Travel › Re: Welcome To Lagos, Most Beautiful City In West Africa by drnoel: 4:38pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
Tinubu is behind the Lagos of today, let’s try not to turn blind eyes to good things Tinubu is not a good thing |
Politics › Re: Moment Tinubu Disowned Osinbajo: I Have No Son Grown For Presidency (Video) by drnoel: 10:30am On Apr 13, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Osinbajo: The Cowardice Of A Traitor by drnoel: 10:25am On Apr 13, 2022*. Modified: 4:58pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Elslim: *OSINBAJO: THE COWARDICE OF A TRAITOR*
By: *Shehu Bashir Esq*.
"Today, I am the Vice President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria; there was no way I could win a local government election in 2014. Nobody knew who I was. Yes, I served as a Commissioner in Lagos but, hey! there were so many other Commissioners, there were loads of Commissioners, nobody knew who I was, but ..." ~ Professor Yemi Osinbajo SAN
In a video that recently went viral, Prof. Yemi Osinbajo, the Vice President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria was captured giving testimony on the emptiness of his political background, alluding to his non-existing political life, zero political structure and political neophytism until Asiwaju's spot light was shined on him. It was a testimony given at an occasion (before he got carried away by the paraphernalia of that office) to tell the whole world the unforgettable devine role Asiwaju Tinubu played in his life to turn his life around for the best and make him whom he has become today.
No other person could have relayed this story better than the man who has suddenly turned himself into a "political heavy weight" courtesy of a position he got through the benevolence of the "Last Man Standing" - ASIWAJU AHMED BOLA TINUBU.
Before his just released scene one, episode one, television declaration, many observers have waited to hear the odd of an ambition and many have even beaten their chests in denial that the man would not dare to rub shoulder with Asiwaju at the primary. But the desperation of a man that is about to lose the track to a peaceful home return will not make him keep his legs in the hoofs.
To many people who have been following events, they were not shocked. Many have even posited that it is in the character of our "can never win a local government election" man to betray trust bestowed on him. According to an online writer, "what many people do not know is that, the absence of PMB on those his (PMB) sick days, Mr. VP acted contrary to all subsisting understandings as it were". Infact, quite alot of policy summersaults were experienced as against the original presidential directives. For example, retired Justice Ayo Salami PCA was said to have been penciled down for the position of the Executive Chairman of ICPC until someone hurriedly nominated a fellow Redeem Church member as the Chairman. It took the painful but understanding of President Buhari on return from his trip to allow the nomination to pass, and that is after over eight months of intense plea not to withdraw the nomination. We are all living witnesses to how the National Assembly refused to clear the candidate until after eight months in acting capacity.
I have heard many people argue that PYO had the constitutional right to contest for any political position, notwithstanding that he has never even won his polling unit since the birth of this democracy in 1999. Yes, those arguments would be correct, however, there are some times that even the one who is right and has the right to a thing chooses to wave such right when one is overwhelmed by moral burden. I wonder what intellectual qualities, legal rights and academic qualifications Osinbajo has that some of these "credentialists" think Fashola or Gbajabiamila are lacking?. Both of them, and many more could have opted to contest too against Asiwaju, they were simply restrained by moral caution never to attempt to destroy the house that harboured then during the storm. Fashola once answered a question on his loyalty to Asiwaju and he said "may our loyalty never be tested". PYO's loyalty to conscience was tested and he failed woefully.
If they say there is no more shame in the gown, it is definitely on the garb Osinbajo is wearing. Blind is the ambition of a man, who preaches piety and modesty on the pulpit but turns into a leopard when on political stage of opportunity. The case of "follow my words not my character.". Would Osinbajo have dared if he wasn't a Vice President, using the influence of the Office to flex muscles he doesn't even have with Asiwaju? The only "power" he has today is being a VP, should he step down from that Office today, gbam, he don hear am.
I wish he never did this and everyone was praying he respects his honour and resists the temptations to contest against Asiwaju, he would have enjoyed an unequal honour and respect from across the Globe forever.
