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RomanceRe: She Blocked Me After Discovering I'm Nigerian(photos) by Double0h7(f): 12:55pm On Nov 10, 2021
authority2006:
Coming from someone who is telling another person to be confident. Shocked! Why wouldn't anyone on the internet know the most populated black nation/most populated country in Africa? And we're equally participating in many international events and a member of many international organisations. Nigeria is not USA but we're equally not one tiny island
People in Poland have zero knowledge about Africa other than it exists.
FamilyRe: About Nigeria/norway Relationship by Double0h7(f): 12:54pm On Nov 10, 2021
Maggi85:
im so agree with you. But if the nigerian system is patriark system (male is the head) then why doesnt he want to provide for us. Its not logical that he can be the head at home and at the same time not contribute at all. I feel like that is what he wants. And he has speaches in church about marriage. Read something he wrote about that a wife should be submitted, not talk to much. That woman always should see man as above the child. In norway children are seen as very important. And they often gets more attention than the relationship. We are not treating our men like kings at home. Its not much about power but more about having equality and freedom at home. Men are not seen as more important than women. But he reads a book that had the view that a woman should always be submitted in a marriage, and bring food on the table and never arguing. Always say yes to sex, and do alle she can to look beautiful so the man are not tempted by others. This book has the name «revolutionary thoughts on marriage»by Tanee Fomum Z. I hope this book is not what he agrees to. If so i cant marry him.
You've answered your own questions. It seems you're not compatible so what are you going to do? Will you compromise or move on? It looks like both of you are unhappy. You can find a man who happy being equal and he can find a woman who is submissive.
FamilyRe: Is It Wrong To Cook In My Married Brother's House? by Double0h7(f): 4:41am On Nov 10, 2021
olabrinks:
I’m not being funny but women born after 1990 should not have this stupid olden day mentality of the “kitchen belongs to me only”. It’s weird and stupid. The Kitchen does not belong to the wife of the house, if someone is hungry and they want to cook, let them cook. If someone wants to bath will they ask for permission before using the bathroom? What nonsense.
I'm as shocked as you are. I feel sick reading some of the comments on this thread. It's just another way to oppress someone. I couldn't imagine somebody being hungry in my home and constantly asking me for permission to eat! Like wtf!
RomanceRe: She Blocked Me After Discovering I'm Nigerian(photos) by Double0h7(f): 4:25am On Nov 10, 2021
It's because you started the conversation like a beggar. Be confident and interesting and nobody will block you.
You wven acted shocked and laughed at her for not knowing a country in a different continent (@ laughing emoji) as if your country is the USA.

The whole conversation was awkward. Next time, be casual and don't bring in countries and personal stuff. Ask about the person and don't rush... just have a normal conversation.
RomanceRe: why Is It That Guys Don't Wash Their Boxers by Double0h7(f): 3:56am On Nov 10, 2021
DICKstractor:
undecided


Why do you go around sniffing guys undies. Are you a tracking dog?
OMG grin
FamilyRe: Please Help! I’m A Woman Beater by Double0h7(f): 3:40am On Nov 10, 2021
I don't why I'm laughing grin

You should take that energy and join the army, your country needs a strong fearless man like you on the Frontline grin grin grin
FamilyRe: When She Said No Sex Until Marriage. As A Man Know This by Double0h7(f): 3:37am On Nov 10, 2021
cococandy:
stop angry cheesy grin
I don't know how you have any brain cells left after that cry
FamilyRe: About Nigeria/norway Relationship by Double0h7(f): 3:33am On Nov 10, 2021
I don't understand, how do you own a property and pay rent? Anyway, you need to talk to him and find out what he wants and what you want. If you want him to pay the rent then give him the bill and if he refuses then follow through with the consequences (eviction-end of relationship etc) but if you're scared to lose him then be quiet and carry the burden.

He is an African man so he doesn't come from a 50/50 background and he may want a relationship with clear gender roles, there's no right or wrong system it's just people's preference. You should find out what kind of home he wants to run. Maybe your cultures are too different and you're not compatible.
FamilyRe: When She Said No Sex Until Marriage. As A Man Know This by Double0h7(f): 1:51am On Nov 10, 2021
InTheCloudySky:
Omg, what did I just read? The way some of you dudes on Nairaland twist things can cause somebody's jaw to completely dislocate from their face. You will just take one thing and turn it upside down, compose nonsense and think you're actually convincing. Secondly, your attempt at arguing against a woman's personal choice for herself like it's any of your business is absurd, more so when your points are devoid of both logical and rational sense.
Thank you. I was stuck on *palm face* from beginning to end grin

