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FarmPlanetNG:
I feel sorry for you. Satan has captured you

I really feel sorry for you for being a hapless slave to lies told to extort you. Sorry, you have been scammed.

The rate of intellectual and emotional slavery these Africans celebrate is quite alarming. A guy choose to worship the God of his ancestors and a Lilly liver, intellectual prisoner calls him names?

Even the Jews, 95 percent of them don't believe in this Christian fable or a God who is merciful, but can't forgive His creatures their sins, unless His only son must die first, even though He confessed that He created them imperfect. A man who is believe to love people unconditionally is watching Gaza and Israel, Banditry in Nigeria and all the maladies threatening humanity and do nothing.

The Islam is funny too. A man will give you virgins to have sex with when you cause violence in the name of fighting for him.

All these Colonial gods imported into this African continent is nothing but disastrous Idolatry of feeble creation of the white yellow pale men.


Bishop Ajayi Crowther and Rev. Henry Townsend started the Anglican Church in Nigeria, from Badagry with Rev. Gollmer, they spread it to Abeoukuta where Henry Townsend spent 34 years. So Seun Kuti's family were later converts.

I will always be proud of my African heritage and the gods of my ancestors than to be slavery to foreign creation of god imported into my land.

FarmPlanetNG:
What a shame, rejoicing at the triumphing of Satan over your soul.

This is where our problem started from in Africa. Believing that white man God is a real God and our forefathers' God is Satan.

Even when people have right to worship in this country, we have the habit of ignorantly elevating colonial God and denigrating African Indigenous religion God.

This kind of news is really depressing and pathetic. I feel like crying reading this news. These people spent hard earned money and went to school, they are ready to work but no jobs, those who have business ideas lack funds and where funds is available, the policies and environment is designed to kill it. Okay, let's go to village and farm, bandits won't allow farming.

Honestly, Nigeria is not suppose to be a country.

YINKS89:
means you don't love the lady

You see that love? It can't pay school fee, love can't provide food, love can't pay house rent or fuel a car. When my cousin call for her school fee, will the girl help me to pay, and when my auntie call for house rent, she will assist me right? She will help me when my siblings call for assistance?

You are confidently telling me to change a profession because one yeye girl feels intimidated or threatened by my clients. Then why should children rebel when parents choose field of study for them?

My love for any woman can NEVER affect my profession. Rather my profession come first.

YourGFsnatcher:
But how many truly change

I can't factually tell you the accurate statistics, however, I have seen few that genuinely change and happily married. Whether hookup/ runs girl, or cultist, an individual can compromise a bad behavior for people they love.

Yes, people change for people they love. Others change when they have life changing experience.

There is nothing wrong with older lady dating younger guy. For me, I can date a girl who is older than me, however, the age gap should be within four years. Anything beyond that is a no go area for me.

Lol, OP don't you think it will be more mature if you guys go to a hotel on weekends if you can't take her to your place? You are lucky the office don't have cameras.

This story reminded me of one Edo light skin lady that took interest in me on Monday when I resumed for a new job. We had meeting from 9am to 2pm, she was just looking at me through the meeting. She looked for every opportunity to talk to me. She even ask where I live that day. Unfortunately, when I saw the duties of my new office, I ran with my two legs, the workload too much, I never return to that place since that Monday.

Yesterday she called me twice, I didn't answer, she texted twice, in ignored, when she chat me up on WhatsApp, I responded. She wanted to Know why I stopped coming to work, I just liked to her. Office romance is not an inspiring one though.

I love only waist beads. I find it feminine and sensual.

Honestly, I don't think I want my woman to put leg chain. I don't like leg chain, I don't like nose ring, I don't like multiple piercing of earlobe. I don't like tattoos. I don't like fixing of long nails or long eyelashes, I don't like coloured hair.

The way fashion is going these days is really crazy. This one that I don't like wearing ring, I hope my future wife understand?

Hahaha, broke men left the group chat. They won't like this. They will come calling him simp.

Those broke guys don't even want to know how the lady have impacted the man, these broke guys don't want to Know their story, they just want to judge and then you realize that poverty can inspire witchcraft.

Honestly, when you have a woman that genuinely love you, a woman of worth, it's exciting to spoil her with gifts and goodies. I love spending my money on my family members from my father, my number one favorite human, to his younger sister, my irreplaceable auntie, to my siblings and my awesome, impeccable and remarkable, extraordinary woman.

