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Simran94:
Read my post again and understand carefully.
He and his mom want to go and meet her parents, which means he wants to ask for her hand in marriage. What happens after this? Wedding plans will begin
Some people were saying she should go ahead and marry the guy like that and she shouldn’t interfere in his issue with his dad. What I said is that if she ends up marrying that guy without knowing the reason why he hates his father this much, then their marriage might not last because there will be secrets between them and secrets destroys a home.

Why would any reasonable woman marry into a family where there is hatred and lots of secrets? Her own marriage with the guy will definitely be at risk too.

How does her marriage with the guy have to do with his relationship with his dad? There is no relationship with one or the other.
And like I stated earlier, she hasn't been brought into the guy's family and she is already making assumptions and demands of him. This for me is a red flag and reason for him to rethink even giving her a ring.
Women should learn their limits and not to involve issues unless their explicit advice is asked for.

Simran94:
Then she can as well move on from the guy.
Couples aren’t meant to keep secrets from each other. Secrets ends up destroying a home.

Home. Which home? You are moving too fast. He hasn't married her yet, he is only going now to do something on her head so which home is it that you are talking about.
Women should attempt to restrict themselves to the position they have being allowed at every point in time.
She has no say in the matter till he gives her a say.

after4:
fine girl, i support you on this, your concerns are very valid. you need to force him to tell you what the matter is because if he can keep malice with his father, he can do it to you. Tell him your fears, why you want to know. It is possible his father betrayed his trust, maybe slept with his girlfriend and he felt he cannot forgive the man. you should know so as to rightly take your decision. as for marriage, if you finally decide to marry him, just try to know his red line and don't cross it as this kind of people get line wey you should not cross. after he has told you, try contacting the father to be sure what your boyfriend told you is correct and to also hear from your father as you cant shave a man in his absence. Tell your boyfriend you need this info to take a decision if to marry him or not. marriage nah for better for worse oh, forget wetin you dey see people do.

She hasn't married him yet so she can't force him to do anything.

Yankee101:
You need most state assemblies to pass the legislation before you change the constitution


Northerners will kill it

Ofcos the bill won't pass beyond too much noise

Egalitarian1:
Fantastic! In fact, I like and support this bill because it's long awaited.

Yes, education is not everything but it has a way of sharpening your mental horizon for better cum quality reasoning targeted towards approaching every issue with fecundity and analytical precision. Personally, even with my M.Sc. and PhD in view, I still cannot wait to conclude the PhD to enable me pursue a degree in Law (which has been my life time dream because, I must also be referred to as Learned Counsel).

Ka oya adikwa gi, ya di gi! I no send you market at all!

I agree to an extent but not if it makes it ripe for Tinubu to win

Worriedwife:
She said I should record her too cus she observed that when we speak to her mum after an incident I don't say the whole truth.



Is this true?

We have to be careful here. First and foremost there is no how anyone can tell a situation exactly how it happened.
The second issue is to never tell the in-laws by extension the mother and so on exactly what is happening in Ur home. Ur wife should understand this. It is a no no. It is not that they shouldn't know somethings but there should be places you draw the line and Ur wife must know this.
Recording an argument is childish. If you two can't solve issues without recording urselves and going to her mother then you don't have any business being married

BLoomfrancs:
Go home bro. You have got noth meaningful to say. Woman rapper.

My boy, you are not my age mate. Anyways, I apologize if I came too strong in my attempts to try to correct you. Maybe if I was alot more understanding it may have made some impact.
But bare in mind you are the one who kept insulting while I attempted to keep my cool.
Anyways, I do hope this encounter helped you see women differently. And also helped U understand not to look down on the opposite sex becos she has a nose ring, leg chain or waist chain/ bead.
It's all part of fashion these days.
I do wish you well in all your endeavours.
Be a good boy and cheers.

BLoomfrancs:
Bro, abeg work on your English. Channel all the energy you are expending on supporting women who wear anklet to your written communication, it will help you alot in life.

