₦airaland Forum

Rotjijatau:
Come to jos & see bleaching gone bad among our ladies..... I don't know what's so special about being fair, our ladies are RACISTS. They all should be arrested. A larger percent of the guys are not fair complexion freaks

DaInferno:
maybe not test but tempt rather, but give me a better name of what you call the scenario that took place in Genesis, when God told Abraham to kill his only son... am open to learn sir

Ultimategeneral:
Ewo! So once a woman cheats,she should be cuddled and asked to go and sin no more right?

Johndot:
give him what?

DaInferno:
this lady is intelligent. her mother raised her well.
dude has even cheated twice yet she held on

test are not totally wrong, God tests people too, but a cheater testing her gf of 3years with a prank?
that's some nerve. I feel like asking her to send her account number!

Johndot:
[b][/b]After 3 years of Dating, my boyfriend decides to use his friend to test me with sex.
[b][/b]Whats your take on this?

iamyemiakins:
Alleged sexual allegation: Popular Twitter influencer - Dr. Olufunmilayo sues his accuser, Bolanle Aseyan, demands £10,000 for damages.

https://twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1278937899870892033?s=20[/quote]hope she has evidence, so that she can drag his career

HenryDion:
I use to battle with pimples and eczema... Imagine the combo

Not because I'm dirty, nor because I don't bath. But still, these shits couldn't stop disturbing my life.

Honestly, it messed up my self-esteem. Do you know the worse part? They leave a dark spot whenever they go.

There is no product I didn't use on my face. But when I stop using them, these shits will come back.

My face was tough, with dark spots. Yours is even better.

What did I do? I stopped every skin treatment or care cream. I stopped and my plan was - when it's tired, it would go. But, I started a new practice..

I began to wash my face more often with a clean towel and within a week, I began to see a difference.

When I say often, I mean, wiping my face with awet towel to wipe off the oils.

I started to use baby Pears, and today, I can boast of having the smoothest skin in town. I'm not kidding you.

Many keep asking about my skin regime, but they hardly believe when I tell them what I do..

Don't forget to take care of your bed sheet and pillowcase too..

Good luck!

Premiumwriter:
very true

gwininfo:
please bro what did u use for your acne /pimples....my skin is really having serious issues

Bluntintrovert1:
This is my own soap and it works like magic. Get Ghana black soap, lime, tumeric powder, powdered milk and honey. Mix them together and use it as your face mask twice a day. You can even use it to bath, that's what i use.

Premiumwriter:
you'll start noticing the effect almost on the second or third day.

I continued for about 3 weeks. Sometimes they start coming back after a long break then I restart again.

The good thing is that it stops the pimples on track so they don't burst and turn into blackheads. It also prevents new ones from forming.

At least that's my observation.

Premiumwriter:
Hello

I have been suffering from acne for a very long time, about 5-6 years now.

It has really affected my self-esteem and confidence and I have started trying to clear them.

Recently, I followed some recommendations here and it has been very helpful as my pimples stopped coming frequently.

Now the problem is my rough facial skin. My facial skin looks kind of dirty-dark (something like mud) and very rough (you can see sizeable pores in it).

I tried using Caro white/tone and it was really helpful at first but after prolonged use, my face starts getting too fair and my hands became too tender and fair too. So I had to stop using them.

I'm currently using a Gold Olive cream which has restored the skin back to black but it as if the cream is making my face darker and my hands lighter.

Can't really tell if it is the cream or the soap (I make use of papaya soap and currently using Carol white soap).

I'll really appreciate it if you can recommend a good product to make my face smoother, and even glow without changing my complexion. I have dark spots too - after effects of the pimples. So if you can recommend anything for that I'll also appreciate it.

Thanks a lot.

P. A I'm dark in complexion and have an oily skin (I think it's oily as my face often becomes oily whenever I'm under the sun or even just sitting)

BluntTheApostle:
No be only court-martial.

You think the military has the time to be court-martialing soldiers over domestic violence?

Even soldiers that dehumanized civilians have not been court-martialed. Many complaints have been sent on military misconduct, which one has ever been taken seriously by the military authorities. Highest, they will say the soldier will be disciplined, but a quick inquiry will end up finding nothing. Case dismissed.

Better stop believing everything you read on the internet.

