₦airaland Forum

The food looks attractive, LoL. The only problem is that I can't eat that kind of food because there's meat inside and I don't eat meat.

Are you suppose to worship your crush or take orders from him or her? I will just uncrush you.

LoL, what an interesting period to be alive. My dear sister, marry who will give you peace of mind. Religion is just human invention.

The number of scholars in women affairs is increasing everyday, supposing we have channel this kind of energy to build our economy,at least, the country would be great.

O P, just leave women alone. Whether they are married at the age of 40 , that's their business. Let's focus on our damaged country.

Love and wealth should be about two hustlers working to build an empire, not a hustler been devour by a leech.

We all want something great, even guys want women with elephant pocket, but that should not be sole purpose of relationship.

Idleness doesn't fit you, it makes you tell lies on nairaland. But supposing the story is true, which is not, if you don't have any feeling for her then avoid her, don't dick her, disappoint Buhari for once, must you be lazy because Buhari pronounced it?

She wants to destroy you. By all means, in fact, any means you can, flee from married women. You can give her birthday gift like money or anything, but don't give her attention. If her conscience is clean then she should invite you to her house and introduce you to her husband and you become family friend, anything more than that, you run like the horses in our coat of arm.

Humanoid01:
Some parts of this your story just don't add up.

His father came across a saucy post made by the girl about his son. How did he come across the post? Even if he somehow did, how does it make sense that the man married his son off to someone else because of that discovery?

School Man-o-war beat him up, a lecturer reported to the department and he was made to face a panel and was subsequently detained by the school security, cultists were looking for him, even a vigilante was looking for him, all in one night.

How did you know all these things? Haba! na wa o.

His father have him as Facebook friend and the girl tagged the guy. The man wanted the boy to marry since our 200 level but the guy begged to graduate first, so when the father saw the post he felt like the boy doesn't want to marry because of girls in school.

It was the girl's father that involved the police same night of the incident, the school security unit arrested him because they were present at the scene which happened in school vicinity. It was her cousin that involved the cult guys, her ex which she broke up with because of my friend is a man o war member, and the lecturer who is crushing on the girl involved the department. I hope I explained it better here.

lovelyefem:
i hope young men out there can learn few lessons from this incident.
1. no matter how sweet the sex is, don't live under the same roof with a lady you're not married to.
2. Try not to collect money from a lady without returning it promptly, when the going gets sour it will always be referred to.
3. Only very few people can decently accept rejection, hence you need to really know who you're dealing with

I really respect you for this write up.

SavageBoy:
Let's leave your so called friend and his babe matter first...

Are you also a Nigerian student
Which one is "everybodies"

Your grammar no be here oh

Hahaha, I wanted to answer you genuinely but when I see your name I gave up, you are truly a Savage boy, LoL.

Some people are destined to be doomed, no amount of sacrifice to Greek gods can save them. Even Buhari love Nigeria pass the way some girls love their partner, if at all they even love them.

Bro, nairaland redpillers won't like this. LoL, they will come and be shouting baby mama all the way.

But I thought is only girls that are termed old expired newspaper, just asking for a friend.

As a girlfriend don't kill me with your family problems, I have mine too. Loyalty, intelligence, support and return everything I offered in the relationship too. That's when I call you try and be calling me too.

LoL, Nigeria can't be good with Buhari as president and the honorable OP as the citizen.

Well, last semester my hundred level neighbor was just over me because I spoilt her small during exam time. She is petite,young and beautiful, but sometimes we just have to allow self control lead us. A day before she traveled she spent the night in my room all in the name of watching movies, but I blatantly refused to respond to nature's trick, I should have girls to see as sisters, not all of them should know my dick size.

You have a valid point. According to Theatre of Naturalism which have stinct in scientific Realism, an individual is built by hereditary and environment, genetic impact and the people around you. It is good to have a set of acceptable norms, values and beliefs to guide you ( religion), but when it comes to issues of life I am more comfortable with being logical and objective. Religion have succeeded in depriving some people the joy of being productive, these people are brainstormed and brainwashed.

While Nigerians are praying for God to save us and end insecurity, Israel, set God at side and handle Gaza. Republic of Guinea do same not minding God. People are lured to take solace in the life after death, praying and hoping for uncertain illusion while they leave the world messed up. They took to leap of faith which is philosophical suicide.

Moral: God can't do for you what He already gave you sense to do. If you think all your problems are spiritual then you are a spiritual problem.

Last year in our penultimate year in school, this guy started going out with this fresher, he didn't ask this girl out, the relationship just happened and we were all happy for them and wondered how lucky they were to find each other, I personally wished to have such relationship in school.

