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Yomii: Dem try small, but this does not solve unemployment problem as well as security problem in Nigeria

That's what u say now. Proves to show u can never satisfy Nigerians. Last time someone came on a social media saying the Nigerian government does not have viable webpage. Now the government has lunched one people are now talking of employment from the ministry of information. Na wah 4 u.

omega25red: 1. i don't understand why you are mad at my comment
2. you didn't do your part because it seemed like you copied and pasted someone elses write up
3. i have no idea where this place is
4. i have never been to that state
5. if i knew where that was, i would gladly go there and take pictures and post it here
6. Never assume that just because someone responds to your post automatically means they know where or what you are talking about and since you are the original poster, can we come to you for more info without you being mad?

All i said was i wish you took your own photos to show us how nice it was since you posted the story. I admit i assumed that you were in the area and you were trying to get your area on the map. Anyway no hard feelings from me i hope you have none either

None from me too. I am also not mad, was just irritated. Anyway on a more serious note, I am a long distance away from Uyo and won't be near that region in a long time. Yes u are right, some live pix would really be nice to see. Also some comments from people that have been there about what to expect would be wonderful. Am throwing the ball out to all Nlers. If anyone could provide us with live pix of the beach, it would be deeply appreciated.

omega25red: The photos are okay but to better advertise this, the poster should take a field trip and take his own point of view pics. I personally would really appreciate and love that.

U don see marketer for Ibeno beach. U please do us the favour of a field trip to the place and come to NL to post the pictures. I have done my part and that was making u and other NLers aware it exits.

Akshow: Amazing. But Why I'm jus hearing of it now?

Yea, that why I posted it. U can't imagine my surprise when i got wind of the beach with pictures ooh. I knew I must see it someday too.

ypzilanti: Hate to burst your bubble, but the guy is probably not interested. Most men need only very little encouragement to make a move.

But to satisfy your curiosity and lay the matter to rest, have a good female friend pick his brain and psych him up that you like him. Let's see his reaction then. She should say something like :'you two are such good friend...I think both of you should date'. Then she should scold him and ask him why he has not asked you out. In fact, she should embarrass him and say it right there in front of you both. An older and less attractive woman than you, that won't go at the back and bleep him in the process... cause some girls eye dey chook,oh! When you do this, come back to nairaland and tell us what happened.

This tactics of reverse psychology could work. Its never failed me though.

prettydiva: i have this friend and hes been in the friend zone for 5 yrs now, i have given in every green light for us to take it to the next level and hes not catching it , don't know how to go about it and encourage him its okay to go to the next level

Lol, have u asked urself if he sees it but is not reacting cos he wants u to come out plainly. Look men may not be the wisest creatures on earth but they are definitely not dump. On anoda hand, he may really not understand all ur green lights cos he really doesn't see it. This case is usually seen when both parties have relaxed in friendship zone that the guy has actually lost hope of dating her. In this case, he won't see ur green lights even if u hit him on the head with it, come short of dancing naked in front of him. It means, u have to take the bull by the horn and say what u want or u will really loose him.

shymexx: You need be very careful with your game, bro.. Most women are inbred liars and very pretentious - and deciding if she's a keeper from the get-go is suicidal...

Better watch out before you become a victim, bro.

Yea u are right, but I had fine-tuned my game that it only disappointed me once. That once it disappointed me was a turning point in my life. But then I came to realise that no matter how much a woman pretends, u would know once u spend enough time with her. U see the hints simmering just under the surface. U just have to look for then. Then, I never used to call keepers back.

vichofu: so, the ones you've slept with, did u jst tell them u want them to be ur sexmate & they jst accepted?
Na wa ooooo

Not really, that would be too tricky. I usually watch her for a while b4 I move in for the kill. If she likes my flow, then I intensify efforts cos I know I would stereotypically loose interest after 2 wks. If she doesn't then I try to listen to her and still keep a positive outlook. At the end of the day, getting her number and the way she give it would tell me how much more effort I need to apply. I then try to place her on a tag (that is see where she fits in: keeper or hit and run) cos that would decide if I called her once I got her number. I used to only call hit and runs. Once I know where to fit her j , the rest is history.

shymexx: What intentions from the start, though?? When you first meet a girl, your first intention(s) is/are how you're going to beat it... most people usually decide if a girl is a keeper, or a smash-and-zoom-off, after getting to know her... So, telling a chic your "intention(s)" from the start would kill off the vibe... just get to know the chic without being overly friendly and let it flow from there...

How right u are about most people deciding if the lady they just met is a keeper or hit and run. I usually used to make that decision in the first few hours I meet any babe. That usually directs my line of approach. If I though she was a keeper, I usually used to run a mile and if I thought she would be a hit and run, I go for the kill immediately. I never pursued any woman more that 2 wks cos if one doesn't impress her in that time, one usually won't, that mean u loose the element of surprise and risk slipping in to the friend zone.