It is painful, very painful that people tend to betray the man who has done everything for them. Politics can't be progressive if betrayal is the order of contest. Since 2007 that JAGABAN left government as the Governor of Lagos State, he has had chunks of opportunities that were exclusively "patented" to him by default but at every of those given opportunities, he had doled them out to other people.
When he had the opportunity to become a Senator, he donated it to another person and Ganiyu Solomon would have his name written on the National Assembly register as a Senator of the Federal Republic of Nigeria; when the Ministerial slots were offered to him in bulk, he gave them to other people, Christians and Muslims without descriminatio, when it was the time for him to nominate a CEO for a government Agency, he went for a Christian from South East and Nwabueze would enjoy the privilege of a budget planning guru, when the ticket to become the number two citizen of this country, the Vice President, was exclusively his right, he nominated the man who would later challenge his fitness to Nigerian Presidency. What an irony!.
Asiwaju has been out of political office for 15 years now, he has sacrificed alot and patiently waited to achieve only one goal - becoming the President, Commander-in-Chief of the Armed Forces of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. I don't think that is too much for a man who risked his life to restore democracy back into our system. So, for anyone, especially those people whom he had clothed from the unclothedness of the unknown into public celebrity, to stand as a clog in the wheel of his progress is to say the least ungodly.
Aregbesola is probably claiming beguility or hypnotism for his irrational standoff against Asiwaju, even though he has been running from one Monarch to another to persuade them to beg Asiwaju on his behalf for forgiveness. We will wait to see what our "suit for show" VeePee will claim as his blindfolded excuse for standing against Asiwaju when this time passes.
When I wanted to write about Asiwaju and his progressing political sojourn into the Presidency, putting into considerations the conspiracy he has been suffering from his trusted allies, I wanted to give this article a different title (ASIWAJU: THE DESTINY OF AN ORPHAN) but the recent attack on our moral sense by VP Osinbajo would change that topic to a specific focus on the serial treachery of an over ambitious individual.
I know being ambitious is not illegal in anyway, however, every constitutionality is a product of moral conception. What becomes law is the product of social rules, mores and values, and not even the professor of law could take caution to differentiate between ambition and desperation.
There are many ditches that Asiwaju has prevented his boys from falling into but which he would not even talk about. There are some of his boys whom he has helped bail out of bankruptcy as in the case of Babafemi Ojudu, there are many he had helped finance their political campaigns as in he cases of Ogbeni Raufu Aregbesola and Governor Kayode Fayemi, and there is even one he had helped to save his home from matrimonial chaos, preventing him from committing "manslaughter" when that one had to turn his wife into a punching bag. Ironically, some people don't know that their records of "not so decent" character is not in an encrypted folder.
Some people may choose to claim sainthood as if they have never "sined", but those who have truly read and mastered the warnings of generations before them have reinstated that the worst thing a subordinate can do to his boss is to try to outsmart his boss. In this case, many lessons will be learnt albeit in regret.
While the rumour was rife as to the true intention of the Vice President, on whether he would contest or not, and while everyone was bored and tired of the waiting game, the cowardice in Mr. Vice President would not even allow him to organise an event with people physically in attendance to declare his intention. Rather, our ego-retracting, timid aspirant had to invent what I call "television declaration" style to tell the world how "short" is the distance between Nnewi and Guzau. What a genius in bad strategy!. Even Gov. Yahaya Bello, who truly knows he would only secure two votes in the primary elections traveled all the way to Abuja from Kogi, to dance on the bonnet of his car at the Eagle Square to openly declare his intention.
When God wants to destroy a man, He will first make him mad. Osinbajo is dropping himself from the stairs of glory to a heavy fall to infamy. We have just even learnt Osinbajo has "secretly" moved his APC membership from Lagos to Ogun State, to denounce Lagos and be reborn from his home State. And to what benefit if I may ask?. What a coward and a traitor! Wonders shall never end. This Professor is not even rating us at all, we look like fools to him ba? . We shall see!
