₦airaland Forum

All for the Gram. It was women that raised Lai Muhammad in his lying career.

It's good to be independent, but lying to pass a message of such moral magnitude is not necessary.

Personally, I feel like if I am giving out money it should be because of humanity, not me performing sort of responsibility.

Whenever my friend give his girlfriend 10k, he will send his mother 40k. He said anything he can not give his mother four times, he cannot give his girlfriend.

Maturity is relative, what you consider as maturity may be considered as immaturity to another person.

Even when you chat with a stranger on Facebook, she will either ask you for a favor, airtime, money. They are always in need of money, some will even say they are hungry. Only few are reasonable.

I met a lady in my place of work, I am to spend only three months there before I return to my base, so I don't really care about the ladies at the office. She collected my contact and started acting nice and caring, little time she requested for airtime, I sent. The second time I ignored her message. They are always hungry.

The first most stupid thing I did for love was when I brought my secondary School English teacher to help me ask the girl out.

I was going home from school and one stupid girl, junior student made me follow her to the bank, while I was waiting outside for her, I concluded that I will use the opportunity and lash the girl, immediately she came out she started telling me about her boyfriend, I still feel stupid whenever I remember that event.

I have been stupid for love but I can never forget what I passed through in the hands of Cynthia in my University days.

Cynthia, anywhere you are, Buhari will call you.

Tell her you can't be her brother. If you want her kpekus and she doesn't want to give you, end the familiarity and move to the next available option.

You are having that feeling because she is the girl that deflowered, she is your first. When you start having sex regularly with other girls the feeling will go away.
We have a special and genuine bond with the first person we have sex with.

The first girl I had sex with, we are so close and shared deep bond. We had sex multiple times and we were inseparable. Even when the relationship was being threatened, we found away of seeing each other. We are still in touch till today, anytime we meet we always have sex, but my friend advised me to stop having sex with her since we are no longer dating because it will affect my future relationship.

If you genuinely love the girl you can reach out to her, but if it's for the sex, just go get another girl, with time the feeling will fade away.

IdanNla:
I never got problem about the Sex! What cause all the devastation was that she claimed RAPE and said the deed has been done Asin she decided to act like nothing happened that is what is getting me Mad so I am at a cross road WAS she Raped or Did she cook all this up because someone asked you out and you went visiting putting on a gown and pant and the person rolled weed and she sat comfortable and the whole thing started and she fought but the guy have his way with her without having any bruises or her undies getting torn. A girl that I know how she could resist even me if she want no sex Altho I could overpowered but it will be at the expense of hurting her so telling me a guy raped her without bruises is what I can’t just process in my brain! She even talked to the guy the next day shows she is not Mad or furious about the whole thing like she just throw it past her the next day like nothing happened I can’t believe that!

OP, the girl just cheated on you. You are reasonable by asking those questions, but since she can't provide the answers and shedding the crocodile tears, you already know the qualms.

OP, I won't advise you to go and make joke of yourself in filing a case. You have too be extra careful when dealing with these girls.

To be honest with you, your girl just cheated on you and she decided to manipulate you emotionally to cover up her shame.

Why would a girl that is in a relationship go and visit a guy that is asking her out? When you hear some stories from girls or hear their reasoning, you wonder the kind of brains they have.

Because you are not always with her, she decided to go cheat and because she see the husband material in you, she decided to keep you. Your girlfriend is just a typical Nigerian girl, so we are not surprise.

I can bet Buhari's life that the sex between your girlfriend and her colleague didn't happen once, she is just like every other average Nigerian girl.

Hi I am Buhari

Pastor don finally collect his own breakfast.

Midastorch:
Central Area is a business district, strictly for business,you find very few people residing in Central Area....in Abuja it's first Maitama, Asokoro is second....

Then I would have expected the OP to show us pictures of Maitama instead of hyping Asokoro and showing us roads like talking about Grammy and showing us Portable pictures.

Wetin Juliana used me see for secondary, my keyboard cannot type it all.

Juliana, anywhere you are, you will receive Buhari's call.

Never, what kind of reckless suicide is that?

luvyaself95:
No Success without failure

Exactly, you have said it all.

VictorUSA:
So basically, what do you mean?

What I am trying to say is that relationship is not my priority right now, so I will prefer to stay single.

This OP is funny, you are telling us about how Asokoro is beautiful and you ended up showing us pictures of roads with flowers.

