This does not mean being rich by the guy,instead it means being able to share na be of help financially in marriage..,.
Women are non not to be supportive in this aspect nd that see it as their right....
This is a silent home breaker especially for the middle income spouses.
A guy I know divorced his wife straight after sh delivered of their first child... He saved for the D- day..but still fell short of 95k cuz there was complication of deliverering that no one expected.....
While he run from pillar to post to his friends seeking a soft loan pending wen he is paid..the wife still held at the hospital sent her younger sis,who stays with them to secretly go to the house go nd to her matrimonial room nd collect the 65k sh kept in her bag b4 d hubby mistakenly sees it
Unfortunately for her the hubby went home nd met his teenage in law with 65k cash....sh TLD him her elder sis instruction....
He was shocked...nd told the gal to go ahead nd deposit d money to d wife's bank as sh was instructed by her. He continued his nuzzle nd two days later he got them out of the hospital paying 126k additional from the first delivery cost...
Sh came back home nd can't look him in the eyes...quarell after quarelk ensued DT led to divorce exactly one month later....
Gals of this days are too stingy nd mny of them take d Character into marriages.....never ever Marry a lady DT will not b supportive..as a guy,u can't solve all them financial problems in marriage...
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We are not there yet in this country... Everything na ritual for here. They take placenta serious than the baby outchea. They'll ask for placenta before they ask for the baby. But then hope dey for future generations
Cantonese: Living in 1950 with clear insight and wisdom is better than staying awake in 2020 with blindness and being called an educated illiterate.
But you are already an educated illiterate. How awake can you possibly be then. There is nothing wise about this. See ehn,there is no need to be hovering around this anymore..it's clear this is ur belief,stick to it. If na so people dey use placenta do ritual and e dey work for them,we would have more billionaires amongst us today
Cantonese: Yoruba people say "small pickin no know juju e dey call am vegetable". Sorry bros.
If it's not a big deal why did the parents of the child get the medical doctor arrested? If it's not a big deal how come it went missing? If it's not a big deal how come the case was transferred to Panti street rather than Aguda police station? If it's not a big deal how come it was not found or the doctor cannot give information about it's location.
What you do not know about, ask for information and you'll get it. Did you not read where it was said that the placenta could be used for ritual purposes? For your information it is very correct.
Your placenta is your life. If found it could be used against someone. Some have their placenta buried under very large trees for safety. Some ladies cook it and eat it believing that it helps their health, etc.
Ask your parents where your placenta was kept. Cheers.
NextD18: Medical doctors in Nigeria are more corrupt and dangerous than Nigerian police.
Here we go again...another story to build ur appetite. Jump inside conclusion like swimming pool. Where have they confirmed that the doctor has anything to do with lost placenta?
jeffizy: Now she got herself a role in the freak show.
I wonder if it's the abundance of basic amenities or the weather that gives these people the luxury of exploring crazy tunnels that eventually lead to downfall.
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I'm telling you,you need to really be relaxed with all the basic things in life at your fingertips to think about this. Just pathetic
ZuesGOD: Good evening guys, i just want to know which city between Lagos and Abuja is more advisable for relocation.
Now my number one criterial is safety, a residence that is crime free.
I need a location where i know that no matter the political situation of the country, i am 100% save. The Budget is not a problem at all.
All I'm after is safety between Lagos island, lekki and environs and the main Abuja city. Which is the best for relocation most especially safety from crime.
A city that will give me the modern city feel, security, infrastructure and access to international connect. Like a powerful neighborhood.
Abuja is safer and cool..lagos is loud and lively.if you wanna relocate to just go and have peace of mind somewhere,abuja is the place...if u wanna however go make some money,lagos is the place
Commentor: How much do you generate for the economy?
More than enough,my mere existence alone provides for ur economy. For you to ask me that kinda jamb question baffles me, which makes me think you must be one of the jobless ones
Ofemmanu1: You will lose someone you can’t live without,and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly—that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.