Asiwaju is currently truly a political orphan who has lost his "once upon a time" allies to the desperation of these allies - he might have lost Fayemi to the publicity stunt of the freelancer, Aregbesola might have shot himself on the leg for unhealthy envy and rivalry against Asiwaju, and indeed, Osinbajo might have missed the mission due to congregational delusion, assuming that the presidency of Nigeria can be donated through the annointing of the olive, but one thing is clear, Asiwaju is ever focused on the goal and not the distractions of these political midgets.
I know Asiwaju has a large heart and has never failed to forgive his traducers when they truly "repent" (I don't know how he is able to do that always) but I also know, even when he humanly forgives these people, there is a way nemesis dresses down those who tried to bring down the person who brought them up.
Asiwaju has left everything so that all of them can soar. Ironically, Osinbajo has never even contested for any political position in his life until becoming an appendage to a candidate in 2015 presidential election. He has never had to print postals and run a structured campaign. He has never maintained a political structure nor single-handedly won a polling unit not to talk of ward, Local Government or State. If Osinbajo could never have won a chairmanship position and has never even won his polling unit since 1999, how does he want to win the Nigeria Presidency? I cannot even phantom his political strategies to win any election unless he is waiting for "Baba so pe" in PMB which he will never get. What exactly are we looking for in this world that we merely desperately lose our sense of customary, to think that we should be blinded by ambition as against descency to betray our conscience?.
Today may be forgiven for the mistakes made but tomorrow will be remembered for the desperation of those who messed up with today. Nothing in our human history has ever spared treachery, it might only take time to come.
I hate the repeat of history in a bad way. I hate to imagine that despite the fact that Osinbajo is married to a granddaughter of a Sage whose political life and aspiration was truncated/betrayed at the best brightest opportunity by someone Awolowo made a political cynosure, he still doesn't view himself from the mirror of morality to rein himself in from the "kick and start" pushing of those deceiving him to dare. I imagine at a time, a discussion is held in his household and I wonder how he would describe those who betrayed Chief Obafemi Awolowo then and juxtapose that with what he is currently doing to Asiwaju?. Has he even thought about this?. Even the ears with wax and the eyes with contact lens can ear and see that Asiwaju has forgone everything for this project. He has been preparing for this day for over 30 years, and for anyone within his political fold to even attempt to reduce his chances at the primary is to say the least ungodly.
As this argument is raging, I know alot of people would turn themselves into specialists of sort and be providing all manners of arguments and justifications, but at the end of the day, so many people will be challenged to the ring of intellectual debate on the genuineness of their academic qualifications and emotional intelligence, simply because they refuse to take caution in intelligent argument because they are probably guided by needless hatred and sentiment (against Asiwaju).
Nigeria politics and it's electioneering dynamism has never been more interesting. What makes this particular one even more interesting is the infantile submissions of some people who have already "cast the votes in their backyards and announced the winner using the "physical fitness" of an aspirant as condition of victory. These "unlike minds" would justify the sophistry of the betrayer as a yardstick of competency as if Fashola isn't a better orator possessing even higher grade credentials than this coward.
Let me set the records straight, we are not supporting ASIWAJU because he has AHMED in his name, we have nothing against him because his better half is a devout Deacon at Redeem Church, we are supporting ABAT because he has the capacity to build something out of nothing, we are supporting him because he has the capacity to turn around the life of a Professor who never in his life procured a brand new car until he was made a Commissioner in Lagos, we are supporting Asiwaju because despite having the State Government fund seized by higher Authority, he was able to create a Lekki free zone out of the slum, we are supporting Asiwaju because he is a talent hunter who can gather the best brains to solve our many problems as a nation, we are supporting Asiwaju because the country is at the cross road and we don't want a bigot who will give opportunities to only the people from his faith. Governance is not all about poetic speech neither is it done in covens.