The internet is a playground for social rejects grin
FamilyRe: My Girlfriend Doesn't Know I Have Mental Issues by Double0h7(f): 1:37am On Nov 10, 2021
Dude397:
Yes actually I still live in the environment but it's not like I was a complete mad man on the streets or any of such. Not at all. Mainly hyperactivity and overreligiousity with irritability but with my medication, nothing of such at all and I've been gradually weaned off the medication and will soon stopping it totally by God's grace. It has been years now since my last episode. She is also a very understanding and homely girl but this seems like a big red flag honestly. Also I've never smoked or drank again since this incidents
I'm sorry to say this but you need understand your condition better. Bipolar isn't caused by cannabis, it was just triggered by your drug intake. It also has no cure and you'll be required to take your drugs for the rest of your life. Unless you've been misdiagnosed, Bipolar is something you manage and not something you recover from. You need to accept and understand your condition and then find someone who will accept and understand you.
TravelRe: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Double0h7(f): 1:25am On Nov 09, 2021
Aaronsrod:
Can perfect peace = death?
Can life eternal = death?

how can foolish women still stuck in living hell of Nigeria talk of such things to me?
You're funny asf! cheesy

I only read your mentions and responses on this thread grin cheesy grin
EducationRe: Cambridge University Students Strip Naked For Racy Calendar Photoshoot (Photos) by Double0h7(f): 12:55am On Nov 09, 2021
What's going on here? Did they photoshop boobs on this guy?

FamilyRe: Furrrk Nairaland!! by Double0h7(f): 10:50am On Nov 08, 2021
WetinIsabi:
Yes! Yes! Furrk you too! cheesy
grin grin grin

The films on Netflix now... I'm tempted to watch it for the 100th time cry
EducationRe: Before Vs Now : Nigerian Teacher Now A Professor In The U.S (Photos) by Double0h7(f): 10:45am On Nov 08, 2021
femi4:
Dream killers

Imagine, just in 6yrs....see turnaround. Naija is jinxed
Look at the pictures do you really think it's 6 years apart? You don't go from BSc to PHD and then secure a job in 6 years. Those pictures look about 10 to 12 years apart. Look how much older the guy is.
EducationRe: Before Vs Now : Nigerian Teacher Now A Professor In The U.S (Photos) by Double0h7(f):
CampussNews:
Update from

A Nigerian man identified as Dr. Onyedikachi Ekwerike has taken to twitter to reveal his before and after photos as a teacher in Nigeria and a Professor in the US.

The PhD holder who started teaching as a young man in Nigeria, is now a professor at the Terry College of Business, University of Georgia.

Kachi shared before and after photos of himself, with the first showing him in a class at an undisclosed school in Sapele, Delta state, Nigeria, while the second shows him in class at the University of Georgia, USA.

He revealed that the photos are six years apart and in the first frame he was just a bachelor’s degree holder.

He captioned the images;

How it started vs How it’s going.

Clarity of Purpose X Ogechukwu (God’s time).

#Thankful


https:///before-vs-now-nigerian-teacher-now-a-professor-in-the-u-s-photos/
Where does he reveal that the pictures are 6 years apart? You don't jump from BSc to PHD in six years and just because he teachs at a university doesn't make him a professor.

I don't know why you guys make up stories and spread misinformation. It's just someone's social media post and you're acting like you've reported the news. I get times are hard for you but this is ridiculous undecided
FamilyRe: My Girlfriend Doesn't Know I Have Mental Issues by Double0h7(f): 4:55am On Nov 08, 2021
You shouldn't be ashamed of having any illness, mental or physical! If you play along with these ignorant people then you're perpetuating the stigma. Play your role and be transparent about your health. If your partner knows about your struggle then she could make a conscious decision. If you lie to her then she'd feel doped and she won't have any sympathy for your condition.

You need to persevere your health so don't walk into stressful situations that could trigger you. There's no winning If you lie, you would put yourself in a psychologically damaging condition when she finds out and this in turn may exasperate your condition.

Also, if you have psychosis or any personality disorders then it will be known by her because she lives with you. She wouldn't understand why your acting a certain way and she might jump into conclusions like 'you're this or that' instead of understanding your struggles and making life easier for you.

Nobody wins if you lie about this!
FamilyRe: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by Double0h7(f): 7:43am On Nov 07, 2021
I would go crazy and put every dish in the bin. Then I'd buy myself 1 of everything I need and I would lock it up so the pig can't use it. I would bin every cleaning product or tools since the pig doesn't use it anyway. Next I would sell the washing machine and take my clothes to a laundromat and pay someone to wash MY clothes only. I would cut off all financial assistance and wait for the pig to divorce itself and leave my house.

Op, you need to switch it for this lady because she has taken your kindness for weakness. No need for violence just take away your love and responsibility. Pay the rent and nothing else. If she doesn't find sense then that's her problem. She will leave and divorce herself. You were not put in this world to suffer!
FamilyRe: Has My Cousin Sister Been Rendered Useless? by Double0h7(f): 9:22am On Nov 03, 2021
This is crazy! So, you're going to skip over the fact that this young lady is a prostitute and you're going to chase shadows instead shocked

I can't believe she told you with her chest, and you told her mum and nobody has disciplined her! What a world we live in. cry
RomanceRe: To My Ladies: What If He Died In Your House, What Will You Do ?? by Double0h7(f): 2:41pm On Nov 02, 2021
I would go back to sleep and deal with it when I wake up very well, around midday. Then I would go and cook a good meal because I would need the energy to deal with this drama. After I eat and have a shower, I'd get changed and do my hair and makeup, then I would call the police and explain the situation to them. I would explain that I said no, and ouch, and slow down but he wanted to break my **** but my **** broke him... cry
HealthRe: Please Help (mouth Odour) by Double0h7(f): 11:11am On Nov 02, 2021
After dental hygiene:
Drink a lot of water and snack on fruits often during the day. Also avoid hunger and dehydration.

