₦airaland Forum

In my secondary School days I was very intelligent. I know lot of things my classmates don't know. I am always representing my school in debate.

I was a comedian, a stand up comedian especially during social day every Friday.

I also acted a lot of roles in our school drama every Friday.

Neswcaster, I joined the school press club and I cast news every Monday and Wednesday.

The class jester and brainbox. Then everyone calls me Prof Daddy instead of Puff Daddy.

I am proud of you for your self value and self respect. You are on a right track. These dumb ass girls don't know what they actually want in life, so never allow them to use you. If she is not straight forward with you, she can go.

After biscuits, vagina is the cheapest thing in this world, we are just conscious of the person carrying the vagina.

Whenever you become a second option in people's lives, don't allow them to choose you.

Guy, you are doing well by giving her money. Most Nigerian girls are like ophans, so may God bless you for your charity.

My question is that, while you are giving her this money, what does she contribute to the relationship apart from the hugs and kisses? I am not interested in the sex right now as every girl can offer sex if money is available. Just her healthy contribution to the relationship.

If she genuinely love you like you said, I think the proper thing to do is that, she suppose present business idea for you to help her fund it or look for a job for her, so that she can be independent and help you financially too when the needs arise.

Personally, I am not stingy but I can't date a girl that see relationship as the only means of solving her financial problems. I like to see my woman doing great for herself and my help will just be a bonus for her.

Even while in school I have dated girls that never asked you for anything. Not even transport fare when they visit, and such girl? You feel happy when you get a chance to help her.

Date someone that wants to grow, someone productive and industrious, not a begger.

Bread and tea or moimoi.

aspabay:
But it's a different story if it's Tinubu's wife.

Tinubu's wife is already a three terms senator still serving and that's her right too.

Because you are a married man I will not insult you, but you can catch cruise with your wife na. Even dating, I can cheat nor misbehave, I give my girlfriend maximum respect for she deserves it.

I pray you will not lose a life partner over sex of five minutes.

You are truly a mess. First of all, you should be weeping for your writing, it is a mess too, infact, messier than your girlfriend.

Secondly, you don't want to lose a girl that is a community kpekus, a girl that have democraticalize her kpekus. Kpekus for the people, by the people and of the people, you must be Abraham Lincoln to love a democratic kpekus.

Thirdly, that's what love does, you lose focus. Four to five years in the University, seeing different girls, and you are even a PCM, do you know the quality and quantity of girls you will meet in camp?

Son of man, may you never be foolish over the sweetness of any kpekus.

Professor of Geography and Planning, well done master planner. You should work on your psyche. In your rules you said no public display of affection and same you is complaining that she is behaving as if the relationship is school relationship. Obviously, you are a difficult person to deal with. Relationship is to be enjoyed and not endure.

Relationship is not prison, she have her own life to live outside the toxic relationship you are planning. You are making rules, why not go to National Assembly to make laws?

I don't have the maturity or emotional capacity to forgive a cheating partner. There was a time I was forced to break up with my girlfriend by one bad guy, my girlfriend don't want to break up with me, but my life was at stake, so I cut her off.

She wanted to hurt me and the only thing the mumu girl could think of was to have sex with my mumu friend and my mumu friend told me about it after they had the sex. To be honest I was hurt.

A year later she came back after the bad guy left the school, the relationship cannot happen again, I can't be that stupid, but once in awhile she normally come for sex till I graduated.

The first girlfriend I had in the University was the only dating or relationship I had. The rest is just catching cruise. I broke up with my first University girlfriend because I was threatened and I never know my way for school that year.

I just feel like I should just have girls I can have sex with and immediately I graduated I lost appetite for sex, maybe because I never get money to live the easy life I want.

But hopefully, after NYSC I will try going into relationship to know how it tastes.

Give it soul to Christ before it die.

On a serious note, communication is very important. You guys should consider a vacation for two of you like weekend getaway. Attend love and relationship retreat with your partner. Create time for the relationship.

I am sexually attracted to intelligent ladies. If she is intellectually inclined and creative and productive with sense of humor, she can have my mumu button.

One girl looked at me after the first round and ask; should I wear my pants now? I was like, before you go leave am for here.

Mamzy will ask you to check your Facebook that she sent a message, when you check she just type" I want to do again" that time penis have slumped.

One thing I cannot do is to kill myself over sex. Whenever I am tired, I don't overdo, I will just go and get malt and milk .

I remembered a lady back then in school, I wanted relationship and she wanted friendship. Because of the respect and genuine love I have for her, I gave her the friendship. The feeling was there but I suppressed it. I called her everyday and we chatted everyday, she was my junior, so I helped her with all her assignments, tutorials and materials.