I have taken many risk at my career but the most fulfilling one is the one I took recently - I left a "well-paid" job in the United States of America solely to join the campaign train of the one and only JAGABAN. I am not even looking for Asiwaju to know me in person (for now), I will rather spend my last Kobo at my level to ensure Asiwaju emerges as our flag bearer and wins the general election, Maa Shaa Allahu.
Asiwaju Ahmed Bola Tinubu is not running for the presidency of this country on the tarmac of a football field, he would not be doing the presidential work on the pulpit reading a declaration speech from teleprompter, he will not even be doing the work of a president deciding on which cap or shoes that fit him more to wear, he would be doing the work of a president with focus on reviving the dead economy, rebuilding the collapsed security infrastructure and gagging the loopholes opened by "concealed" corruption of the so-called technocrats. I am convinced Asiwaju can and will turn the fortunes of this country around.
Every engineer who has the capacity to turn Nigeria into an engineering hub is craving for an Asiwaju, every Lawyer who wishes to contribute meaningfully to judicial reform wants Asiwaju to give him the benefit of the doubt, every anti-corruotion Czar who can provide lasting solution to Nigeria's corruption plague wants to be spotted by Tinubu, every Doctor who wants to put an end to medical tourism is wishing to enjoy Asiwaju's benevolence, every Soldier, Police and G-man who can cure the country of insecurity is wishing to be given the chance to fight the war against all criminalities, every Nigerian who wants to have a new Nigeria is hoping on Asiwaju to do the extraordinary, therefore, let no traitor stand on the way, we can't afford not to have an Asiwaju at this point in our life.
Many times over, Nigerians will prefer a Tinubu who would not care about your religion before he makes you Commissioner/Minister of Justice, Nigerians will prefer a President who would nominate an Igbo man for a position despite not being Igbo, Nigerians will prefer a Tinubu who makes friends with even the uneducated without closing his doors against them, Nigerians will prefer a Tinubu who would forgive his traducers despite the vile fight they had against him, Nigerians will prefer a Tinubu who despite all the lies told against him still never held grudges against the liars, Nigeria will definitely prefer a Tinubu who would appoint based on competency and not the bias of faith, tribe and ethnicity. At this cross road, Nigeria does not need a man who will divide us on religious line but a bridge builder who will united us.
For Asiwaju, Nigeria and the future we need as a people, let the will of God be done.
*ASIWAJU AHMED BOLA TINUBU FOR PRESIDENT 2023*.
*GOD IS HERE!* Yes God is here and so he will smite and cast blithe on all those who support or allow or propagate the presidency of Tinubu when there are better candidates for the said Job. Let's all stop favouritism and nepotism and choose technocrats who have something to offer |
Politics › Re: Osinbajo Never Informed Us Before Relocating Membership To Ogun State –Lagos APC by drnoel: 10:19am On Apr 13, 2022 |
Johnames: Osinbajo did not do anything wrong, I'm expecting tinubu to step down and support osinbajo, He is an elder state man. He is not fit to become Nigeria president, we should tell ourselves the truth. If only wisdom came with age. Then again those who the gods wish to destroy, first make mad |
Politics › Re: Peter Obi: Rather Than Borrow Money As President, I Prefer All Nigerians Starve by drnoel: 10:06am On Apr 13, 2022 |
trutharena: Under my watch not a Kobo will be borrowed for consumption, instead we all starve" ~ Peter Obi on Arise TV Not a very effective way to sell oneself or his agenda but any wise person that wants the good of the country would understand him very well. Buhari and APC borrowed way too much and pushed Nigeria into debts that may not be repayable in a long time. Best way to go now is not to continue or tow that line with Tinubu. Best way to go now is SAP which means Obi is right, starving is our way forward |
Career › Re: Cooking For My Married Boss: Right Or Wrong by drnoel: 6:56pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Bola146:
Free your mind, we still have good with good integrity no matter what they see or do, they will never cheat Focus on your job like an employee, he paid you for it, so do your work diligently and leave unless you want him to increase your salary. If he wants to act stupid, please kindly quit asap! Don't think twice of waiting 
