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steady986:
I'd take Caruso on D over Danny. Danny can be lethargic sometimes.

His problem is consistent inconsistency. But today he delivered. That's the old playoff Danny doing his thing defense wise.

The Danny Green-Lebron-Howard-Davis on-the-floor defense tonight was a scary thing to watch. Damn!

birdman:
But thats the whole point - you do NOT want Lebron to shoulder the scoring load. At this age, he is deadlier as a facilitator. If he gets 3 shooters hot, and each scores only 6pts more, that is an extra 20 points. Completely changes the game to a blowout vs just Lebron dropping 40 in a tight game. And this is what haters in their rush to take a shot at Lebron refuse to see. You want a 25PT 8RB 10+AS Lebron. There are many other things he does on the floor that shows up only in +/- of his teammates

Blazers lose a lot of games because Dame plays the same way every game. He has not gotten much better in the last few years. If you have guards who can match his athleticism, you can prepare game plan for him, absorb his scoring and deliver a loss to them. Sometimes CJ will step up and they win anyways. Other times CJ gets streaky like all jump shooters and they lose. With the bigs they have, its actually a bad thing that they are so guard dominant. Nurkic and Whiteside are not been used well so far imo.

Not entirely Lillard and CJ's fault in my opinion. Nurkic and Whiteside were already lethargic by the 3rd quarter and this continued into the 4th. Also, they don't have enough depth in their bench at this point to match the Lakers.

Playoff Lebron is back!!!

Autism's root is in the subconscious mind. Any tool or solution that can access the subconscious mind can help someone who is autistic.

1. Hypnotherapy: Hypnotherapy as a healing methodology has applications in many psychological and behavioural change issues autistic people have, not just depression. Whether it is anxiety, learning difficulties, social skills or changing repetitive behaviours often associated with autism.

Hypnotherapy can get such results because it deals with the subconscious mind and can unlock some of the subconscious blocks limiting the child.

2. Acupuncture/Acupressure/Traditional Chinese Medicine(TCM): The Chinese use their understanding of energy meridians and herbs to effect healing. You'll need to find someone who is versed in the treatment of autism using this protocol.

3. Indian Aryuveda: both the Chinese TCM and Aryuveda have been treating autism-like illnesses/diseases for thousands of years. Deepak Chopra has taken Aryuveda to a worldwide audience.

4. Timeline therapy: We can go back in time on a subconscious timeline and locate traumas /limiting fears/anger/limiting negative experiences in the autistic persons past and release them. The origin of such traumas can be at conception, during pregnancy or during an earlier generation(some traumas can be passed to succeeding generations, ie, some traumas are hereditary).

5. Neurolinguistic Programming(NLP): Understanding how the mind is coded and how language can influence the coding and wiring or rewiring of the brain is the forte of NLP. Someone that is versed in using this methodology in treating autism might be of help to you or your child

6. Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT)/ Energy Medicine/ Energy Psychology: According to Einstein, E=mc2. Understand that we are all made of energy. Any therapist with expertise on how to manipulate the human energy system can help someone with autism become better.

7. Mindfulness training: learning how to be present in the now can help an autistic person a lot.

8. CBT(Cognitive Behavioural Therapy): Thinking errors and perception errors can clog the minds of some autistic people. CBT can help straighten their thinking.

8. Spirituality/Prayer: You can access the spiritual world to gain some advantage or access some solutions or creativity or make some changes in the physical. That you do not know how to use this to help a child or an adult with autism does not mean that it's not possible or that others don't get results with it.

The evidence to prayers efficacy is quantum physics/quantum biology.

According to quantum physics, everything is subatomic particles(spirit),. There is no space/distance and no time in the quantum world. There is synchronicity and simultaneity. There is infinite possibilities and infinite potential. Everything exists everywhere at the same time
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What keeps us from accessing these infinite possibilities ? The answer is the observer, you! Your beliefs and perceptions and programming. Prayer can help the autistic person unravel the blocks and access these potentials and possibilities.

Bottomline: spirituality can help with autism.

cc drnoel

drnoel:
Ok, bros no vex. Pls stop all the grammar. Let's stop this back and forward. Pls post the information u have so that folks here can learn. Forget my earlier attitude as u claimed that is limiting my learning new things. We are here to provide information to other people and also learn from others that have information. Pls come down ur high horse and give information to people. May God bless u as u do. Thanks.

