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nedubrazil111:
My friend got married sometime back to her husband who is supposedly well exposed. They both tested and discovered that they were both AS.

After all the crying, they still went ahead to get married, but this genotype thing has been hidden from the husband's family. He doesn't want them to know because his last relationship crashed for the same reason.

Now they're hoping a Doctor will give them hope of having non AS children or a Pastor will invoke the heavens for them.

AS children should be the least of tbeir worries. What if dem born SS?

klassyguy:
I have two lovely kids with my wife - a girl and a boy. My son is six years old while his sister is eight. Both were born here in the US. I’ve done what I feel is right as a father to train these kids, but I know not everything can be done accordingly.

My son is restless. He has the attention span of three seconds before he gets distracted by something else. My mum tells says he is a copy of me when I was his age, but that was in the eighties and the way children were handled back then is totally different from today. He hardly wants to do anything in terms of school work and almost every day I get complaints from his teacher that he does not do his work or he is disruptive in class. When other students are doing their work, my son will be the one falling off his chair or hiding under his desk. His teacher told me he acts out when being corrected. Only yesterday my wife told me the teacher met her when she went to pick them up in school and told her that my son started yelling when the lights in the class started flickering. His behavior got so bad, they had to call the school security officer before he calmed down.

This behavior is really bothering me. I know my son is smart. His pre-school teacher once told me he was the smartest student she had. My son can do complex mathematical equations off the top of his head that even his older sister struggles to do. He has a very good memory and can list off all the types of trains that exist in the US, things that even I don’t know. It’s sitting down to be serious about work that he can’t do and can’t seem to focus on.

I enrolled him in a soccer club to see if that would help him expel his excess energy. At first he seemed to be lazy as he gets frustrated easily, and rather try harder, my son would rather give up and cry. I mostly have to encourage him to put in more effort, and most of the time he does not pay attention to what the coach says. The coach told me a couple of days ago that he wants to move him to a lower group level to see if he can build his confidence there.

I want to believe it’s his being the last born for now that’s worrying him. He seemed to start being a bit more mature when my wife got pregnant last year and he learnt they had a younger sibling on the way, but unfortunately, she miscarried and we lost the baby. I’ve been thinking for a while now whether to move back to Nigeria with everyone so that we can build some sense into both of them (my daughter’s story is another one). I’ve thought of taking them both for an ADHD test, but my wife is against that. The only time my son pays attention is when he’s doing something he likes, and that is when he’s playing the PS5 I got them or watching videos on YouTube Kids.

Any advice would be welcome from parents out there.

This is a common scenerio with kids nowadays. You are not alone as a large percentage of parents today will tell you the sane thing about their kids.
Take them to a psychologist for evaluation and guidelines on how to manage them. Bringing them to Nigeria wont help much if you dont know what direction to take anyways.

They are still at the planning phase? Ok na

Any seasoned couple will tell you that the first 5 yrs of marriage are the trickiest ones. Marriage is a whole lot different from boyfriend and girlfriend. You two should talk to a marriage counselor. Not the religious hypocrite ones that will just support one and damn the other to servitude no matter what o.

Na potato dem take snap the photos ni?

Side cjicks favourite song is.....

Who no like enjoyment?
If money dey for pocket o
Shebi na national budget
We go dey blow am like trumpet

Bodmum:
What was she doing in hotel? These commercial se* workers self. Rip to the dead but its a joyful thing to die in an active service. 3 men arrested in connection with her death, hope its not 3some gone wrong. Rip.
for those of you quoting me, remember police will first investigate what brought her to the hotel, what's her mission there.

Many people see hotel as a place where people go to soend money and have imoral acts done. I absolutely understand why you asked that question of what was she doing in a hotel. That is the level you have reached in life. Hopefully you will get to the next stage where you will ask more sensible questions.

Kemi don start

Imagine if he is an OBGYN and a closeted racist. He will secretly tie the tubes of non whites who visit his hospital to give birth and maybe endanger their babies. .

Life goes on

Saraka?

Amza07:
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IIt shall be well bro

Tbey are not important. Our political and religious leaders are more concerned for Ukraine.

War is a billion dollar business. There can NEVER be peace on earth because the same elites that decide war or peace are the same running the arms industry.

Let him just change party. He should carty a long broom and pledge allegiance to APC. Thats how they do it.

He thought he was in tbe zoo called Nigeria hence his animalistic behaviour. That is how they harass women everywhere in that zoo called Nigeria.

Just 500 of us can drop #1k each in OPs acct and make him and his wife happy. Of course who wants to do more can do so. If he is comfortable to pist his acct NO. We dont have to wait until we have a ton of cash before we can help him.