Is gaming shop reaaly a long term investment? Personnally i feel we'd get to the time when people wont Need to go to a bet shop to bet, technology would change alot of things bro, i feel in about 5 years time from now, bet shops would phase out. Remember back then when we'd to those shops that rent out Video CDs and Cassettes of Foreign and Nigerian movies. Then everyone started BUYING THEIR OWN CDS AND CASSETES. Please dont mis-understand me, just thinking long term and would love to know your tnoughts sir.
Cvesta: Your opinion is not out of place but I am only encouraging him to at least try it. No point in. Being afraid of what you have not even tried. At best he can split his money into two just in case it doesn't work out. But via the study route, it is almost a guarantee he would study tland become a better person while also having the potential to be of more impact to the society there or here if he chooses to return home
OLUENTA1: Hello Nairalanders I need to hear from different people what to do and maybe if there is any advise at all or guidance to the issue/incidence that occured between me and my fiancee
Let me go straight to the story and I will try to make it short and explanatory.
My fiancee happened to have this ex that obviously they had a good time together and infact she left the guy for me and during one of our conversation I got to know that finances during her time with him was a big issue and at one time or twice she cheated on him to sleep with men that could take care of the finances
We started our relationship and I quickly noticed the challenges with this with her but on my own part I can take care of her finances. Anyway, We have been together for more than 2 years and also we are planning to get engaged traditional soon.
The unthinkable happened during one of my inquisitive quest of checking her WhatsApp messages when I saw her telling her closest buddy that she was chatting with her ex the other time and that they were talking about how many times they had sex and also if she ever meet the guy again she will sleep with him.
Well, as it is I am feeling been cheated on and secondly, i can't imagine that she will still have this feeling for the ex so much that she could say that she can still sleep with the ex again.
The question now is, do I still need to continue the relationship with her? and also call off the engagement? Because it seemed she can't be loyal or maybe the she loves the guy more than me and any given opportunity she will always go back to the ex
NEVER go through your partner's phone. You will just die of heartbreak. See this man now,already in a pool of confusion. Talk to her, forgive her if dere is anything to forgive,let her know how it made you feel and move on(provided she is good woman).
Cvesta: Was it easy here to Have made that 20m? Hell no. He is a young man.. Let him go out and explore America. Heck with 6m of that money he can go to Germany and study comfortably and still have change
Well for study,it's not much of a bad idea. But my opinion still stands
Openbusiness: You go there for education. Countless non-graduates. Your degree from here is worth squat over there, unless maybe you're a first-class graduate. I know someone that was a chief matron at Luth, she left about 10 years ago, she got over there and still had to enroll courses, do exams and get certification before she could practice over there. Today, 10 years later, she is miles ahead and doing one million times better than she could have done if still in Nigeria. She has her own house now and has gotten citizenship too. She has moved all her children over there. They are schooling and doing great. She came to Nigeria about 4 years ago, guess what for, to struggle to collect her pension of about 25 years in service. Your corrupt naija system wanted to chop her pension money. She had to fight to get it. Last 2 years, she had to come again because the pension she struggled to collect, was no longer been paid. She had to come again to sort it out. Maybe they were praying she was dead so they can eat her money. Nigeria is a shit hole.
I'm not saying nigeria is good bro...i'm saying he has the capital to start something and build a future here in nigeria why travel out now. People go there for a better life that they can't seem to get here due to the nature of this shithole country but he'll thrive more in this shithole country with 20million than in any Germany or america with the same 20million. I'm just speaking for mysef sha o,everybody got his/her own opinion about this.
Openbusiness: People with N3m or less have traveled to the USA and succeeded big time. You have N20.3m. The best investment you can ever make is investing in yourself. If you're sure of your agent won't dupe you and can get a student visa for schooling there, you better fly there. You can be schooling and working part-time, in 3 years, you graduate, do your masters, marry one white girl get your stay and enjoy the good life for yourself and your generations to come. They will thank you for taking that bold step and you will be happy with yourself. Invest the N20m where? Invest in this shithole that is full of uncertainty, no security and anti-business government policies Dictator Buhari will soon devalue the naira after destroying the economy, let's see what your N20m will be worth by then. People abroad are praying it happens, so they can send $10k home and build house in banana island with it don't you want to be among them. If I had your opportunity, and a legit means to leave, I will JAPA straight
Mention 1 non graduate with the 3million u said that have succeeded out dere. You think say na naija part 2. You don't just go dere and start doing business or buying stocks.