After the covid 19 break we resumed for the completion of the first semester. This guy's rent elapsed and he wanted to get rid of his roommate, he moved in with his girlfriend in her room and used the money meant for the house rent to get a phone for himself.

After our second semester examination we went for Theatre for community development, a two weeks project. The guy told us about how his girlfriend lured him to have too much sex with her that will last her for two weeks and we all laughed. We returned from the community to school and we all headed for industrial training, and that's the anti climax of the relationship.

My guy complained about his nightmare whenever he had sex with her, how he was dwindling academically and he was financially damaged. He confronted the girl and she admitted that she had a spiritual husband that torment her life, that was why she is always sick, and anyone that threatened her spiritual marriage is being frustrated by the spiritual husband. But she quickly chided that she was doing something about it as she wear spiritual bead to scare the spiritual husband away. Whenever the spiritual husband beat her at night, the scars are always visible.

My friend is from a Muslim family while the girl is a Christian, being an only child,his parents want him to marry before graduation but he pleaded with them to allow him graduate first. During the industrial training program, on his birthday, the girl posted his pictures, calling him my husband,my womb destroyer and all sort of names. His father came across the post and was angry which prompted her to marry for this guy.

When we returned to school after the industrial training, he explained his position to the girlfriend and she accepted the reality and demanded to be just friend with him, but she still wanted to be intimate with him and my guy doesn't want to cheat on his wife. He broke up with her, she begged and even asked if they can pretend because the shame was too much for her. After all her effort didn't work she almost got the guy killed.

She requested the guy pay her the money he owes her, when the guy transferred the money to her, he met her in school at night and asked if she has gotten alert but she instead started dragging him, out of frustration he pushed her away and she allegedly broken her hand, she lied to her police father that a drunk guy beat her up and the father wrote to the police to detain the boy and police started looking for him. The school man o war beat him that night because their member is interested in the girl, one lecturer who like the girl reported the issue to the department and department invited the guy to panel, the school security unit arrested the guy that night, while cultists were looking for him throughout the night, the only God that saved him was that he spent the night in security detention. Everybody including vigilante was looking for him too. We were worried about his security and reputation, the girl just made all the bodies to hate the guy and want to treat his Bleep up. But thank God,we were later able to resolve and arrest the situation amicably. Some girls are just there to destroy our lives. The guy narrowly escaped death that night.

Iyaebe:
Do you have any experience? please share because I don't always believe that these things happen

My friend broke up with his girlfriend last year, then the girl married around May this year. Two weeks to her marriage, she visited my friend in school and spent the weekend with him. My friend told me that the girl advised him to do as he wants because after marriage he shouldn't think about her again.

The girl later told me that she just felt like doing something crazy before her marriage and is only my guy she can think of.

Kobojunkie:
Self confidence comes from reading books, chatting with people and going out?

Yes, there are books about how to build self confidence, and when you chat with people or go out with people and join them in doing great stuff together like executing projects and other tasks, you can get self confidence from such experience.

The insecurity is alarming. That ban will also affect people negatively because it is people's business and they earn living from that.

For me personally, you are right. We guys tend to behave funny when girls are around, but girls do same too. It goes both ways. We do this consciously and unconsciously.

LoL, I am not the too handsome guy, but I am average with this aura of charms. People naturally assumed I am a womanizer, but that's not exactly accurate. I just enjoy girls attention but I don't like having sex with many of them, I am selective when it comes to sex.

Our girls will not like this your write up. I still can't believe why a girl will go and have sex with her ex days to her wedding, I thought is only politicians that don't have sense until I meet Nigerian girls.

LoL, Nigeria has become a reality show. Comedy channel indeed.

I don't want to be described as a nice guy in quote but I will be good to people whether boys or girls, any girl that is for me will surely choose me over others.

I have been there before, it's a terrible thing to experience. Depression is lack of expression. Just go out more and mingle with people. Build your self confidence by reading books, chatting with people and go out.

I wonder you the give una this mind to put girls after hearing all the dangerous things girls are doing to guys and vice versa.

I have already given up on love. I don't want to love anyone in that aspect. I can love you as a fellow citizen or human. Peace of mind over girl's inhumanity to man.

This is heartbreaking, God save me from the hands of women and friends. I give up on marriage. It doesn't worth it.

I can never forget Khadeeja. She is the first girl I had sex with and the relationship was good. Although I broke up with her under duress. But recently we started having sex once in awhile again.
I have couple of them that were nice to me, but we always look forward to better days ahead.