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IdiAminDada:
Unfaithfulness
I don't think I was beating around the bush because i did mention that i cheated. There was not excuse for it.

But the concern is the her insecurities leads her to doing the unthinkable. If she has access to my phone now, she will find a booklet and start copying every female name in my contacts. If. She sees for the recent contacts that we've been talking, gbam she calls the female with threats and insults. In most cases her presumption is wrong and could do damage someday since everyone she call so far is inconsequential.

I had no relationship with the girl with the lipstick on my shirt, just a lausy drunk girl that couldn't walk straight which I help to the car.

I gave a girl a lift and her earring fell in the car. I became an issue more than a year now.

They were sharing condoms at a bar, I collected a pack, it was in my car for 3 months until a friend needed it at a wedding. I came home and she accused me of using it.

The cum. Since my sec sch days, if i squat to take a shit, i always notice like watery cum coming out. On this particular day, a friend took me out to a bush bar, ate fish pepper soup and gbam my stomach was on fire. There was no way i would sit on that smelly toilet and cant reach home so I drove some distance, found some bush and did my business squatting. The cumlike thing happened and got my boxer stained. My wife inspected my boxers as usual and saw it. To her I, I just finished fvcking.

Lastly, if my finances is her problem, i cant kee myself.

Oga you are just filled with excuses, honestly.

You are jobless
Hang around unserious friends that adds no value to your life
Cheats, womanize

And you still complain about your wife
The woman dey try
In fact that woman truly loves you
She has taken a lot of bull crap from you

True she may have her own issues
But you must change
Cut off those unserious friends
Cut off all those attention to irrelevant women
Be serious about job or business
You first be the change

Then she will follow

You are with a woman that truly loves you
You think all those babes you flirt and galivant around with will tolerate half of what that woman tolerates
Dude they won't try that

Please change your ways
You don't even have problems
You are the problem

RiyadhGoddess:
Please let me not say all the uncountable punishment my parents gave to me while growing up. I have just made peace with the old man this year ( think 2 month ago ) after reading a book at onitsha (the book I am about reviewing with my WhatsApp family) . I was forced to put into practice what God commanded us to do. Narrating my ordeal all in the name of discipline will only hurt my feelings tonight but one thing I can promise my kids is that I will never do such to any of them. Don't mistake wickedness for discipline!

Honestly some of these were wickedness. The kind beating I received as a child made me to be very distant with my dad.
He even complained about it, that I was distant, not attached to him.

But a point came when I understood the spiritual implication of honouring your father and mother. I had to forgive forget and throw Away everything.

Today we relate very well. I talk with him every week. And I have learnt so much wisdom from him.

Irrespective of whatever our parents did especially when we were young and little they still love us. At least they provided, took us to the best schools, gave us good things of life. So there making some mistakes is because they are still humans.
So we should love them back more

Liliantalks:
How true this ? well to me , very true



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Not always true
Among my sisters set
Those that were doing fellowship babes and responsible all married to responsible rich men today.

Those ones doing runs, majority are not even married and these ladies are in there late 30s. Some married were driven away from there husbands house.
One in particular, the husband set trap for her that he was traveling overseas, had a flight to catch, she brought her lover.
The man came back late in the night and caught the babe naked with her lover.
He drove her away with the two children she born for him. Like over 6 years now. No reconciliation. The man has moved on

Those ones that were doing fellowship but didn't marry were the ones selecting and rejecting husbands. Because husbands were coming. By the time they got advanced in age, men ran away.
But the wise ones all got married.

Eastlink:
I don’t know about your claims, but I can vouch for that company. His younger brother Ndibe Obi has been managing the company since the 90’s.
The company began as a trading company far back in the early 1990’s. Peter Obi before he became Governor in 2004 was one of the founders of Balogun Trade fair complex. He even erected a lot of buildings there and you could see some with his name in a monument as of 2003. Visit Tradefair Lagos and ask
I actually worked in the company after my NYSC in 2014. They were a major importer of Titus canned fish and a lot of cosmetics. Maybe Peter Obi boosted the company with funds, I don’t know. But NEXT has been in existence far back.

Next was owned by Peter Obi. The company has been in existence since the 1990s.They own franchise of a lot of products like Titus canned fish, Heinz products, Moet and very many other.
This was many years before he became governor. Including Fidelity Bank, Willie Obiano was an executive director in Fidelity Bank before he retired and Peter made him Anambra governor..

It's just that Peter is not a noise maker. But when it comes to money, the guy is crazily rich.

