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zayhal: Bring it on. Let's tackle it together.
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will bring it on later Insha a Allah

snubish: deols, caught ya!(beaming) good to hear from you. we thought you had abandoned us. still on this marriage contract thingy, I have a men's version of a clause to be stated into that contract. I will sneak it up on you guys later. ma salam.

lol..u did catch me sha but you came quite late, you missed my come back address

I am interested in that clause of yours o. And the thing dey always hot my body in anticipation..I hate to wait jare post it fast abeg.

ma'salam to where?
wa alaykum salam

okay.

I want to talk about that of the mouth. This happens when you have a 'fiance or fiancee' and or bf/gf with the thoughts that he is after all yours. People should be careful of falling into sins by talking 'too much'

ANyhow sha, it holds when between a man and a woman. and doesn't include lectures, e.t.c with the aim of acquiring knowledge

are you saying only the people who don't worship God fall sick?

siddiq202: I delayed my Ishai but later observed it in congregation

good enough. We delay Ishai for many reasons.It becomes an issue only when entertainment is involved as if entertainment is entirely haram. If I want to study late, delaying Ishai ensures that I don't sleep and that helps a lot.


We had an ustadh in Nigeria and he would deliberately observe Ishai when we are watching super story so he could make it seem like we were bad people if we didn't get up to pray. Young and really not caring , we would watch the story and later observe our own jama'ah. It was always his loss if our parents were'nt around(he would be getting one out of 27 abi?). This was a family gathering and you can see how much he was pushing us to being 'bad Muslims'. Preachers should take it softly abeg.

deeteeneey: walaykum salam. Welcome.

thank you

[quote author=Rilikoko][/quote]the husband's brother is not a mahram.

if they both want to get married, no problem.

The prophet (S.A.W)'s two daughters were married to Uthman bn Affan but not at the same time(at the same time is not allowed). it was after the death of the first that he married the other. I am not sure of their names-the reason I did not put them.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Hello....I am not a muslim but I love learning new things so I guess I will be hanging around here for a lil bit. I hope this does not offend anyone.[/quote]not at all. You are soooo welcome

if she wants it, there should be no problem once the people involved are not mahram to her. for example, her husband's sons cannot marry her but the husband's brother should be able to, with her consent(and not as an inherited property)

the husband's father cannot marry her.

cleanvessel: Quran 5:3
''This day I have perfected your religion for you .......''

I have perfected your religion for you means it was imperfect before but now made perfect possibly after additions and subtractions.

Why would Allah do something imperfect before perfecting it?

do you finish your meal before starting to eat. That is logical enough . You sound like a learner

Subhanallah!

I wonder where these tales are coming from?

And I saw a post on facebook about people delaying their Ishai for the match. I don't see anything wrong in that. I thought the writer/poster exaggerated that. what do u think?

It doesn't matter by the way. A Muslim is dead, whether buried alive or not because it is their time. People who take the world to heart will die before their death cos they are trying to avoid death by every means possible.

The time it takes to prepare the dead for burial is enough time to get it to wake up if not dead

I like this thread

The guinness records are not as reliable as thought then

the issue of marriage contracts? I am not done with it





btw, when this thread reaches a 100 pages, there should be celebration or what d'u think

^^^hmmn

bntY: Yay ...times 100.Already composed a poem for u but cldn't post it for reasons.i'll post it later IA.luv u sis

love u too

and my poem must be posted o

kemiola89: Wa'alaykumsalam! We missed you when you gone,welcome back! Congratulobia, our new mod.

thank you and I did miss you all too.

Dyt: Ehn ehn
Deols came back without asking of me
A whole me
I am vexed
Congrats dear
*btw, ayam still single* giggling. . . .

thanks and I know u are not vexed Idyt temi nikan..lol

still single lailai jor

siddiq202: Walaykum salam welcome back.
I have this feeling that you are coming back just like sweetnecta although different reason for leaving

your feeling is good

maclatunji: Wa Alaykum Salam, welcome back.

zayhal: Wa alaykum salam.

All I can say is 'wow!'




*you just made someone's day.

I am glad

tbaba1234: Wa aleikum salam!!


Yay!!

olawalebabs: you are most welcome

next is to start re considering christianity

some of those are still not Nigerian enough. cadbury, nestle..



btw, we need to do more of commercial farming

He doesn't look relaxed and being flanked by those Women makes it so not flattering.

Clueless Nigerians dont know that these people are friends behind closed doors.

Smh at so much ignorance

I am sooo happyyyyy!!!!!





This is d 1st time something NiGERIA has made me happy in 10 years or more.


Tears in my eyes

Surprised? I am as well or maybe less


I said I was leaving on this thread- [url]https://www.nairaland.com/1119985/does-being-cool-make-better [/url] but thanks to the power that be, I am back and as a mod

yeah I know what you must be thinking but it doesn't matter. I appreciate all the people who asked after me while I was gone

All I can say now is, I think I had a reason for coming here in the first place and the reason for becoming more active in 2011. I am back for the same reasons.


I can only try my best and will do just that as a mod here. If there is a reason to question my judgements at any time, please feel free to voice it. Imma be all ears.

she may not have much to gain.

I would expect any woman to weight her chances before making any move.

She may be having a lot to consider- children, what people would think of her, etc but all of those are individual things and everyone gets to make their choices.

the reason I talk of these things is, in case anyone wants to make this kinda choice, let them know they are allowed.



btw, here's my bye bye message..thank you to all of u who made Nl worthwhile. this is my favorite thread and ma shaa Allah am a better person than I was at the beginning of the thread. do check this out https://www.nairaland.com/1119985/does-being-cool-make-better#13201925