₦airaland Forum

GboyegaD:
They are never fighting for better facilities but pay. I wonder why they would concern themselves with how much Federal employed doctors earn. Why not protest that private doctors should be well paid?

A solution in my opinion although not the best is to relief them of their jobs. This would help them understand that while they could agitate for a better pay, it should be because they have a justification and not comparing with others since they are not withheld from applying for federal roles.

This is one of the entitlement mentality we suffer.

If you don't have foolishness adherent to your genetic make-up,I would have said can't you read where they wrote adequate facilities written there. You carry your joblessness dey wish am for another person,you go tey for there,foolish nigerian as usual

owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.

This is a matter for the elders, if na boyfriend/girlfriend matter,na another thing

bentwood85:
Chai!
See as the pretty lady just wasted her Púñañî.

Maggot go enjoy the pûnänī.

You need urgent medical attention

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright


Ogbeni nor reason am o
He fit still fall Anthony Joshua hand

He holds the record for the fastest victory in boxing history

Anthony Joshua way dey run up and down for inside ring
If nor be say Anthony Joshua na also our real niggarrr....I for talk many many things but make i rest...

You too dey talk. Joshua run up and down bla bla bla,just imagine. He is the world champion,give him that respect,efe ajagba is good but not on par with him yet,who has he been fighting,he hasn't fought a single ranked boxer,he can't stand in the same ring with povetkin talkless of Joshua. Boxing is a gradual process,he will get there hopefully,but he ain't there yet

tabithababy:
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I don't understand The woman should kill herself on top food preparation. The caterer option is best for now.

So he should call his mother in law to inform her of how his wife refuse to cook for 25 people abi wetin

But he said he doesn't have the finance na,that she should at least give room for assistance. It's not like the guy is imposing it on her.

Millimann:
See as police just gave her knife to pose with.

Evidence material o..can u imagine. This policemen nor just sabi nutin

anthonyuncle:
change dz mindset that ur girlfriend will give u financial reduction

Oga it is not a mindset...it's law of economics simple,more money will sha come out of your pocket,however if u happen to have a non-broke gf(very rare if I may add) she might add to your pocket.

ACxxxMAN:
Beauty without brain. I have come to realise that it's not all beautiful looking women that is intelligent, smart and upright. Don't be deceived by their angelic looks.

How does this correlate? She's an adult,I believe she can do whatever she wants. Because them nor dey air you own abi? Everybody get hin own for body,u nor get work?

MosheDayan:
There are many reasons Afonjas are afraid of seperation. But the two major reasons are The threat of war. They are so scared by the mention of civil war they probably might piss in their pants e.g Oladipo Diya and Rasaki. another reason is that they cannot stay alone. The fear of the unknown. It scares them to hell staying alone or probably with the Fulanis their brothers who wouldn't allow them use the ports in Apapa in peace. It reminds them of Kwara state. . I wonder why they are cowardly when they hear division. After all, the war was fought in Igbo land. They are the ones with battle scars. Afonja can fear.

Nothing to see here, just another trash.

psucc:
They can never disappoint.

The true image of the Yoruba citizens

If you are not just merely foolish,you would have probably realised that this is between to groups of people not the entire Yoruba nation. But alas, you have brain tissue but it doesn't work

EvenBlogger:
Billionaire daughter, Adama Indimi, and her hubby, Malik Ado-Ibrahim, got married on August 8.

The couple just released their pre-wedding photos[color=#000000].[/color] See more below

https://www.instagram.com/p/CEhiG_-HAyA/?igshid=10j49s0h9vfim.

My brother hustle o

winkmart:
Big Brother Naija housemate, Erica broke down in tears again over billionaire son, Kiddwaya and his attitude towards her.

Erica while crying to fellow housemates over Kidd in the presence of Kiddwaya, expressed that Kiddwaya does not reciprocate the love she feels for him.

According to Erica, Kiddwaya doesn’t act like she’s special to him, and all he cares about is her body.
She said apart from her body, he doesn’t care about anything else.

She further dragged the hell out of him, calling him a spoilt brat who feels he can get anything he wants without asking too much.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D4gBixzKBKI

Well,I saw this coming. Kidd did warned you about this,said it was risky catchng feelings for him. There you go,voluntary exit dey

crackhaus:
Nigeria my Nigeria... this is what is used to represent an affluent area in a country with the resources to compete with Dubai.

Kwantinu celebrating mediocrity oo, no offence to you OP.

Nutin but mediocrity...utter nonsense,dem dey show us road. Rubbish!

jaxxy:
Bro this looks beyond racist. How does sm1 take a walk on a YACHT and disappear when he’s not Houdini or Criss Angel. This is personal shit.

believe me bro,it is race motivated. I have lived in that country before. I once lived in a house owned by a racist,we only knew he was the day we paid rent late. I'm not denying an underlying issue but race fueled that hatred to that extent.

jaxxy:
Was he thrown into the sea? Has that been established?

That was what was said. When it's all said and done,he went on a yacht,disappeared without trace upon arrival back.You think he fell into the sea and his so called friends just casually walked back into their lives without raising alarm about it. Cmon man, have you even encountered a racist b4?

jaxxy:
Not when they are frnds or lovers it’s not.