Cvesta: Why do almost all Nigerians abroad always advise people to stay back? And you. Yourself has not returned back to Nigeria if it is so bad there.. The fella above is not an ajebo, I believe he burnt the midnight candle to make such ''kudi''... Bros I would advise you to try Canada/Australia or Germany with that. Money. Go there and find a way to learn more in the ICT field and I promise you will. Be alright once you acclimatise and get a good job in that profession. Your side hustle that gave you 20m may still be getting you money there too
because truthfully,its not easy out dere...with 20million u can build something in naija...but u see outside dere,first your 20million isn't much of a money,then u gotta work your ass like a broke man to get something. And for a non graduate as this,it'll be even tougher. I see no reason to go down dis path...america can wait,it's no promise land,it's just a country
Please I'm going through a state of mental confusion.
Currently i have approximately 20 million and 300 thousand naira in my bank account.
I have two thoughts.
1) I am 25 years old but I'm not a university graduate, i only have ND (National deploma) from a polytechnic In Edo state, Auchi precisely.
I would have become a graduate years ago but after my "ND" years ago, i refused to go back to school and i decided to hustle for money.
Most of my classmates in school back then are all graduates but all the same, looking at my bank account now, i have no regrets.
So this is what i plan on doing.
1) Can i further my Education In any university in the United States with the money and plan on staying back after my degree, for the fact that I'm 25. Will that be advisable?
2) should i stay back in Nigeria and use part of the money to build a house In my hometown in Benin and use the rest for business?
3) Is there a chance of going to USA and start all over again, look for job. Will the money be enough to rent a house, foot some bills untill i see a job in the USA.
Note i choose USA only because it's my dream country, I'm not scared of the traveling ban because I'm 100% confident that it will be taken away few months from now.
Please i won't be replying any mention or questions.
All i want is to take note of good advice.
I already know a reliable traveling agent.
Please other suggestions are welcomed apart from mine.
Please help
Dude stay back in naija and build something with that money...what do you plan to achieve in america,like you said you don't have any diploma,america will collect ur 20milla and send u bck home
Rapecase: Edit - to those who may be wondering about my username, I created this account whilst trying to help two kids who were victims of rape.
Our 4th anniversary was few days ago, as I thought she would , my wife forgot the date. It ordinarily would not have hurt me so much but I have always had this feeling that she doesn't love me.
When we were dating she was all over me. But nothing I do ever since we got married gets appreciated. Few months ago she hurled abuses on me for helping a sister, a friend of hers, who lost a child and are homeless. And what's the help? Just 100k. Apparently I enjoy abandoning her need for others. And this coming from a woman who few days earlier was saying I had invested over 2m on her business in a short while ( by her own calculation, as I don't take note when giving her money ).
I told a mother figure in church who is close to both me, her and the family I helped who corrected her. Expect if she will apologise tomorrow.
Off course the lady I helped in question is idiotic but I can't bear her and house and kids being homeless especially after losing a child.
My wife will never apologise when she does sometime I object to. Her apology which is often done in the most demeaning way is only tendered if I take the issue over board.
Our sex life since we got married has been poor to the extreme. I have ensured I do not cheat, not for a single day but I constantly have to beg for sex or masturbate to relieve myself.
Laying our bed is always a war for her. She does it only when she wants. Mind you we have two kids and a maid who helps with virtually everything.
The maid in the morning ( 90% of the time ) makes the breakfast, clean the house while she only baths our first child and get her ready for school, I take her to school most of the time.
Am I overreacting to expect my wife to
1. Properly apologise when she does something I do not like and ensure she doesnt repeat it? For instance few days ago she was planning on traveling outside our base, I only got to know through her phone conversation with her sister although she didn't eventually travel, I felt I should have known before hand as I got to know a night before. Till date what I got in form of apology is, "I would have told you". She was planning to travel by 5am, I heard her conversation by 10pm a night before and we slept on the same bed.