OP, I know how you feel. Its not an easy place to be in. Te ll your wife to keep faith hard as it might be. Thos life is up amd down. She should trust fate to bring her peace and focus on being the best she can be for her family. She should also try to live peacefully with your friends and family. She should bear them no grudges and look up to God alone. This life na only God fit raise helper. Having friends, family etc is not assurance o. God uses whoever. Pkele

Rusia want scatter o. God help

She cant dance to save her life. I would love to see Bianca do same with Odogwu of Biafra. E go sweet die

Mouth wey talk anyhow go recieve anyhow slap

Omicron007:


Bianca got the face of Kim Kardashian for free.

Bianca's beauty is pure, unadulterated, alluring and charming.

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That is a low level nsult. Bianca and Kim kardashian who first come this world, the younger can only resemble the older not vice-versa. Fair enough if you say Kim paid to look like Bianca.

hammer567:
DAT IS JUST IT! SHE MAY HAVE BEEN NAKED WHEN THE MOB ARRIVED.


SECONDLY, CAN YOU PROVE SHE HAD NO INVOLVEMENT IN HER HUSBAND DEATH? DO YOU HAVE SUCH PROVE?



EVEN YOU, JUST SAID PEOPLE CAN IGNORE, IF SHE WAS CAUGHT IN THE ACT OF KILLING HER HUSBAND.



IS THIS NOT THE SAME BELIEVE THAT LED THE VILLAGERS TO PARADE HER NAKED?



I TOLD YOU, NIGERIA GENERALLY, ESPECIALLY IN THE SOUTH, HAVE THIS CULTURE OF NAKEDING ACCUSED PEOPLE.



IF THIS CASE IS DIFFERENT, THEN IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE IGBO AND POLICE LIKE TO SHOW POWER AGAINST IGBO PEOPLE.

Pkease enough with your ignorance. I am sorry your mentality and intelligence is waaaaaay bellow what I can pretend to reason with. Please note that I didn't write this as an insult. Its just the fact. I cant carry on with this discussion else my brain might just shrink from being dumbed down with the ignorance you are spewing here and believe me I am trying to use mild words to describe things here. All the best dear.

Is there light and petrol in Aso Rock? If so appology might not be accepted o

hammer567:
NOW LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING, THAT NIGERIA POLICE OR ANYTHING NIGERIA THAT YOU ARE RECOMMENDING FOR HER WILL BE FAR WORST.


DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY WOMEN ARE RAPED AT THE POLICE STATION BY NIGERIA POLICE MEN?


DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY OF SUCH WOMEN EVENTUALLY KILLED BY NIGERIA POLICE?


OR U THINK, IT IS AN ACCIDENT THAT NIGERIA POLICE HURRIEDLY JUMPED INTO THIS CASE EVEN AFTER THE MATTER HAVE SETTLED, JUST BECAUSE THEY SAW A NAKED WOMAN?


EVEN THE AFONJA CRYING THAT IGBO ARE IN THEIR REGION, STARTED SUGGESTING SHE RELOCATE TO SW.


AS, AN IGBO MAN, I HAVE LEARNT THAT BLACKS ARE EVIL.


IGBO NEED STRONGER TRADITIONAL SYSTEMS, WELL ADMINISTRATED TO MANAGE OUR PEOPLE CIVIL AFFAIRS.


I DONT WANT BOKO HARAM POLICE OR AFONJA GETTING INVOLVED IN OUR AFFAIRS.

I never said police was perfect but the reason for you not wanting their involvement is what I am not agreeing to. And yes, if a man or woman nakeds themselves I wont go and hold someone else responsible or demand someone else be punished but if a man or woman is held and striped naked against their will then paraded around town for all to see then it is a huge problem in the society.
People can ignore (although that doesnt make it moral or right) if she was caught in the act of killing the man or anyone for that matter but in this case, they abused that woman and justice should be served. Like I said, your favourite village chief can also punish them when the law is done with them.

hammer567:
IN NIGERIA, TO NAKED MEN NO BE OFFENCE, BUT WEN YOU NAKED WOMAN, ALL HELL WILL BREAK LOSE.


IT IS ONLY OK, WEN THE WOMAN NAKED HERSELF. LOL



WAT IF I TOLD U, SHE WAS ALREADY NAKED WEN THEY MET HER?

Abeg stop already. You are begining to sound stupid. (No insult intended)

hammer567:
THAT IS JUST THE POINT, THIS IS NOT A CRIMINAL OFFENCE BY NIGERIA STANDARD.


