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OP, you did very well, I am inspired. I also have plans to buy my auntie a house very soon, I just want to appreciate and surprise her for training me in school from primary to University level.

I am not surprised, the only surprising thing is how Africa remain poor with all the human resources. We are intelligent, gifted, strong and creative, still we are not growing.

Zonefree:
There are more illiterates in America and Europe than in Africa and Asia.

Hahaha, you made my day with this statement. Na only us carry book for head.

My friend is from Asokoro in Abuja, and anytime he leaves Jabi to Asokoro, he will say he is going to his village. If you Know Abuja well, you don't need me to tell you how develop Asokoro is.

The word "village" in African parlance is not associated with development or underdevelopment of a place. The word implies the ancestral home of an individual.

Even in Europe and America, they also have villages which are well planned and organized but it is still a village.

I don't have problem with the documentary, however, why waiting till his death before releasing such damning evidence as they call it?

If they release this evidence few years ago, he would have defended himself or face the law, but now that he is dead, of what use is this to the dead man or the victims who can no longer get Justice since the accused is dead?

Fubara is not a good person. See the way he turned the once almighty Wike to a clown. Anywhere Wike is now, if he is not wailing over Fubara, he will be sycophanting about APC.

The problem with Wike is that, he doesn't know when to close his mouth once open.

Mammam Daura

Tunde Sabiu

Late Abba Kyari

Late Isah Funtua

Abubakar Malami

These are the most powerful men in the Buhari administration, Malami was so drunk in power that he became the weapon that others used to conquer perceived enemies.

Rotimi Amaechi cannot be categorically classified as powerful, however, he enjoyed some level of patronage from the North. And Amaechi is not a senator, none of Rivers State's former governor had contented for Senate before.

Godwin Emefiele is not actually powerful, he is just a willing tool used by the power that be. Till date, the powerful ones are still walking free, but Emefiele is being dragged like street goat.

Another tolerated kleptomaniac is the EFCC special guest called Sadiya Faruk.

Dynamics of life. The world doesn't care about meaning or making sense, the world is meant to be experienced and life meant to be lived.

So many Creeds an philosophies, adage, epigram but man is frail and gullible. Either we learn from others or learn from experience.

OP, if you are not careful, we will soon read on the papers; Justice for subordinate staff.

Dealing with such people is dicy. I remember a school I taught sometime ago. There's this girl, a teacher too, because both of us are young, people unanimously ship us. She will visit me during break time, play with my phone, ask me to buy stuff for her, but when the female students in senior class started doing the same thing, I have a second thought.

You just have to upgrade your strict attitude and overlook certain things too.

Quality20:
maybe u never truly loved her. If she on her part never loved u, she would not have revealed those secret dirty details to u.
My advise to u , pls go back to her if she is still single

I said she cheated on me that's why I broke up with her. A guy who is dating her boss, decided to take my ex out for her birthday, she told that she was visiting her cousin with her kid sister but ended up in a hotel with the guy alone, she said nothing happened, but I told her to convince me as a lawyer, since she can't, I moved on.

Figger:
That's the Crux of the matter, once a cheat is always a cheat once opportunity presents itself. They never change.

You are right, they always want to cheat.

Quality20:
nawa for u o,what if she had kept mute and didn't tell u her history b4 marriage? Why u punishing her for being truthful? Don't u know that women are truly deeper than men? Abeg go back n marry her

Honestly, the revelation affected my affection for her, but we didn't break up because of her confession. I ended the relationship because she attempted to cheat or she even cheated.

Koppa and community girl.

Koppa: Chioma, why you no want give me this thing, you wey sweet like honey like this.

Girl: you go soon finish your service come leave me for this village.

Koppa: Nooo, you the follow me go Lagos. I don tell my mama say na you I go marry. See I fit even get work for Owerri make you come live with me self.

Lol, the drama and emotional blackmail that comes with serious relationship is alarming, but you can't have a serious relationship without commitment. I don't know your age or the kind of girls you always meet. The girls I have dated in the past, they want something serious but we don't talk about marriage.

One area girl I was hoping to hangout with for December told me she is graduating this year, and want a relationship that she can marry this year. I just stop communicating with her.

The last girl I broke up with visited a guy who once asked her out in a hotel, and she cried that nothing happened, but any cheating or perceived intent to cheat is unforgivable in my book. All her friends that were begging me to forgive her were the same people blaming her for not covering her trace well.

People don't feel sorry for cheating, they are sorry for being caught.

I don't have problem buying stuff for my woman, but I expect certain level of maturity from her. How will I even be dating a girl that can't afford her own wig?

There are basic things a lady should afford on her own, then when the man bring, it will just be bonus. Like I hate it when a girl call me to tell me she is hungry, a girl can't afford her own meal, is that the definition of relationship to some girls?

This type of girls are largely why feminism won't succeed in Africa. Instead of being an asset, you choose to be liability, even cursing another woman's son for failing to buy what your own father and brother or yourself can't buy for you.

This one can't be a slave by cooking for her husband too.

placeofallure:
Man, you did the right thing. What kind of entitlement mentality is that? She was so desperate she placed a curse on the man, no nah!

