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Meektunz:
Chai, but why all the hypocrisy amongst them? If you see the way they look at other girls that do their own openly ehn?

LoL, that's human nature. Hypocrisy is in Vogue. Most of us have sex but want people to believe that we are not having sex. When I was in school, I had lot of sex and I am not ashamed of it. It's a sin but we are all sinners. I can't lie to myself.

LoL, you will meet lot of them in school, the fellowship sisters. I was knacking one like that and her neighbors still believe she is a virgin, she will give me a dress code before visiting her so that her neighbors will think I am a fellowship brother, I still knack her in her room.

I just hope and pray that you will soon date your English that is forming hard to correct.

The NEPA took the light so that you and your babe can knack in darkness. If you can't do it in darkness, go and get fuel.

DaBogu:
Fear them any man that doesn't do any one of the three

Hahaha, I don't know what you are trying to say but I don't do any of those things mentioned.

She doesn't have sense.

Feminism should be healthy and not toxic. The essence of feminism is to champion for the welfare of the womenfolk, but some misplaced folks have turned it into a very unfortunate, unproductive and a failed opposition to patriarchy.

African feminism is a joke, you can't be begging and be parading yourself as feminist. Most African women lack foresight to be independent economically and culturally, they depends on men to fund and bankroll their lives. How many African feminist are paying child support? How many African feminist quit their home or share their property with their estranged husband after divorce?

I promote humanism and I am concerned about humanity, not gender chauvinism. Personally, I can't be close to any feminist, it's sickening. I am not an fan of patriarchy either.

For those saying men do one of those things, we have men that don't smoke, drink nor womanize. I don't do any of those things, but I do other things since we all have vice.

I am currently not dating anyone. But I have a natural affection for intelligent people. When I see a girl that has vibes, communicate fluently, knows what she wants, I will definitely be attracted to her.

I am very social and extrovert to the core. Any environment I find myself I make sure I know the people and they know me. It's my personality. I visited my mom for the first time, spent three days and all the neighbours and their children have my name on their lips. But my younger brother is exactly like OP.

Fahdiga:
You are a shameless simp and I don't pity your type when have problem.

From your comment, I agree that Nairaland is full of emotionally drained people that are toxic. Must you insult other people just to make your point understood?

Deicide:
How do you define worth it? Cause it seems like you don't have sense

You should have used your sense to know that you can actually make me understand your point without insulting me.

Afrobasic:
The problem isn't spending on her, but what she is giving you in return.

As you can see, these ho's are broke af, and can only offer their retired stank pum pum everyone done already had to you. That is why they are referred to as liabilities/leeches.

And as a simp that you are, you are here

defending them. Smh

I think you should work on yourself, there's a way you can make me understand your point without calling me names.

TheOldGods:
that I budgeted 3k does not mean I really want to spend it all. It only means like if we really have to go beyond then 3k is limit, that doesn't mean we can't save money? If the food doesn't add up to 3k

Well, if she is worth it, just discuss with her, if she is willing to change.

Yeah, I have this secondary School mate, then we both left secondary School to university. I started asking her out right from secondary School but she refused. We both gained admission, she went to university of Maiduguri and I went to Kogi State University. Then she started calling and texting, later she asked me to be her boyfriend. I rejected the offer immediately. Already, I have plenty girls in my school, and the distance relationship is not for me.

I have other girls that asked me out too, most of them ended up being my girlfriend, only few no work out.

Trust, mutual respect and fidelity is being underrated in relationship these days. OP, you are just being childish. There's nothing special about womanizing or tasting different kpekus. While in school, I was behaving like you and when I graduated, I discovered that I lose all the genuine girls I should have built something with.

Our reasoning here is becoming toxic by the day. If I have a girlfriend, there's nothing wrong with spending my money on her. She didn't force me to come and ask her out. I know relationship is not about spending money, but some people make it look like you are committing crime by giving your woman money.