Osagyefo98:
And you have to pay to keep the church running. Solomon donated to the church and even Christ did more for the church.

Your own won't be different and moreover you are unnecessarily lying and exaggerating situation.

Actually most of them don't support the church so when it's time for burial of there parents and they need the church. All there levies will be tabled.

Likewise village meeting, development union and umunna those of them that dodge it. There matter is tabled when they want to do burial or marriage.

Esseite:
As we think we can hear ourselves, it usually does not come out the way we think..

If ten different recordings are placed on a table and you are told to pick out your voice, would you be able to?

There is a science behind it.
Humans have two ears, the inner ear and the outer ear.
When you are speaking or singing, you hear your voice with your inner ear. So you don't actually know how your voice sound.

But when you speak through a microphone, your outer ear then truly hears how you sound to others. That's why a lot of people are surprised with there voices coming out of a microphone. It sounds strange to them.

There are only three organs for balance in a human being : the inner ear, the outer ear and the brain.

Man is very complex

SonOfEl:
Superlightening not disputing his perspective as he has his. for his to be true does not make the other guys observations false either.

anambra in my observations have issues with their daughters going far especially to non anambra states. Their sons are at home, so they can bring women home.

It's just stereotype from your own perception and observation.
So you now developed a bias

There are many families that have done otherwise.

SonOfEl:
it happens everywhere if you ask me, but that of anambra is notorious. I know what am saying. even with pregnancy, it sometimes doesn't work and when it does, it is carried over as a serious family (inlaw) problem.

I m very certain that most Adas in igboland are being pressured to marry from their hometown. it's everywhere. But the rate of ladies breaking away from the pressure are few. more so, those who aren't adas face some pressure, especially those from anambra.

What the guy is saying is true.
I am from Anambra but my sisters our first daughter married an IMO man.
Second daughter married Abia man.

My family never discriminated them. We have a wonderful relationship with our in laws
Only the third one married Anambra.

So it's more about individual choices

comrChris:
who told you this? I'm from Afikpo, I can't count how many anambra women married to my place.
Even my brother married from anambra.

Op the girl never loved you, she just used Ebonyi as an excuse.. Move on

Same thing I said

Erosion2020:
Gwoni u see am? ATM machine, minting Ordinary 8k for nwa Anambra.
This one says we're mentally unstable lol

Time will tell.

Bia you shouldn't take these things serious though it can be painful.
I am from Anambra
And true there are lots of stereotypes going on
But you shouldn't let that define you

I think the op was used by the babe
Bringing her mom in was just a decoy
She just never loved that guy
And the guy genuinely loved her
But she never valued it because she doesn't understand what real treasures are.

It's not about Anambra it's more about the individual and character of the person.
We all are one. My cousin sister is married to an Ebony man. They live in Nnewi
And she has supported her husband who had nothing when they married.
Today they are millionaires.
They run same business and are doing well. If my people want to do all those nwa
Abakaliki stuff. Trust my cousin, she shine eye well we'll, they go just clear road.

OJURONGBE1:
I suffered the same fate last year .
Her mother said she can't marry an ijebu man because they had a terrible experience few years back that claimed one of her Aunt's life as if I was involved in the entire picture
It was painful as I was already into this lady (1 year relationship) but I was grateful it wasn't too deep for me to get over .
Another issue was when she said it to my face that I'm not spiritual enough because I attend The Redeemed church and believe in the entirety of the bible as a whole (2Tim 3:16) while she attends one of these woke Pentecostal ministry where the new testament is their only watchword.
I counted my losses and moved on with my life. Two weeks after that ,she uploaded the picture of her new boyfriend on her WhatsApp status.
I was flabbergasted, immediately I deleted her number and vowed never to contact her again even though I haven't met anyone since then.
So Chief , move on with your life and focus on your study.

Haha you were a sicker for love.
She never loved you
I wonder why guys should waste there time and resources on women that never loved them.

A man should go for a woman that loves him, crazy for him. Not one that doesn't give a damn. It always end in regret. Always

Paul8000:
Good evening ladies and gents...

My name is Paul, I am married to my beautiful wife Vivian by name for the past 16 years . We have 5 wonderful children together Jemima 15, Isaac 12, Elizabeth 9, Samuel 6 and Tabitha 3. We are based in Liberia. We both are working and earning well by God grace. I have few issues with my wife that brought me here to get some advice.