This friendship lasted for eight months. After a logical conversation with my guys about how detrimental it is to keep friendship with a lady you love, I realized I was the one carrying the weight of the friendship. When I stopped calling she never called to ask about me. That was how the friendship died. Four months later, she called me only to ask me if I can help her with her project. I honestly disappointed her and let her know that her friendship was parasitic, she reach out only when she needed help.

My point of telling you this story is that, as a young guy, from that experience, I made a decision never to be just a friend with someone I have feelings for. If I ask you out and you don't want, I move ahead. I can't be friends with you. If it is not working, don't force it, never allow someone to love you out of pity, don't beg for attention or love. Those people you think are special are very ordinary, it is your love that made them special. For your emotional health, if the friendship is not working, just move on. It is supposed to be reciprocated, a mutual thing, not one sided.

It depends on the individual and that's why you have to understand the girl you are dealing with.

While in school, the last two girls I copulate with, there's one that like me thrusting hard and going multiple rounds. You have to spank, thrust violently, change styles. But the second one wants it slow and steady. No stress. Only missionary style.

When I asked the second one why she prefers slow and peaceful sex compare to the rough one, she said people have choices.

She has the constitutional rights to contest, so that's not a big deal.

This one like others will surely pass. Nigerian system is so weak that it can not help itself.

Recently I am finding it difficult to differentiate between religion and stupidity. Even the educated ones are so myopic when it comes to the issue of religion.

Pragmatically speaking, she is human and have feelings and homones, the adjective"Muslim" is not necessary.

vicfajeze:
They are trying,if u were in their position,urs gonna be worst

Osogbo weed is not good for you, try change your supplier.

After the whole relationship and mentoring by Nelson Mandela, how did the failure Orji Kalu governed Abia for eight years?

I don't blame you OP, man must chop so I understand your hustle, but your product can't sell.

When it comes to relationship, I am very cool with all my ex's. Whenever we meet we always greet jovially. I don't have bad memory of them.

But I really like Khadija, but one cult guy forced me to break up with her. When the guy graduated I try my best to make things work out, but Khadija has already joined daughters of Eve.

My only concern is the woman who could not get the money Elijah promised her before he slumped. Ladies, always ask for payment before service.

At least, Elijah has escape Buhari.

Whenever I receive my paycheck, I always have my family in mind. I have a sister and brother in school, I have those who helped me while in school, and I still have friends in school.

I can help my girlfriend financially when the need arises, but God knows that I can't date unproductive lady. Paying someone's daughter salary or upkeep money all in the name of relationship is the lowest form of self degradation. I will rather remain single and spend that money on those that really need it.

Most people don't understand the word loyalty and fidelity in relationship. Our generation doesn't value the sanctity of relationship. Maybe because of hunger I can't tell.

OP, you deserve more than you are getting. She cheated on you, disregarded and disrespected you. She went away for just one month, and she allow guys to shift her pants because of mere 15k. Sincerely ask yourself if you really want to have such a lady as a wife. Don't hope or try to change a grown woman. A cheat will always cheat if given the opportunity.

I don't romance with things that disrespect me, self respect and self value is my motto. Don't settle for less, always do away with toxic and unhealthy relationships.

This guy is terribly funny, he is even asking if to forgive her. But seriously, you guys are students and you are planning to marry her. Students these days have money though, because when I was a student, the only thing on my mind is to graduate.

In Benue rounding up secondary School.

Gosh, this is really disgusting. May we not give birth to children that think killing other children is the only way of making money.

I once told my mother that I can only kneel down twice.

First, when I am worshipping.

Second, when I am serving punishment.
And I have grown beyond that kind of punishment, unless when in the hands of military.

When I am ready to marry, I will just tell the lady to inform her parents to give me date when I will come with my family. I can drop the ring for her in a fridge and cunningly ask her to get me something from the fridge. Or put it in her bag with a written note.

But that kneeling down to propose is not my thing, in public make it worst. I am a king, and in my culture a king don't kneel down for a woman.

The moral decadence is alarming. These girls are sexually objectifying themselves and they will still be the ones to complain about men objectifying them

The society is bleeding. We have thrown away respect to dogs.

I don't believe you because if your head is so big as you claimed, at least, the quantity of brains in it would have told you to attach pictures to your post.

Even God knows that nothing concern me and my girlfriend phone. I know it's just my turn, because for this life eh, loyalty and fidelity in relationship have been bastardize.

Since the days of Adam, kpekus have been the downfall of most men. I am yet to understand what she applied on her kpekus that made Phil Collins to be this democratically simping.

Well, even God knows that I will always choose bear over wife.

Most women are lazy and greedy too.