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AoifeNightfall:
I'm not trying to shade Anglicans but seriously, the foundations of the Anglican Church is kinda weird

So the King of England wanted to have sex with a hot woman and give birth to male children so bad he broke away from the Catholic Church

Just thinking...

Kazeem47:
Nice discovery.Wish it will directed to our politicians data base and run it down. So you guys can discover something like this but you cannot trace bandits and Boko Haram's sim or phone?
NCC be discovering what has already been discovered.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Disgrace on Putin and his nairaland puppet..look how he's been displayed like a d*g..
It's such a pity that Putin didn't think thrice before invading..he made a very big mistake he will forever regret..

Africafooty:
Senator Rochas is indeed the best man for the job..

kidap:
Finally an Igbo man has shown seriousness for the top job

DoggoneDogg:
Two can play this game. You don't recognize ours, we don't recognize yours too.

Russia just called out US hypocrisy. You are crying to save Ukraine while you are torturing & killing Syrians & Palestinians in the Middle East.


I love Putin

Ammishaddai:
Oga, I'm sorry to say this but you're a simp for thinking a woman will remain loyal to you in your absence . Secondly, why are you expecting her to call you when it's crystal clear she's cheating on you with someone who's financially superior?

Better get a grip on yourself , and snap out of this self-imposed misery you're in because you'll only be doing yourself more harm than good. And lastly , I'll advice that you seek counsel of the Gidredpiller . Because he's in a better position to guide out of this confusion you're currently in

Omicron007:




Watch how USA haters fill this thread....

MangekyoAlt:
Source

Cc; Lalasticlacla, Mynd44, Seun

backT:
Man Hires Neighbor To Get Wife Pregnant, Takes Him To Court For Failing To Impregnate Her After 75 Attempts

Darius Makambako 30, with his wife Precious 28, really wanted to have a child, but a renowned doctor had told the couple that the husband was sterile. The couple was tired of being in a 6 year childless marriage.

So Makambako, a member of the Tanzanian Police Force (Traffic Department), after calming his wife’s protests, hired his neighbour Evans Mastano 32, a fellow police officer in the country’s commercial city, to impregnate his wife.

Since Evans was already married and the father of two beautiful daughters, plus looked very much like Darius to the boot, the plan seemed good.

Makambako paid Mastano 2,000,000 Tanzanian Shillings (equivalent to K10,000) for the job and for three evenings a week, for 10 consecutive months in 2016.
Evans tried desperately, a total 75 different times, to impregnate his friend’s wife Precious, but failed.

Reports say Precious, a nurse at a private clinic, had decided to get a three months’ vacation leave (March to June 2016), to dedicate her time to sleeping with her husband’s best friend and neighbour, in order to have her first child, but the man failed to impregnate her, despite the husband leaving them in bed the whole day, at most times.

When Precious failed to get pregnant for 10 months however, Makambako could not understand and insisted that Evans have a medical examination, which he did in January 2017.

The doctor’s pronouncement that Evans Mastano was also sterile, shocked everyone, except his wife, who was forced to confess that Evans was not the real father of her two children, but his cousin Edward!

“I was forced to secretly sleep with his first cousin for these two children, after realising that my husband could not impregnate me for two years.” Angela told the Dar-es-Salaam Today News.

Now Makamboko is suing Evans for breach of contract, in an effort to get his money back, but Evans refuses to give it back, because he says he did not guarantee conception, but only that he would give it an honest effort.

Source: Dar-es-Salaam Today.

Godoverevery:
This not a thread to bash women......just to enlighten them why sometimes your actions knowingly or unknowingly can make a guy ghost you.

So this particular lady we met at a wedding and exchanged contact, we stay in different state....we had been chatting for more than a year now but didn't see.
This month a agricultural seminar took me to the state she residing so i pre informed her earlier about my coming and she said I can stay at her place for the two days.
The first night I had to buy food for both of us.
On the second day she requested I spare her some cash for transport to work.....I gave her 1k.
In the evening she requested I give her money to make sauce for rice......I asked what does she need to get ooo.
She said just one Titus fish and small pepper that she had every other thing at home.

I gave her my atm card to withdraw 5k for me and she should remove money for the fish and pepper inside but shockingly she came back and gave me 1500 as my change.

Me in my mind I was expecting her to spend 1500 out the 5k for one fish and pepper but she spent 3500.
When I was leaving she requested I gave her money so I told her not to worry I will transfer to her which I wasn't going to do.....ever since this lady have been disturbing me with calls and text but am not replying.

I felt it very wrong of her to have spent that much on just a fish and pepper in a place like ijebu ode.

Note ÷ I didn't have anything sexual with her in the two days

So nairalander should I keep on ghosting her or I should just pour out my mind to her.

FloatingSeed:
Many will interpret this from different angles and either way, there will still be something to learn from it. Insults too will fly here and there and if it makes me get the thought out of my head, no qualms.

I will concentrate on things I did wrong which I feel is responsible for the present occurrence.