No high horse bro. Just love.

drnoel:
The matter is a serious one. U obviously don't know as much as u attempt to portray. If u did, u would have attempted to discuss it. I am a healthcare professional, thanx I don't need ur kind of teaching.
But the floor is open to u to post information to the forum to help others that may need it. I suggest u use that option to share whatever limited information u have. If u don't have any, like I know u don't then pls keep quiet and read from those that have.
Thank you.

Healthcare professional closed to any other solution not termed medical science. So I was right after all, your education is limiting your receptivity and openness to learn other solutions outside your field that could help you get results or grow/improve.

Such condescending attitude to learning. It is well, bro.

drnoel:
It remains to be seen. I have this believe that no knowledge is lost, hence my interest to learn new things. No u are wrong about Google not being enough when one is seeking information. If u know where to look for and what the look for, Google can be a very dangerous tool.

If u have specific information on use of hypnotherapy in cases of Autism. Post it here so everyone can learn. From what I can piece together from ur statement, u also have no idea about how hypnotherapy is used in Autism. But that's ok, we are all here to learn more about the whole package.

You are projecting your own perceptions on me. I said do not superficially google, which means if you dig deeper, even with Google, you can get wellsprings and golden nuggets.

I would have told you more but you are stuck in your ways and not open to such constructive intellectual discourse.

It's never late though, the day you are ready your teacher will certainly appear.

Cheers and best wishes

drnoel:
Lol, we are still discussing. Don't take offense if my opinion differs from another person. That is why we are here to learn together. Hypnotherapy has not being used so far for my son cos he doesn't have the depressive phase so far. I have heard about it's use before not for Autism and have never been directly exposed to it yet.
And I don't take things blindly, I research it thoroughly. U should too.

Don't just superficially google a topic and believe you know all about it.

Hypnotherapy as a healing methodology has applications in many psychological and behavioural change issues autistic people have, not just depression. Whether it is anxiety, learning difficulties, social skills or changing repetitive behaviours often associated with autism.

Hypnotherapy can get such results because it deals with the subconscious mind and can unlock some of the subconscious blocks limiting the child.

Go beyond this surface digging. Dig deeper. There are other tools and resources out there that can help your child. Just because something is not yet mainstream does not mean it cannot help you get results.

Best wishes to your child.

ASPIREX:
Balderdash!

Autism doesnt have a cure.

The child wasn't created with Autism.
Each one developed the syndrome and it has nothing to do with the Creator. There are actual reasons for autism.....but you have to seek them out for yourself. It isn't a plague nor punitive.

And by the way....God has no spare parts.

Intelligence and naivety all in one post.

Smh

drnoel:
I don't know where u get it information from though but the last I checked, hypnotherapy was only used to alleviate depression in children who have Autism. Not all children with Autism show signs of severe depression though. Hypnotherapy is not used in the routine treatment of autism.
Pls when u give information, make it specific so u don't mislead people.
Thanx

Chairman, you have a rigid mindset to knowledge acquisition. Everything about healing or cures is not about medical science. Wake up!

FrLukas just schooled you about hypnotherapy, one of the many solutions out there that can help autistic people and yet you are still pontificating and blindly arguing about something you know nothing about.

Sometimes our education is the very thing that hinders us from learning and growing...

Smh

Chrisrare:
This game shows how underated van dijk is. Had all these bayern attackers in his pockets when liverpool played bayern last season

Guy, it's not the same coach o. This new incredible Bayern coach used to be the assistant to the coach then.

This is drubbing! A massacre of biblical proportion. Mark this day. It's the end of the Barca-Messi era.

OGHENAOGIE:
you think everything is by age.... What of those from these top countries that don't hit proper limelights... Where are Toni kross mates in that German team then how about de gea team mates in Spain...

Sir, you are comparing apples to oranges.

I am saying that we used fraud/massive age cheating to win those trophies and MVPs. Which part of the fraud don't you understand, specifically?

Not surprised, reminds me of Nigerians defending fraudsters and looters on NL and on social media like their life depended on it.

Tufia!

OGHENAOGIE:
you think everything is by age.... What of those from these top countries that don't hit proper limelights... Where are Toni kross mates in that German team then how about de gea team mates in Spain...

Sir, you are comparing apples to oranges.

I am saying that we used fraud/massive age cheating to win those trophies and MVPs. Which part of the fraud don't you understand, specifically?

realtalk19:
The video was funny and he was being disciplined not tortured. Most of us got disciplined and flogged too either from parents or school as far back as the 1980s and we turned out great and so why making this issue a big deal. Some Kids these days dont respect or fear their parents or elders any more. Talking doesn't work for me all the time but constantly raising my Cain along without using it passes the message. I don't entertain misbehaving kids.