Modified: Even if he is living with his family 24/7, if he will kill you, he can easily do that, anything in this life is a risk! Going to office and coming back everyday is about risk. It's a matter of the mind and choice, go to overseas and see how people are making money doing this job. If your mind is doubting, kindly quit! I know there are many people willing to accept that job. This your advice was not well thought out pls. The question to ask the OP is what the job description is? If cooking and cleaning is part of the job Description then fine. If it's not part of it then he is using you. It's that simple. Unless that was what was agreed between you guys from the beginning. Hope also while at it, things in the other room was not also agreed. But who is asking, you both are adults so it's not our business. |
Health › Re: Doctor Sleeps With Married Lady During Abortion While Husband Waits Outside by drnoel: 6:44pm On Apr 10, 2022 |
Pojomojo: Are you a doctor? Sorry this forum is supposed to be faceless. What I do is not of relevance. |
Science/Technology › Re: Ugandan Man Kills A Lion Trying To Attack His Home. He Gets Injured (Pictures) by drnoel: 7:34pm On Apr 09, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: My Friend with Benefit Is Pregnant by drnoel: 2:34pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
Ammishaddai: Oga, do yourself a favor and demand that you do a paternity test to verify if you are the real father of that child. If the results come out to be true, then discuss the terms and conditions you're willing to accept for child support .
And lastly, you running or denying that you're not ready to be a "father " won't change the current reality that you've gotten yourself into a mess . Most especially if it turns out that you're the child's biological father He is 21 and don't have a job, neither does he want a family. I hope you saw he wrote all those so your advice was irrelevant. I think this ball is over and the bar. Crying for spilt milk here won't cut it, asper a young girl is pregnant mostly probably by a young boy/man. Speak to your parents, they are the only ones that would be able to support you here. |
Politics › Re: INEC Backs Ayade’s Defection To APC, Asks Court To Bow To Appeal Court Decision by drnoel: 2:29pm On Apr 06, 2022 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Vladimir Putin’s 20-Year March To War In Ukraine And How The West Mishandled It by drnoel: 10:48am On Apr 03, 2022 |
Joezinho: Nothing the west did would have stopped Putin's plans. Nothing. Very tiring to hear how they shoulda, woulda, coulda.
This was the plan. Period. And while he’s the head goblin, he has millions of enablers.
Foolish man . Exactly what I have been trying to let people believe but they keep saying BS like if Trump was in power this won't happen. There was no way Russia wasn't going to invade Ukraine. It was going to happen. |
Politics › Re: El-Rufai: We Will Bring In Foreign Mercenaries If FG Fails To End Terrorism by drnoel: 5:17pm On Apr 02, 2022 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Putin Vows To Cut Gas Supply Tomorrow Unless Europe Pays In Roubles by drnoel: 7:03pm On Mar 31, 2022 |
WATCHOVER: The day those persons who supported Buhari to power, were shouting we want Joe Biden I knew United States was to be captained by people who lack management skill to govern United States. United States should not vote for Biden for second term if they want to continue hold power on the world map That is your opinion and a cheap one at that |
Politics › Re: Ebelechukwu Obiano Declares Senatorial Ambition, Apologises To Soludo by drnoel: 11:28am On Mar 31, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Today I Was Very Strict To My Girlfriend And She Did This by drnoel: 11:24am On Mar 31, 2022 |
funshint: You weren't matured about this. Since you've already gotten your test result, why still go into control mode by disallowing her from using the rest to buy her dodo? Don't play money games with a woman again, even the one that pretends to be conservative during courtship may change when you marry. You can't know a woman fully until you marry her. Just pray to God to give you plenty money. Besides can't she cook? This is the best answer so far. Only inexperienced men would think otherwise |
Family › Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 8:17am On Mar 30, 2022 |
KanwuliaBaby: Please, get off your personal side! Take note of the message ONLY. Thanks.
Gosh! These old NLanders will never grow up!
Maybe I should have said “East St Louis” or Harlem”!
