Karlifate:


Exactly!

Her suicide option was triggered by underlying issue(s), such as the domestic problems she was having.

She might have sought solace in academics, but Nigerians sadistic Professors frustrated her efforts.

It's just unfortunate that Nigerians are too full of themselves with the opinions they have. May God not just let anybody see suicide as their only option out of their problems.

I'm quite disgusted by the comments I'm reading. Never judge a situation till you are in the person's shoes. Some people face pressures from home and make them feel worthless if they don't have good school grades. Personally my dad called me a failure when I got 236 in jamb exams in 2007. I knew the mental trauma he gave me because of that.

Other people have high expectations based on academic performance and it's not everybody that has the balls to chest such pressures. People here be claiming like there are things that don't give them anxiety

He's a business man to the core. He will rent the old house after building the new one. More income to his disposal

My own is, will it affect state and private universities?

jeromestarks:

Which car do you drive?

Currently a Honda odyssey. But there is no automatic car given I won't drive

Don't mind all these nay sayers. There are ways automatic car can be customized to suit her needs. Go to YouTube and check it out. I'm also a physically disabled guy and I didn't even need to customize my car

buygala:


None.... Make she no go cripple or even kill other people

She can get the car and get someone to drive her around..

If she can't use any of her legs, how does she intend to use just two hands to operate the accelerator, brake, steering, gear selector, turn signals, etc?...

If one of her legs was functional, preferably the right one, she won't have much of a problem driving conventional auto-gear vehicles..

But in this instance, kindly tell your aunty it's a matter of urgent national security that she never drives a vehicle....

Lol I'm physically abled and I drive perfectly normal on roads, highways and inter state

Me wey scam GNLD back after making me waste a month in the name of training

FBS:


Will you keep this same energy if she was "kissed" by a female?

Answering a question with a question to deflect my question. There are ethics and in every institution and organization, you don't flaunt them because you are in your feelings.

AmazingELixir:


So someone can not express excitement with kiss again.

Although something does not sit well with that man's conduct... besides his celebratory mood in that particular day.

Eeeehen? If you would allow your daughter get similar treatment that's not her husband, then keep up the energy

Mrfixiit:
I'm not sure this man did something wrong. I think he was so excited

Keep up this energy if you would allow your daughter get kissed by someone u entrust to train her in a skill

All these propaganda won't work. We know what the world powers can do. Junta shouldn't be shaken. He should just be weary of assasination

Lewisjohnson:

Na the Fulanis hijab onces I wan knack
Hope they are easy going?

why not? Just be cool and caring. You don melt their heart. But make their Hausa boys notice say Dem dey feel you. You don become enemy

Lewisjohnson:

How about there girls?

Bcus me I never knack Fulani and Hausa girls, I want to experience it.

Hope they are easy to approach and knack?

The educated ones are very coded. But there are also Kaduna christian girls too na. Not all of them in Kaduna are Hausa or fulani

Jewessgratitud3:

*From a concerned lady*👇‼️

My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they asked for.

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Advise this lady

First of all, before you get upset with him, try to be understanding with him. N150k in this economical ain't really that much if you think of it. If you sit down to calculate the cost of the wedding expenses he incurred for the wedding, he would spend nothing less than 2m. These days alone, one cow would cost about 500k. Renting a big hall depending on the state the wedding was held would cost him nothing less than 400k. Let's not talk about decorating and all.

Words hurt a man if you don't know. You literally hurt his feelings when you blackmailed him with 'if you really love me, you will do it'. He made a sacrifice for your happiness by taking a loan, just to make you happy. Logically in a wedding preparation, you are meant to help fight for him to cut some expenses cos at the end of the day, what's more important is a successful marriage.

Your husband is calculating what he would have used most of the money for if he didn't take a huge loan. He won't smile again until he clears that debt and stabilizes for a little while.

You will enjoy yourself. You will be tempted not to come back sef

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Ya dating a narcissist. Your life ain't yours again

Men. It's just that men have more responsibilities and women get keep their money because men have a way of funding their needs. You see a husband buys food for the house, gives her allowance, she gets tfare from her husband daily if he doesn't have a car. If he has a car, he drops her fully or mid way. He buys her data, buys her clothes and aso ebi. He funds her wants and you expect her to really touch her money??.

That's why when a woman uses her money for herself, we no go hear word again. She will only spend on herself and her kids

Kano, Kaduna, Abuja, Nigeria, Kogi, Kwara, Lagos, Ibadan

hybrid77:
How i will kill myself by myself is sth i cannot imagine..

This life too sweet abeg.

Just pray you won't be in situation mentally where u feel that's the only way out

Omihanifa:
Same story every year
Let even assume that the story is true, as a yahoo boy trying to do such a thing, aren't you suppose to even go up north to do such a thing.

Every one knows that an average lady in the South would have dated or slept with a yahoo boy before.meaning that the chance of them being used for rituals is very high.

Am not in support of rituals out at least make we dey reason too nah

It's like you looking for a yoruba actress that have not dated or slept with an NURTW guy

Dey play.... Girls in the north are now gunning for yahoo boys. Don't be surprised if many have been used up already

That 400bn is like 700bn.... The remaining 300bn will be sat on

Immoral sex has always been there. It's social media that's exposing it the more. In the old days, everything was done on a low key and no social media handle was there to open nyash

VTJN:
I understand your parents honestly. I wouldn't blame them for that.

Why not consider studying law now? Is it possible?

