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Balaking:
Hi peeps! I have been working on a loan app for a while and I want to to be able to retrieve my money from a user's bank account automatically on his/her due date. so instead of sending harsh messages to a user's contact i can simply withdraw my full money from the person's account or withdraw bit by bit until the money is complete. Of course a user will have to agree to these terms before collecting the loan and will be notified immediately the money is withdrawn.
Need answers please is this possible.

Its quite easy, all you need to do is use Paystack subscription API
If you can't handle it, I can help.

rhodman:
I have not oo

WHat appl where you using when it suddenly when off itself ?
Did you shut it down, or it abruptly went off ?

rhodman:
Hello guys.

I have a Macbook Pro late 2011.
I was using it and it came off itself, and when I put it on back, it does not come on.
Details:
Apple logo light does not come on.
Keyboard light does not come on
It does not make any sound (the usual chime sound anytime it is switched on)
Fan is rolling
USB port can charge phones

I've tried everything I can by checking of its the RAM, SSD, but no solution.
I've also tried the solutions online, resetting NVRAM, SMC, etc, but none is working.

Who is a Macbook expert that can help me with what to do if it's something I can do at home or who knows an engineer?

My location is Ogun/Lagos.

Have you resolved the issue ?

kimjessey2019:
OK lemme tell y'all this short story .
I have some sand in my room I brought from a prayer ground tied in a transparent rubber, one weekend my girlfriend came as usual and I return from work and met her almsot naked, so I asked her why she said she doesn't want to wear my shorts anymore (normally she doesn't bring her own cloths to my house,she wears mine ) so I said OK and went into the room.she brought out the sand to wear I can notice that she has seen it but me didn't get the it, In fact I didn't reason anything that moment, tired as I was I just bathed and slept . Y'all need to see drama the next day she refused to touch my money, touch me and etc . Who send me ask her why she brought out the sand from where it was.i heard it all that day women mouth bad ooh. How she thought am a human being , well after I managed to calm her down and explain she now touch me and I touch her she touch me again and I touch her again and the rest Na Story.

a very very touching story

Would you like to sell it ?
I am interested , I am serious .

The cost is dependent on the features needed , it can range anywhere from 400k to 1.5 Million or even more, depending on the features.
App development is more complex than people think it is, a back end/API also has to be built.
So what features do you need, send me a message .

sowilli:
grooming goes with age. No matter how much you force a 7 year old. He might not be able to wash his clothes clean himself. Understanding times in life is very important.

This is not true, I can speak for myself and so many other children I have seen.
Go to villages and see little children doing wonders, I didn't even grow up in the village.
I started washing around that same 7 years, even though I started with smaller clothes and accessories like handkerchief .
I cooked my first meal at 10, even though it wasn't good enough, I improved.
I was groomed to know what to do and how to do it early enough, its not rushing a child, its training.
Children give out what you put into them.
10 is a fair age to start Js1

DJperdurabo:
Grooming that child has to take his/her cognitive skills into consideration. It can't be done in isolation and said cognitive skills is a function of age.

Cognitive skills can be sharpened . Besides these days there is very little difference between the cognitive skills of a 10 year old and a 12 year old.
10 is very fair for Js1 .

There are 15 year old children that are smarter, more organized than some 20 year olds.

Especially with the way our country is messed up. Two years is a huge loss..
That means the child would graduate at 18 yrs .....Possible hustle for admission for 2 years.... It would take another 4-7 years to graduate depending on the course, 1 year service ....The child would be 30 by the time he is ready for job hunting .... Most companies these days want to employ 25 -27 year olds.

If a country that is more organized with smooth education and admission system proposes this, it would make more sense.
In Nigeria, its very hard to plan your future, except you have rich parents.

10 is a very fair age.
There should be more focus on parenting, I see too many bad parents these days.

This honestly makes no sense at all.
If you don't groom a child well in all facets of life, no matter how old they are they would misbehave

bukatyne:
Men have accepted their wives and live babies, YES.

