Liyastitches: From my point of view, it is because they are gullible most of the time,they tend to trust easily and overlook the hand writing on the wall.
It's also a test from God to know if your 'good heart' can stand the test of time, because good attitude attract both good and bad, but never give up doing good, if those you are doing good to does not deserve it.
That's your opinion. There are other opinions too. Trusting easily mayn't be part of it though. There is nothing wrong with giving your all in a relationship. We should learn to take life easy cos it's too short
IgweOfNnewi: Most people normally compare and contrast good character with VIRGINITY. unfortunately they don't know that the EVIDENCE OF GOOD CHARACTER IS VIRGINITY , the most attractive bad character today is fornication, falling into fornication is like picking stone on the ground without stress, where is the good character when you lack self-control, self-discipline and purity? What is your own good character when your legs are parted for a price, having sex for money makes you a prostitute, having sex before marriage lowers your value for marriage, it destroy your marriage potentials.
jesusjnr2020: What Shall It Profit You If You Gain The Whole Pretty Girls But Lose Your Own Soul?
It begins with that one, right?
The one you thought was your one and only, the only one meant for you, that would immediately solve all your problems in life once you just had her, right?
The one you thought was all you needed in life, that would fill that void you felt inside of you, so if you just had her, you would automatically become complete and won't be needing anything else, right?
The one you would do anything for, cross all the mountains or oceans on Earth for, and even commit a crime just to have, because you believed you couldn't live or be able to survive without her as the air you breathed, right?
So your wishes finally came true, and after you had her for the first time, it was like hurray, fireworks and celebrations. You finally got what you so desperately desired and hence you felt satisfied and as though you're on top of the world.
Then you slept with her again, and it wasn't as satisfying as the first time but it's still okay.
But then you have her the third, fourth, fifth, sixth time, and you begin to feel like "hmm... Am I sure she's really the one and I didn't make a mistake?" You still feel the emptiness you had at first before you met her, so it seems she wasn't really able to fill up that void anyways, even though it seemed so at first.
And while contemplating what next to do with her, you looked out the window and saw another beautiful girl walking, and you'd be like, "that must be the real one" you were seeking. The one that would be able to achieve what you desired from the first one but which she couldn't give you.
And so you also do everything to have her as well and when you've finally done so, you initially feel good as with the first one, but after a while you begin to lose interest as well.
Then you see another pretty gal and you'd be like, "oh no, this must surely be the one that I was seeking all my life"..., however when you also succeed to have her as well, na still eyenikem disappointment after a while.
But you still don't give up but keep trying and trying, because you think despite failing with all your previous attempts, you'd eventually succeed and finally get that which you seek. That's how you'd have the fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eight, ninth, tenth, .... hundredth, and still counting, but na still the same final result. You still felt unsatisfied and empty inside eventually.
It appears that's how King Solomon started, trying to find the one and only who would quench that desire and thirst (lust) in him, but before he would know it, he already had over a thousand wives and concubines. Yet after he had consumed all his lust upon them, he still felt very empty and miserable inside as they all couldn't quench that lustful desire in him, that he had cry out and confess that "vanity upon vanity, all is vanity!" Ecclesiastes 12:8
But unfortunately, by the time he had realized this, it appeared too late, because while trying to satisfy his lustful desires with all those beautiful girls, a lot of things were damaged in the process, some beyond repair, and he had gotten too deep into it that he couldn't come out anymore, so he ended up a very miserable unfulfilled man filled with regrets.
So is that the same result you're still desperately seeking to achieve, and do you have to get to that same point he got to before you realized the same thing?
Jesus said:
For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Mark 8:36 (KJV)
Despite that Solomon had a lot of possession and riches, including many (a thousand plus) wives and concubines, and was arguably the richest the world has ever known, but even at that he didn't have the whole world, yet according to Jesus, even if he had gained the whole world, it wouldn't be worth the loss of his soul.
That void in one's soul can never be filled by the whole world, including all the pretty women in it, that's why regardless of how many of them any man gains, he's still feel empty at the end.
