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Everybody was given birth to so don't think your life depends on your mom for given birth to you because she herself was given birth to. Only a simp cannot put his wife and mother in their place. When a man's father dies, the man automatically becomes the head of the family, not his mother. Treat your mother the way a mother should be treated and treat your wife the way a wife should be treated. Take charge!

True....Igbos marry mostly Igbos...its easier that way. I'm Igbo from Delta and I also marry Igbo lady from Delta. Though I have my reason but not due to family pressure but personal

Jodha1:
It still didn't work out o...yhure right ... obviously...the only problem with some Igbo guys is there family...they usually do not want them to marry outside their tribe...

I'm hearing Igbo small... small o...I was in an Igbo land for almost a year...I wasn't serious if not I would have been fluent in Igbo by now..

Now you started dating Igbo guy again. Anyways,
try learn the language, Igbo guys are generous,
caring, family oriented, hardworking and monogamous. Do not have another regret this time

Jodha1:
It wasn't serious at all...but we liked each other....YES ...that was the major issue sef....girls were flocking around him and it irritated me... anytime we're together they'll be calling him up and down.....

And his Igbo girl friends will be speaking Igbo with him in my presence...and I'll be lost

A Nigerian man cannot rape his wife. She has to fulfill her end of the bargain. If you know you will be hording your body from your husband, better tell him before taking the vow.

Our forefathers married multiple wives to avoid availability issues but since modern women insists on monogamy, they must be ready to perform the conjugal duty as required. Nonsense!

virginprincess:
I can never be raped, because i'm covered with the blood of jesus, and women don't enjoy been raped not even by their own husbands.

You were in waec class so prob too young to be in a defined relationship but that kind play play na relationship back then cos I'm sure when he gave other girls attention, you weren't happy.

Jodha1:
I never stated I dated this one...

As nah so so Igbo guys dey come my way..how awon do?

Why do you keep dating Igbo guys yet complain of their language? The other day, you created a post about you Igbo guy calling you mummy and speaking Igbo all the time.

Jodha1:
I've missed so many that i regret till date...

The most painful one was when I was writing my WAEC ...I met this guy really cool.. handsome and smart unlike some other guys....he was caring and everything...but he had a bad attitude of speaking his dialect (Igbo) even though he knew I didn't understand...
He'll walk me a long distance to my place...and trek back... during breaks when i didn't have the strength to go back home... he'll leave everything and stay with me till it's time...

He was really handsome..so girls do flock around him..but he'll Ignore them all and focus on me...but somehow it didn't work out...

They asked you to keep it a secret but it seems you cannot respect their wish

Dagger111:
I want the best for the girl as she is academically brilliant.

She claimed to have been raped when she was 7yrs but now 26yrs. How can she kill herself for something that happened 19yrs ago?

Why is the society treating rape as worst than death? A girl that's raped has more media coverage than a girl that's killed. This is why rape victims wanna kill themselves because we made it seems it's worse than death.

BTW I don't condone rape but when there's life, there's hope

You're still insisting on your shamelessness.
You narrowed corruption to bribe taking but every sane person knows corruption is much more bigger than bribe taking. I called you out to correct you and you're foolishly saying rubbish!

budaatum:
So, according to your understanding of what I wrote, if I receive a bribe I am not corrupt? If I steal pencil at work I am not corrupt?

Grow up!

What a shameless liar!

budaatum:
I do not narrow corruption down to bribe taking!
Use some imagination please and include ignorance. Ignorance is, at the same time, the source and the greatest corruption and it is rife in Nigeria.

You absolutely do not know what corruption is if you narrow it to bribe taking.

budaatum:
I think stealing has reduced because there is better oversight and less to steal. I also think corruption has increased since Nigerians now seem to have accepted it as the norm.

Do note that corruption is when I pay a bribe.

You can do it, can't you?

Simplyleo:
Heap of dogshit.

If that is the case, can you also provide same comparison between Jonathan and Obj or between Abacha and OBJ?

Eg, what is exchange rate and cost of a bag of rice during Abacha regime?