2. Sex at least 3 times a week? I stopped trying to initiate it after so many rejections.
3. Not to forget important dates such as our wedding anniversary?
4. To at all time be the one making my meal.
Please note she practically doesn't work now. We are setting up a fashion house for her she has taken over 3m from me as of the time of writing this. Note my cloths go to dry cleaners. Only thing she does is cook my meal ( when she wants ).
I am beginning to think maybe I am a mental health patient who doesn't know yet. Maybe something is wrong with me and I am just reacting based on that?
Marriage can be such a huge dilemma! That's why people got to keep praying everyday for the right person. This issue don pass advice level,u gotta pray and talk to her,she might be going tru something that she isn't telling you about. If not,this your marriage is just a war front,when e tire both of una,una go quit am
Shibaraba: I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.
My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.
But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep
McCoy662: Good morning Nlanders, I have this very issue bothering me. I have been in a relationship with this girl for about 3 years now. I love her so much, and she loved me until of recent when she told me that she's no longer interested in the relationship. She told me the stern truth that she was seeing someone else.
It's not like I don't take care of her, because I have given her almost everything she requested from me. I bought 90% of her clothes myself as she can't even buy for herself if I give her the money. I pay her bills too.
Just about 2 months ago, the said guy called me and told me that his gf (my gf) said I'm her ex, and they are now together. This guy is not that rich, he's just on average income scale, he's not super handsome and the worst is that, this girl calls and comes to my house for sex anytime she feels like. But that's all, we are not friends like before, we don't go out together, she don't even oblige my requests anytime I ask her for anything. She doesn't even visit on a regular except for sex.
Right now, I'm fed up; I'm tired of being in this love triangle, though I love her so much. My guys advised me to beat her up and warn her never to come close to my house again, but I just can't. Though I feel used as a sex object, but I just can't say no to this girl's request.
I don't just know, am I being stupid?? Is there a Best way to handle this in a more diplomatic way?? I really love this girl.
Hell yeah,ur stupidity don reach breaking point sef. Please reboot and focus..talmbout love and love triangle
papaejima20199: This is my first time posting NL , although I've been reading a lot in the last few months . I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I don't even know if I'm asking a question, or advice, or what. I just have to get some things out of my brain.
I’m 36 and my wife is 32. we've been married for 12 years and have two children, twins age 1. I would say happily married. As in, we don't fight, , never any abuse of any kind, no major life disagreements. I love my wife. She is a great mother, a great provider for the family, and we make a great team when it comes to raising our kids. However, she leaves me feeling undesired. Sexually, just intimacy in general, not feeling wanted or desired, missing that flirtatious quality that we all enjoy in a relationship. Our sex life has been on a steady decline, honestly since we got married. Less and less and less every year, and yes, kids make that even more difficult (and provide very easy excuses)
About 2 years ago, I was close to cheating. There was a girl at work that I flirted with often. We started hanging out , and we always seemed to end up talking, touching innocently, flirting, but nothing ever happened between us. The feeling this girl gave me inspired me to tell my wife how I was feeling, what I was missing, etc. I told her how important sex was to me, asked her what I could change, or if she needed to change something. Her response was that she "just didn't really think about it like you do" and that she would try to work on it. Well she didn't work on it, at all.
The flirty girl didn't work with me any more, and I lost that "flame" with her and let it go, and went about life as usual. I've been working a lot of hours over the last six months. I fell into this flirty relationship with one of my coworkers 22 and we just would have a lot of fun with one another. Mad sexual tension. A few months back things happen and she blows me. Its great. Best sex of my life. We set up plans to meet up off work hours and we do.
My coworker is in perfect shape. Its like my perfect woman. I love the way she loves me. She appreciates me, she satisfies me, she matches my sexual drive, and even exceeds it. She is everything I was missing in life, and I'm as happy as I've been in a long time. She is also crazy about me which feels unbelievable. Its been a while since someone has just wanted me to be happy and wanted to please me. I now consider her my girlfriend.
I don't wish to hurt my wife. But I do wish to be happy.