However, it is insensitive to say she is selfish because she doesn't want to accept her husband's love child when she is desperately trying to have hers.

Let us put ourselves in the shoes of others.

Ahh, abeg o I didn't say she is selfish, I said my suggestion may sound selfish, not her actions.
Abeg o, make dem no beat me for Nairaland

bukatyne:
You mean if she got pregnant outside marriage and brought the child in?

You know the answer right?

We can't be too sure what the answer would be.. I have heard of men who accepted their wives with a child of another man.

Ma'am, this thing called love and forgiveness knows no bound with some people.

Mavis3:
Thank you so much for this counsel. Kai accepting the child is so difficult for me. Thinking of him, her and the child gets me really upset. But you have spoken well and thank you again.

Its normal for the acceptance to be difficult, its ok to be upset, you would be upset for some time .
But, as I always tell people, before any decision is taken, lay out all your cards, ask yourself what is truly important to you and what your priority is, it would make your decision easier.

It may seem like medicine after death, both you and your husband also have some ironing out to do, he also needs to restructure his mind, and ask himself what is really important to him, so there won't be a recurrent cheating scenario.

You both need to sit and really talk, ask him questions, you both need to pour out your hearts(in a non violent manner), trust me you would both feel relieved after, then discuss the way forward and most importantly where his loyalty and heart lies.

You would be fine.

Mavis3:
Thank you for this. I feel the same way.The child is not part of my plan and I really don't see him as my responsibility but solely his and I don't think I can give my consent to that.

This may sound selfish, but what if it was your child ?
As long as you choose to keep the marriage, the child would always be part of almost every decision .
It may sound harsh, but the earlier you accept what is going on the better.

I am really worried about your mental state, in all of this.
You need to ensure you have peace of mind, and not worry yourself .
Reality sometimes is hard to accept, but this is the reality.

mavis3 I have updated my response above, kindly go through it
You would be fine

This is sad
There isn't any excuse for cheating, because if the tables were turned, it wouldn't be accepted.
The deed is done, what's the way forward.

1. Acceptance :

You really have to accept what has happened deep down in your heart, its ok to feel sad, its ok and normal to feel betrayed, its ok to cry.
But, you have to accept what has happened has happened, nothing would change that.
The child is here, he needs to be responsible and look after the child.
Forgive him as well from the depth of your heart, I know its hard, but you need to bring yourself, not to hold it against him anymore.
Please accept the child.

2. Confirmation:

Your husband needs to confirm the child is his, investment in a child (emotionally and financially), isn't an easy task, it would be very heart breaking if he later finds out the child isn't his, after all the investments..Young ladies these days can be desperate and can go great lengths to use other people for their gains.A DNA test needs to be done.

3. Move Forward :

Since we have accepted the point above as a fact, and its confirmed that the baby is his, you need to move forward and not weigh yourself down .
Allow him take care of the child, think about the child and not the two adults who decided to engage in copulation.
The child is innocent in all of this, and needs to be take care of. Please let him, take care of the child, from a distance.

4. Prevent a Recurrence :

If he is given too much freedom to see the child's mother, be rest assured that there is a possibility of him cheating again, even against his own will.
Suggest a full adoption procedure, this prevents him from constantly having to see the child's mother, it may seem selfish to her, but you also have to protect your home.
Either way, and whatever is decided on, he needs to maintain as much distance as possible from her. They should never meet in private spaces, you could also tag along if he has to see the child, it may seem like being clingy, but it isn't.

5. Keep Praying & Seeking Medical Help :

Inability to conceive can be a mentally and emotionally challenging situation. I encourage you not to lose hope, keep praying, keep seeking medical solutions as well.
This isn't a time to be down, this is a time to put on your full armor, protect your home, protect your mind, ensure you give yourself peace.
Your worries could even prevent you from conceiving, conception can be a very complicated process that can be influenced by a wide array of external and internal factors.
God hasn't forsaken you, He wouldn't , stick with Him

I'm praying for you.