That void can only be filled by God because He is the only One can truly complete any man and is what man needs to be complete that would him not to need anything else, so unless it's Him a man gains, every effort to fill the void would be "vanity upon vanity, all is vanity".
kimco: You must be very confused my dear....I don't even remember having a "chat" with you. Probably a template response because you keep sounding very selfish and others keep pointing it out to you. Ironic though, I thought you were going to pray for me since you were a pastor.... Selfish, think of others.
The person with that handle is not a pastor. Anyways religion in Nigeria and most of the world is a scam so am not surprised.
What of the others? You are not the centre of the world. If you have it good it doesn't mean that is all. Let's try to be less self centered.
Well said. Its irritating when all our girls think about is marry, marry, marry and nothing more but marry. I mean, you can't even keep a sane conversation with a Nigerian lady between the ages of 30 to 40 without the marriage things coming up in every word of a simple sentence.
PastorMIsBack: Yes my LordReed. He provided mine for me. On request.
I hear you. You know that's not true. That you attempt to believe that is a crime on itself. That you attempt to push the false information down our throats is unforgivable
qwertyboss: No, success is relative. In this context why the question of not having a husband? That because the OP consider husband as part of the success of a woman
Exactly! Meaning the statement is relative to the OP own perception and not a true statement
https://twitter.com/774ngr/status/1494268769165844485?t=BBSZ36-aSYg38ONw1f3A_w&s=08[/quote]Wait first, wait first. If he stole 10 b from the 13 b, how much was remaining again na? This is why Nigeria will never progress. When people are this selfish to themselves and their children's children. He didn't even say let him take just 1 b from 13 b, he took a whooping sum of 10 b. God help us
shadrach77: It's called GRACE. It's God's doing. Just enjoy your new position and deal with your previous superiors the way you'll deal with anybody. Remember two things 1. God put you in that position and only Him can remove you from it 2. Your so called superiors are no longer your superior. You are now their superior
guobe: most asthmatic cases are the same,it always involves the inability to breath well,you either avoid smoke cold or stuffy areas.it is the big brother of pneumonia.
Sorry but U have no idea what you are talking about. The only relationship between the 2 is they are both lung diseases though 1 is triggered by allergens and the other is could be bacterial as it's cause. Pls don't come here to spew misinformation. Educate yourself before U talk.
guobe: for you to get married to a woman that does not go the kitchen is not easy,it takes a strong mindset,can this our present guys accept that.
Each case is different from the other. The fact that she should avoid frying doesn't mean she must not go near the kitchen. Pls we should educate ourselves before writing misinformation. Ask yourself what Asthma is, then educate yourself about how to treat it. That way you are more prepared. She can cook without stress. Not all asthmatics have problems with frying. The reason for the problem is the smoke and aroma of the oil. I know several asthmatics that are professional cooks. Pls educate yourself
teedoxman89: Aunty slapped her brother in-law for taking food from her pot by himself without telling her.
Brother in-law stopped eating at home to avoid further insult.
Brother in-law is an undergraduate.
The brother noticed and asked why, he said nothing.
Brother wasn't satisfied, asked his wife, aunty said ask your brother.
Brother insisted on finding why, so he asked other souls in the house and they told him what happened.
Brother was very angry and felt disrespected by his wife who could have reported to him to handle the issue.
Aunty doesn't work so brother provides everything down to maggi.
Brother told wife to apologise to his brother, aunty said never. That the house is hers.
Brother in-law jejely carried his kaya and left without telling anyone.
Brother has told his wife to leave his house since she cannot accommodate his family members but feels free with her own family members.
Aunty feels her husband is being unreasonable and seeking advise on how best to proceed.
Please members of this group, advise her please ���
The action was synonymous to sending her home and asking her to go and cool down. If she has children then she goes to her parents house without her kids. She can come back once her head has corrected. If she does it again, then this time while she is in her parents house she will have to give reasons why she has to be allowed back home with that kind of horrible character. Why would U slap Ur BIL? That is a grave action that could make the family return your dowry. A case of "eti biala isii Mmauwu" (breaking the head of the masquerade), an abomination.
