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Between police, Taliban and Buhari, I don't know who is actually the most dangerous destruction agent.

The commander in chief failure has spoken, he will soon express shock.

LoL, Anambra will disappoint this commander in chief failure, he will soon express shock.

DanielAlhassan:
wow nice to hear that

How did u end up with her

She broke up with me even before we graduated from secondary School, but recently we started communicating via Facebook, nothing serious, just as old friends. I have more and great Girls around now.

chatinent:
Sorry, you mean the guy na green cap or na street?

That uncle na street o.

Benbisco:
Laff wan kill me this morning.

Sorry o.

So how you do?

We're you able to unconvince her about yourself and convince her for the uncle?

Me I dey like gist o.

Hahaha, I was literally begging the girl to accept the uncle in order to save my life but my village people hold the girl tight, she said she will die without me and I told her that I will die with her. I started reporting to her friends and begging her friends and lecturers to help me tell the girl not to love me again for the sake of my life, but the girl won't listen, I nearly got kill at one point.

When I was in 200 level, I was dating this beautiful Muslim girl, I was enjoying the frequent sex and full attention from her until one uncle carry gun come my house. The trauma I went through affected my result that period. He was coming regularly because the girl rejected him and he wanted me to convince the girl for him, he threatened the living daylight out of my life. I looked so stupid in the presence of the girl for asking her out for another guy, and the fear of gun in school is entirely another level of wisdom.

Hahaha, having girlfriend in NYSC and having girlfriend in school while you are at home is really funny, all these small boys will be playing with the kpekus anyhow. Just get yourself busy while waiting for the surviving kpekus from the service.

Unless you go to China let them create one, if you are waiting for a honest Nigerian girl then you are jobless. It is easier for civilians to protect NDA than for you to see a honest Nigerian girl.

I have given up on marriage, the only thing I will do is travel round the world, diick these vagina people and pay them. I will never be a victim of any emotional damaged, opportunistic, greedy, untamed, hungry and devilish specie called woman.

I have been in love with my cousin before. We have beautiful and intelligent girls in that family, the ones I know I admired from distance, but I have been put in tight corner too, but one have to respect bloodline. If only siblings are allowed to marry, wetin go carry me go Akwa Ibom again?

Toxic and abusive relationship is like the story of the slave girl. The slave girl is so much in love with the slave master. Human being, most of us are conditioned to love and admire our oppressor, and that's why people still love and defend Buhari.

DanielAlhassan:
that your secondary school girlfriend which village she come from

LoL, that girl is not serious. I was so popular in my town because of my active involvement in entertainment, I ended up studying Theatre Arts in the university.

Antoeni:
Fighting For a Man is a waste of time because he's going to sleep with the winner today and the loser tomorrow. Fight for Your career and future, the right Man will fight for you.

The right man is fighting for his career and future too, the right woman will fight for him. You can't fight for man and you want him to fight for you. It is called greed and selfishness.

Pickieox:
You will soon come back with "Nairaland help, there is a girl I'm dating presently...."

Talking is cheap...if you like, no practise what work best for you...

LoL, you don nairaland guys finish.

Few years ago, I told my girlfriend that I gained admission to the university. She celebrated with me and even buy school stuff, she later called me to break up because of the admission. She later told me that she rather break my heart than me breaking her heart when I get to school.

My secondary School girlfriend broke up with me because I was acting drama, doing comedy and other social activities.

Nigerian girls are somehow strange. A girl once told me that as a girl she has a boyfriend, a crush, a bestie, a mugu, a neighbor and plenty people who are spending on her and she have to visit them all too. With this mentality, relationship get scared.

Kriss216:
The truth remains, Money can't keep an average Nigerian girl. It's in their nature to cheat. Would be easier for a 3 storey building to pass through an eye of a needle than to meet a faithful Nigerian girl.


When dating a Nigerian girl, the safeest way to remain sane is to assume you're her 13th boyfriend.

LoL, even before I opened account with nairaland I already like you. I am your number one fan here.

LoL, at 30 you still want to careless somebody's daughter.

Edyice:
I always tell dude to follow who follow you.

It complicated sometimes because a guy might like madam B but he will always find madam A all over him ( now that’s a huge problem) …

Yeah, often times we don't love who genuinely love us. We will be doing shit to impress who doesn't care about us.

Sundrus:
wise man.... Funny thing be say some mumu guys go still read this ur write up tell u say u no sabi the koko. The day wey one of my friend tell me say him dey go after girls wey dey give am tough time & make sure him win their hearts by hook or by crook. Na that day i decide not to dey interfer for most guys woman matter. According to my friend, him say the thing dey make am feel more masculine . The only thing i tell am that day be say, as for me i no fit dey waste my time & resource on top lady wey no like me & dey treat me like shit. Them no swear for me.