We met 3 months ago online and we started talking . We talked everyday, chat,video, calls name it. She wasn't up for a relationship according to her. Come January, she came down to my side so we can see for the first.
For the first time in my live, I felt at ease with someone I was meeting for the first time. No tension, no pretence.

While copying a code I typed on her phone, I checked through her pics. Why I did that I still can't explain it cos it's something I've never done before nor will day.
I talked about a pics I saw and she flared up about why I had to check her phone. I apologized and everything was back to normal.

She went back the 4th day and communication was still okay till 2 weeks later when I caught feelings for her.
Perhaps my brain was beginning to misinterprete a lot of actions as I feel she's beginning to withdraw . The final straw came when she said we need to talk. Sure we had a high tempo talk which centres on what she feels my friends were doing. You guys get the normal guys whining a lady your guys is speaking with. The normal when are we seeing you again, we are bringing yam stuff ooo.

Like, I'm giving them the impression we are dating while we were not. Right after the talk, in a bid to just end it and get over my emotions I told her I like her and wants to take things further with her.
Of course, her guards shot up and she said it again that she's not looking for a relationship and she's not God, .

I know she has trust issues due to heartbreak from her ex and to be candid I blame myself for getting caught in the wind so fast and not allowing the frenship time to evolve naturally.

If I call her we talk normally but that strain of coldness is still hanging. Chat is even worst, no live in it at all. For the firs time in my life, I actually want to give love a chance but it seems I already messed up everything and there is no redemption.
How best can I possible savage this.
I already anticipate a mix of insults, name calling etc. But then, meaningful advices would still come handy.

FloatingSeed:
Many will interpret this from different angles and either way, there will still be something to learn from it. Insults too will fly here and there and if it makes me get the thought out of my head, no qualms.

I will concentrate on things I did wrong which I feel is responsible for the present occurrence.

We met 3 months ago online and we started talking . We talked everyday, chat,video, calls name it. She wasn't up for a relationship according to her. Come January, she came down to my side so we can see for the first.
For the first time in my live, I felt at ease with someone I was meeting for the first time. No tension, no pretence.

While copying a code I typed on her phone, I checked through her pics. Why I did that I still can't explain it cos it's something I've never done before nor will day.
I talked about a pics I saw and she flared up about why I had to check her phone. I apologized and everything was back to normal.

She went back the 4th day and communication was still okay till 2 weeks later when I caught feelings for her.
Perhaps my brain was beginning to misinterprete a lot of actions as I feel she's beginning to withdraw . The final straw came when she said we need to talk. Sure we had a high tempo talk which centres on what she feels my friends were doing. You guys get the normal guys whining a lady your guys is speaking with. The normal when are we seeing you again, we are bringing yam stuff ooo.

Like, I'm giving them the impression we are dating while we were not. Right after the talk, in a bid to just end it and get over my emotions I told her I like her and wants to take things further with her.
Of course, her guards shot up and she said it again that she's not looking for a relationship and she's not God, .

I know she has trust issues due to heartbreak from her ex and to be candid I blame myself for getting caught in the wind so fast and not allowing the frenship time to evolve naturally.

If I call her we talk normally but that strain of coldness is still hanging. Chat is even worst, no live in it at all. For the firs time in my life, I actually want to give love a chance but it seems I already messed up everything and there is no redemption.
How best can I possible savage this.
I already anticipate a mix of insults, name calling etc. But then, meaningful advices would still come handy.

Datboredberri:
Why would I be? I'm not

Liyastitches:
From my point of view, it is because they are gullible most of the time,they tend to trust easily and overlook the hand writing on the wall.

It's also a test from God to know if your 'good heart' can stand the test of time, because good
attitude attract both good and bad, but never give up doing good, if those you are doing good to does not deserve it.

IgweOfNnewi:
Most people normally compare and contrast good character with VIRGINITY. unfortunately they don't know that the EVIDENCE OF GOOD CHARACTER IS VIRGINITY , the most attractive bad character today is fornication, falling into fornication is like picking stone on the ground without stress, where is the good character when you lack self-control, self-discipline and purity?
What is your own good character when your legs are parted for a price, having sex for money makes you a prostitute, having sex before marriage lowers your value for marriage, it destroy your marriage potentials.

jesusjnr2020:
What Shall It Profit You If You Gain The Whole Pretty Girls But Lose Your Own Soul?

It begins with that one, right?

The one you thought was your one and only, the only one meant for you, that would immediately solve all your problems in life once you just had her, right?

The one you thought was all you needed in life, that would fill that void you felt inside of you, so if you just had her, you would automatically become complete and won't be needing anything else, right?

The one you would do anything for, cross all the mountains or oceans on Earth for, and even commit a crime just to have, because you believed you couldn't live or be able to survive without her as the air you breathed, right?

So your wishes finally came true, and after you had her for the first time, it was like hurray, fireworks and celebrations. You finally got what you so desperately desired and hence you felt satisfied and as though you're on top of the world.

Then you slept with her again, and it wasn't as satisfying as the first time but it's still okay.