WillyWonda1: I quite understand you well. But you see there's limit to which you can be patient. This man literally frustrates my work. He assigns works that I'm not supposed to do at all to me and I do with all diligence. This is an organization, and there are ways things are done. But he wants to always show himself. I don't regret my action in any way at all.
I think the people that stated you report him anonymously were right here. Another thing you could have done was to check the job requirements of your current position to be certain and if you have the power to reassign the project, you do just that. You should learn to keep a cool head at Ur place of work cos that's where you feed and pay your bills. It will be well, just keep your head high. Conflict berths more conflict and that is what someone doesn't need esp at work. Learn to ignore fools
bloomstories: Buses announcing the presidential ambition of Sen. Rochas Okorocha, Senator representing Imo West in the 2023 general election have been sighted in the streets of London.
The luxurious buses bore the inscription, "Rochas for 2023 Nigeria Presidency" boldly written on their body.
The Imo former Governor had on Monday, January 31 declared his intention to succeed President Muhammadu Buhari upon the expiration of the later's tenure in office.
Declaring with the campaign slogan, 'The New Nigeria' the lawmaker while appreciating President Muhammadu Buhari’s legacy promised to surpassed his achievements in poverty alleviation, economic management and national integration.
Okorocha while stating that he has at previous occasions indicated interest to run for the office of the President said he is more ready and prepared to lead the country now.
His humanitarian organisation, Rochas Foundation runs one of the biggest charity networksin Africa which has its presence in virtually all parts of Nigeria.
The organisation is believed to have over 25,000 children from across the Continent who are on its free education at various levels of education, including University level.
Sen. Okorocha commands a national acceptance especially in the North where he grew up and established his automobile company.
This according to him was the first business he did before venturing into estate management where he made lots of money.
The presidential hopeful therefore called on the nation's anti-graft agency, EFCC to stop harassing and Intimidating him over what he called trumped up corruption allegation, stating that he was not poor before joining politics. Video:
FERNANDEZISBACK: Yeah you shouldn't have a problem with that..you don't expect everyone to be like you..you work good for you..we are all different in our own ways..that should be understood by you...
GOFRONT: Continue to waste that sweet Kitty kat.....
Allow that guy to have a taste, It doesn't take anything from you......Rather, you'd be the one buzzing his line to come for a rematch....
Most of these young girls moving about Miserly with their young Coochies do not know what they are missing yet...
That guy made it clear it was the cookie he wanted. He sounded too desperate it was hard to read that a full blown man would go to that length. I felt sorry for the guy
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?
So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.
Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.
Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.
Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.
I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.
Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.
This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.
He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?
With the experience U had already, there goes your answer. No guy that want a lady for keeps will treat her the way he treated U. Walk away. If he gets the cookie, he will drop U like hot potato
BoredBerry: A million threads are created condemning single mothers... Giving reasons why they do not deserve to be dated or married... Justifying the actions of the men who had abandoned them...
Here's my question:
Why does no one talk about the children?
For every single mother, there's a man who delibrately ran away from his children...
[That's why he's a "deadbeat father" and not a "deadbeat husband"...]
Are redpillers in support of men not loving their children enough to stick by them and be concerned about their welfare?
Or redpillers do not care for the millions of children who would grow up without a father... Who would never receive a dime from him... Who would be raised without his support...
Paramount01: Good day nairalanders,hope your day was great?
My fiancée came to my house to spend some day together for the first time since we have been courting,honestly speaking if I had know is this type of person I will never even ask her out,she is a well beahave girl, Godly and very intelligent but she is not as neat as I expect from a lady,lazy in house chores,you stay together with me for days is when I tell u that is like this room is dirty that is when u see that is dirty
I left my work this afternoon during break period thinking my wife would have prepared something for me to my greatest surprise she told me she has been busy cleaning the house and washing the cloth I told her to wash since yesterday using washing machine.I paused and angrily left the house because on a normal day I won't even come home but I come home because I will be happy to eat my fiancé food even knowing fully well I will come back home during break
Honesty she spend 4 days with me now and I Begin to get tired of her lazy house chores attitude.but if I should talk she will always say is like I see her as a lazy person that she is not lazy that am yet to marry full that is why she has not been taking full responsibilities of the house chores. I have called her several times though she will do what i say but i alwys feel not ok calling and Adult what to do at alspeakingn she change in marriage?
