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OP, it's show that you are genuinely educated and responsible. I have been in this situation several times. While in school, during holidays, I visited my mom and her two neighbors have female children, I usually play with them and I even tell them stories and boom, the crushing start. But I always know my boundaries.

I teach in secondary School during holidays some times, even during my industrial training. These innoncent naive girls are really obsessed with you. But it is ethically and morally wrong to take advantage of such minor, so I am always guided.

After sampling fresh girls in school and town, and hoping for more, why would I stoop so low to abuse a minor?

God bless every responsible man like op.

Life is Like a penis, simple, soft and straight forward, but woman makes it hard.

The downfall of a man is not that of breasts, man fall and rise, only breasts fall forever.

You think you are wise? Have you ever ask fowl why the cork must force her before having sex?

God can forgive man but He curse the anus never to see the sunlight because of disobedience.

I have always make it my priority to be financially generous to female gender that is family, like sisters and mother. But talking about girlfriend, I don't date girls that are intellectually dysfunctional to the point that, she thinks begging me money is the only means to survive. I support my girlfriend financially, especially when it regards business, because she thrive to succeed on her own, and she also support me when the need arises. But those girls begging in return for kpekus, I can never bring myself so low to date such.

I love my woman to be on the same page with me.

Shalommy:
Op, you don't wanna spend on a lady but don't go about raping people's children oo. Lemme see how you'll handle conji. Chaii

Kpekus is the cheapest product after biscuits. During the last Valentine's day, girls were doing bonanza, giveaways of kpekus. Since I was born and now that I am getting old, kpekus have never been scarce nor the price hike.

After all my efforts to graduate with first class that year, my school knack me with 4.47. I was disappointed and sad until a friend consistently told me that I am a great person and I will go far in life irrespective of the grade. Since then I realized that I can actually achieve greater things irrespective of not meeting my target point.

Since that day whenever I meet my HOD, I don't even care because that thing pain me. 4.47, haba.

It's good to motivate students with step like this.

I have never dated albino before but I have a neighbor back in school that dated albino. The albino was my coursemate, and the guy my neighbor, studying philosophy that time. The girl normally spend money on the guy. The boy said he wanted to be a musician, but they later broke up, I don't know why, but I know the guy is the most unsuccessful womanizer I have ever met.

What is the difference between a runs girls and the regular girlfriend that is a serial cheat?

Most of us get to know the things we are told, what about the things we aren't told?

Even married women are defrauding their men with paternity fraud.

We are all low budget runs girls and boys.

If the runs girls never tell you about their past, you wouldn't know.

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnn!!!! She told me to kidnap her and therefore lie to her parents that she's being Kidnapped. My girlfriend o... Imagine the stupidity... Lmao..


She later went ahead and plan it with another guy, they're currently dating now btw...

Thank God you used your head. That's really weird. Kidnapping her? What if you guys got arrested?

zexy2030:
She belongs too and that sex has taken lots from you. Just wait after graduation.

I have already graduated. I have kept multiple sexual partners in school that immediately I graduated from school I lost my sexual appetite.

I pray I don't get affected by my sexual recklessness.

RisenJoe:
She asked me to help her out with lesson fees,

Hahahaha, boss, this is not a weird request na, most Nigerian girls beg, they are like orphans.

czarr:
We know you are lying but continue...

Because I am so jobless, I will just come to Nairaland and lie because someone will pay me for lying. I am just thinking about school life and decided to create a thread about my experience.

3verblazing:
She's an agent sent to get you. But your head strong lucky you man!

I couldn't believe my ears, I was astounded. The funniest thing was that my village was battling cult clash for over three years that made me stayed in Abuja for all my holidays.

Rule number one: Never tell your current girlfriend about what lead to your break up with your ex.

Rule number two: Never tell your current girlfriend about your sexual exploits.

You decorated and celebrated kpekus that is not a virgin, you are doing everything to impress kpekus that will always cheat on you. You are 28 and kpekus of 23 made mess of you.

I have always make it a priority not to go out of my way to impress a woman who is not family. Relationship is overrated, it doesn't worth the stress.

You are crying over kpekus that every small boy in her street have penised, but when you lose a family you will be forming man and will never cry. Maybe her kpekus doesn't smell or is special.

She is a democracy, kpekus for the boys, by the boys and of the boys. As cheap as kpekus is, some people are still waiting time.

If you really want to cry, just think about Russia and Ukraine.

Breakfast wey everybody the chop, e reach your own you come the seek for advice.

I was thinking about all the relationship I kept while in school, and the weird things we do in relationship, especially when the request is coming from a lover. So this prompted me to ask this question. What is the weirdest thing a lover ever ask you to do for him or her?


Mine happened in the University. I was dating one girl like that. We were cool and the relationship was smooth. Three months into the relationship, she visited me one day and gave me 20k. When I asked for the purpose of the money, she smiled and said I should use the money and go and join cult. I was surprised. She confidently told me that she know a guy that would make the initiation fee and ritual easy for me. She wants me to be a cultist for her. When I rejected the idea, she said I will lose her because she wanted to date a cultist. She gave me two days to think about it.

After two days, she came to my place and ask if I have made up my mind. I profusely told her that I will not be part of her madness. She later ask for sex and after the intense sex we had, she said that would be our last sex because she has broken up with me. I stared at her as she dressed and walked out of my room and life. She started dating one boy like that, but the day I was signing out, she visited and we had sex with no strings attached.