The only problem here is whether your block head will help matters at all.

Ur written English is nothing to write home about my son. U have to retake jamb again.
Good luck.

BLoomfrancs:
Lol. Boy, I tell you say if English no gree you speak, make you speak broken.

You have lost steam. Buzz off kid.

Lol, U are hilarious.
I see I am waiting time with you. One can't teach U anything, because you feel you know, but you are as ignorant as they come.
You can continue living in your ignorance.
Words of advice before I start ignoring you.
Stop generalising. Start treating women better. Educate yourself and realise that wearing leg chain and waistband or waist chain is just fashion. Has nothing to do with what is in the good book.
Your father would be ashamed of you and how you have been acting.
I will have to speak with him myself.

BLoomfrancs:
Madman, you speak of being godly. Ill-informed punkass.
I guess you do not know what the Bible says about women who wear leg chains. Read your Bible first before making unfounded and stupid comments.
You must be sick in the head to think the way you think.

You said that those women have the public eyes on them. Doesn't that alone tell you that leg chain wearing doesn't sit well with majority of the populace? Keep contradicting yourself kid.


The use of leg chains has been associated with prostitutes even before your useless ancestors were born. This is not even what the Bible says about leg chains but read your Bible to see for yourself. Mumu man.

And BS talk. Ur comments speak of Ur myopia and neurosis.
Then you bring up another quotation from the old testament. As if that is all there is to be about the Bible.
Then U revert to insults which seems to be Ur MO when U don't have anything to add in a discuss. My son there was no contraction in my earlier posts, read them all again. You will learn something your parents failed to teach U.
Cheers

BLoomfrancs:
Dumbass says treat women with respect. Are you a blockhead? You are prolly a misfit cause no where in any of my posts did I regard anybody with contempt. Maybe why you are hellbent on dying for promiscuous women is maybe– just maybe– because you have sisters who are typical examples of the caliber of girls op's girlfriend fall into.

Mumu man, I have told you that if you see nothing wrong in a women wearing leg chain then the problem is with you. Why don't role models like Okonjo Iweala or Chimamanda dress up with leg chains? Maybe you are a ghetto nigga who has lived most part of his life around hood hoes who dress up like the girl in question.

Useless pick me idiot. If you come from a home that bred wayward girls, where such inappropriate behavior is seen as normal, live with it and stop trying to defend your dysfunctional background.

The two Rolemodels you mentioned are people that have achieved something for themselves.

The loophole in Ur write-up is that you can never know if those women actually have leg chains or waist chains. The reason is because those women usually have attention on their faces and no where else.

You really are a pervert when you go into using those women as examples implying that you have looked at their legs and waist in details to arrive at such a statement?

My son that idea is perverse and I advice you to visit your pastor for absolution.
You can still change your life if you do godly things and try to follow in the steps of Christ.
Godbless you and cheers

BLoomfrancs:
Bro abeg if English no gree you speak, speak broken.

It is not a must to appear as what you are not and cannot be.

Stupid lowlifer.

Lol, English no gree me speak. ROFL
OMG, there is nothing one won't see on NL.
U won't be able to speak with me in real-life. That's why these faceless forums are usually golden for insulting people.
So far U are the one throwing insults and the one getting pained by the insults. It's a wonderful combination my son. A hilarious one to say the least.
Advice for U my son is for U to work on Ur angermanagement and Ur attitude towards Ur elders. Also am sure U have female relatives, you should treat other ladies with respect regardless of their status or works of life.
An lastly, go and get a job or do a training in something. It will occupy you and make you more productive in this life. It will also make U channel all this energy to something fruitful and not always come here to insult Ur betters.

BLoomfrancs:
Incoherent bastard.
Get lost bro.

Actually U are the incoherent one not me but who is counting?
U are already lost, talkless of you telling someone to go there.
Like I said, I pity your family.
Ur orientation need to be re-evaluated. I think U are neurotic hence Ur almost madness.
Cheers though. Don't quote me again

BLoomfrancs:
I mbecile. It seems you are not okay upside your head. Madman if you marry, allow your wife to wear leg chain.