Whenever I become a second option, don't choose me.

The above have been my motivation. I don't want to be the available option or the back up plan for any woman who didn't achieved her fantasy.

When I meet a lady, I have always been outspoken about choices, likes and dislikes, goals, behaviors and dreams. I usually discuss everything, from values, education, career, family, religion, everything.

I can never be married to someone who don't love me, I am a King, a prize, I can't settle for less, I can't marry unproductive, unreasonable and lackadaisical lady because I want to be married.

As far as my hustle is legitimate, I don't give a heck what a lady care about. You can go and another girl will gladly come. I have people that depends on me for food and education and other responsibilities, and I will go any level legally to support them.

The problem comes from both parties. However, I think the relationship don't go well because of high expectations. People are too delusional these days.

Some men want woman that don't have a say. When their girlfriend or wife turn them down from sex with the excuse of been tired, they get angry immediately without realizing that she is human.

Some women want a man that will become the destiny helper that will solve her family problems, that when their third cousin die, they want him to give the cousin a befitting burial.

Above all, inspire of all the research, people are still getting married every weekend.

Hahaha, OP, does that mean people should not be playful in their relationship again? No matter how old is the relationship, lovers are free to catch cruise. Nigeria is too stressful to always be serious.

Being a Nigerian living in Nigerian is enough reason to be depress.

I will advise you listen to music, listen to Sia, Omah lay, Juice wurld, 2pac and other inspiring songs.

If you are the reading type, look for books to keep your mind busy. Books like 48 Laws of Power, Power of Seduction, Atomic Habits, Gifted Hands, Think Big. Novels like Americana, I will give you my wife. Biographies will really help.

If you like nature, in the evening, just take a walk, go down the street and visualize your goals in the nearest future. Watch the beauty of nature. Think about those dreams and big plans you want to achieve.

Most times, when we are broke and idle, we get depress too. Look for something doing if you are idle right now.

PS: Always remember that suicide is a defeat, it's not an option. Think about people you love most and the pain it will cost them.

A neighbor once told me that girls cheat more in relationship but when they are married, they become faithful.

Men don't cheat in relationship but when they married, they start cheating.

Then, I asked her, if her analogy is correct, then how do arrived at the high rate of paternity fraud in Nigeria? And she couldn't answer.

Lol, do you want to have a married woman's contact? Honestly, I don't know why some people feel they should enjoy your money when they are not giving you anything in return.

A girl I know from University have been trying everything possible for me to give her money but I bluntly refused. She sent account details more than five times. I once asked her, if I send you this money, the money is for what exactly because you are not selling anything. She said the money is for being my friend. I just know that this one is menting.

Don't ever presume to give another person peace of mind. You can only support someone to achieve that peace of mind. Peace is a resolution from within. When she thinks you owe her peace of mind, and you get busy later, the blackmail game will be activated.

I understand your position, I have female friends that are expecting such from me, they are always dear, love, sweetheart and all that. I don't want to end our friendship on sour note, so I ignored. I know I am not getting married soon.

It's only one police girl, she told me she understood what she is doing, because I told her she can't get any relationship from me but we can get intimate and she agreed on that terms.

If you are not ready, please don't.

Lol, the man should be given an award of foolishness for last year. How can some men be this irresponsible? You cheated and you were caught by your wife, instead of you to change for good, you said it doesn't mean you don't love her? What if she starts cheating and said thesame thing to you?

I don't have any advice, but I will suggest that the man be sent to Gaza for immediate recruitment.

Some people are very good in destroying what life has given to them.

I read some comments and people just the ment in this country.

OP, the question is a serious one that requires soul searching. It encourage one to examine one's relationship with others. Do you have intimate relationship that require people to notice your immediate absence?

An American woman once die and decayed in her room unnoticed.

May God help us.

When my phone spoilt for one week, that was when I know the importance of relationship. Some Facebook friends went extra mile to chat people that comment on my post regular to ask about me, others were disturbing mutual friends, I was really surprised.

Lol, this OP deserve award for being the most easily manipulated boyfriend in the world for January.

Personally, the moment a lover cheats on me, there is no going back. I will never forgive someone for cheating on me. I have ended two relationships because of cheating, the last one begged, her younger sister, cousins, friends and her boss, they all begged and intervened, but otilo. I can't settle for less.

