₦airaland Forum

Arewalegend:
ur mama Na she be ur deputy God for this life... If U like hate her Na urself U do...

You are obviously enjoying and swimming in ignorance, so I will let you be since your brain capacity wouldn't be enough to ask me what the problem is before cursing me.

hakym619:
Make scholarship dey stalk me like your ex does

Amen, I pray life offer you the best. Death will give you time to achieve great things, your enemies will respect you. You no go fall, in Jesus name, amen.

Hassanmaye:
My bro I will advise you to settle any querrel with your mum now if not you will regret it, mother ain't joke real G's don't joke with their mums

I am trying my best but it's not just working, she messed up big time and I am psychologically damaged by her actions. I am trying so hard to build the trust, I even visited her to spend my two weeks holiday with her, but as usual,it ended the way it always does.

Arewalegend:
see this akuya fool,mumu U ain't cool with ur biological mother... May life never be cool with U ameen...

An intelligent individual would have asked to know what is wrong between my mother and I, but average Nigerian like you behaving like Arsenal fan, will just conclude and start cursing who you don't even know.

headbasher96:
AKA urgent 2k gang them plenty well well

We guys are suppose to date girls that will help us financially not the opposite imagine on a broke day your babe visit u after hot sex she buy u one or two bottles, cook a nice meal for u and drop some change for tell me say u go over think again.


But the average Nigerian girl now wants to dress like what she sees in music video and celebrities online. She wants to eat where governor and politicians will spot her easily and who is going to fund all this


One broke nigga trying to survive and arrange his own future let me advice u guys today if u have money and u feel like to spend send it to your mother if u don't have look for a hard working sibling and give to him/her that thank You will go a long way

I like your way of reasoning. Family over girls, we just have to be focus and prioritize our investment.

MufasaLion:
I could deduce your studentship status from your write-up. Don't give in to these particular girls you're talking about.

There are still many females out there that will appreciate you and be yours. In fact, there are ladies that will cook and gift you things because you worth it. Don't let some girls think they can outsmart you by using relationship as cover for their begging enterprise

Stay smart, man!

Thanks man, I am really inspired by your words. You got good brains. That's a compliment anyways.

Immorality at its peak. When my friend's ex contacted him for them to have last sex before her marriage which was three days to the day they agreed, since then I give up on marriage. I won't be a victim of confused, dangerous and agent of destruction gender.

God, please let my death not be in the hands of women and my friends. I will not rest in peace if I died by woman or my friend. Amen.

MufasaLion:
Why do you keep meeting broke women always?

Anyways, they are tryna extort you and manipulate you to think you might be reconsidered for a relationship. Don't be fooled! You're nothing but a money dispenser and helper to them if you fulfill their wishes.

Bro, I am a student and most of these girls in school are decorated beggers that want to live fake life.

Cerebellum:
Your friend is a stupid foool!

Assuming you send that raba nah thunda A go send to fire your cone head this morning... God saved you!

Hahaha, the difference between my friend and I is that he doesn't read from nairaland, so he can't be wise. I sent the money to my sister ASAP.

LoL, Nigerians can never disappoint. After shouting school na scam, you want to participate in school related activity.

A friend introduced me to nairaland, he said since I love reading I should try it out, but I was never disappointed.

1) Reading heathy and interesting books especially novels.
2) Watching movies and listening to music.
3) Reading news and having intellectual discussion with people above me.
4) Talking to my foster mom on phone and buying things for her and her daughter.
5) Making me to live simple but interesting life which include traveling, going out with friends, driving round the town, going to shopping.
6) The only time relationship can make me happy is when the lady is super intelligent, neat, independent and have sense of humor and loyalty.

Yungmil:
the root of all evil

Lol, money is not the root of all evil, Bible lied to us, the root of all evil is greed.

This thread is not created to bash girls but to share ideas.

I recently discovered that when some ladies reject your advances, they are quick in asking you for help, financial help especially. When ladies reject your advances on account of them being in relationship or don't want any relationship at the moment, why would such girl think the first person to beg is that guy she turned down?

I have experience too. There's this girl I once asked out, she politely declined and I understand, but she is always seeking for one help or the other, ranging from helping her with assignments, explaining some courses for her, and most especially money. What makes girls think guys have access to make money and the girls don't have such access? Why do girls think is guys that should always have money?