Anytime my wife and I had some misunderstanding, she does involve the children. The oldest 3 she tells them everything including how I cheated on her, she also feed them with lies that I am a bad man and I want to kills her. She tells them so many things to make them hate me. They will disrespect and keeping malice with me to the extend of if I send them for errands, she will stop them and tell them not to go. No matter how much I shouted at them to go, they will not obey me because their mother has the final say. For example my wife and I are having some misunderstandings for over 3 weeks now, we are not talking or sleeping in the same room. I have tried to makes things works for us but she refused.

The children are also keeping malice with me. I sent Elizabeth to go and get some water for me, she obeyed and went to the kitchen, few moments later she came back empty handed staring at me in shock. I asked her what about the water she said her mother said I should go in the kitchen to get the water myself . At that moment I just couldn’t take it anymore I exploded in anger I went to the kitchen we had a heated arguments she pour water on me I really wanted to hit her so hard but I control my anger and walked away.

I left the house for 3 days to cool down. because I was so angry with her I just wanted to be alone. I then went home after 3 days,my 3 oldest children acted like they hadn’t seen me they were busy with their phone/ tablets and it was only my 2 youngest that were missing me they both hugged me like never before me. My youngest daughter refuse to leave my room she even slept in my room. I could see how much she misses me. My wife on her side acted like nothing too her normal behaviour as usual . For the sake of my 2 youngest children I sat her down and talked with her. How we should makes things better for the sake of our children especially the younger ones.

I have apologized to her on my knees all to no avail. I am tired of my wife turning my children against me they have becoming out of control ... I can’t correct them it pains me a lot to see my own children disrespecting me. I don’t want them to grow up and hate me all their life I want to have my family back. A happy home how we used to be before but my wife don’t want to cooperate with me I thought this lock-down will bring us together so we could sorted out our differences and fix our marriage to become better but all to no avail.

I am writing this sitting inside my car in the compound because I can’t even go inside the house because I have nobody to talk to my 2 youngest children that keeps me busy are asleep. I am so lonely all alone please how can I put an end to all this I am fed up ...

Anyone who has ever experienced something like this can you please advice me on how did you overcome this. I hope I was brief enough...

You married a bad wife.

You never enforced or asserted your position as the head of your home

She has corrupted the first three

Your only saving grace is your last two children. Focus your love, care on them. Lavish genuine love on them.
Once they grow with that deep love for you, irrespective of whatever there mother tells them, they will still always love you.



This exactly happened to a very wealthy man I know from the East.
His wife was controlling all his children.
These where kids that did from primary school to university overseas through the largeese and wealth of there father.


A point came, the man couldn't take it anymore. He married another woman and presently, the woman has given him three children, he is even richer now, with so much assets. And he has willed everything to the new wife with her children.


Women are very powerful
If you marry good one
She will ensure her children are loyal to you
But if you marry the bad one
She will turn your children against you
It's happening in very many homes.

yourstruly5:
Please what's the clue to find the right woman that your dad shared with him?

Character character character must be your number one priority
Forget packaging
In addition make sure she is resourceful, can manage things, got good brains, can give you sound advice

Physical packaging should come least on your criteria. Definitely someone that appeal to you

pansophist:
From experience, a male criminal can change, he can retract his steps, stop criminalizing and live a honorable life, but it doesnt work in the same way with women. A woman that has slipped into the cult of parasitism can never be satisfied, redeemed or retract her steps. She can only be satisfied as long as the money is there, and will be extremely bitter when it doesn't go her way. Her standards has been aimed so high that it can only go higher, not lower, using men as an utility.

Your relative is lucky, I stan him. In my uncle case, he is not. He is a good man, a genuinely noble man that is not only wealthy but handsome. With women chasing him even though he is married. He never lacks women, but he made the wrong mistake choosing one. Think of Ramson Noah, he looks just like that. He has specifically warned me and my brothers not to go for looks, and gladly, we never did. We both have partners and they have supported us when we are down. The current breed of naija women do not support men and if it happens that I become single tomorrow, I'll hardly go into a relationship with what I'm seeing.

Yeah a parasite can never change.
Yeah current breed are something else. Very mean and callus. They don't mind throwing you under the bus to get there desires. Only knows money not the work behind making it. With few exceptions though, but rare.

pansophist:
True. By de factor, they have actually divorced but not in the court of law. The only thing that bind them together are kids. They live separately and the kids are are partitioned weekly by poultry chicken between both parents, and he make sure he funds her materialistic lifestyle so she could at least be a good mother to his kids, that's the lesser evil he is willing to bear.