I do not wish for my children to grow up in a home with divorce. I want them to grow up with myself and my wife still being the team we've been so far, doing equal parts to take care of them, and always be there for them.
I realize a lot of what I'm saying are things that can't go together. I want to be with my girlfriend, I don't want to hurt my wife, and I don't want my kids to suffer . I can't have it all. Now I feel stuck
I need help because I can't seem to go through with this alone, and I have no one close enough with the time and level of trust that I can confide in, so I would really appreciate it if you'd offer me some advice.
abhosts: In 2018, When Donald Trump imposed steel tariffs against Canadian Steel, Many Canadians responded by boycotting made in USA products.
If Nigerians are not good enough to travel to the USA, should we continue to patronize American companies like Apple, Amazon, Hewlett-Packard, Ford, GM Motors, Godaddy, Namecheap, Tom Ford, DKNY, Boeing, Tommy Hilfiger, Nike, Calvin Klein, Ralph Lauren, Levi's, Gap, etc?
In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.
I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.
So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla.. I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.
I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.
I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..
She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.
Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?
In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.
I never see this kinda ignorance before... Mycoten cream? You accused your wife of cheating because of mycoten cream?. See ehn,na two of you e concern o
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr Although there are three sides to a story 1) the complainant own story 2) the accused own story 3)and the true story
Buy i must say our doctors for Nigeria own too much Na here for Nigeria doctors dey behave anyhow
Go developed nations
Nurses earn more than doctors Nurses are paid well more than doctors in developed countries
Na here our doctors for dey do gra gra Them nor even know anything
That is why most of our consultants doctors dey fear to go developed countries because if them reach there They are to start all over again by undergoing lots of exams
Ehn ehn...here comes a mister,that has made this issue about doctors in general. Dem dey pay nurses pass for other countries,beautiful but how e take concern us or concern wetin dem write here
Vortex369: Well, your last line was a question: What I think?
Are you sure you really want to know what I think?
Since you asked for it, then I have to tell you what I think and the reason for my conclusions.
I think you are stupid, and I am not joking. I think you are one of the stupid husbands who have no idea what Fatherhood means and what being a real man in your home entails and how to be a husband to your own wife.
The reason I think you are stupid, is because at this stage in your Life, when your wife is strugggling real hard to bond with the young kids you still are worried about your silly sex life.
You have failed to be an alpha male, a real man, a true husband, who will cuddle his wife and his children and generate happiness for your wife. What bothers you is sex. Do you have any idea that it is sex that brought those children to this world, and when they come, you now sound as if those kids are inconvenience for your silly sex life. Do you even know how silly it sounds?
My advise is that you grow up. Call your wife and kiss her then apologize for complaining about Sex, and move into your bedroom and nurse those children to reach an age of grace.
It is not you that should be complaining of sex dimwit. If your wife needs sex, then become creative, you can make move in the kitchen, bathroom, toilet, under the bed and even at the BQ for a change.
You must not come here and lament about this nonsense again.
Do we not have real men again in this forum that will chastise these Indomie men?
Take charge of your home and bear all inconveniences. Life is not a place for perfect joy and happiness. Embrace the sorrows and pains.
Madam shut your mouth..damn,are you his wife? What's with all the insults.
hotmediatv: Former Super Eagles Coach, Samson Siasia filmed a video pleading with well-meaning Nigerians to donate 250,000 euros.
The former football striker was banned for life from participating in all football match by the world football governing body, FIFA in 2019 after he was found guilty of accepting bribes in order to manipulate matches.
Reacting to this, the former Nigeria coach filed an appeal with FIFA and the Court of Arbitration for Sport against the life ban.
Siasia decided to reach out to Nigerians to help him raise funds so he can be able to defend himself and hopefully overturn the lifetime ban placed on him by the world football governing body.
In the short video, the former Nigeria coach said;
“Good day Nigerians, my name is Samson Siasia. I am coming to you at a very difficult time in my life and career. I need to raise the sum of 250,000 euros. That’s a lot of money. So l am appealing to all well-meaning Nigerians, the sports-loving Nigerians to come to my aid for me to use these funds to defend myself against FIFA. We have this calculation, if 200,000 people can give 500 naira each, we could be able to reach our target. I wanna thank you as you do this. God bless you”.