Sheeeesh! The message was not a message. Stop the stereotype |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Cancels Colloquium In Honour Of Abuja-Kaduna Train Attack Victims by drnoel: 5:20pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
LegendHero: Nice one Asiwaju.
This is how a leader does. Kudos once more.
Of course he is shameless for cancelling his Colloquium because of Kaduna train incident, if he were to be non-shameless, he would have thrown a party to celebrate the incident.
Look at the comments of some on this thread, you will see that no matter what you do, you cannot please human beings. If Tinubu had proceeded with the colloquium, they would have said he is inconsiderate. Now he cancelled it, they still feel bitter. It is easy to be bitter with Tinubu, we know what has or hasn't done. Just don't misunderstand people's irritation of him with their political stance for or against him. Tinubu will be president. I don't like the guy either but he will be president |
Travel › Re: What Are The Cons Of Moving Abroad? by drnoel: 5:16pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
truthsayer009: Berlin, spoke english a lot there and people communicated with me in english conveniently. Yep, doesn't mean Berlin is English speaking. Berlin is multinational nothing more, definitely not English speaking |
Travel › Re: What Are The Cons Of Moving Abroad? by drnoel: 3:40pm On Mar 29, 2022 |
truthsayer009: I don't know why you asked for only negatives but okay. For non-english speaking countries or cities: In germany, language is a barrier, while I was on the train I always had people stare at me in amusement, It was a non-english speaking area. I felt very uncomfortable most times.
In the UK it feels a lot better but they show sublte racism by not sitting close to you in a Bus, crossing over to the other side on the side ways in the night. Cost of living also depends if you are in the major city. Eating out is very expensive, you must know how to cook. Package delivery is terrible except for Amazon deliveries. So much depression in the winter because people hardly go out. At the end, to me all this things are still minor. Lol, there is no place in Germany that is English speaking. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: India Ready To Bypass Dollar In Trade With Russia by drnoel: 4:18pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Amb1045: Expecting USA to sanction India soon. That won't happen |
Family › Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:26pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
1Sharon: Both of you in a way since you're supposed to be a team. Where did she get the clothes or money to buy them from? You said she loved to dress provocatively, so it's something you let slide for a while.
I understand it's not easy, as a 13 year old, she doesn't get it. As an adult, she probably gets it now, I do aswell. Think back to when you were 13, she thought she was grown because her curves were coming in. Young girls who were allowed to dress however and act however were the type to have boyfriends too early and get pregnant while still a teen.
Well the police seems to agree with you so they left, you're lucky it could have gone left, they could have kicked down the door accuse you of sexual assault.
Is the pic your daughter at 13? I think U misunderstood the narrative. The police didn't leave cos they agreed with the mom. They left cos they didn't see what they could have done asper say na civil matter no be police matter. The little girl in question wasn't under any immediate danger more than freezing. The other issue of how she got the money is easy. From the parents as pocket money |
Family › Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:09pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
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Family › Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:07pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
1Sharon: I'm sorry I'm your daughter is dressing provocatively at 13, isn't that a highlight of your parenting?
And what if she got raped while she was outside in just her underwear? This you comment is way too low of U. But U say it cos U don't have a experience. Sorry but children learn things too from school, peer group and other means |
Family › Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:05pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
Mindlog: Nigerian parents who are convinced that hitting their children is part of nurturing them, are better off staying back in Nigeria where it is normalized and should not migrate to Countries that are strongly against such form of "disciplining" because those Countries' systems function without hitting children and we can't force them to accept the "Nigerian way'.....stay back in Nigeria, where childhood "brain resetting beatings" has produced Nigerian adults who are more respectful, more law-abiding, more hardworking, more empathetic, less tolerant of corrupt practices etc I can assure you that Nigerian parents are not the only ones that discipline their children by using the cane or pain |
Family › Re: When Your Children Call The Police For Disciplining Them. by drnoel: 2:04pm On Mar 28, 2022 |
KanwuliaExtra: I personally went through a similar experience with one of my daughters. She loved to dress provocatively at THIRTEEN!