And even strikes me is the mentality in these kind of women. One would expect that a woman with such caliber of a man should be a good wife, industrious and compliment him seamlessly, but her leechy behaviour can not change. She even lacks the consciousness to see that she is a drain to her husband, and corrections are seen as hating her. Any young man reading this, stay away from leech.

My elder cousin(son of my dad's elder brother) God so much blessed him in marriage.
In fact we were discussing concerning marriage recently and he told me that God saved him. He dated 3 girls not the same time. It was in the first one that my dad his uncle gave him clue on how to spot the right woman because his dad was then late.
The first two were entitled, no vision, not resourceful kind of women. But they were drop dead gorgeous. The advice guided him. He now met his wife not as gorgeous as the first two.

In his word he told me if he had married one of those first two ladies he would have been dead by now.

After marriage, he was comfortable. By the time his first child was coming, he lost everything, rock bottom, couldn't even afford house rent or feeding. But his woman was there for him, supported him.

Things began to turn small, today 4 kids, very rich, has a big factory that employs over 80 people. The guy is a huge multi millionaire. If you see how this woman runs her home and kids. Dude bought her a mad high range SUV last year.

He told me that he would have been dead if he was married to those entitled ones. During that his trying moment.
He doesn't play with his wife. Doesn't even womanize with all his money.

pansophist:
My uncle (a very wealthy guy) married a poor but stunningly beautiful woman. Let me just say that if it's not because he had three kids with her, he will divorce her straight up. Surprisingly, his mother (my grandma) saw through the girl from day one and hated her, but beauty and a need for a trophy wife led him to such leech of a woman.

Infact her family are living off him, and every attempt he made to make her financially independent was refused. She will rather watch reality tv and expect him to bring money for every single thing. It's a sad tale.

To know if your gf is a leech, ask other women, they are skilled at seeing through themselves. Stay away from broke ladies, they are time bomb awaiting explosion.

From. Exhaustive research I have.made over time. That your uncles scenario is a recipe for disaster.

First thing a man should check in a prospective spouse is a woman that will add value to a man.
Men that marry such women never get lost in life. And they help raise the children born into such homes to be also resourceful.

The true wealth of a man is the woman you married into your house.
If a man makes that mistake, he will die as a miserable man even if he has all the money in this world. The only exception is If God blessed him with a child that is wise, some men can be fortunate.
But if not, he will end up with no legacy despite his wealth.


That's why elders in African culture don't joke with marriage of there children.
They will so much scrutinize so much.
Because they understand the importance of who you end up with as a spouse.
But if one neglects there counsel.
It always end in regret and gnashing of teeth.

bunto:
Do stop the generalization.

There is usually no 'one size fits all'.

People are mostly products of their environment. A person raised in a financially disadvantaged home might have been lucky to have conscientious upbringing and vise versa.

Posters on this forum need to be more mindful of the use of biased language that might end up promoting bigotry.

Never assume anybody will behave or act in a certain way. Endeavor not to be presumptive....
Treat people and their f.ckups as they occur.

"Assumption is ALWAYS the mother of all f.ckups".

It's not about generalization but they are things These were things I observed even from personal level.

In fact I was shocked at my discovery then. True there are poor girls raised well.
But in majority, the most behaved women I have come across, even among married relatives and acquaintances, are girls from Rich homes.
They will marry a man who is responsible but may not be affluent, it's even the poor ones that will be looking down on those type of guys.

These experiences are major reason rich men prefer there sons to marry from the rich or affluent or middle class. With the exception of girls poor they have scrutinized there background that they were raised by responsible parents.

Vulcan24:
oh boy u dey decieve urself o!

no come near babes from Rich homes if u no chop belleful... u wan ridicule urself unless she is ready to brush u up

Before nko .
How you go near woman if you no chop belleful. You must present yourself OK.
You think they will even listen to you?

tommyken:
Since I entered the dating world I have been in relationship with girls from both rich homes and poor homes and I have observe something that intrigue me not only in my relationship both also those of my friends.

The ladies I have dated from rich home tend to be very grateful when you get them even a little gift or help them with a little favour. They tends to appreciate such favour with a very sincere heart and are very grateful to you.

Now this seems the opposite with girls from poor or simply lower income homes, I observe that girls from such poor and average home tend to be very entilted, selfish, insatiable and very ungrateful when you do things for them and they are the first to dump you when you begin to experience financial difficulties.

If you have come across this observation feel free to say your opinion and discuss the reason why its so. As for me, with what I have gone through in the hands of girls from poor home I have decided to marry a lady from a rich or at least a high income well to do home.