Samson Samson,na fifa be ur Delilah. Dem catch you,sorry o.Just call on God,Samson for bible called on God too,as for money from nigerians o,nutin wey u go see...na only u chop u bribery money still one use hypertension kill us for football games.
mrbenjame: I think I need matured minds to advice me because I’m very confused right now. Please take pains to read my story.
I dated a lady called Susan (not her real name ). For 4 years. I loved her so much and she did too. I met her when She was preparing to enter the university. 6 months into the relationship I went for service. Came back and it was already clocking 2 years. Whenever she visits I always try to make her comfortable. So she took advantage of my care and always wanted me to serve her all the time. Even when she visits from school she would be operating her phone and watch me do what on a normal terrain she should assist me do. As a young guy I try as much as I can to let her know that at least once in a while it would be nice to get my meal served by my woman even if I prepared it (since she doesn’t like entering the kitchen). Most time I overlook it because probably she’s very tired and all that. Sometimes I thought I was just being selfish but I really wanted to feel that woman attributes but I wasn’t seeing it.
Each time we fix time for a date she comes very late and that piss me off to my bone marrow. She never keeps to time. I endured this for a long time because she never turned up early in any appointment. She calls me at late hours and when I try to explain to her that it’s late she gets angry ( I’m talking of 12 am or there about) and I’ll go to work the next day. Anytime she offends me she would want to be romantic so I’d forget her wrongs just to calm me down. But I was suffering inside.
I felt very weak emotionally and decided to take things easy.
Until I met this lady called Benita (not her real name). I liked her. I admired everything about her. So I approached her while we were going back home from work. We had good conversations and I was happy because she was fun to be with. We exchanged contact and we started chatting. Forgive me because I became happy again just talking to her. Whenever we say goodbye when she gets off the bus she times when I’d get home and immediately I step my foot in my house she calls.( already I’ve told her when I’d be home). I invited her to a date in an eatery and she turned up 10 minutes to the time. I was shocked.
I became more involved with her. I invited her home. She went to my kitchen and she said “ your plates are not washed why? I just smiled and told her I’ll take care of that. Before I knew what was happening she’s started washing the plates. I begged her to stop because I didn’t send her to do that and besides it’s her first time in my house. But she refused. I let her (though the plates were not much but I was happy). She started visiting often with food items to cook. And I obliged to assist her. She refused again. We argued until she had her way. I just sit with her in the kitchen and gist while she cooks. To me I felt I was punishing her because all I wanted is that things of such can be done by her once in a while. (I sabi pity person o. Lols!). And secondly I’m not used to a woman doing things for me for a very long time now.
She calls all the time. Talks so lively and very funny. She’s not the miss romantic type but very smart and reserved.
After a while, you can’t cheat karma. Susan found out. She came to know about Benita. And since then it wasn’t easy settling between two of them. But Susan won’t just give up and I think I’m cool with Benita.
Today Benita is in her 100 level while Susan is about going for her service.
Now I’m trying to be responsible to settle down. I talked with my mum and some close friends of mine but they’re tipping Susan for me because she’s out of school and it would make things much easier for me than settling with Benita. But I love Benita now. She makes me happy. What do I do?
Bros...I would tell you to stick with ur Susan o. The thing is people( men and women) are always prone to be nice at the start of a relationship especially when they like you,when they get comfortable enough,their true colours show up and that's what that Benita is showing you. Susan on the other hand is already comfortable with you and showing you hers. And it isn't too bad really,relationship thrive on communication which I see you haven't been doing. Talk to Susan and tell her what is killing you inside. If she doesn't change,den u can make a decision. At least there was a reason why u chose her in the first place.
Family › Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by Dextre(m): 1:43pm On Mar 06, 2020
Dictator Buhari will soon devalue the naira after destroying the economy, let's see what your N20m will be worth by then. People abroad are praying it happens, so they can send $10k home and build house in banana island with it 
don't you want to be among them. If I had your opportunity, and a legit means to leave, I will JAPA straight