroyed, etc.

God did not say which should not access things to decide which is good or bad. Just that as number 2, we are not the one to pronounce punishment in people.

So, let's call evil evil when we see it, in order to help ourselves and others to flee all appearance of evil. It is evil that operates in darkness and secrecy.

That they became Presidents and leaders doesn't mean they are good. It is not so hidden that some of us here are trying to subtly defend and promote cultism.

You are a wise man. We see through the subterfuge.

Whether it's confraternity or fraternity or cults or gangs, we no want again. Your stupid experiments failed in Africa.

Go and join them in the US. We no do again!

Nonsense and ingredient.

seguno2:
Excellent advice.
I wonder what stops most of us from using the services of psychotherapists, given the many scientifically proven advantages of doing so.
Can it be that we are too religious

Religion and ignorance.

It's also important you know how competent the therapist is.

One 1 hour therapy session by a competent therapist could heal this memory completely. Why allow this ruin your life and relationships till now? Why allow your mum's weakness or error or mistake to determine your present and your future?

You are now an adult. Take responsibility and heal this issue now. Take charge.

Chris525:
I like the suggestions pouring in. Lets keep the energy pls. However, I differ with the idea that cultism can not be eradicated. The task might seem daunting but we must face it squarely as an individual, society & government.

If the people who fought for the abolishment of slave trade decided to manage it, you would probably be on a plantation in North Carolina planting cotton.

You dont manage a disease that has a cure. You can not manage a menace like cultism, lets not kid ourselves. If anyone could, Prof. & Rica would have done so, Felix Rupa would have done it.

The way to defeat the evil called cultism is to cut its head off. You want to manage cultism in tertiary institutions as per professional course or what? Cultism has no place in a progressive society.

Can you propose that idea to owners of Nile Uni, Covenant or ABTI? To manage & accomodate cultism in their billion naira investment?

Cultism must stop. Lets stand on that. It wont happen in a day, gradually the day will come.

Gbamsomely stated. I stand with you on this.

No good can ever come from cultism or confraternities in Nigeria. The very foundations on which they were formed and on which they stand is evil and diabolic and nothing good can come out of it.

They've poisoned and perverted and warped our collective minds and values. They've seared our souls and calloused our hearts. They've mainstreamed wickedness and meanness.

They've distracted, divided and destroyed 3 generations of Nigerians and we are still counting.

Brothers killing brothers, Africans killing Africans, blacks killing blacks. Tufia!

Our wells are filled with the blood and limbs and body parts of our sons and daughters and siblings and relatives and friends.

Fear, trauma, distrust, pain, danger, destruction, death, that's all we ever learnt from them.

Prof and his ilk and offspring gave us a Greek gift. Their fraternity experiment failed woefully and the cost is humongous.

There comes a time in a man's life when he's had it up to the brim and says to himself, "enough is enough."

We must reject and eject that evil gift in totality now. We must all rise up in one accord and Say No to Cultism with all our heart and soul and mind.

Enough is enough.

Adam09:
"Main camp" what a terrible place in the late 90s and early 2000.

Cult issues, threats and body counts and stampedes left, right and centre were the order of the day

jmaine:
Yeah. The current Deputy governor of Cross River State, Prof. Ivara Esu, was the VC then...

Dem expel people plenty oo.. Names were published weekly by Punch Newspapers on Wednesdays ...

Yah, Ivara Esu. Don't know where the man got the liver to do that that year.

jmaine:
Those days were brutal mehn! I remember in 2001after their final exams.. Na so people begin fly their colour, dey parade with guns for broad day light, dey salee, dey shoot for up...

Oboy, we come shock say all men for geology department be system men, and dem plenty for that department ... Even the ones wey we dey reason as worthy children of God...

I learnt to take the average Joe as a cultist on campus.. to avoid challenging death unknowingly....

A BAN friend of mine was exterminated by the SVC a few seconds after having a little chat with us.. As we take 4 steps like this, na gun shots.

We didn't know the guyz chilling 2 cars away were angels of death... They shot him point blank on his chest and casually walked away with No fear.. No rush.. No hazzle...

We later got to hear, he was a part of a hit the previous day and they had to take him out..

Was in Cali too back then and the flying of colours after final exams was crazy.

Saw the flying of colours in 2001. Their display that day in Main camp, very close to VC's office, was something else. Even their female counterparts were not left out of the celebration that day.

Many of them, including their top guns who led the flying, were rusticated afterwards. Don't want to mention names.