It might shock you to know that girls raised in rich, affluent, middle class homes are some of the most behaved women you will come across.

It's even the boys that misbehave most times.
Why do you think the rich marry the rich?
You will see big men insisting that there sons marry from affluent homes too?

Girls raised from poor homes may turn out good but it's rare. Most behave improper.
Guys raised from poor homes are the ones that behave proper and hence get themselves out of poverty through education and landing good jobs.

cooooooks:
Salvageable??

Financial compatibility is very important.

Now, if OP's wife spends her own money alone, the blow is softened but still a blow.

I wondered at many comments.
Ending up with a woman that can't manage finances will render a man poor.

In fact that's the first test for a man that wants to go far in life in choosing a spouse. Very important.
And people are saying it doesn't matter.
It matters a lot.

gare2510:
We need money to continue to tackle Covid 19, these guys are essential oil workers to ensure continuity of oil production. I hope by the time they all down tools both the federal and state governments are unable to pay salaries join the lockdown we will continue to hail Wike. Sooner or later the oil companies will begin moving out of Port Harcourt then the state will have a good old days story like Warri. A word is enough.

Let them move out. Other nations have developed the capacity to drill there oil. Better to develop local content to drill our oil.

More than 50 years and Nigeria can't drill her oil, depending on the mercy of foreigners.

gare2510:
We need money to continue to tackle Covid 19, these guys are essential oil workers to ensure continuity of oil production. I hope by the time they all down tools both the federal and state governments are unable to pay salaries join the lockdown we will continue to hail Wike. Sooner or later the oil companies will begin moving out of Port Harcourt then the state will have a good old days story like Warri. A word is enough.

Let them move out. Other nations have developed the capacity to drill there oil. Better to develop local content to drill our oil.

More than 50 years and Nigeria can't drill her oil, depending on the mercy of foreigners.

Shizzyguy:
"Winke" is just doing all these for optics sake. Nothing special about his speech. Over 50% of confirmed Covid-19 cases alone are in Lagos so it is normal that there would be a lot of focus there. Lagos is more susceptible to higher cases of Covid-19 than any other state in Nigeria if not properly managed because of its population. The same "Winke" relaxed restrictions for religious gatherings last week and quickly reversed it after most of the religious bodies in the state still advised their members to stay home. One thing we will realize after this is that Governance is beyond building roads and bridges so that everyone sees and clap for your or nickname you Mr. Projects. Roads are important so is a working healthcare system and many others.

And how is the health care infrastructure in the nation like, as championed by the center.

Until the oga at the top does things right we are totally joking in this nation.
Citizens watch Koro Koro while the nation is totally misgoverned especially with no justice, equity and fair play. But rather unbridled nepotism that has never been seen before in this clime.

This people should fear God oh.
He sees everything anyone is doing, and rewards when the right time comes.

Honeydenz:
1. Men generally don't like commitment but love hunting ladies[color=#000000][/color] for sex

2. An average Igbo man loves money more than else in this life

3. Most Igbo men like to be very comfortable first before venturing into marriage

4. Success comes with time, hence most Igbo men usually marry when they are already far off into their late 40s, some 50s

5. Those who make it into old age dies before their own 40years old sons starts to think of procreating.

Note: In few cases they get to see thier grandkids, stay with them for a few years but it's basically those who started off with girl child as ladies marry at a younger age than guys.

Absolute nonsense.
What about those who never married at all, or die when there children where young? Even though they married early.

Our life is in God's hands
The most important thing is enjoying every moment of one's life.
Doing the right things now one is alive.
Worrying about all those you wrote up there is foolishness

IduNaOba:
Nobody : SE Contributes nothing in Nigeria
SE : okay let's leave then
Nobody : Never! SE ain't going nowhere, one Nigeria
Nobody (after 3 seconds) dang! But SE actually contributes nothing to Nigeria.
.
No he madness be this?

Don't mind the unintelligent fellows. They are totally confused.