A typical lowly pick me idiot. No sense of self worth whatsoever.
Sit your ignorant ass down and let me educate you.

Leg chain is also worn by women who are married but are open to other men for sex. It is rooted deep in cuckoldry.

My boy, it is not a bad thing to be ignorant but being adamant at the same time means your foolishness was from birth. idiotic nonentity.

Complete BS what U are spewing. You actually need to be re-educated. U are one of those lost children of probably sane men. I pity your father's people, I pity your father.
Good luck with Ur madness.
Cheers

BLoomfrancs:
Exactly my brother. It has been a norm with prostitutes since time immemorial.
I am well read, Like I have read lots and lots of books and when I tell people about leg chains, some mumu Nigerians go dey defend am.
See what an article says about leg chains.

My son, you are not well read anything. If you were, you ideas won't be as myopic as it is. It is a shame that you even open your mouth to voice rubbish.
I am so saddened by your mentality, it speaks of no home training.
Meanwhile, that website you uploaded is full of virus and known for phasing people's mobile devices.
Cheers

BLoomfrancs:
If experienced people dey talk, old fool like you no suppose dey put mouth.

This doesn't even deserve a reply from me.
Cheers

BLoomfrancs:
Oboy go siddon. If you do not know that 99.999% of girls with leg chains are prostitutes then shut the f uck up. From the days of yore till now. It was like a sign to tell men what they do without telling them what they do. Just like those who use upside down pineapples to show that they are swingers. Bro, it still holds true today. I might overlook piercing and neck chains but you see that leg chain, na their identity be that.

Thank you sir, but I don't have horses to burn with a man-child like you. You are too young to know what is right or wrong yet so please stay on the side let you adults discuss. It's Ur father's age that should be discussing this not you.
As regards ur premise that 99.9 % of girls with Piercing and leg chains and so on being hoes. That's BS

Beautifulearth:
Met my girl 2yrs ago and we apparently love each other but I’m worried due to some factors I noticed…..

She’s from a dysfunctional family (Mother is a single mom who left her home because her husband married another wife and Her Sister is currently in her third marriage with 3 kids from 3diff men).

She’s insisting on doing things we agreed she wouldn’t do, she was using leg chain when we met and she stopped it because I told her I don’t like it(I don’t like ashawo vibez like 2-3neckchains, leg chains and piercing) now she’s insisting on doing some of them which led to a great misunderstanding between us which we still trying to resolve.

And lastly we do have little quarrels a lot even tho most would be settled because we both have anger issues and sometimes get physical with each other because she will lash out and will try to want to stand up and fight you like a man and my mom really doesn’t like her because of her quarrelsome attitude and only support me because I love her……..we stayed this long because I never suspect or caught her guilty of infidelity(I go through her phone unaware and she never gave me a reason to suspect her) which is a trait I always wanted above others in a woman.

It's only in Nigeria we consider a girl loose cos she has several piercings, has a neck chain and a waist chain. We are very useless in Nigeria we our sad medivial mentality. Sometimes I wonder if it's due to poverty or hunger that makes Nigerians think like this but I have slowly come to realise is just madness or neurosis from the continual raping of our minds by our society.
If this is what Generation z is being exposed to, if this is their thinking then God help us.

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Africans we are caused. Imagine people believing this BS

NaijaCowFarm:
Some of the following presidential candidates who have either declared interest in the 2023 presidency or whose body language seems to suggest interest are either hopeless or at best wasting their time.

This is entirely my opinion and based on the current state of things. I am sure some that you will come here and accept my opinion as law, but please do not come here and type nonsense, I only put things the way they are. If you love to hallucinate, it is up to you. All I expect is your point of view, you may counter my points if you have a superior argument. No abuses, please!