Sinzumarv:
I'm a single dude who ain't ready for any more relationship. At least not for now. I just need a Female Bestie ASAP. Ladies signify if you're interested

Adonis86:
Hello house, I'm a student in one of the universities In Anambra State. I live in Awka and I need your advice on this matter.
In 2017, I was running a program in a university in Awka, I needed an accommodation though don't have enough money to get a place to stay alone, so I resorted to looking for someone who needs a roommate so we could share the rent. I came across one of the posters on the school wall looking for a male roommate, so I picked the number, called, discussed the price, paid and moved in to stay with the guy. I was diagnosed with an STD a year before this incidence, but I had to keep it to myself to avoid stigmatization, though I was already on medics. Six months into my stay with my roommate, he fell sick and was diagnosed with Hepatitis C. He told me about it and had to travel for the family to take proper care of him. Few weeks later, I also travelled to attend to some family matters.
But the trouble started on sunny afternoon while I was at home, I got a call from an unknown number. The person introduced himself as one Dr. something... I've forgotten. He claimed he was a family doctor to my roommate, that if I know he's suffering from the above mentioned illness? I responded Yes. He went further to ask me if I live with HIV, that he told him that he usually see me taking a particular drug daily. At this point, I had to open up because, he told me he'll assure me of confidentiality. Afterwards he ended the call. I was troubled in spirit for everything, but I had to keep my cool till I returned back to school.
When I returned, my roommate was not back, days later he returned with a news that he's been cured of the virus, stating further that his parents was briefed by the doctor, that he also told them that I'm likely to be a gay since he has not seen me entertain a female visitor In the house ever since I moved into the house, I was just listening. He went further to advise me to pack out, giving me a deadline otherwise that his father is already threatening to storm my apartment with his brothers to deal with me for living with HIV and kept it away from him for all those months. At that point, I was not ready financially for a new accommodation, but I had to leave to avoid an embarrassment. So, I reached out to my cousin and requested for money which he gave me. But I asked my roommate about my remaining five months rent, he said I should forget it, that his younger brother will be joining him soon, that his family will deal with me if they visit and meet me in the house, so I had to leave immediately, which he helped me to carry my luggage and still gave me a parting gift. Though I never visited the house again, but we still talk on phone and greet whenever our paths cross in the street.
Then in 2019, I was on a social network 'Badoo' chatting with people when someone added me up and started chatting me, when I checked it was the so called doctor that messed me up a couple of years ago. He never knew I was the same guy he used to shine in 2017, but on my own side, I pretended I never knew him and was chatting him normal, until he started making sexual advances towards me. He wanted me to visit him and passed the night in his place. I was surprised he gave out his number and house address and started chatting with me even on whatsapp, telling me how much he wanted up to be together. Now, I don't know if to expose him as well, since I still have my ex roommate's number too. I'm thinking of visiting him and taking pictures which I'll send my ex roommate as well as the screenshots of all his rusty conversations. Please friends, advise me properly or if I should forget about it.

Also late last year, something happened in my office where I work. God's grace, I was able to secure a job in Unizik, in a department where I work. One day, a guy walked into my office because the university management informed all the overstayed students to come and clear their outstanding courses and graduate. So, as they were coming in and registering their courses on my table, this guy came in and was making case for her sister. He pleaded with me to find a way to help her graduate, that she is been suffering from birth complications and that their father is very frail and sick, that I should help her to graduate. When I inquired of her name to know how to be of help, lo and behold, it was the same family of my ex roommate. it was his elder brother soliciting for assistance on behalf of the elder sister. I asked him well and he confirmed everything, but I refused to disclose my identity, because my encounter with their family was not a pleasant one. As a result, I declined to assist, even when I know what to do to help him.
I don't know if I did the right thing also, but I just need strong piece of advice from matured minds... Thanks!
MOD, please help me push this to the front page.

BluntTheApostle:
This is not about justification, but about solving a social problem. Refusing to listen to the other side of the story is the reason why domestic violence would continue.



How many pastors, soldiers or policemen can women confidently nag the way they nag their husbands? They are ready to fall and worship at the feet of their pastors even if he demands outrageously, but let their husbands make kpem, and they will nag him to death.



If you have no sensible rebuttal, stay off my mention, you bitter woman.

Martinez39s:
Can't you understand sarcasm? When a man tells his story of his wife who is toxic and abusive, even to the extent of stabbing the husband or cutting off his dićk, you females start bleating in unison like a programmed NPC "let us hear the other side of the story," "who knows what she would have been going through in the hands of the typical African man," "what could he have done to make her act like this?," "woman always right and good, man always wrong and bad," etc.

One would have thought that females who love to hear the other side of the story when a woman is defamed would love to hear the other side of the story when a man is defamed or accused of rape. It just goes to show the self-centeredness and manipulative intentions of women.

GuestLog:
There are 2 types of 8 months old pregnant women in Nigeria. The ones that cut their husbands preek and the ones who are beaten to coma by their husbands.

I do not condone violence. If you are angry with your spouse, learn to ignore talking and let the matter die off or simply walk away. Most importantly, learn to forgive your partner.