It feels good to collect money from your man, every woman loves that sense of financial security, but you won't have him break the bank for you. Especially when he doesn't have and it's not a life threatening situation. All through the yuletide season, I no make any hair o, I just comb my hair in a bun and I'm ready to go, it was my best Christmas ever cause I didn't lack anything. I just made the hair this Saturday in readiness for work this week. This is a big, huge, humongous red flag. Thank goodness he had the sense to leave.

Moreso, she should be able to buy the wig herself, that's what real slay queens do.

Women should be up and doing on their own. What if something happens to the man - sickness or death - will you go a begging for the rest of your life?

I have not met you in person, but if this is how you always reason, then you are a million dollar bride. I already like you for this comment.

Masturbating addiction is like toilet infection. Where I worked last, the guy can excused himself from executive meeting just to go do it in the toilet.

You should really work on yourself before the side effects poke at you.

Lol, the relationship is over.

I have this girl I dated in Port Harcourt and she always talk of marriage, I wasn't worried because she is the only one I got. At some point, this girl started telling me stories about her past, I just weak. She told me she had abortion before, she said she lived together with a guy more than two years, how she was easily laid in the past, even her boyfriend's friend laid her, she had done it with fellow girl, shared nudes, slept with her friend's sugar daddy, and all that.

Guy, I just lose faith in the relationship. One month after I returned to Abuja, we broke up on her birthday.

God knows I am not created to be nice. I can only be considerate or humane, but nice is not for me.

When it comes to relationship, I am in charge, I am blunt and refute what is wrong immediately, I am not perfect, but I am not totally sentimental.

For me, my talking stage doesn't last more than one day. I am good with convo so I engaged the lady in particular in a fun way. The only problem I have and working on myself right now is sticking to a strictly platonic friendship with girl. Most of my female friends, I ended up sexualizing the whole thing which is wrong.

About your first experience, I dated a girl in my final year in school, she is just less perfect, she practically worship me but I was young and ambitious or rather adventurous, so I ruined everything. Among all the girls I dated, she is the only one I regretted breaking up with.

I easily get girls, and I am a great lover too, so while dating, they usually fantasize how marriage with me will be fun but the breakup is always unexpected and deep. I have stopped anything relationship for now, I am working on myself generally, because I always end up hurting those girls which I feel bad but can't help it.

I won't be surprised if Betta Edu come up with book launch tomorrow to justify her actions.

What is the purpose of the book when it will be envelope in biases, sentiment and self righteous inclination? Such books are meant to be sources of historical facts but the dementally and greed inspired loyalty of the writer to the protagonist will bastardize the sanctity of any iota of truth.

Indeed, Buhari has done more harm Hitler and queen Victoria combined.

luminouz:
Goan sit down jor...Cho Cho Cho like parrot..

Which kain demigod you be?

Hahaha, everyone is dreaming about growth this year, but since growth is a foreign concept to you, you decided to rather be pained.

I am the kind of Demigod that you choose to be obsessed with this year.

We4all:
How old is she?

I read somewhere that she is 37 years, I don't know how true is this, but she is not up to 45 yet.

Love800:
What lenght have u gone to actualize dis?
Me and u are in the same dream.
Lets tell eachother the possible ideas to go abt it.

Me i think voluteering to work in one radio station is the best way to go.

Have u heard abt CD demo?

After my NYSC, I returned back to Abuja, I applied to few stations and the ones that invited me for an interview won't employ me because according to them; I have the passion but lack the required experience.

About the volunteering, that is the best way to start, initially, I wanted to visit Capital FM where I did my I.T to start something of such, but guy need stipend for transport and basic things which they are not paying.

I still believe in that dreams.

KingDash09:
That bread$$$
Is our only priority

You said it all my comrade. That's the only priority I got my eyes on right now.

luminouz:
YOU FUCKING LIAR!!!
AIN'T NO ONE TOAST YOUR BLACK ASS!!

Lol, I know we started on a wrong note, however, you should work on your self esteem. Girls asking guys out is becoming a regular norm now. I am not surprised, no lady have ask you out before, they always see you as a clown. Even the ones you asked out will prefer to be lesbian than dating you, so you can't imagine the idea of girls asking a guy out.

When you led Anambra for eight years, if you did what you preach today that State would be point of reference in Africa.

Year in year out, professors, politicians, students and other professional bodies, waste millions of naira organizing symposium, seminar, public lecture, debate among themselves, just to theorize about corruption and problems of Africa, at the end, the same professors rigged the politicians into office, same politicians go on looting spree, and same students want to be in good book of the politicians.

Enough of the debate and counter debate. Action is what we want.

Peter Obi was governor of Anambra for eight years, no difference from Enugu, he served with Jonathan no difference from Buhari government.

Wow, that is really impressive. I always dream of working in a radio station. I love media especially the broadcast.

God please bring my dream to reality, Amen.

I hope when the fiancee's male friend willingly decide to send his nude video to her, and she use it to masturbate, the fiance won't rush to Nairaland to start weeping that girls are bittered?

Sometimes, I don't know what is wrong with us. You have ready made available, juice pvssy at your command, you can have all the s*x with her, if masturbating is your pleasure, you can still do it with her. The last time I checked, it's more pleasurable when the opposite sex is touching you. Even when the female friend sent the video, it's okay to delete it and politely discourage her from doing so.

Since I am not engaged, please give me the friend's number or send the video let me check something if her phone camera is good.