The most annoying part of this flying thing in Cali for me was the idiotic babes in Main camp and Club 89, who would hail and scream and hug and kiss the cultists like they were some movie stars. Smh. Nigeria don cast since.

A country without values or with misplaced ones like ours has no future.

We need to rebuild from scratch for this country to stand any chance.

temi4fash:
Bros...

Only a man of the spirit can understand this.

And it has nothing to do with the size of the church

Very true.

Ishilove:
This is where it gets tricky.

Yep, and it's one of the reasons why this aspect of Christianity gets a lot of bashing and criticism. There are issues of protocol, capacity, standards and integrity that still needs to be sorted out in order to separate the wheat from the chaff, the fake from the authentic, the powerless from the powerful.

Poster: I sleep around with men. I am a nympho. I am addicted to sex. I have a spirit of lust. I need help.

NL: Get a regular boyfriend. Go and marry. Get busy. Get a job. Change your thinking.

These won't solve her problem just like that. Her problem is deeper than that.


@OP, you've done the right thing by coming here to seek for advice. You have 3 options.

1. Get a sex therapist or any therapist who has ample experience in your kind of problem to rewire your mind.

2. Go for deliverance and afterwards reprogram your mind with the word of God. The problem will be locating the the right man of God/ministry that has the requisite anointing and power and integrity to set you free.

3. Get messages and books on deliverance and deliver yourself by listening, studying, praying with them and meditating on them and the word of God repeatedly. This last one is the hardest to do but many have done it and are free.

Best wishes.

tonididdy:

Legendx


Like it or Not this is the life he wanted...
...he didn't want you to like him.
He just lived his life to the fullest.
He was ready for these "times"
You don't make money illegally and flaunt it to the world and your victims included.


HE WAS READY FOR THIS BUT IN ALL "DUDE LIVED THE GOOD LIFE ", it was short but he lived it.



All incriminating documents were in his residence. He had no need to hide it, again I say, " He was ready for the consequences ".

Just shut up!! A hideous thief with his blood money and darkened understanding has been caught. That's all that matters.

Blood money!

Loud it!

Money stolen from the heartbreak, hypertension and destruction or death of his victims and their dependents is blood money too not just fraud money.

He's been caught. That's all that matters.

NoBones:
Semitoje played for Iwanyawu Nationale

Confirmento!

MorataFC:
you are correct but that name doesn't ring a bell

He wasn't a regular. He was a back up for Uche Okechukwu or when the defense needed beefing up.

thedio:
No4 is Uche Okafor

Guy, don't argue with me on this. I don't know how old you really are but you are so wrong.

Go to Google and type Uche Okafor of Super Eagles and check the images that come up. Then type Isaac Semitoje and check the images that come up and then come back here to correct yourself.

Or go to someone who is very acquainted with the 93-94 Super Eagles squad and confirm the name.

Type no more. Do some research, then come back.

Well written and expressed. There should be a distinction between unhealthy and healthy introversion. We can be introverted and still connect seamlessly with people in our unique introverted ways. Anything less or extreme is unhealthy and a coping mechanism and we are standing on our own way. My opinion.

Consider posting the article here though. That way you can gain more followership and converts to your blog.

Naijasinglegirl, I hope I got it right, did that and got a lot of loyal fans from NL. Now she doesn't need NL anymore.

Chris525:
No, you stop! Stop playing to the gallery. Much of the info he's putting out no matter how fancy, are out of the point of this thread.

His research has too little or no impact on the objective of the thread at this level.

You should get the topic of the research & explain how it correlates it with that of the thread then you'll see how smart it makes you

We have long established in this thread that unraveling and unveiling cult groups is a key strategy in demystifying them and robbing them of their power and spell over the people.

Saynotocultism started it and others followed suit. No one had said much about BAN here before he came. He came as an academic researcher and dropped the keys to unraveling and demystifying BAN. That is a plus to the goal of this thread. Others especially BAN members or ex members can take the demystification up from there and warn the people, from their experience, of the dangers that await them as the so called fine boys. .

Chris525:
I cant say this didnt cross my mind.

Research discussion subtlely promoting BAN...

Dude, stop this and think. He dropped the keys to unveiling the BAN masquerade and mystery here. You will do well to understand and appreciate the significance of that token to the goal of ridding this nation of cultism which is the objective of this thread.

He should be encouraged and applauded.

Chris525:
We are saying about the same thing.

Some people think to make Nigeria great the the old politicians have to be killed.

You can give them credit for the intention (to make Nigeria great) & fault them for the process (murder).

Thats about what I did.

We are on the same side.

Alright bro. Cool.