@OP, if she cheated on you because, for example, you have small dick, and you beg her and she returns, since you can't add extra dick, the cheating spree have been legalized by your begging and it will be on another level.

The way some guys behave as if they don't have girls in their area is funny. Begging a girl who cheated on you?

I lost my sexual attraction to someone who cheated on me immediately. God forbid.

Demigod no go chop shit.

There was a day I visited my friend and he invited two hook up girls. These girls are very neat, highly attractive and wow. He took the other girl to his room, and the one generously given to me stayed with me gisting throughout the night. Interestingly, she is a great communicator, we talked about school life, unemployment, insecurity and fashion.

OP, I am not an advocate of hook up or olosho as they call it, but the so called good girl is broad. Good girl in what aspect? If it's sex, some girls are too poor. When a girl sleepover at your place, give you Mouth Gig, ride you, gives you different mind blowing styles of sex, and you meet the good girl only for her to accept missionary which you do all the work, you will understand the difference.

The hook up girl I was given, I didn't do anything with her because I was sentimental, and I don't like the idea of paying money to someone for sex immediately.

Honestly, the high availability of hook up is worrisome when you want something genuine. Both men and women are cheating indiscriminately, but the fact that ladies can do anything for the money is scary.

You don't know who have been used by these Yahoo guys, or who sold her womb, some attracted spiritual complications and all these complexities mar every thought of any serious relationship.

I have dated ladies older than me and there is no question of disrespect in the relationship. I don't treat my partner with levity, and as they say, respect is a reciprocal. So it's not a big deal, it's mutual understanding.

Poor people are too greedy. Their entitlement mentality is high. They feel a suitor should be their breakthrough.

Apart from the outrageous marriage list, they still ask the son in-law to contribute money for their own useless son's marriage, burial or any occasion in their own family.

You want someone to give to you what you can't give to yourself.

Dey play
God abeg oo
You go explain tire no evidence
Otilo
Wahala be like bicycle
If I no get money wetin I gain
You the ment
No gree for anybody.

Lol, OP, what type of joke is this?

It's normal for people to date before getting married. As an adult, when you are dating someone, you are suppose to be observant, take cognizance of her character, behaviors, her attitude, how she handles her issue. I believe you see these things but choose to ignore.

How people feel it's their responsibility to change someone is still ridiculous to me. You can't change an adult, unless he or she wants to change.

You should engage her in a genuine conversation about this issue, and you can start being romantic through your actions too. Try to help her in the kitchen when you are at home and free, do some cleaning at home, help putting baby to sleep, take her to eatery once awhile, buy her gifts how small it is, you can bath together, establish a business for her,buy the same shirt to wear, go to photo studio for family photos. She will return your romantic gesture. You can't just sit and conclude that she lack nothing because you provide food, you have to discuss with her and make her feel safe to discuss anything with you.

This is why I encourage lovers to spend more time together before getting married, at least, she can spend some holidays in your place, enjoy the pleasure of sex ( hypocrisy of religion fanatic should stay away from this comment.). Communicate your fears, worries, plans, weaknesses and strength.

Nooooooooo.

We play too much in this country. This is a walking red flag with evidence. I don't even want to start from my family yet, what about your children, can this lady raise healthy, functional, value oriented children? We have so many toxic, damaged and maniac in the society because some parents are not supposed to be parents.

I will rather donate my money to Sowere Omoleye to contest for student Union election knowing fully well that he won't win than to pay for this lady's bride price.

So a man will kneel down and tell this girl; you are the best part of my life?

Lol, Tonto Dike won't like this news. In fact, Tonto Dike left the group chat.

This Churchill, Obasanjo low budget son is doing well, although I don't know any of his business. The way Nigeria is now, anyone can easily become wealthy overnight.

Reading news in Nigeria is really depressing. Either kidnapping, bandits killing villagers, an robbery, looting spree, fire outbreak or suicide, poverty and unemployment.

This country is a curse in disguise.

Innocent hustling people become jobless and homeless overnight. God!

This is outrageous and despicable. An engineering fresh graduate? After the frustration from lecturers, hunger and stress and money spent?

Nigerian government needs to wake up and the citizens need to be considerate towards one another.