What you are pointing at is not an issue my son. You called her fiance so she is actually not mandated to do anything in your house. Ofcos she can to please you but she is not mandated. We should be careful what we expect from our women.
Loveurneighbour: Former Governor of Imo State and Senator representing Imo West, Rochas Okorocha, tells SOLOMON ODENIYI about his presidential ambition and charges against him by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, among other issues
Stargurl20: Guys, do not lose a good woman just because she unintentionally had a fling with a guy or something. Learn to forgive, forget and move on with her
The meaning you are looking for in this your write up is deep. First of all sex for men can be superficial but before many woman opens her legs for a man there has to be an emotional connection. Now before you guys start throwing shades at this comment, I don't mean runz girls or Prostitutes.
That emotional connection that is built in women by default is what makes your statement a difficult pill to swallow. Women are not built to have a fling and feel nothing about it thereafter, men a built that way. And by the way systemic brainwashing and society have cemented that mentality in all our subconsciousness.
That is why your statement is not workable. Most women that decide to have a fling have already moved on emotionally. But many men that may have done that may still be emotionally connected to the person they cheated on.
Oleys: A Nigerian lawyer from Imo state who is based in France, Obinna Nwadike has accused his nephew, David Anyiam Chiagozie, of destroying his 15 years marriage following his family visit to Nigeria.
A social media activist and influencer, Deborah Okezie, brought this pounding issue to the public via her Facebook live program where Mr. Nwadike narrated his ordeal.
Nwadike stated that he got married to a woman from Caribbean Island, Marie Muriel Geraldine, in 2008, after their marriage they welcomed twins, and then relocated from France to the United Kingdom in 2009.
“We lived happily as a couple. My younger brother, Ezechukwu Dike Nwadike, married in Nigeria to a Nigerian woman. I wanted to attend his wedding because he wanted to use my two little boys for his bridal train. Myself, my wife, and my three little children got a visa to Nigeria. 2019 we came down as a family to support my brother.
We settled in Lagos and stayed in Lekki for a week. You know in Nigeria, family member will like to come around especially since I haven’t been to Nigeria for over 10 years. I have people coming from different parts of Nigeria to be with me, to see my wife who was coming to Nigeria for the very first time, and also my children.
Everything went well not until we get to Enugu where my brother’s wedding took place, my brother’s wedding went successfully and we had a good time. My wife was six months pregnant as at the time we went to Nigeria and was 33-year-old. Unknown to me, she is secretly having an affair with my younger nephew who was 17-year-old,” he stated.
The lawyer revealed that he didn’t suspect them at that time, because different people are coming closer to the family and he accepted them without having in mind that any evil will transpire.
“Now this little boy came from Abuja just to look after my little children. He came in with in the form of helping the family, taking the kids around, and showing us around Enugu. Unknown to me, he was secretly admiring my wife who is not even Nigerian and spoke very little English. I never really read meaning to it because if I was to suspect anybody to have an affair with my wife, it would not be Chiagozie who is 17,” he said.
The heartbroken man added that before their arrival to Nigeria, he warned his wife to be mindful of where she is going because Nigerian men are very desperate to have access to any beautiful foreign lady.
“My wife is very pretty and attractive, I do tell her to be careful of Nigerian men, they get to track you up even if they know you are married. My children have never been to Nigeria, during the wedding my wife was all over the place, not paying attention to the children. You know Nigerian society your child could go missing, she was trusting people too very often. I have never had a problem with this woman for the past 15 years, the first time I bring her to Nigeria, people start to pollute her mind about me.
A week after we came back to the UK my wife is no longer the same woman. She started to have a secret affair with my nephew, she started to text him. When I started to date my wife, I came from a Christian background, I will never have to use some erotic words to express my feeling to her through messages. I was surprised to realize that my wife get calls from Nigeria, who was calling my wife? It was my nephew.