So guys, let's share ours for fun.

Congratulations to them. If there's money then no big deal. I can't propose on top 33k. So let the money come and I will do that.

This former governor can hustle media hype like kilode. He should be preparing his files awaiting EFCC kangaroo demonstration of Nigerian stupidity.

MrMacinterchi1:
how does an ex having sex be a betrayal to you?

If you understand my story very well, I was threatened to break up with her, I have to choose between her and my life, and my friend who is aware of the situation slept with her. The friend told me that she said she wanted to hurt me so she decided to have sex with my friend.

I have experienced multiple betrayal but there's this one that really enter me. Because I was threatened to break up with Khadija and for the sake of my life I broke up, Khadija and my friend had sex just to hurt me for breaking up with her, a breakup that wasn't intentional.

I was dating one girl like that o, she catch feelings come break up with her cultist boyfriend. Baba come the monitor me with his guys.

One night I see this girl off, I was standing with her before I hear gunshots, everywhere scatter. I told her to run home and I codedly go my lodge.

This girl come sleep over for my house and we play throughout the night, she still come the following day, na so the guy trace her come my house. He placed two guns on my bed to choose the one he go use for me. He even told me that I was the one they wanted to kill the day they were shooting anyhow.

I can't complete this story because it is a testimony.

luvyaself95:
When you see a girl wey get sense you go know almost instantly.

You are kind of right about this.

blinking001:
She wan bill you.

Hahaha, una don see Nigerian girls finish.

Hezzyluv:
Wetin happened to that guy no be depression, "Na unadulterated foolishness"

Hahaha, too bad.

Kobojunkie:
1. Rubbish!

2. Are you saying that as a grown up, You would have decided to keep malice with her if she hadn't apologized when she did?

I didn't remember the event again until she called and mentioned it to me at the course of her apology. I choose peace of mind over everything. I don't really care about petty things.

Marriage is not my priority. Good life is what I am after. I can't pressurize myself. I have friends that are getting married, buying stuffs and enjoying their lives and I just graduated from school waiting to serve.

We are living different life and running different race. When it's time for me to marry, I will do that comfortably.

I choose being single over marriage in poverty.

One girl visited me for tutorials and she sleep over in my room. I taught her the course and respected myself. When she was leaving the following morning, I gave her 1k for bike money.

Two days later she saw me in the department and started telling her friends that I am her husband. A day before I sign out, she came again not for tutorials but to sign on my shirt against tomorrow. I just go two rounds.

She still came in the night of the day I signed out, I still go three rounds. I didn't give her any money.

Later her friend came to tell me that the girl told them that she will date me because I have money because I gave her that 1k. I still go two rounds on the friend.

When I left school, she kept on disturbing me for months before she stopped.

In my 200 level, it was a trend to kiss and tell. Those guys will chop fresher and gist us. Khadija will not allow me pull down the pants unless I promise her that I won't tell my coursemates. I never kiss and tell before so I just promised her.

Later when I broke up with her, she started telling her female coursemates how big my gbola is, I wasn't angry because some of her friends came to taste the rod to confirm her story.

You just described me. We are similar. I lost my ability to love someone, my ability to even express how I think, feel towards someone. While in school, I always say it to my neighbors, friends and coursemates that we can only have sex, but no relationship because I can't love a heart.

I met great girls that think we should give it a try and I might fall for them. But after the sex, the same story. I don't feel jealous, love, nothing. The only thing that makes me have sex then is the blood and homones.

But currently, I have also lost my appetite for sex. Woman is not part of my life for some time now, I stopped having sex last year. I just want to hang out with friends, enjoy my own company, watch movies, travel and read books and make money.

You did not actually do any wrong, but two minutes will not make you lose the appointment. You would have at least spare him the two minutes or inform him if you guys can talk the following day because you are enroute to somewhere.

There's a girl in my place of work. Although I just spent one month in the office but we are coming fast close. Yesterday she was angry and I asked if she wanted to talk about it, but she harshly told me no. Later after the work, she called me and started apologizing with plenty story. And today she was telling me how she likes my personality.

Too bad, unrequited love is painful, it shatters one's feelings, batters one's ego. But killing yourself over woman or love is the most unfortunate and very pathetic way to exit the world.

On lighter note, he would have travelled to Ukraine and give his life to Putin since he can't give it to God.

Depression is the worst state of mind.

I think I have this domineering disposition right from my primary school. I can't come to a place unnoticed. I always dominate anywhere I found myself. People get to regards me and accord me special kind of respect or privilege.

Right from University days, I always attract attention.

nicvicb:
Thanks Alot man for your response , I am really happy you're all taking your time to contribute and make this thread not only and interesting but also an educative one , now your contribution reminds me of something , do you remember that in our society or culture I don't know how to put it , but our mothers sees independent girls as women who cannot be controlled, who wouldn't be respectful , humble and obedient to their husbands if their married

That was centuries ago. This 21st century, most people want a self made woman. We have women like Ngozi Okonjoiweala, Prof Dora Akunyili, Linda Ikeji, Alikija, Chimamanda Adichie. Who are happily married even though they are independent.

You are not getting married for your parents but yourself. Choose what you feel is best for you not what they think is right. Even Dangote's wife is still working.