Fear is a wrong teacher. It can achieve you your goal of getting compliance but it can mess up or warp the mind of your child.

Most Nigerian parents use the line, "my parents beat me and I still turned out great" to justify child abuse or using violence to train their children. If you all turned out great as being touted Nigeria wouldn't have been this bad, unruly and ill--trained as a nation.

Really painful and traumatic what you've been through.

There is a reason for the hate by your dad. It may be conscious or unconscious.

Conscious: it might be something leading to or concerning your birth and history. Perhaps you are a reminder of a painful past to him.

Unconscious: Perhaps you unconsciously remind him of his own failures, i.e., he sees his weaknesses and failures in you. You may also unconsciously remind him of his own dad or mum, who may have hated him or treated him badly. In both cases, he may not even know why he hates you but just finds himself reacting that way to you.

Whichever be the case, forgive him because he is ignorant. If he knew better he would have loved you unconditionally. He can't give what he doesn't have.

Thank God you are a conscious and self aware person. My advice will be for you to go for therapy to assist you in the healing process. You will need it. Else you will always live in his shadows, a bye product of pain.

Forgive him, heal and then find your true self apart from your pain and circumstances.

Afterwards, let your light so shine.

PS: Consider having a close relationship with God as a substitute for the father-son connection you never had. It's a tough world out there. You wil need it.

hyfr:
no beef, he doesn't play like a Nigerian. I can swear h had two good chances to give his team the lead, he played a very lofty shot where he should have passed the ball, he passed the other where he could have wired a shot. He plays like he doesn't know a £ is over #600. Dammmmmn

Your opinion bro. For me, in this game, he has been very good. His confidence is returning. I hope it abides.

Iheanacho showing glimpses of the hope and promise that we once believed in back in the days.

Impressive.

May his light so shine hence.

This one is called decimation. Dismantling. Show no mercy.

3-0. What

Godlovesyou28:
I hope to take care of something first; I guess, get stronger physically before going. Am so afraid (I really don't know why). Never been so scared and insecure all my life.

I am so hated in my family (I never thought it'll get to me this much).

I can't sleep anymore and sometimes I don't even remember to eat until after a day or two at times and don't feel notice until I feel too weak to get out of bed. I hate to go out too except its extremely important. I get very angry for no reason at my self and destroy or set my belongings ablaze. Am loosing touch of my business and my sales girls are looting me dry and I don't seem to care.

Why? Can't I fix anything anymore?

Had given you an earlier suggestion. Remember?


You are beginning to be affected by the weight of your troubling experiences in life. At this point I think you'll need some help to see this through and get back your life.

PM me if you are open to such.

Klass99:
Lol hmm, where do I begin?

Abstinence/celibacy is about self care for me (i.e. practicing habits that sustain my health and well being) it is also about having an effective relationship with my creator. Pre-marital sex was eroding an effective relationship with God and my feelings of guilt were often enormous, afterwards.

I am not abstaining to avoid marriage but I am most certainly abstaining to avoid an unwanted pregnancy I have had devious men who thought if they could only get me pregnant, it would change my mind about kids and their marriage proposal to me (I'm not kidding) but this is a story for another time.

Sex is not a physical thing for women (save for prostitutes) Before a woman lies with you, she's really into you. Now, when the feeling is not mutual it becomes a demoralizing event, it either breaks the heart or bruises it. Celibacy, saves me from the mental and emotional havoc wrecked on my overall well being, when the feeling is not mutual.

Having a sexual partner just for the sake of scratching that itch is still a demoralizing concept for me. Also, indulging too soon in a relationship, prevents you from ascertaining the full measure of a man and getting a firm grip on what he is really like, as a person.

I understand the abstinence from sex to ensure closeness to God part though. Something a good marriage would have cured.

No sex. Celibacy. No marriage. No maternal instinct. No children. No spouse.

Until when?

DrFunmisticGlow:
Trauma is not a mental illness.

Ma, you are quoting me out of context. I explained what I meant clearly. If you are wounded in your mind by past trauma it will reflect in your behaviour as a dysfunction. The reason is that mind and body are inseparable.

That behavioural dysfunction is a mental health issue and that's what I called mental illness.


Mental illness/disorder: A wide range of conditions that affect mood, thinking and behaviour (www.mayoclinic.org).

Squillaci:
How is not wanting kids a mental illness?

Read what I wrote again bro. If you hate kids or they irritate or anger you by there mere presence or you feel overwhelmed by having them around, you have a problem in your mind (which could be due to a past childhood trauma or experience).

