ajimo54:


It is a private company doing this not Abia State. Many of Abians wont be able to afford the electricity bills. It is not moimoi o!

Do you know what "PPP", as used in that article, means?

ajepako:
Abeg how much is land in Abia

Abia people, shey una go welcome fairly used 50 year old fagin from Lagos?

Fagin or not, I go personally welcome you.

God bless my Baba!

3triple:
Hello guys, M22 here, I have a very oily face with constant pimples attacking it, I’ve used a lot of things from those tube creams usually in pharmacies to locally made black soaps but my face still remains the same, they work for some time but it’s like my face adapts to them, I really don’t know. Do you guys have any tips for me? I’ll attach a pic of the skin if it’ll help… thanks

No dey bath with hot water. I repeat, NO DEY BATH WITH HOT WATER.

Dude if na you dey that video, you talk too much! Just stfu already! Abeg!

plaindealer:


https://saharareporters.com/2023/11/05/pretenders-government-how-abia-state-being-fleeced-michael-nwabueze

Baba I live in Umuahia. For 24yrs, PDP pillaged and raped Abia State. Name just 1 legacy project PDP left in Abia State. Name 1. Just 1. If I know where you dey live, na to come give you better beating.

Una no go wound person with Laff!

Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands

You have been meeting bad men.

No be His Vexcellency be this?

Imbeciles!

If dem no open am to all Nigerians, make we know many Kano indigenes are qualified. Na Almajiri go do the job?

Jokers! Tụfịakwa!

Blaze14k:
I would like to use this opportunity to seek guidance based on the issue I have on ground. I believe it's igbos especially elderly person who is in a better position to give me a reasonable explanation. I told my mum my girlfriend is from ohafia, abia state and she instantly told me I can't get married to her. Her reason is because people from ohafia, arochukwu, izombe, and few other places in abia state are regarded as OSU. I complained to other members of my family but they also rejected her.

I have made some research personally and found out people from other part of igboland marry from those places. Now my question is why are they strongly rejecting her cos it doesn't make sense to call everybody from different local government in abia state OSU.

I've made more research on the girls family and found out they are king makers and her father belongs to eze's cabinet.

Her father and mine are no longer alive. They both have a traditional title and belong to eze's cabinet too. Please I need your advice cos I really want marry this girl. I also know that people encounter alot of difficulties when they want to get married. So I need a clarification from someone who has extensive knowledge on igbo tradition. Thank you

Abam, Ohafia and Arochukwu were the ones who made others slaves(Osu) in the past, so there is NO WAY they can be called slaves. Maybe your family line has slaves in it and your people are scared of being found out.

turmacs:
How i wish someone as rich as this guy can come and marry me like this, heiii God i will sing praises to thee for the rest of my life..Oh lord, he doesn't have to be a young man, even if he's in his 60's or 70's, I'll forever be grateful...Ohh, Lord, i don't want to end up with a broke ass Nigeria man boy, who's older than 23 years, but doesn't have a car, a house, and not upto 100 million naira in his bank account, keep me away from such failures in da mighty name of Jesus, amen..

You dey find engagement abi? Go Twitter. Meanwhile, show me your account statement, I wan check something.

Pakute:
Ayam sorry but anytime i dey hear dis so called yam festival dey make me to laugh. But my question is, how is yam part of ibo culture?, did ibos discover yam?, is there no ibo word for yam?, why not use your indigenous language for the festival rather than English.

Yam is called Ji in Ìgbo language.
New Yam Festival is Iri Ji

Flathead8:
Una go act ignorantly with your sophisticated wrapped, myopic and delusional mindset understanding of things you have no idea about!

Bunch of foolish and imbecilic set if people!

Islam has always recognized Mary as the mother of Jesus, in fact, it's among the doctrines and pillers of Islam. There is a whole chapter in the Qur'an named Maryam(mary), where it was narrated how she gave birth to Jesus

But una go carry una flat.head like the most educated people![quote author=SpartaOfLagos post=125257835]If you're a Muslim and you carry Islam on your head like Gala , know that in Dubai that's even more Islamic than you in Nigeria named one of there mosque after Mary the mother of Jesus .

So calm down and tolerate other people with different faith.

God bless the federal republic of Nigeria.


See photos below

https://believersportal.com/united-arab-emirates-mosque-renamed-to-mary-mother-of-jesus/

Nlfpmod

Baba na "Pillars", not "Pillers". You are stupid shaaa. And Seun, I am not a moslem, you sef, you dey stupid. So to comment on a thread about Islam, I must agree to your terms, but no such rubbish for Christians and Traditional worshippers. You are stupid. NO CAP!

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She don dey chop Pomo outside, and you know what that means abi?
Okay I will tell you.
It means your marriage aff scatter

Wainey:
This is what a military govt looks like, it is still fresh for now, wait until military don settle down then you will understand that even freedom to life is not guarantee when you have a dictator

Here in Nigeria, radio and TV stations have been fined for next to nothing. So make all of una getat.

HanisahZuwy:
Please help!

My anus got torn a little bit. I'm finding it difficult to poo normally, because my anus hurts whenever I'm doing so. There's even blood whenever I poo.

Please, I need help on what I can drink or apply to heal my anus and also stop the blood. Please, I would really appreciate your input. Thanks.

Na where you dey find the Urgent 5k dem tear your yarnsh?

What the fcvk did I just waste data on!

Dexy4yah:
I dated this lady for few years... doing our courtship we had unprotected sex.
I later relocated to another state because of my studies....that's how the relationship died.

She later got married

After about 13years of not hearing from eachother....one day my phone rang and behold she was the one...she called to tell me a secret...she said her first child is mine and not her husband's.
That doing our courtship she took in, she tried to abort it but it didn't work out for her, she didn't tell me about it because she knew that i was not ready to father a child at that time.