Her phone was ringing one faithful Sunday morning when we were sleeping on the same bed, she was actually charging her phone and she got this call at about 6 am, +234 was calling and then she refused to pick the call. There was no name registered to that number, I told her ‘why didn’t you pick your call?’ she said to me that she doesn’t know who the person is. I said to her that if this person is calling you then she must exchange her number with this person,” he stated.
Nwadike said that after the phone stopped ringing, he checked and discovered a lot of erotic messages from the number persuading the wife to divorce her him.
“When my wife saw me in a range, she has never seen me this bad, she ran away from the house. She was 6 months pregnant, ran away, and left the three children with me. She didn’t tell me where she was going and didn’t take her phone along with her, she left to the hospital. I called my mum who lived in France and told her what Chiagizie have been doing to my home, she asked me to wait a few hours before calling the police. I waited for some hours before calling the police, I told them what happened and they didn’t come straight away, they came 4 hours on the line. The children were crying ‘where is mom?’ I didn’t know what to say to my kids.
Finally, the police came in at 7 pm and when this woman came in, she looks like a feminist, ‘what could you have done to your wife to make her take off like that? She has no shoe on.’ I told her that I have done nothing to her. She came with a camera recording me, as a lawyer I said to her that I will record her as well,” he said.
The lawyer further said that after the whole saga, they went to enquire from neighbors if they heard any noise from his building, and they replied that they didn’t.
“While they found her at the hospital, she said she doesn’t want to see me there, that she wanted her phone and handbag. while at the hospital my wife was calling and taking instructions from Chiagozie. When I called Nigeria to tell them, Chiagozie have to pull back and tell my wife ‘go back to your husband, I don’t want it to be traceable that I am the one that broke your home.’
My wife who doesn’t want to see me then called me that I should come and see her. All those messages they sent, I transferred them to my phone as evidence,” he stated.
He added that after his wife came back, he engaged in prayer because he thought it was a magic spell that was cast on her. Instead of her making efforts to bring back the trust, she felt reluctant, and her husband began to make moves to restore the lost peace.
“After our last baby was born, we took a walk along the lake. My wife began to dress in an unusual way. When we came back in the evening, she went to the kitchen to prepare a baby meal. What my wife does, she has two phones. The first time I discovered what she was doing she stopped communicating Chiagozie with that number. She now got another second phone which has always been in the kitchen and not password protective. Each time she goes into the kitchen to make a baby meal, she kills time chatting with my nephew under the pretense of washing plates.
That Sunday after we came back, she went downstairs to make baby milk, it’s taking my wife 30 minutes to make baby milk. Something struck me in the head and I said that I am going to have a look at the phone. When she came upstairs with the baby milk, I asked her to sit down and wait for me as I went down stairs. I went to the kitchen, took the phone, and started flipping through. I looked on WhatsApp, everywhere and didn’t see anything. Something then told me to look at Facebook messenger, lo and behold, the last message that was just sent to Chiagozie was just 2 minutes before she came upstairs. When my wife became apprehensive that I was killing time, she started to come downstairs,” he said.
The young man revealed that he heard her footsteps and quickly put the phone in his pocket. When the wife saw him coming, she changed direction, pretending to be heading for something else.
“I already knew that she was becoming scared about what is going on. When we both meet upstairs, I showed her the phone and tells he:‘so you are still contacting Chiagozie?’ she bent her phone downward and could not say anything.
She then said ‘well if you had accepted the last time you caught me we would have gone our separate ways’ My wife was breastfeeding and cheating. I broke down and started to cry, I now realized that she has gone too far in her immoral act. My wife has been looking for a reason for me to be the one to go so that she will tell the kids that I am the one that left and abandon them. I lost my temper and hit her for the very first time. She left the house the next day and told me she was going for a walk.
I never knew that the hospital she went to the first time had given her a number to contact us she ever feel threatened. My wife was now working against me. She left me with four children including the 6 months baby. She left at 10 am and never returned. I called my mother and told her, my mum told me not to call the police and I choose not to call them.