DeViNe007:
Its important for we all to know that the economy of this country came to its sorry state as far back as 1979-1983,because of the conspiracy of the losers of the civil war to bring down the economy of the country to its kneels through the policy of IMPORTATION,which was done through the vp as at that time who was saddled with the responsibility of managing the economy,in connaivance with his economic adviser,by taken advantage of the then president .
You all will agree with me that as at that time the exchange rate of the naira to the pound sterling was at per while the naira to the dollars was above per,and Nigeria had a favourable balance of payment because the economy was awashed with petro-dollars.
Unfortunately,instead of the government at that to invest adequately on its human and natural resources,its WICKEDLY supported this detrimental policy which recked havoc to the economy and led to the near total collapse of the real sector of the economy.
This now bring me to the question of what each region

Go and find out about companies in Nnewi, Aba even onitsha in the 80s that were manufacturing hubs in the 80s and 90s.
The vision less military regimes killed the economy and turned everything upside down. How many things where being imported in the 80s and 90s? Example textiles was solely produced here, but today the Chinese have completely taken over textiles and very many things.


Even till today, the igbo man still believe in manufacturing and production example Innoson single handedly is assembling automobiles in Nnewi.
Automobiles business is not a game for the faint hearted.

Economically Nigeria is still attached to the strings of Niger Deltas crude oil because it's the only real earner of foreign currency into our pockets.
That's why once oil price goes down, everywhere begins to shake economically.

Diversification is the key.
But those in government can't even fix the common factor for Nigerias diversification which is simply electricity /power and nothing more. And they won't allow each region to sought out its own electrical problems but rather everything must be channeled to national grid.


Government should sought out electrical issues or they should remove there hands from it let each region generate it's own electricity. And I will assure you that Eastern Nigeria will turn to a manufacturing hub for African region exporting to the other parts of the world and earning real income for it's people.

Nigeria knows the right thing to do but doesn't want to do it. That's why unintelligent youths will be raising a very unintelligent and backward kind of question like this one being raised.

MansoryMX:
Anambra mothers just left the group chat.

Wetin our mama do you now?

Sterope:
Awon mama's boys association. Who would be stupid enough to marry you?

Do you mean that I will go through all the wahala, then introduce a man to my parents and they will say no. Lmao. They must be ready to have an old spinster.

Most times its the guys parents that say no. And some parents there no is no.
Without there prayers, support and blessings.

Newmans:
The nation is on lockdown yet we are hearing that this people who are dying here are people who just returned from abroad when or may I ask how?
Does it mean people are still moving around? God help us!.

The period of the virus manifestation is like 14 days. The border was closed like 3 weeks ago.

So all the carriers will show either sickness or death within this time frame.
By the end of this second 14 days lock down, Nigeria may become free of the virus except if we open our borders again without water tight monitoring, quarantine and screening.

Our saving grace was earlier closing of our borders to outside world. So it never spread much. Europe and America were playing with the issue. Before they locked down it has already spread within the populace

omotola90:
thanks man.... You know I'm fed up with the whole sex stuff in a relationship..... Must a relationship be defiled?? It's quite grotesque I must say very horrid

And in the debacle I think women lose more in such kind of relationship.
They should not give in to sex. At least even if the guy leaves, they lost nothing, they kept there body from being manhandled.

But when they give in to sex, they lose a lot, there respect and many more.
Women really need to wise up. They will benefit more

missimelda01:
The thing is, people don't know what they want and people don't want what they want.

Don't confuse a fling with a serious relationship, it is said that a relationship without the foundation of quality friendship is like a balloon of fantasy that would soon be burst by the needle of reality.

Op you're very correct and I hope people will be patient enough to get the content of this post and act accordingly. Sex itself is becoming overrated, nothing beats having a companion who understands you, accept your flaws and is willing to help you grow.

One of major report on why many single women unmarried is because most women now easily give sex to men.
So the men don't value the relationship.

This topic is even more beneficial for women. They should start respecting themselves and men will respect them.

Three of my sisters are married to good and very successful husbands today.
And they told me they never suffered fools gladly. Even there husbands behaved themselves during dating and today even in marriage they have a say.

Many ladies have no sense of respect for themselves any wonder they are treated as trash and most times attract men with no bearing in life, gutter kind if men.

Women should know there sense of worth and respect themselves.

wirinet:
I agree with you, but our brothers from the east and PDP would not agree with you. They will tell you Buhari's response to the virus was worse that that of Italy, UK and US.

Another factor that I believe is helping us curtail the virus is our weather and immune system.
Our hot and humid weather helps us restrict the spread of the virus as it curtails it's spread. The virus does not last very long on hot and dry surfaces.
Furthermore, we constantly abuse our immunity (drinking pure water, eating foods with various degree of contamination, constant malaria and typhoid infections, etc) has really helped us in fighting epidemics and pandemics in general.

I am from the east. It's not every body.
The government has done well in this epidemic. Just that many poor can't access relief.

Yeah our weather and immune plays a role too