Bola Tinubu: A candidate that is very hard to sell. Age is questionable, background shrouded in secrecy, early education doubtful. No one knows where and when Tinubu got his School certificate but he is said to be a degree holder from Chicago State University. Interestingly, APC disqualified Obaseki because it doubted his HSC certificate. Would the same APC accept a Tinubu without a verifiable School certificate? To crown it all, Tinubu is perceived as corruption personified. His perceived influence in "EndSARS" handling in Lagos and health condition now exacerbated by his latest sickness and relocation to oversea for "health consultation" has just put a huge spanner on his ambition. Of recent, APC structure has quickly slipped off his grips, even foreclosing his leadership with Mai Buni now calling the shots.

Anyim Pius Anyim: This one knows he cannot secure a PDP ticket, he is just wasting time and making noise with the hope of securing vp ticket. Anyim has been in a cocoon since leaving office and suddenly remembers he wants to be president. Even his LGA does not support his "ambition".

Dave Umahi: Not sure who drumming for Dave Umahi. However, he lacks a political base. His state is largely PDP and he cannot win APC ticket, except Buhari opt for him as APC consensus candidate. Even at that, APC will lose to a PDP candidate from any part of Nigeria. Again, his handling of IPOB matter is a derailing factor to his success.

Yemi Osinbajo: A weakling, whom Buhari has stopped handing over to since 2017 after he, a "bat" in the Buhari regime tried to act as a "bird". He and his few noise makers know he is going nowhere. Funny thing is that his benefactor, Tinubu is not willing to help him this time, neither is Buhari. He is at best the "most qualified" without a support base

Yahaya Bello: I still do not know who is encouraging a failure of a governor to be dreaming of the presidency. Funny, Kogi is neither South nor do Northerners consider them North. Bello is believed to be interested in Senate but he may not have the chance as his tenure and the senatorial elections in 2023 do not align.

Orji Kalu: [/b]Kalu is a realist and has approached the 2023 presidential race with cautious optimism because he still doubts his capacity to pick APC ticket. The only trump card Kalu is hinging is a fallout between Tinubu and Osinbajo. If destiny smiles on him, he may be a surprise candidate, but for now, a time-waster.

[b]Okorocha: I do not have to waste time here. His hold to APC is shaky and cannot even win with Imo delegates.

Atiku Abubakar: Anyone would have ruled Atiku out of the 2023 race by mid-2021 when Southern governors were clamoring for the presidency to come to the south. However, the PDP governors have since discovered the deceit in the sudden Southern governors' romance. As it stands, PDP wants to displace APC at the centre and Atiku looks like the catalyst for this job. If the alignments happening in PDP is anything to go by, Atiku might be PDP candidate again.

Peter Obi: Although Peter Obi has not formally declared, he might not be the candidate the ODP could invest 2023 winnable wealth on for obvious reasons. The issue of ipob and their activities will work against Peter Obi securing PDP ticket, however, a vp slot with Atiku is still possible, baring the Wike's factor.

Bukola Saraki: Saraki would have been a great candidate, but the loss of Kwara in 2019 has put a damaging debt to his political sagacity. Going into 2023, Saraki is considered a Northern Muslim, just like Tinubu, he faces the herculean task of proving his northerness to the core north. The South sees him as a northerner by the way.

Kayode Fayemi: Fayemi has been quiet about his ambition. With his tenure as governor coming to an end, there are strong indications that Fayemi might end up picking the APC ticket. Right now, not many are talking about Fayeni, but his governors' forum is calling the shots in APC. Post-APC convention, we will likely see a strategist Fayemu displacing Tinubu and Osinbajo.

The Buhari candidate: Not yet revealed but in Buhari's cabinet. Loyal and unassuming. He might be a last-minute surprise to all APC. Mark you, I am not referring to Rotimi Amaechi. Amaechi is not a candidate the north wants, he is not trusted and cannot get APC ticket.