Pretty sure same statistics will be hugely in favour of Abacha and as such we assume Abacha is better than all the president that succeeded him.

Why she nor resemble herself?

The boy shouldn't have responded via text. He can deny it straight up but his response has put him in a weak position.

So?

Feminists are coming for you

Actually, it should be same sentence as rapists cos if the allegations were not proven to be false, the falsely accused persons will do the entire time

Clomid twins

This must be a case of brain malfunction. The brain, like other organs can go haywire esp if you do drugs

Women and men are not same. When societies were formed, there were no night after pills or contraceptives so women who sleeps around tends to carry the evidence by way of pregnancy unlike men. There is also no difference physically btw a virgin man and a non virgin man but there's a difference in females. This shows you nature wanted women to preserve themselves. Postinor and the likes are recent inventions.

BaddieFreak:
Just look at what you wrote, so men has the right to cheat abi? Well that tells how an average man think, they think about themselves alone

Society (society created by men, so selfish of them) made it seem like a man has a right to cheat and Bleep around while it is wrong for a woman. Men can sleep with all the girls in the world but they hate it when women do the same thing abi.

Why do you men always want to eat your cake and have it?

Seriously why are you all acting surprised because women are now standing up for their rights abi? Until men change, things will keep on going this way, so don't be surprised. The flawed society made by men has failed, women are getting liberated and you don't like it.

Does this your post make sense to you? So his potential wife should be a liability? You are even shamelessly comparing a woman to a child

CalliDora1:
Make we hear word.

So if you start having children you won't take care of them? You'll say because you spend money on your children, you'll disown them?

People don't want to be responsible any longer.

I know, right? Let boys be boys and men be men. We should only advice safe sex. There were guys who were told to wait until marriage only to be denied sex regularly in marriage. It is well

GboyegaD:
How did you come to this conclusion? If there was anything I was running, it was my education.

Ha ha! After you don run things while single, you nor want the new guys to run things, loool

GboyegaD:
I am married and I believe we are both happy.

Are you married or single?
If you're single, do not say someone did not tell you before hand.

GboyegaD:
There's no reasons for comparison and you can read as much as you need to build your knowledge on the topic.

Have safe sex as much as possible before you get married. If you get married as a virgin, you gonna regret it because you experience of sex will be with only one person and as such you can't do comparative analysis

GboyegaD:
If you feel this way, I do not.

How is sex good only in marriage? How can a human have sex with only one person all his or her life? That's such a waste of pleasure and variety

GboyegaD:
Sex is good but only in marriage.

You don't know anything. I used to pass that road in 2014 and some portions were done completely

oyatz:
You are a big liar.

Jonathan only started filling some potholes, covered them with asphalt and clear the bushes around and in the middle gap of the road around Jan,2015 when it seemed obvious to him that he had lost the support of the SW.

You know absolutely nothing! Google is your friend

BabaOwen:
You're sick boy, which year GEJ do am? Which section? What year?

How gullible can you be? Politically, you're daft!

Aconomist:
Name the candidates. And to be honest, Jonathan was worse than Buhari. Remember, Jonathan was enjoying oil prices of $80-100 per barrel and still accomplished nothing. $10 billion was missing from the treasury, etc. Another administration like that and Nigeria will collapse.

You must be joking....Lagos-Ibadan Express that GEJ did like 50%? Bubu is a monumental failure if you consider the money borrowed to what's on ground. It's like saying someone collect money for 5 storey building but built bungalow and you're here glorifying a failure

BabaOwen:
The Lagos Ibadan expressway, OBJ and GEJ kept on rewarding and starting the reconstruction of the road without nothing to show for it.

PMB has constructed a rail line from Apapa port to Ibadan.

I'm not afraid to be seen as a bad guy. I like people to know my position without pretence

DukeJoe17:
You'll be seen as a bad man, just allow them to feel the scourge including your wife

If you know what's good for you don't come 100m close to her unless you don't value your life cos I'm sure she's planning a possible revenge

fati2001:
okay... by the way good morning.