Br3nd4: Making your intentions known from the start doesnt appeal to most ladies. Like when i meet a guy today, he gets my number and tomorow he's telling me he loves me.. Really cocky I must say

On the contrary being friends first makes every thing magical, you get to know each others strength and weaknesses, you know what makes him/her happy or sad and the nerves not to step on buh then again there's a thin line that must'nt be crossed if ever youre considering going into a relationship.

For me starting as friends has always worked..

funny, but this statement can only come from a woman. Madam,declarating ones intension from the start has nothing to do with telling a woman u love her. I have never ever told a woman I loved her, if I didn´t mean it and I have only told one woman I loved her and she was the one I made my wife. Now am sure u will think she is the only one I dated but that won´t be true cos I had my share of a field day with multiple gfs and sleeping partners but I never ever lied to anyone saying I loved her cos I didn´t love anyone of those I was sleeping around with. I always believe in making intentions known from the first day, the thing is that woman are gullible and the ladies will definitely convince themselves to believe what they want to without me having to say anything in the matter. All the guy has to do then is go with the stride.
To answer your question, tell her from the unset. If she likes u, it´d work out itself. If she doesn then betters still,...besides u can´t win all of them. Pls don´t go lying to any lady just to bed her, that is very low of anyone that does that.

THE Ibeno beach is a beautiful sand beach, which stretches to James Town on the Atlantic, providing recreational facilities for water sporting. Other impressive beaches are located at Eket, Ikot Abasi, Adadia, Nwaniba, Uta Ewa and Oron.

The state is well known for her exciting and rich culinary culture, and highly reputed for her irresistible and salivating variety of cuisines, which are predominantly vegetables and sea foods.

Visitors can have a taste of popular local dishes such as isi-ewu, Afang, Edikan Ikong and top it up with fresh palm wine.

Oron Museum offers some finest carvings, relics, artifacts and other valuable antiquities such as masquerade costumes, traditional/instruments, pottery. The museum also contains an attractive, shaded water front garden where visitors can watch small boats drifting on the creeks.

Other places of interest in Akwa Ibom are Ibom Plaza, Presbyterian Church, Mary Slessor House Tomb, Mbo Forest Game Reserve etc.

Ibeno Beach is reputed to be the longest sand beach in West Africa covering about 2 kilometres.

It is a beach that forms a part of the West African border with the Atlantic Ocean. The beauty of this beach is that its sands have been stable over the years without receding with the tide.

Ibeno beach presents a nature's gift, not only as a home for fishing but a relaxation spot for tourists. It is located in Ibeno Local Council Area of the state.

http://www.ngrguardiannews.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=118620:ibeno-beach-akwa-ibom-longest-sand-beach-in-west-africa&catid=184:love-a-life&Itemid=711

I wonder when is the wrong or right move in this situation. Its not like there is a wise old man/woman who knows everything, which there is not. Its though very sad when on receives these kinds of calls. I got one some years ago when I was still working in naija from the supposed fiancee of a lady that was friends with benefit with me. It wasn´t funny for me cos I neva expected such from the guy that called me cos he was like 10 years older than me. He threaten heaven and hell and promised to pour me acid if I don´t leave his supposed fiancee and truth be told I had no idea what he was talking about cos I wasn´t dating the lady. We were just friends who slept together now and then. It was convinent for us both cos I didn´t want to date then and she was a little weary of men in general (so she said). Anyway, I told her what happened and who called me to which she was very angry. I just told her, I loved my health and didn´t want to be injured by anyone cos of a woman. Told her i was out and that the guy could have her. Funny enough she didn´t see fit to tell me about the other guy. Anyway, such is life.

there is no meter to measure it u know..

freechat: I moved into this neighbourhood just recently. It's a small gated compound with just two flats. The other flat is occupied by a newly wedded couple. I had taken one week off from the office to enable me move my things and settle. But there's something about this couple; they are so noisy when making love - so loud you could think we are in the same room. That is not all, the few days I have stayed at home have been full of temptation, because I have noticed to my dismay that this lady wears very skimpy and offensive stuff outside their flat and doesn't even carry herself as a married woman. Now my question is: should I call the man and talk to him about the noise and all, or should I keep my peace and suffer in silence?