Blessedone26:
Bros, no vex, I didn't update the thread.


We are making progress. Atleast 50% during this quarantine period. She's now much more corporative since many people started asking her " how far". Thanks for your help sir.....

Blessedone26:
Bros, no vex, I didn't update the thread.


We are making progress. Atleast 50% during this quarantine period. She's now much more corporative since many people started asking her " how far". Thanks for your help sir.....

I am glad you are making progress.
My own be say I wan chop naming rice

keepingmum:
Been married for 16yrs plus and can tell you this, love will fade at some point in marriage.......beauty and looks aint skin deep, they are superficial and WILL fade.. my FIL is as white as an albino but hubby is dark skinned and i am light skinned but NOT fair....both my kids took my FIL's skin colour ie hubby's recessive genes.......you may marry a fair skinned girl whom pregnancy hormones messes up with and she goes dark during preg and never returns to her birth colour yet ur kids end up with your colour......will you then dump her and your kids because they dont have your "preferred skin
colour"...

.friendship is what will keep your marriage through those tough times because believe me as a spouse, u ll offend your spouse so much that they might resent you....but then because they miss their "friend" they reconcile and forgive you.

I think the bigger question here is do you know what friendship is

Exactly !
Thank you for this ma'am
OP

Get a book and pen, write out a list of all what you want in a wife .
If she ticks at least 70- 80 % of what you wrote, please marry her.

BUT, if you know within your heart that you wouldn't stay faithful to her just because she isn't light skinned, please let her be.

We humans sometimes don't really understand what love really is, it's not always the tingling sensation...Most times it stems from real and true friendship.

As you grow older, you would understand that some things are going to fade away, they won't matter any more, they are temporary.

What permanent features does she have ?

I don't mean to sound harsh or disrespectful and I understand everyone has preferences, but if you still think in this manner, I am sorry sir, you aren't ready for marriage. You didn't say she isn't good looking, the problem is her skin colour.

Trust me, I know some light skinned girls that are not "marriageable".

When you get married all these things gradually wouldn't matter anymore...

My wife is light skinned, brown "cat eyes" , she is breathtaking to look at. I didn't marry her for all these. It just happened that she had these features.

I am not saying I don't notice her beauty, but as we grow together, her selflessness, her dedication, her submissiveness, her love and care for me, makes me more attracted to her, that I barely notice her face sometimes, the beauty of her actions have overtaken her physical beauty. She gives me peace, peace !. She is my best friend, as you call it my paddy paddy.

Your number one priority should be peace of mind, then every other thing can follow.
Without peace of mind, you can't function properly as a human, nothing else would make sense.

I pray you see things and God gives you foresight to deeply understand what marriage entails and what lies ahead of you.

It's very easy.... They are not funded .
The leaders are too greedy to properly fund anything that would boost the lives of the citizens .

In a country where no year passes without doctors protesting or going on strike, in some states or in the whole country,what do you expect.

Scientific research is a very very expensive process.

Sorry I didn't give enough details on your other thread, I slept off.

The bro above has explained in details, but one more thing many people fail to understand.


Car batteries are not built to endure continuous discharge and recharge cycles....The battery would pack up before you know it.

Please get a deep cycle battery !

Adgideon:
This story is dead on arrival , to the extent that ur in-laws they help u find the gate to ur destination, my guy find another lie,

We can't be too sure if it's true or take, but I personally know someone who went through something similar, she was so scared of sex, her husband had to report her to people she respects to talk to her, then she gradually shifted her mind to succumb.

bukatyne:
@Donald3d:
Fantastic input, God bless you and family.

Amen, yours as well.

Theoretically : Yes

Practically: Yes, but you shouldn't do it.

Would you like me to explain ?

Ilola:
Is MouthAction between married couple a sin

No it isn't

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