At about 10 pm, I saw two police cars who came to arrest me, they charged me for domestic abuse. When I was locked up in a cell, they came to re-arrest me for a sexual assault. They released me the next day and gave me a condition not to contact my wife and children directly or indirectly, and not to come anywhere near my property,” he said.
The man could be heard crying and stated that while he was arrested, he had no choice to call his 60-year-old mother to come to his aid hence he doesn’t have a friend in the UK.
“This is the woman I brought to the UK, she created a criminal record on me for the very first time. My mother told me no problem I will call your younger brother. My brother came from France to the UK, he wanted to go to my house to speak to my wife. While my brother was on his way he called Chiagozie and say ‘Chiagozie, see that thing you destroyed better repair it, I am giving you 24 hours to repair Obinna’s home.’ Chiagozue pretending to be working with my brother, what he was doing is getting information that my brother was coming to the UK and be giving it to my wife.
My wife was delivering to the police that my brother is coming to threaten her, while Chiagozie will be giving us the impression that he is trying to resolve the matter. The police were actually at the property waiting for my brother so that as soon as he comes they will pick him up. Something brought to my knowledge about the conditions and I pleaded with my brother to change the plan. My wife told the social service that she is not safe, Obinna knows about the area,” he said.
The man then said that the wife demanded a change of vicinity after she claimed that she is scared of her life. He added that while all these things were going on, her wife spent most of her time chatting with the Chiagozie.
On the 12th of April, 2021, Nwadike stated that he received a petition of divorce from his wife with a charge of domestic violence, he wanted to hire a lawyer for a cross-petition because divorce is a sin against God. However, the lawyer advised him not to take the step, stating that it’s a waste of money because it will be successful hence she has already made an appeal.
“He told me to rather use the money and fight for children’s custody. Imagine me being rejected by a woman. I’m not bad looking, I’m a good looking man, I can get any woman I want but my heart is in that woman,” he said.
The social media activist then told him that what is transpiring between his wife and the nephew is not love and are only enjoying it because they are distanced away from each other. She urged him never to worry that the wife is under the influence of a love spell that will soon be eliminated.
It is also gathered that the Nwadike has not seen his children for the past two years.
“I’m still fighting for children’s custody. We went to court two weeks ago, she was cross-examined because I have been fighting a legal battle, I had to go to court. The law reached out to her, do you know all the charges, everything was neutralized, the police could not even find one evidence to say I was domestically abusing her. The police went to the children’s school, they had been asking teachers ‘have you seen any bruises on the children’s body?’No documentation. That has made me lose hope in women. If I could give 15 years to a woman who could do this to be, what can other women tell me?” he said.
He also revealed his Nephew’s Facebook and Instagram handles as ‘Chiagoziem David Anyiam.’
Many viewers went on an online hunt as they search for Chiagozie on Facebook and Instagram and dragged him alongside.
Konjiboi: That's a major red flag. Cut off the relationship.
Even if he reconciles before March as you gave him the ultimatum, he won't be doing it from his heart but because he wants to get married.
A man who can do such with his own father? Young lady, you're in shark-infested water.
And he's also secretive. He doesn't want to tell you what transpired. Such a man can undo and do.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Don't rush into marriage because you think you're getting old or because you've been with him for 2 years.
You can rush into marriage and rush out too if it's with the wrong person.
Be wise.
God Bless you.
This is a very childish immature comment. Follow at u detriment
Dextre: You ladies can make rash decisions sha. You gave him an ultimatum, just imagine nonsense yarns. As his partner, you should sit him down and try to hear him out, talmbout giving ultimatum, God nor allow you use your hand end your relationship, your eye go clear then
My brother that statement was really very annoying. A woman hasn't been brought into the family she is already giving ultimatum. My god, what would she do after she is married? The guy should just put her in her place quickly. Cos this her attitude won't board well for him in the future if he lets it lie.
Romance › Re: Why Are People With Good Hearts Always Unlucky In A Relationship by drnoel: 10:50am On Feb 20, 2022