LoL, some people are destined to destroy themselves, there's nothing you can do to help that your friend unless he learn the hard way. It is a waste of time and resources trying to please who doesn't love you.

Drsnives:
No female can friend zone me even doh am not redpilled. B4 you go chop my 100 naira airtime i no say i get enough to spare

I learned that not quite long. I started giving my Mom and younger sister more attention when I discovered that my family over vagina people.

Perhaps she just wants you as a friend, but since you are emotionally attach to her then the friendship is unhealthy for your emotional health. Just ghost her.

Often times, students are told to face their study and avoid distraction. It is highly recommended for students to give full attention to their study, for that's the purpose of schooling. However, especially for students in the tertiary institution, education goes beyond the notes and materials you get from lecturers.

After school we all dream to live a better life, have an impressive careers and explore the world. The foundation can be laid from school. Indulge yourself in school social activities,go to fellowship, join clubs and school organizations that interest you. Go out and meet people, build connection and network. Go catch fun responsibly. Only grades can not help you at the long run. Try and create balance between your academics and social life. The people you know today are the connections you will have tomorrow. If you are facing any social challenge, you can share, someone can help you.

I was traveling recently and the police at the check point stopped a car. The drama ensued because the driver refused to give them the routine #50 and I heard one particular policeman shouting" if you don't give me this money, wetin you want make I give my ogah for office? This excuse wey you dey give me you think say I fit give my ogah ba?" Then I shook my head for this country.

Please free free to share your experience why you think Nigeria won't get better again.

Friendship should be built on mutual ground. When guys ask most girls out for a relationship, especially when the guys are nice, the girls will cunningly reject the guys and politely suggest friendship instead. Some guys fall for this gimmick.

Guys, it is not good for your emotional health, you shouldn't be friends with someone you have a crush on, or someone you ask out and got turned down. Either she put you in her reserve because of uncertainty of her present relationship, which makes you an option or plan B, or she just wants to exploit you economically and emotionally.

What benefits do you derive from such friendship? Absolute nothing. You will do all the calls, listening to her boring stories, laughing at her dry jokes, you are always available to help her financially, hoping to impress her and win her love. Girl's love is not a trophy and relationship is not a rocket science. If she doesn't vibe to you then move on, cut contact with her, if she doesn't love you other girls will.

Don't undervalue yourself, don't settle for less, if she can't give you relationship which you want then let her go. That girl that is telling you she is tired to chat is begging another guy for message, that girl that lie to you that she doesn't visit guys is always choking her crush with visit, she calls her crush everyday and lied to you that she doesn't like calling people. Friend zone is a dangerous zone, don't allow any girl to exploit, you already have friends and you know the kind of friends you want. Don't settle for less, you deserve better.

Free free to share your friend zone experience.

You are very correct with your opinion, but most times,the girls that love you are not your spec. Few months ago I was trying all I could to get a girl to date me, the girl was using me to form decent girl, I moved on when I realized that the same girl may be begging another guy, because there was a young girl doing everything for me to continue dating her but I don't like her for relationship.

Most times, we don't love those that love us genuinely and those that we genuinely love don't love us too. There's always a vacuum in our lives to be filled.

illmatic101:
Being a Nigerian alone is hard work.

Surviving Buhari regime is called toiling.

Listening to motivational speakers like you is suicidal.

You are well informed, I like your reasoning. I have friends that are living large and people expect me to live like that too, most people are doing shit to have money. Our conscience, our moral justification will never support those shit, so fvvck motivational speaker.

That dude is multi talented, he cooks a lot and other stuff. I always loved and admire my father, he was my favorite person, he showed me what genuine love is all about. He taught me a lot of things, he buy me a lot of things. But he died when I was just a child, the only memories I have of him is that he so much love me, I can't even remember his face without pictures. His death left me devastated right now, let me stop here before I start crying. Anywhere you are right now, Daddy, just know that I will do everything to make you proud, rest in peace, my gallant man. Yours little boy.

Good day guys. Please have someone threatened you over relationship before? Please share your experience.

Some years ago, I was in a relationship with this beautiful Muslim girl, the best relationship I ever had so far. The intimacy was regular, zero expenses and absolute respect and obedience for each other. Then out of the blue, one baba traced the girl to my house and threatened to deal with me if I don't break up with that girl.

That baba is a cultist, in fact, he is a terrorist or Taliban. I ignored his threat for one week, the subsequent times he started coming with guys and weapons and asking me how I want my life to end. I had no option than to break up with the girl. That girl was mad at me over the decision but I have to protect my life first. That was how I lost that precious relationship. So free free to share your threat experience in a relationship.

I will gladly accept it without the money. I kind of really like the girl and I got really confused when I realized that maybe I won't marry her because I am graduating this year and she is in 100 level for five years course.