Bro, forget friends or lovers talk o, there are whites,serious racists that'll lure you in with friendship to exercise their hatred. Thrown into the sea by a group of people and you still think this wasn't a well thought out plan by this people. They had already make these plans since,not like he went there himself,he was invited by so called friends.

Saintsquare:
What about the Nigerian guy that got stabbed few months ago? what happened to the alleged murderers? were they prosecuted?

I never said there aren't crimes,and i never said they usually do anything about it. But you made it sound like it's rampant, I was dere for 7years,not a single case of Ukrainians killing blacks during my time.
Cases of death in Russia too are never investigated,it's dere thing over there in eastern Europe, not an Ukrainian thing,they don't give a damn.

jaxxy:
I’m not talking about racism here. This guy getting missing and sm other attacks on blacks wasn’t about racism bt regular crimes. Most were frnds or lovers. So it not about racism bt disposition to certain crimes.

Attacks on blacks is purely because of racism. I get what you are saying but don't get it twisted,this is race related crime here

Bluffly:
Bros Eastern Europe does not pocket racism and you know that they live it. Other countries have racism as well fact but have become enlightened from the perspective creating an enabling environment for business.

Mind you I never said I doesnt exist but when on scale those destinations I mentioned are way far better than Eastern Europe. FACT

I get you

jaxxy:
Yes bt cases from Ukraine on Africans is getting alarming. I actually thought Russia wud be worse bt reports I’m getting show Russia is more Accomodating and tolerant.

Russia is no where near, you are only well tolerated in their cities, enta their rural area na. The whole eastern Europe is a massive headquarter of racism,however there are still good people there. That Russia is better than Ukraine in terms of racism is just funny to me.. These people are exactly the same, you can't even differentiate an eastern Ukrainian from a Russian because he cannot even speak Ukrainian language most of the time. And eastern Ukraine is bedrock of racism unlike the western side

Saintsquare:
Russia is way better than Ukraine in all ramifications, Russians are kinda straightforward in the sense that if they don't like you, they won't hide it. Not saying Russia is heaven but Ukraine is a shithole, stuff like this happens all the time to blacks in Ukraine and 90% of the time goes unresolved.

Nigerians should avoid Ukraine, many unresolved missing/murder cases, don't be lured with cheap tuition schools with worthless certificate.

How many murder cases have you heard of in Ukraine really? I sincerely want to know cos I have lived there for years before and to be talking with such conviction baffles me. Unresolved murder cases of blacks?

jaxxy:
Russia is way better than Ukraine now. Ukrainians are wicked and vengeful.

How? They are virtually the same, they were raised on same ideologies so what are you talking about

Lambha23:
Na wetin the guy sabi chop dey hurt am now.
No be school dem send am go, wetin him find go club...
bbnaija generation!
I pray he's safe anyways

Shut up abeg... It's schl only about study study.

ironheart:
Go school, you go flex. We pray he is found alive.

Go school,you go flex? Are you for real?

Cabi1:
the guy might be a grower...

Ain't we all?

PrecisionFx:
I have 2 friends, they are brothers and none have any hairs too.

Yh it's a congenital medical condition. It's not normal o brother. There is nothing like 'don't just have hair actually'. If they have no hair,there is a reason for that. I'm guessing they have what is known as klinefelter's syndrome(could be).

Karleb:
You need to understand what metabolism itself is. Klinefelter's syndrome itself is a metabolic disorder.

All diseases in nature has one or two things to do with metabolic disorder.

Yet again,I disagree with you. Klinefelter is a risk factor for metabolic syndrome. Not a metabolic syndrome and it's not even a certainty that Klinefelter ends up with cases of metabolic syndrome. Your explanation is just like saying bring obese is same as being diabetic or hypertensive.

Karleb:
This thing is not something hard nowadays.

Had you spoken out since you would have had your solution since.

Carry yourself to a good hospital on Monday and explain everything to a doctor even if it's a female.

Metabolic disorder is a biiiitch!

Can we say it is metabolic disorder tho,without a proper physical and instrumental diagnosis? I'll say no. It is more of klinefelter's syndrome

PrecisionFx:
U simply don't have hairs...I've forgotten what it is called medically,but that doesn't mean u haven't hit puberty.

It could mean...you don't just conclude on anything unless you have physically seen him

tripplephi:
You are NORMAL... very normal. I must say you are very bold and courageous to even talk about it online. See, everyone has one area of their lives where they experience something that seems uncommon compared to others.... See, you have a very healthy attitude towards this challenge and that is how life should be.

If you meet a dermatologist, you may get help with some parts of this challenges.
God Bless

A what? Bro a dermatologist? For what exactly?

addictiv:
Interesting, but your women re not complaining. Infact your women can't stay away from Nigerians. Tell your women to stay away from Nigerians if you don't want Nigerians to do crazy things to them.

You sound like someone that has never left the shores of this country before.. Like a typical arrogant nigerian. See dumb statement. Mtcheww! And i'm nigerian by the way,b4 u begin yarn dust