That problem or trauma in your mind due to the past is a mental illness. It is not derogatory. It simply means you have been wounded in your mind.

There are people who are like that but because they know it shouldn't be they may not own up to this fact.

There are people who struggle to carry new born babies and become restless and edgy after a little while. They look for every reason on earth to give you back the baby. Some can't play with children or can only play with them for a limited time as they would get exhausted and overwhelmed if the play get extended. Some don't want children around them at all. They feel irritated. Some only feel pain and anger around children. Subconscious things... Some beat them without mercy.

Men and women alike.

Dysfunction and baggage plenty. Mental illness come in different shades and shapes. The roots may be childhood trauma and childhood experiences somewhere.

Some girls that have this problem will not tell you unless they really trust you. They know they shouldn't have kids but societal pressures and expectations will push them to marry and have them.

God save you if you wife such. The name of your kids will be sorry.

Liverpool is the more coordinated and dangerous side but their defence has let them down twice today with 2 costly mistakes.

Where is your self esteem, girl? Can't you see the guy is broken? Has he not shown you enough of his baggage for you to read the hand writing on the wall?

Well then, I don't know if it's your biological clock thinking for you or blind love, but hear this:

If you marry this guy it will end in pain and tears.

"People show you who they are, believe them" - Maya Angelou

Agboriotejoye:
I've asked you before and I ask you again. How did I defend her by stating the facts? What has your call out done to any known thief in Nigeria? OUK is the senate chief whip. Babachir lawal is still in the corridor of power. What we need is to put them away to serve as a lesson to others. Calling them out is just media noise that changes nothing for their hardened selves.

Bros, no need for the back and forth. When we are as a people have had enough and are ready we will solve this problem.

Agboriotejoye:
Good. Look. I don't have a problem if you say Diezani is corrupt. But ask yourself what exactly you want. To label her corrupt just for the fun of it or so that retributive justice in form of recoveries of her loot and jailing her. I prefer the latter and i'm enlightened enough to know that jailing her and getting her to vomit our yams cannot happen by just labelling her corrupt on the pages of newspaper. It requires serious investigation and diligent prosecution in a competent court. Any other thing and we the people are the greatest loser.
Imagine the fact that she's referred to as the biggest corrupt official in an administration that ended five years ago and since then, she's been in the UK chopping the life of her head while we are here just making useless noises. This should show you how serious this present govt is about fighting corruption. Do you know that while Magu was declaring billions in recoveries, the former finance minister actually called him out on announcing humongous sums as recoveries on the pages of newspapers which do not reflect in the govt account. That is tantamount to political propaganda and we the people again are the ultimate losers as we now have to grapple with higher taxes to keep govt afloat.

My point was and still is that both Deziani and Magu and the other looters and corrupt persons and fraudsters should be called out by ordinary citizens who are at the receiving end of their thievery and wanton greed and evil. Nigeria is a giant on the ground with the knees of these evil people on her neck!

Call the idiots out, no matter the tribe or poltical party or divide. Leave their defence to their lawyers and family members. Quit this voltronic defence of suspicious persons and evil men and women amongst us.

Let's save Nigeria so it won't die.

Agboriotejoye:
Lemme ask you a simple question. Do you think Buhari's govt is corrupt?

Of course, fantastically corrupt!

Agboriotejoye:
Did she really say that or not. If it's a fact she said that, how does it amount to defending her?
Do you realize she can go to court and claim to not be the owner of those properties and the onus will be on EFCC to prove they belong to her. Let me ask if you've seen any shred of evidence those properties indeed belong to her apart from newspaper gist. The only case against her in court is that of bribing INEC officials towards 2015 elections. The other are just media trials. Stop being sentimental about issues.
I'm sure if you were accused of something you'll expect people to hear you out at least even if you're guilty. Hearing you out does not mean they support or defend you. Anything after that is mob justice or media trial which is obvious has not achieved anything as we can all see.

Oh and BTW, she's not in Dominican Republic. She's in the UK. The Dominican Republic story is about her being a diplomatic official of that country not a residence.

Bloody looters and corruption apologist! You, my friend, are no different from the many Nigerians that were defending fraudsters and Hushpuppy prior to his arrest and this clampdown.

See energy! Tufiakwa!

Evidence, my foot!

The problem with Nigeria is Nigerians. Not politicians. Not fraudsters.

I wrote very angry words against Nigeria just now and then I wiped it off, hesitantly.

Wisdom said to me, "It's better to light a candle than to curse the night."

How can we turn this country around to fulfill its humongous potential? God, I know you hear me, we need answers and solutions and wisdom fast.