It was at that moment that she met this guy who is now her husband...the guy hasten everything and got married to her...she made him believe that the pregnancy is his own whereas that's was not the true...the boy is 8years old now.


I told her never to let the husband know about it and let the child be the husband's own....let her just forget everything about me being the father of the child so that her marriage won't crumble.
She has a loving husband and she is blessed with three kids aside the boy.


But she made one comment that when the boy reach 22years she will tell him who his real father is....she insisted. But am against it, i told her not to try it because if she end up telling the boy about it there is every possibility that the husband will end up knowing about it and i wonder how he is going to react towards it.

(Women can keep secret sha)
Please i hope i did the right thing??

Mumu story. Una never see each other in 13 yrs, but her 8yr old son is yours? GTFOH

They refused his other requests but agreed to 2 bedroom apartment? All of una dey ment!

scoobyblogspot:
My ex was having some issues with me cause of my addiction to alcohol and a lot of times I misbehave then, although I have changed now that I am married.

Well, she asked us to take a break from the relationship which I refused and she said she has made up her mind already, I pleaded but she refused so i respected her decision but I kept calling her and chatting with her so we don’t go far from each other. The feeling was fading as contact wasn't regular anymore.

Let me caught the long story short

I found someone else, now my wife and she is so understanding and caring towards me, when she got to know this, she hated me and called me all sort of names and wept via chat that is it because she asked for a break just to test me that I broke her heart and she also didnt give me S**?. Don’t judge me yet, I found some missed calls from a guy who kept calling her by 12am on video call at night and sent her gifts upon gift, even took her out secretly. I missed her anyways and I know she misses me too, we have both moved on but I can’t stop thinking about her months after our break up.

Nairaland admins go just concoct story, carry am come put for frontpage.

pansophist:
. When people think about polygamy, they imagine a young man getting married to two young women. They see it from the prism of his sexual vanity, and criticize why he is not content with one woman. But in reality, polygamy is a well-established method of human family formation and is present in every single society whether it is legislated or not. 

This class of women benefits from polygamy

1. Barren women. Most men will not marry a woman who can't bear a child for him. The alternative for such women is polygamy since the other wives can give him a child.

 2. Divorcees with children. Most men will always prefer a woman who has never been married before, but being divorced should not deny a woman marriage, and lots of men will not mind marrying such women as second wives and being step-fathers to their children. 

3. Widowers (especially with children): This is self-explanatory. 

4. Levirate wives; This is related to number three, but differs in the angle that a man marries his late brother's wife, taking care of her and the children. Giving them a home and protection.

1a. Now, bear in mind that there are more women than men. Men are responsible for most work death, and war death, most prisoners are men and men have to be established before getting a wife. A woman generally is ready to marry in her 20s. So with this reality, women will always be available in high numbers than eligible males. 

1b. Also, bear in mind that the West seeing polygamy as outdated is actually de facto polygamy. There is no difference between marrying one woman and sleeping with four outside. It is still polygamy. The women whom he didn't marry are the losers in the game since they will not enjoy any conjugal protection from him and the law. 

1c. Again, you should bear in mind that monogamy is successful in the West due to its wealth. The social system can take care of single mothers by giving them cash monthly. In other parts of the world, suffering awaits such women, in this case, polygamy transfers the responsibility to the man. 

1d. Also, polygamy is actually a burden on the polygamous man, because he now has more mouths to feed, and children and wives to take care of. His pocket has to be heavy. 

1e. Polygamy gives women the opportunity to team up and share a high-value man since these men are few in number. In dating, women share the same men, why not in marriage?

Most importantly, if polygamy is done rightly, it is equally as good as monogamy.

There are more men than women on Earth. Get your facts right.

Kobicove:
This guy wants to use this news to trend so that Lagosians will remember that he still exists

@seun I know this is an open forum, but people as shallow-minded as this should be vetted out.

Kobicove:
This guy wants to use this news to trend so that Lagosians will remember that he still exists

You are stupid. Seriously!

FreeStuffsNG:
Small yansh dey shakes


Don't push them to their death and destruction.

These are countries in the league of poorest of poor nations on earth and Niger in particular, for years, has had the lowest in the world in terms of HDI.

They live on the benevolence of Nigeria for aid to their military.

Nigeria has experience in this kind of military operation,we have successfully done it in the past, sacking impostors in power. Their military have no such experience and they are just too few and unequiped.

Just take them off internet, electricity and create a land and air blockade Check my signature for free stuffs!

And this is the narrative they are trying to change. WTF is wrong with you people!

Octopusssy:

You have a brain rattling around somewhere in that head of yours. USE IT
https://www.lyricinterpretations.com/labrinth/beneath-your-beautiful

Kai! Wetin this poor guy do you naaa?

Emergingnation:
Another fake news.....

No lies and propaganda can stop the imminent Actualisation of sovereign state of Biafra....

Shut the Bleep up motherfucker!!!
Mgbe oge ga-eru, anyị ga ama ndị wụ efulefu.

You guys kill your kith and kin abi you think say because people like us keep quiet, say we no dey see?

Unu egbula ọchụ! Amadịọha ga abịa unu ụgwọ. Ga kaa ya ebe ọbụla ichọrọ ika ya.

Ọwụgị nanị unu ma ka esi egbu nwanne na nna

Likoya:
Nonsense....Even person wey no go school go understand everything wey she talk..... Computer Science indeed...So you need to be a computer scientist to know what unlimited data is? When they said tech language I even thought she was speaking in C++ or Phyton... Rubbish

Atire oooooo! To stone the OP my phone dey hungry me.

Person wey en brother sing "Take Banana till you go yo". I no get strength this evening abeg.