Why can't I give a lady I love my money?

As for me, I will marry from any part of the world as far as my peace of mind is guarantee with the lady. Love conquers all.

This is really funny, both of you are just funny. Since you budgeted 3k for the whole food and you have ordered your own and it's okay for you, you should have allowed her use the remaining balance, at least, you have gotten the result of your test.

Sincerely, I don't have problem spending my money on my girlfriend, that's if she is worth it. If your girlfriend is worth it, no need for the whole test. When you need her to be financially wise, you discuss with her, not testing her.

PaulOtl:
Loool me too..hahaha
I did that last on Saturday afternoon. I'll just be aimlessly walking about nude and wasting time before going to take the bath.
It feel natural and good. I occasionally steal quick glances at my peniß and then I feel guilty immedi, so I take my eyes away from it, and my mind would be assuring me that ' you're size is just right. It's okay, relax ' Or you want more...? No , you're okay '
That's weird , and that's what I sometimes experience.

LoL, I can perfectly understand that feeling. It's really exhilarating walking naked in your home, there was a time my girlfriend caught me and she couldn't stop laughing and making jokes about it.

arthurwillia:
Woman woman and Money na im Dey cause fight pass
Na wa o
Dem for just shoot you? E get as e be o
How did you solve the shii

The threat was becoming too much and scary so a coursemate and friend of mine informed his cousin, his cousin was furious. He took some people to visit my oppressor, gave him a terrible beaten of his life and the guy started calling me boss since then.

The relationship was one of the best relationship I ever had in school. The girl so much love me, but I have to choose my life over woman.

arthurwillia:
You be cultist baba

No, I wasn't a cultist. The guy said he was interested in a lady I was dating and the girl wouldn't accept him because of me. The whole thing was because of woman.

sketcherJ:
wait what later happened that night

I was bold to speak with him man to man and when he got to know that I grew up in Benue, that helped me a lot. But the guy kept on bringing gun to my room and be threatening shit out of me, at some point he seized my two phones. I even abandoned my room but he won't let me be until I got to know his group and then I involved his senior. The senior dealt with him and we were reconciled, but the whole memory still haunt me.

That day was terrible. The guy actually fired some shots at me but I don't know how I survived it. That evening I was standing with a friend before the shooting started and people were running, the innocent me ran for my dear life.

Two days later, this guy came with some guys and placed guns on my bed and asked me to choose the one they will use for me. That was when he revealed that the previous shooting two days ago was targeted at me. All this intimidation because of woman.

When it comes to issue of gun, my experience in school was terrifying.

My late grandma warned me that in all my doings I should run far away from married women. It's a curse in my place. Something that attract death and misfortune.

Dajuyoung:
Boss, I hail � Meanwhile I'm always on look out, who knows?

Hahahaha, I greet you bro.

HRSweetness:
Is that weird?

When my girlfriend caught me one day she actually laughed but found it very crazy for someone to be walking naked in his house for no reason.

Tonytonex:
I love the last statement.

Thanks man. I just believe that I shouldn't live my life to the dictate of other people. I once read a book" I will marry when I want" by Ngugi wa Thiongo. I choose my peace of mind over societal or family pressure.

Liposure:
the pressure

Yeah, most people are put under pressure to marry, but God knows that I will never succumb to such pressure from anybody.

When you read the story titled" Marriage is a private affair" by Chenua Achebe. You will realize that your personal motivation to marry is the most important thing before getting married.

bonnyhope:
So you already married when in school

Or you were FORNICATING??

LoL, married ke. I was only fornicating o.

When I see a lady I like, I will walk over to her and let her know. If she doesn't vibe with me, I move on. I know better than to be chasing girl, especially girls that will still cheat on me.

Paternity fraud
Cheating
Unproductivity
Begging
Laziness
Entitlement mentality


I am not even sure about my feelings for these girls in my generation. Especially the aspect of been faithful in a relationship.