I read all the comments people here on NL gave u so far and am rather disappointed cos no one has told u the truth yet. A young couple that live in there own house enjoying their marriage and what they have is already tempting u. U really must be a very evil man to want what belongs to anoda man. Tell me, how is she tempting u? So even if she wears skimpy stuffs, how is that ur concern? Are u her husband? If her husband wants her to dress naked, wetin be ur concern there? Guy ur title an comments don vex me. Why are some Nigerian men so stupidly myopic. Did she come to u to tell u that she wants something? Just cos some other man´s wife wears skimpy stuffs and is nice to u, does not mean she wants something. Ma guy u are not God´s gift to women. If woman dey hungry u 4k ashawo or better still go find ya own. This country has a very rotten mentality that needs to be changed and the people living there too have grown with this mentality that its very irritating sometimes to listen to comments. If people here don´t want to tell u the truth, then let me be the one to open ya eyes to how silly ur comment and thinking of this issue is. Sorry guy, I mean u no disrespect but call a spade a spade. If anoda guy comes in a pulic forum to make this comment about ya own wife what would u do, how would u feel? Look, lets try to treat people how we want ourselves treated and stop this myopic onesided handling of situation. I rest my case.

Nigeria is the only country in the world where its military/air force could use their budget for other things it was not initially proposed for like lunching a commercial airline.....pathetic...

But no one cares weather u leave or not...

then break it, what are u waiting 4? Raise it up and smash it on the floor, u will see it will definitely scatter to pieces.

DavidJohnDavid: My close pal is responsible for his girlfriends's upkeep(she is an orphan). She is a student of Imo State University.
He supports her monthly with 30,000 Naira. The money is suppose to support her with feeding, recharge cards, bus fare and other minor expenses. The bigger expenses are covered by her relative. She complains it is too small. And That in a week alone she spends 15,000 naira for cooking alone.

Should he dump her for her ungratefulness, which is becoming unbearable?

he should frist assertain why she is in the relationship, for the money or 4 him. Besides, he is just her boyfriend so he is not mandated to give her any money.

berem: Nigerians are already used to power cuts. I wonder why they are telling us.

but they are supposed to tell us. its more rude to just cut the damn thing and not explain to users why the damn thing was cut. Or don´t u think so?

its all in ur head, u need it exermined

Zinosalexander: she is 18? my brother move on. No offense to the ladies in the house, but a typical 21 years old Nigerian girl does not know what she wants. Na 18 years wan come know.

I just saw saw her age now. So she is 18...... What are u doing with an 18 year old? What even made me comment on this thread in the first? How old are u even sef?

edogu: How Long Can You Wait For A Girl To Say Yes To Your Proposal

I met this girl late last year and my intention was made known to her.

She told me dat she has a boyfriend and that i should give her time to think over it.

Its getting to four months and she is yet to giv me any reply. The funny thing is that her family assumes dat we already on date including my own family. Obviously i love her with my whole heart and am willing 2 settle down with her.

My question now is how long are you willing to wait before a girl can say yes to your proposal.

Please i need your advice. We keep in touch almost everyday. Actually am ready to wait until she is ready to yes but what i cant tell is if she is just playing along or what.

OK so if she starts dating u wat happens to her boyfriend? What makes u think she won't leave u too 4 anoda guy later? Besides wat made u even ask a girl that has a boyfriend out. What has this world turned into. What made u even open this thread? What makes u even hope of a reply, when u asked a girl that is already dating anoda person out?

frederal: If Maina opens his mouth, you will be surprised by the people who got shares in the loot; it may have been used to finance elections.

thats why they cant touch him...

bjstardom: TOP 8 LIES TOLD BY GIRLS OF
NOWADAYS
1. I have a boyfriend but he is not
in the country.
2. The lecturer called me but i did'nt
answer
3. Am not bleaching my skin, my
natural color is just coming out.
4. Am on my periods.
5. I went to visit a guy in
Abuja, he gave me N50,000
but he did not even touch me
6. I don't love u because of your
money.
7. He is just a friend.
8. I love u too!,
True of False?
Add yours......

what of the ones men tell

[quote author=Mr..Cork] Ok, we all no women can be annoying, lack respect, not too trusted, faragulated, rude, talkative, sinkalative and too nagging. So is it ok to slap a women in the face once in a while so they can respect u? Please advise. matured response only. No attitude please. cheers !! [/quote]b4 nko, where else do u want to slap her?

onila: and many pple where there

why do girls keep up with that bullsh1t. .u deserve better\\

but I thot it was kinda of sexy tho I like them rough

so what! My cousin calls his gf "Ashewo" and she calls him "Omota"

onila:

theres this ethiopian idiat @ my student apartment who tells all the guys @ my house that he has banged me several times

he recently told some guy that I am 2/10 in bed

why a shld a guy over 25 be so childish and immature

so to my fellow niggaz. .why do you guys act like that or yr fellow guys act like that?

maybe he banged u but u don´t remember....

nedu2000: Seems they r just after d money. & don't bother about d quality of d movie.....just watched a bollywood movie & was really impressed

I don't watch Hollywood so not interested in what they earn.