After bagging an msc? I'm out for the money now oooo. Anything school is a no no for me for now

Micheal56:
I over heard my neighbor friend telling him he stopped his child from studying computer because of the high rate of fraud
Please what have the man done to the boy destiny?
There have been a change of destiny because u do not know how serious the boy is to be a programmer
Please parent do not make decision for your children it usually lead to hate in the future

I'm a victim of such tho... Always wanted to read law. My mum said she doesn't want because she wants a school nearby cos of my physically disability. Na so Dem pick mass comm for me. Till date I still regret reading it even though I have an msc in it

My own is.... You don't condemn anybody till you have all the evidences of your claim. Whatever rocks everybody's boat

Tolumiide:
And I can use the card for instant payment worldwide.

In 2014, I registered NIN, this is 2023, the card has not been issued, Na paper I dey carry around.
This Technology never reach nimc

It has. You just have to do it yourself with an ID card printer

Saviola86:


She has never had a one on one discussion with me except via chat when she invited me for a program.

My relationship has been a private one, like very quiet, we don't post anything on social media. Only close friends and both families and neighbors know we are dating and the period we have been together.

She has attended my church several occasions before she gained admission but they thought she was just one of those invitees I try to convert to the church.

I am really a busy person and my routine is always from work to house and I sleep, Sunday after service and leaders meeting I just go straight home so many of them think I am single and not interested in a relationship.

For the resident pastor, on two occasions she has asked me on whatsapp and have told her I am in a long relationship but I don't know why she keeps making that joke or think it's not a serious relationship

Baba! Since the pastor is a female. Go and check well, she's crushing on you low key. She doesn't know how to express it so she's subtly throwing jabs at you, hoping one day you confront her and she schemes her way into your life

MadeINchenzen2:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f3mb22gJOl8



https://dailytrust.com/boris-johnson-nigeria-can-be-a-renewable-superpower/

Dem dey bobo us cos Dem need our oil. Colonialism never left this country. It's neo colonialism that's the order of the day

Mummyfour:
Students from far and near went to their different jamb exam centers to write the mock exams today.

The exam was supposed to be in two batches.
There was a batch A that was slated for7 am and candidates were expected to have been seated by 6:30 am, then there was the 9 am batch and the candidates were also expected to have been in their centers by 8:30 am.
I actually took my daughter to the CBT professional test centre at bwari FCT not few metres away from the JAMB head office here In Abuja, that was her center.
It was an annoying situation when even as at 12:30 pm the candidates that were billed for the 7am exams had not started.

Parents that were waiting for their children became apprehensive and couldn't just understand what the delay was about.
Most of the children had not eaten and some parents had actually done drop off with the mind of coming later for their ward.

Most of the children that had been dropped off, had no money, phones or even food because they felt they could endure whatever hunger until after the exams.

At about 12:40pm, 3 coaster buses drove into the centre and the staff and security personnel at the centre began to direct some of the children to get on the buses.
In the process, some parents raised alarm and began to shout even as they wondered at the rationale behind such action.
At a point some of the children that had seen parents yelling at them to get off the buses, quickly did.

Meanwhile before then, no body not a even staff came out to address the waiting parents as to what was really going on, and when parents asked them, all they were told was that network was slow thereby affecting "thumb printing", for 6 hours?

It was at the point when parents were yelling at the gate that the Registrar of Jamb drove in with 3 Hilux trucks of security men armed to the teeth.

He grudgingly stepped out to address the parents because they compelled him to.
Before then, parents had begun to look for snacks and drinks for their children who had started complaining of hunger. They kept on coming to the gate to talk and complain to their parents, because they were not in the exam hall, but under a makeshift tent.
Some were even feeling sleepy and tired after staying up late to read at night.

The Registrar with every sense of pomposity told us that we were breaking the law because we came close to the gate to give our hungry children food and drinks.
It's not as if they made any provisions for the children o.

We were even expecting him as a father to sympathize with the children and beg them for understanding being their fault that their systems were not working.

When he said that, all hell let loose.
Parents began to scream at him out of anger, because we were expecting some kind of explanation or even apologies. Instead he told us that we should not have come close to the gate.

I asked him how we would have been able to pass on the food items to our children, and that if they had done the right thing, there would not have been any reason for parents to come close to the gate.
At that question, he began to ramble and tell us stories of network failure and all those annoying lies.

He subsequently told us that the second batch were to get on the buses and go and write the exam in jamb office.

A parent asked how the children will come back to the original center they were posted and he swore that the buses will bring them back

To cut the story short, the exams actually started at 3:45pm and ended at 5:30pm.

And the shocker we received was that those children that were taken to the jamb office had to trek all the way back to their former center, except for those that their parents took them their with either bikes or vehicles.

I don't know when we will get it right in this country.
Ordinary mock jamb in FCT..
So how would it be in other states and local government areas?.

It keeps getting worse every year.
And those children came out of the center broken, dissolutioned, and frustrated. You could see the children that were all fired up in the morning, and ready to do justice to the Mock exam, coming out very cold and troubled.

I have said it, let us go back to the days of shading with HB pencil abeg
It's not worth it.
We can't seem to get any thing right in this country.
Ordinary computer based test?

Mods please push to front page

The agenda to fully ridicule education in Nigeria is now in full force. With time, people will not see the need to take their kids to school as a result of this type of frustration. Wtf

amnesty7:
The CBN governor is confused. The so-called cabal cannot help him now that those he worked against have won both the elections and the court case.

If you know the mind games this government is playing on you.... You will never take sides on any policy or drama unfolding. Nothing will happen to emefiele. He's just a pawn used to achieve objectives beyond what you see on the surface level

AngelGabbyShara:


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Tinubu don give these ones corn