These days people prefer to live in Maitama, Jabi and Gwarimpa than that Asokoro. Personally, I think Abuja Central Area should be given that credit.
When you visit NNPC tower, CBN, Transcorp, ShopRite, Silverbird, those ministries buildings, you will know that Asokoro is becoming old.

Iyaebe:
Relationship causes distraction for a struggling man, things have changed and life isn’t as it used to be

And what does relationship do to the broke lady?

Man's inhumanity to man.

I am single and not searching, what do a young promising guy like me wan use relationship do?

Back then in University, I will do everything for Cynthia just for her to reply my message. Things we do for love.

Those set of people we think we can't do without, those people that you think are special are very ordinary, it is our love that made them special. With time the guy will realize that he wasted his time pleasing who doesn't deserve it.

After Cynthia that year, I placed premium value on myself when it comes to relationship. Sometimes, we are foolish in order to become wise.

The hilarious moment I had was when my girlfriend went to bath, I noticed she was taking longer than expected, I just opened the door without knocking and I caught her twerking naked. The water was running and she was so focused that she didn't notice me, so I just go slapped her buttocks and the way she freaked out was funny.

With news like this, marriage is becoming more scary and risky.

We just graduated from school and awaiting NYSC, the life is blur, I am still hoping for direction and purpose. But most of my coursemates are emotionally depending on me to talk them out of depression. I wish I started listening to people telling me about their worries and encouraging them to fight, I wish I started that early.

Throughout my schooling, I was computer illiterate, it was after my graduation I decided to enroll for the classes, I wish I started that early too.

I never realized how strong and intelligent I am until few days ago, how I wish I know this since.

Goodluck Jonathan met his wife when he was broke as a student.

Barrack Obama met his wife when he was struggling.

E Money met his wife when he was still struggling.

Been Carson met his wife as a struggling man in the University.

Victor Moses of super eagle met his wife in secondary School as a broke guy.

There is nothing wrong with a struggling man having relationship, love and urge doesn't respect financial status. People are so obsessed with what a man should have be thinking of relationship, but are not serious about what the woman should have.

I understand this post is meant to encourage struggling man but at the same time sending wrong message about the attitude of some women towards relationship.

OP, to be honest with you, what you did was wrong. Fingering that girl and dragging her trouser is totally wrong. Your self acclaimed handsomeness should be complemented with maturity.

I had a similar situation twice. A girl I met on Facebook, we started chatting and calling, the second time she visited my house I started by asking her out, she said she has a boyfriend, I didn't give up, I started with kissing, took her to bed, pulled her trouser. If you do this I will regret ever coming to your house; she told me. That simple statement brought sense back to my head immediately.

There was a girl I asked out but she refused, when she came to my house to get my textbook, I made an attempt, we kissed but she refused to go down with me, I respectfully allowed her to go. That same girl after seven years called me on Friday to wish me happy birthday.

What I am trying to say is that sex is too cheap for someone to jeopardize his future because of, next time, know how to convince a girl to agree to sex with you, and when she dragged, just let her be.

So this OP went to church and her pastor preached against redpillers today.

Cum is personal, the goal is for me to cum, if I cum I get up. If you don't cum, you can cum on your way home or go to another room and cum. I can't cum and kill myself.

Most girls are sexually boring. A girl wants you to do the romance, finger her, play with her clitoris, Know her weak point, she will lie on your bed like Nigerian economy, for you to do all the thrusting. Most of them can't even ride a man on bed. You come to my house, I offer you food and drink, I will still give you transport fare and pocket money, and you still want me to make you cum, did I send you to taste all the gbola in your area? Very self centred gender.

The funniest thing about this tread is how the OP is so confident of his girlfriend as if she is virgin Mary.

What I don't understand is how the guy's lifestyle or his relationship with your girlfriend's friend is affecting your own relationship? What happened to mind your business?

Just carry your relationship for head and be focus, allow the player to play, that's why he is called player.

Ilamina:
I meant when you really young, not secondary school dreams

I had those dreams in primary school, I think around primary 2 when I started participating in my primary school drama club.

I always want to become an actor, a distinguish actor, a very learned and accomplished actor.

I want to become a writer to be writing novels, plays and short stories.

I want to explore the media industry.

I want to study Theatre Arts in Kogi State University.


Right now, I just graduated from Theatre Arts department, Kogi State University.

I have written a play but not published yet, I also have short stories and novel yet to be published. During my industrial training, I served as a reporter in kapital FM in Abuja, and I am looking forward to serve NYSC in a Media house.

I believe gradually, I will get my goals achieved.