EVEN THE POLICE, THEY NAKED PEOPLE AND PARADE THEM NAKED.


ARE YOU SAYING THAT IS A CRIME? DO U KNOW WHAT POLICE DO TO PEOPLE?


THE REASON AM SAYING THIS IS BECAUSE, AS FAR AS I COULD SEE, THEY DID NOT SEXUALLY ASSAULT HER JUST DISGRACED HER.


IF THEY HAD TOUCHED HER SEXUALLY OR LYNCH HER, I WOULD SUPPORT POLICE INVOLVEMENT.

You funny, please Nigeria can be a jungle but we arent all animals living in it. A few of us still are intelligent, civilized and have risen above the mud beast status. There are various types of crimes from sex abuse to robbery, kidnapp, slandering, money laundering, scamming, physical violence, stealing etc. You dont just decide to say oh well since this is Nigeria, only sexual and physical violence should be worthy of justice by the police. You call what they did to that woman "JUST DISGRACED" haaaaa!
I will just assume you have a lot to learn and I see you looking back at your mentality of today and feeling embarrassed at your POV in life matters at this stage of your life.
And YES it is a crime what they did to her. Infact many crimes were carried out against her simultaneously. That she wasnt raped, fingered or killed doesnt make it ok. The police doing same or worse doesnt make it okay either.

Africans are helping oyinbos play it on ground in real time.

hammer567:
IF ANY ARREST WAS TRUILY MADE, THEY SHOULD ALL BE GIVEN BAIL AND RELEASED.

COMMUNITY/CULTURAL ACTION ARE BETTER HANDLED BY THE TRADITIONAL LEADERS, AS THIS IS NOT A CRIMINAL CASE.

NIGERIA POLICE SHOULD FOCUS ON SOLVING MURDERS AND OTHER SERIOUS CRIME, NOT GETTING INVOLVED IN IGBO AFFAIRS.


I EXPECT NIGERIA POLICE TO HAND THE SUSPECT TO THE TRADITIONAL LEADER AND LET HIM HANDLE THE CASE.


HE WILL SURELY PUNISH THEM TO DRIVE THE MESSAGE THAT NEXTTIME, THEY SHOULD NOT PARADE ANYBODY NAKED ON SUCH ISSUE.

You want to sound smart but without adequate knowledge you sound........ .
Police can handle and keep under arrest or detention criminals and people with misdemeanor. If you get drunk and start trashing someones property they can call on the police to come take you away. Even if you were not drunk but just constituting a nuisance you can be detained.
They will be arrested and charged for any offence that falls under what they did to the woman. From abuse of her fundamental human right to dignity by striping her naked in public, to holding her hostage against her will, bodily harm, psychological trauma, defamation etc. If it is a bailable case they will be bailed but the police will still be involved until their case is heard and a worthy punishment is passed.
You are not the woman who suffered this abuse hence you have no right to decide anything that goes against her finding justice After they face their police case your village chief can go ahead to punish them too. Chief is just a figure head under the authority of the govt.
If what they did to that woman is not criminal offence then I dare say you dont know what a criminal offence is. Like you think only thieves and murderes are criminals.

LandMann:
The story isn't that the husband died as a result of too much sex.

The story is that the husband died because she had extra marital affair, that is, she had sex with another man while still married to this man that died.... and the man died from sleeping with her because she was cheating on him.

There are some cultures where this actually happens... Once a woman cheat and the husband knows and the husband sleeps with her or eat her food, he'll die or the children will die or he'll suffer a terrible illness that will take his life.

In some other cultures, they have reversed the curse to the woman. If she cheats, she will bear all the consequences without effect on the husband or children.

Women that go outside to look for prick while still under the roof of a man who paid your bride price, please be warned. You are doing something that is forbidden in heaven and on earth and you'll bring calamity on your head.

Backwardness of some youths will keep Nigeria in bondage for another 600 years if those with brains don't put the stupid ones in check

Nacoss25:
My marriage of 10 months is gradually crashing.

I and my wife had some issues 2 weeks ago and she ran away from the house to her parents and now the parents are denying me from seeing her while from my investigation and information gathered she connived with her family to go into hiding.

What issues are we talking about. No be say you don beat oerson pikin to half death, treat her lime trash or brought home STD and now you are making it look like normal misunderstanding between couples.

pargelenis:
Last month the OP wanted to do the above (see bold). I think this person is a clown … at least he’s is entertaining us unlike the many Putin puppets here on NL

Lol, thats life for you he said he was single but did not say he was getting the pmekus anyhowanyhow

My brother, focus on your IT gig. Keep pushing and take any gig you get as serious as life and death. Dont give up.