It could be coming from your gut so eat a lot of yogurt to produce friendly bacteria and whole grain so you're not constipated.

Also, chew gum as often as needed.
RomanceRe: The Church Is The Best Place To Find A GOOD Woman by Double0h7(f): 6:35am On Nov 02, 2021
christlike31:
Good woman make-up more than 89%, the rest are less than 11%.
Can I have a link to this study you're quoting up and down undecided

I hope you're not pulling numbers out of your arse?
RomanceRe: How True Is The Saying " If You Love Something Let It Go" by Double0h7(f): 6:28am On Nov 02, 2021
Viruscorona:
Last week I broke up with my Partner because of external issues and she was the one who decided to call off the relationship.

She's an amazing person but due to circumstances now it can't just work out, even I know it. She's not someone I'll like to lose but I just have to let her go. I came across a Saying that if you love something/someone let her go.If it comes back to you it's your, if it doesn't it never was. How true is this. I'll appreciate your contribution and if you have any experience you can share also
It's just a romantic way of saying *move the fvck on*

What's destined for you will never miss you and What's not will never be yours.
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy Prays For Will Smith After His Wife Jada Shared Their ‘Bedroom’ Crisis by Double0h7(f): 7:32am On Nov 01, 2021
Tomahawk99:
Will Smith na SIMPle mugu. Jada is a ratchet queen and belongs to the streets.
Na Tupac been good for her.
I was looking for this comment. I'm really disappointed that she showed her ratchet ass finally. She loves and belongs with the bad boy but she outsmart her destiny and hooked a good man only to miss the hood loving. I can't hate on her though because pac is dead and will gave her some fine children. The whole family gives me the creeps though.
RomanceRe: Make A Wish For The Month Of November by Double0h7(f): 10:30pm On Oct 31, 2021
I ask God to grant me academic excellence! Amen
RomanceRe: Mouth Odour, Body Odour & Snoring, Which Can You Manage In A Relationship? by Double0h7(f): 10:27pm On Oct 31, 2021
I can handle body odour, I could take control of his laundry and nag him to shower before coming near me and then while he's naked, I'd fumigation him with body spray. Mouth issues I have no control over embarassed
EducationRe: Akin-Ibisagba Kinfeosioluwa Desire, Covenant Best Graduating Student Civil Engin by Double0h7(f): 7:03pm On Oct 27, 2021
To those asking "who paid?" So only broke parents die? Rich parents live forever?

She is a better person than me because I couldn't do it let alone become highest graduating anything. People get levels. Well done girl!
RomanceRe: Which ''Toasting'' Style Is The Best? (picture) by Double0h7(f): 4:45pm On Oct 27, 2021
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Hahaha
Don't be like that miss 007
My bad, that wasn't very nice of me embarassed
RomanceRe: Which ''Toasting'' Style Is The Best? (picture) by Double0h7(f): 4:43pm On Oct 27, 2021
Alfamann:
See how they just made you reveal yourself. Tiny fish brain.

Soon you'll remove your pants online just to "prove them wrong".
Another one grin

RomanceRe: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by Double0h7(f): 6:40am On Oct 27, 2021
Mrscarter:
Thats old fashioned thinking tho. The world has changed. Women can now work and dont have to live off of men. A good wife is submissive to her husband n all that kinda thing n the husband can provide n all that yes. But the woman can support herself until ur married n even afterwards nothing should stop her from helping support her husband n d house n family too. A good marraige is wen u work together on bettering yours n each others lives n ur families lives. Its true that alot of women are shallow n are leeches n the same can be said for some men although women are more likely to be shallow in that respect. And lazy.
Pickmesha spotted grin
FamilyRe: My 85-Year-Old Dad Is Cheating On My Mom by Double0h7(f): 12:24am On Oct 27, 2021
Honestly, there's nothing you can do. It's painful but you have to respect your father and step out of his affairs (pun unintended).

You guys should give him his upkeep and his respect but treat mama even better. If you could afford it, send her on holidays and just spoil her with money. If you have sisters maybe they could invite their mother over and they could cater to her.
RomanceRe: Which ''Toasting'' Style Is The Best? (picture) by Double0h7(f): 11:38pm On Oct 26, 2021
bigpicture001:
If truely it's ur pix. Now I believe.. ur fine dou.
Hmmm. Now I understand the issue, you're not very bright grin
RomanceRe: Which ''Toasting'' Style Is The Best? (picture) by Double0h7(f): 11:34pm On Oct 26, 2021
bigpicture001:
The OP is male.. very simple to detect.... Ladies are ladies and would not ad 007 to their moniker . It represents fast British action movie hero...

A lady wouldn't like to be known by a shooting and fighting actor
undecided

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