JONNYSPUTE:
...... Honestly,she has not really said anything. She only told me she will.await for my decisions.

I know she is not happy about the whole stuff and I too is not going to yield to their games.

I will discuss with my wife and travel on Saturday this week to my village to let them know that I'm not interested in the kingship stuff unless they are ready to play by my own conditions.

IamPlato:
A Girl Chatted Me Up On Whatsapp After Posting About My Whatsapp Tv Online, she Chatted Me Up Not Wanting To Join Whatsapp tv but Wanted Something else i Then Made It Clear To Her that I Am Not Interested Or Attracted To Any Lady These days but I Can Make Her A Friend...


That Was The Last Time She Sent A Message... What da fvck Is Wrong With The Female Brain? Is It By Force To Date or Fvck?

So Friend zone Can Pain Like This?


I Can Swear She Is From Nairaland

JONNYSPUTE:
....Good morning folks. Sure we are all good and managing the effects of pandemic well?. To God be the glory.

This is going to be long because I will want us to read and understand it very well before commenting. Reason is because any decision taken is going to affect both myself,my immediate family members, extended and the entire community.

I have been thinking about the way forward since December last year.

It happened that we lost our king (Eze) 5years ago and the community has been in turmoil due to the inability of the elders to select a new king.

Reason is that it is rotational between my village and the other village.

My village is now supposed to bring out the next king and my compound has been told to bring out somebody to be crowned as a king.

I never envisaged or dreamt of becoming a king in my life because.
(1) My father is still alive.
(2)I'm not the most senior in the entire family.

But then,the elders met me last December and told me that the diety in the community has selected me to become the next king and that I have to pick another wife from the community before I will be crowned.

I told them point and blank that the oracle is mistaken due to the reasons I mentioned above but they are not taking it.

Now everyone in my village is against me for refusing the offer and saying I'm doing it be cause I don't want to hurt my wife which is true.

Now my question is,What do I do?
Should I damn the consequence and pick another wife and be crowned a king in other to make my community happy or should I forget about the whole idea entirely and allow the community sort themselves out?

I'm confused here. N B. My wife is aware of all this.

Thanks.

Please bring this to front page cause I'm no longer myself. So many sleepless nights and selfish advices from the elders in my community. I really need to hear the truth from people I don't know.

vastolord4:
DIY* video on sun burn..

James4bright:
Heavy pregnant women work out. I saw a video of a woman who was about to give birth that day, she tried as much as possible to do some little dance exercise that day. Her delivery was safe and perfect.

Those girls are just unproductive.

ModestGal:
And it eases labour, there was a colleague of mine as well that actually gave birth within 10minutes because she does all these exercises.
Many women that are very active during pregnancy usually experience shorter labour

Alexaonfleek:
Its like your first love has charmed you already with the way you are talking about her.
Aren't you a christian?
With the way you're fearing charm like this

eenai:
Women are heartless? I don't think that applies in this case. You should blame yourself. You left a young beautiful girl in the village for two years after putting her in the family way. You probably do not know all she suffered during that period without any support from you. All of a sudden, from nowhere, you showed up and want your child. Haba! Even Sani Abacha no go do this kain thing. Bro you don't seems to know the psychological and emotional torture you subjected that young woman to. She most likely still love you too and regretted marrying her current husband, because you left her and she had no option. That is why she is giving you the weird/hard condition of divorcing you wife and marrying her. My advice: talk to her, show remorse for the way you (and probably your mother) treated her, then gradually show affection for the child. She is taking this hard stand because she feels you don't care about what happened between you two and all she has gone through but you are only interested in the child; who you do not have any input in, except the night you got her pregnant.

lomprico:
did he spill out his educational qualifications? or is it because he said he works in a university?

ukpahu:
Hear my story. I am Igala by tribe. When i was in the village this thing happen more than 12 years ago.

A lady i was dating then got pregnant and she told me about it, then i asked her what's the next step, she told me that she will abort the baby. One month later, another story that she will not give me the baby because my mother doesn't like her.

Before she gave birth to the baby, i traveled to town and got work in one of the federal universities. I spent two years without going back to the village. The last time i traveled to village, i noticed that she is married to another man with two children o. I asked her of my baby, she told me to divorce my wife and marry her before she can give my baby or if i try any thing funy she is going to charm me.

I told my uncle about it, he told me to forget about the baby that God has already given me a good wife and three children.

This whole thing is giving me sleepless night. I can't sleep. I am always thinking of my baby and my wife is noticing some changes in me.

Please what will i do? Should i take legal action on her? pls advice me ooooo. The woman is my first love, i will continue to love her till i die. She is the only woman i ever loved, even more than my wife. I love this woman but she cost me pain.