One day she wore this:: I appealed to her nicely that it was 42 degrees outside and she had to change this outfit it I would drive her to school.
She refused and did not take her to school. I don’t know how she got to school.
When she returned, I told her she could not enter my house o. I RIPPED THE SKIRT OFF HER ARSE RIGHT THERE BY THE MAILBOX with only her UNDERWEAR on her and locked her OUT OF MY HOUSE. She stayed in the garage and told her she should only come in to use the bathroom.She called the police and told them I was freezing her outside. 
OMO!
See SWAT TEAM for front of my house? 
There were TEN of them in 6 police vehicles. They told me I MUST LET HER INTO THE HOUSE. because it was too cold! I refused. I told them it was her punishment for disobedience and she is locked out of my house for 4 hours.
I provided her with a space heater, some clothes, a pillow and blankets to SLEEP on the floor!
The police told me she had EVERY RIGHT to be inside the house. I told them to have me arrested if I was breaking any law.
The useless white cops left! Imagine the embarrassment in front of ALL the neighbors? My husband was SPEECHLESS! Madam, you guys are lucky it wasn't Ur husband mettling the punishment. The police may have handled it differently |
Family › Re: MARTIAL BED: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by drnoel: 11:29am On Mar 27, 2022 |
Oyindamolah: MARTIAL BED.
My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house. FROM A MY COUSIN:
I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.
My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.
This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.
My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?
I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.
What should I do? This is a non issue. Take madam outside house setting for the weekend and get Ur groove. MIL can take care of the children in those days U are away. Verily Verily I say unto you. MIL would understand the jerk and run to her own house. Talking from experience, cos same advise I gave my cousin |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Qatar Says Europe Cannot Replace Russian Gas by drnoel: 12:57am On Mar 27, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Just After I Open A Business For My Wife, She Wants To Divorce by drnoel: 8:31pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Visasolution048: If I talk now.. @drnoel go write long epistle for me...This is what I am talking about. Love and caring guy... Na wah ooh. Your quoting my handle again, makes me wonder. The thing I noticed if that you actually missed the whole point. You can't use one for the other. So far you have commented on 3 topics while quoting my handle but all those topics are not related. You can't use just 1 issue to judge a whole race of people or a whole gender. That action alone actually borders on bias. For this topic itself. There are always bad eggs in a bunch. Besides Oga OP only told us his side of the story. There are two sides of coin to form a full story. We don't know what he might have put her thru or not. We can't judge based on his own side. I won't say anymore here. |
Family › Re: Help! My Wife Says She Doesn't Love Me Again & No More Sex From Her.... by drnoel: 8:20pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Visasolution048: @drnoel Come and give advice..... Experience married man.. Lol, nobody knows it all and there is no wise old man. But back to the topic in question. There is no advice to give here cos you can't force a woman that wants to go to stay. Go and listen to R. Kelly's song of the 90s "when a woman's fed up". The lyrics of that song is your advice. It speaks the volume you need to listen to. If you guys have kids then,.....live 4 your children. Cos once madam has her leg halfway out the door. Best you spare yourself the headache and heartache that would probably lead to early demise if you stop her. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Qatar Says Europe Cannot Replace Russian Gas by drnoel: 8:05pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
teemac01: but when trump warned them...them dey laugh am...lol...dem for still depend on russia. Trump didn't warn anybody about anything. He was never a bone of Contention |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Qatar Says Europe Cannot Replace Russian Gas by drnoel: 1:48pm On Mar 26, 2022 |
Gentlerespect76: Deliberately dashing one's feet against the stone, this is what EU leaders are doing by dreaming of boycotting or weaning themselves prematurely of Russian energy. They have already started. Pls educate yourself before you jump into commenting. They have attempted reducing dependence on Russian energy and still have more room for work. Last checked their dependency on the following has been worked on as thus Coal from 45% to 30 % Diesel from 35% to 25% Benzin from 30 % to 25% Still lots of room for changes and time will tell |