All the candidates you mentioned above are collosal time wasters. But I will mention a few names like
1) Kalu: Anyone that was there when Kali was governor would swear not to have him take the reins of the country. Problem there is that Nigerians have short term memory loss esp when they are offered money.
2) Tinubu: Same goes here. But it is almost getting clear that he will be president by hook or crook or default. It is a scary thought and will be a catastrophic decision for Nigerians.
3) Okorocha: Doesn't need introductions not cos of his been popular in a good way. His actions in Imo state speak for itself. This is a bullet Nigerians would do well to avoid.
The rest, we will have to see.

SarutobiEky:
how much will you pay me if it don't?

Money is cheap, talking even less. I won't stake funds in a process that would most probably benefit Tinubu. It has no meaning for me to be right that he will be president.

NGpatriot:
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ipob, it's a free country and you have the constitutional rights to follow, support and vote candidates of your choice, so why is my support for Tinubu burning your whole body? Do you see me questioning all the useless, lazy and incompetent kerosene and wheelbarrow clowns you ipobs vote for?

Go and worry about your own rainbow, and stop trying to commit suicide over other people's choices.

Hateful, bitter, angry, bigoted and frustrated ipob..

Lol, U can support whoever U want. I have no feeling or emotions in that direction for U or for Tinubu.
You have a problem and it's immaturity that is worrying you.
Your mates have nothing to say that is relevant in this discussion. It's Ur father's mate that I be discussing with.
Cheers little boy.

SarutobiEky:
olohun. Stupid, people too much for here.. We need to annihilate them.

Calling for war and annihilation at Ur tender age doesn't say much about Ur training. It's barbaric and offensive. Pls don't spew that bile here. Doesn't come down well with people with refined mentality.
Like I said, Tinubu will be president even if it's posthumous. That's what the king makers have ordained. It must come to pass.

NGpatriot:
What's your business with me because of Tinubu? Freedom of association mean anything to you intolerant and undemocratic ipobs?

Lol, am sure U didn't just throw Ipob around here. Am no supporter or sympathiser of the group or any arms group for that matter. That includes those groups in the west too and Niger Delta.
Like I stated and you can quote me anywhere. Tinubu will be your president. Good luck with that

NGpatriot:
Asiwaju is not the president of Nigeria and he's not even a public office holder, but world powers dey form delegation to Bourdillon to do ranka dey dey to Asiwaju left and right..

They know what some Nigerians don't know, they know Asiwaju is the most powerful Nigerian and he must be consulted on a regular basis...

Lol, U are on Ur own with the those assessment. Tinubu is Tinubu. God help us when he becomes president

SarutobiEky:
at this point... I'm speechless.

my brother, na wah for Naija elections

SarutobiEky:
are you God? What if he does die before election period, or dies on that seat? What then will you Tinubu supporters do?

My brother are U the one that is going to kill him? Anyways I will bite, if he passes on before the election then he will be made president posthumous. And be governing from the grave. That's how silly our elections are

BeeBeeOoh:
https://punchng.com/2023-why-tinubu-is-the-most-capable-candidate-to-succeed-buhari-sanwo-olu/?amp

Total lie but who is taking note?
Tinubu is already president

Buckeyemedia1:
Police will charge him with an amended colonial law that a judge will discard.

That is not before doing designs on his person and pockets

saphiere:
Pastor arrested for allegedly having unlawful sex with woman and her two daughters in Ogun



https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/1/pastor-arrested-for-allegedly-having-unlawful-s3x-with-woman-and-her-two-daughters-in-ogun.html

But how does that concerns us. If the mother and her daughters are old enough and stupid enough to let that happen then too bad. Wetin concern police matter for this one? Where they forced? Had gun on their head? Blackmailed? If none of this is true then nor police matter, unless the daughters were minors

Poopypants:
This man was a waste of 4 years , just like buhari . But trump isn’t an option.

To and look at his achievements

Vicotex:
Stupid Biden, stupid just like Buhari.
Watch how he'll blame Vladimir Putin and Russia for his bad mouth

U talking BS