I have couple of girls like that, they are quick to ask you for money when they are not dating you even though you made a move before they frustrated you? One was asking me for financial help yesterday promising to pay back, after seeing her message on Facebook, out of annoyance I sent the only money in my account to my younger sister.
Guys please can you explain why a girl who turned down your advances think she can get financial help from you? One was even telling me that she doesn't have a boyfriend, I told her that boyfriend is not a job, she just wants to be earning for being in a relationship.

My friend asked me to send her the money and ask her not to return it and I will see how the girl will fall for me, I asked my friend that what if there is no money tomorrow, what will be the fate of that relationship? That's transaction not relationship. I so much encourage people to help their partner in any way possible especially financial help, but this one you rejected me and still want me to be rendering financial help to you.

Please guys help me explain the logic behind this reasoning and you can also share your experience if you have any.

Some of our girls will rather commit suicide than to buy these legs for their man. That gender have become opportunistic, greedy and parasitic lovers.

Someone's daughter who is always hungry need money to solve her inconsequential needs, you are giving her flowers to do what? Give them money, that's the only love language they understand.

All these religious enthusiasts are not even aware that life goes beyond religion. Those countries and people that don't believe in your God are trying to make everything possible and you are here shouting nothing is impossible with God.

China, Japan, India are not Christian State, look at the way they are solving their problems pragmatically. Jeff Bezos doesn't even believe in God. Africa with the whole God thing is still poor, is your God a poor God? You will hear them shouting a poor man with Jesus Christ is richer than the rich man without Jesus Christ, that is how we became the world poverty capital. God cannot do for you what He already gave you sense to do.

From my lodge to my school gate with abeg o.

It is very possible, I have rejected sex from girls close to my girlfriend when they came to seduce me, but because I am very prayerful I overcome the daughters of Jezebel. When I am in a relationship I don't see the need to cheat. But if I am single like right now, I Bleep everything that I am attracted to.

I am not married yet but whenever my biological mother gets me upset which she usually do, maybe because we are not friends, we are just pretending to be cool, but God knows we are not good, I will reject the food and go outside to eat before coming back to sleep.

I am more comfortable with my auntie which is my foster mother. If she gets me angry I will still eat the food, no matter how I get angry with her, when I go back memory lane, I will smile and eat her food.

I still remember this my ex, she was just doing the stalking on Facebook, Whatsapp. Anything I post on status or story, she will heart it, even my comments on Facebook group that she doesn't belong. We were always pumping into each other.

She knows me too well, so she know where I should be and she was always there, she was asking my guys about my progress, passing through my area. I got tired and I blocked her on all social media. She was really crazy about it.

They want to add state police to Hisba again? Wait o, why is Hisba not fighting insecurity self?

Wicked Wike is the man with the sword.
Akeredolu the man with intellect
Ortom, a monumental failure playing to gallery, using Buhari's failures to cover his own failures.

If the state assembly have not been sitting,then who is approving the state budget for him? Obeseki is just bent on destroying Peter Shaibu's chances of becoming next governor with this his primitive style of leadership.

Everywhere is just full with the news of insecurity, even police themselves are part of the people causing this insecurity.

Wicked Wike, even Oshiomole the failed your exam. You got big balls. Anything to put the terrorist government to shame is a welcome development.

All these SAN for Nigeria na scam. Lawyers that are just confuse up and down. Between our lawyers, police, EFCC, Politicians, JAMB and unknown gunmen, we don't know which one is killing the country more.

Hahaha, Nigerian government at all level have been doing Yahoo since. They don scam Enugu again. Yahoo men everywhere.

It is bad not to attend your love one's burial to pay your last respect, but the honorable government of looters are doing what they know how to do best.

Akeredolu is doing well in terms of protecting our most damaged democracy. From signing bill for autonomous judiciary and state assembly to anti grazing law. He is the real alpha male.

The difficulty in deflowering virgin is frustrating, like they advised you above, if giving her head or oil and pre-intimacy doesn't work for her, then see a gynaecologist for medical help. Since the last virgin I had encounter with, I wish not to meet a virgin again. The whole thing was boring and frustrating that I didn't have sex for months because the sordid memory stayed with me.