But then you have her the third, fourth, fifth, sixth time, and you begin to feel like "hmm... Am I sure she's really the one and I didn't make a mistake?" You still feel the emptiness you had at first before you met her, so it seems she wasn't really able to fill up that void anyways, even though it seemed so at first.

And while contemplating what next to do with her, you looked out the window and saw another beautiful girl walking, and you'd be like, "that must be the real one" you were seeking. The one that would be able to achieve what you desired from the first one but which she couldn't give you.

And so you also do everything to have her as well and when you've finally done so, you initially feel good as with the first one, but after a while you begin to lose interest as well.

Then you see another pretty gal and you'd be like, "oh no, this must surely be the one that I was seeking all my life"..., however when you also succeed to have her as well, na still eyenikem disappointment after a while.

But you still don't give up but keep trying and trying, because you think despite failing with all your previous attempts, you'd eventually succeed and finally get that which you seek. That's how you'd have the fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eight, ninth, tenth, .... hundredth, and still counting, but na still the same final result. You still felt unsatisfied and empty inside eventually.

It appears that's how King Solomon started, trying to find the one and only who would quench that desire and thirst (lust) in him, but before he would know it, he already had over a thousand wives and concubines. Yet after he had consumed all his lust upon them, he still felt very empty and miserable inside as they all couldn't quench that lustful desire in him, that he had cry out and confess that "vanity upon vanity, all is vanity!" Ecclesiastes 12:8

But unfortunately, by the time he had realized this, it appeared too late, because while trying to satisfy his lustful desires with all those beautiful girls, a lot of things were damaged in the process, some beyond repair, and he had gotten too deep into it that he couldn't come out anymore, so he ended up a very miserable unfulfilled man filled with regrets.

So is that the same result you're still desperately seeking to achieve, and do you have to get to that same point he got to before you realized the same thing?

Jesus said:

For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? Mark 8:36 (KJV)

Despite that Solomon had a lot of possession and riches, including many (a thousand plus) wives and concubines, and was arguably the richest the world has ever known, but even at that he didn't have the whole world, yet according to Jesus, even if he had gained the whole world, it wouldn't be worth the loss of his soul.

That void in one's soul can never be filled by the whole world, including all the pretty women in it, that's why regardless of how many of them any man gains, he's still feel empty at the end.

That void can only be filled by God because He is the only One can truly complete any man and is what man needs to be complete that would him not to need anything else, so unless it's Him a man gains, every effort to fill the void would be "vanity upon vanity, all is vanity".

God bless.

kimco:
You must be very confused my dear....I don't even remember having a "chat" with you. Probably a template response because you keep sounding very selfish and others keep pointing it out to you.
Ironic though, I thought you were going to pray for me since you were a pastor.... Selfish, think of others.

kimco:
All I hear from you is "Me Me Me Me"

What of the others? You are not the centre of the world. If you have it good it doesn't mean that is all. Let's try to be less self centered.

calmness0:
Amen, but stories about marriage and couples here on NL gives me chills in my spine.

Marriage to a Nigerian lady is scary, like death sentence

PastorMIsBack:
Yes my LordReed. He provided mine for me. On request.

qwertyboss:
No, success is relative.
In this context why the question of not having a husband? That because the OP consider husband as part of the success of a woman

Datboredberri:
Honestly, men are of little value...

qwertyboss:
How is she successful without husband?
The right term is financially stable career woman!

lalasticlala:
Source Gazettengr.com



https://twitter.com/774ngr/status/1494268769165844485?t=BBSZ36-aSYg38ONw1f3A_w&s=08[/quote]Wait first, wait first. If he stole 10 b from the 13 b, how much was remaining again na?
This is why Nigeria will never progress. When people are this selfish to themselves and their children's children. He didn't even say let him take just 1 b from 13 b, he took a whooping sum of 10 b.
God help us

Awkabigboy:
The guy was just trying to break it down in a lay man's language.

Generally not all asthma is allergic, we have atopic and non-atopic asthma although the majority, 80% is atopic

guobe:
I only broke it down in a lame man's language,asthma is deadlier than pneumonia .

shadrach77:
It's called GRACE. It's God's doing. Just enjoy your new position and deal with your previous superiors the way you'll deal with anybody. Remember two things
1. God put you in that position and only Him can remove you from it
2. Your so called superiors are no longer your superior. You are now their superior

guobe:
most asthmatic cases are the same,it always involves the inability to breath well,you either avoid smoke cold or stuffy areas.it is the big brother of pneumonia.

guobe:
for you to get married to a woman that does not go the kitchen is not easy,it takes a strong mindset,can this our present guys accept that.

teedoxman89:
Aunty slapped her brother in-law for taking food from her pot by himself without telling her.

Brother in-law stopped eating at home to avoid further insult.

Brother in-law is an undergraduate.

The brother noticed and asked why, he said nothing.

Brother wasn't satisfied, asked his wife, aunty said ask your brother.

Brother insisted on finding why, so he asked other souls in the house and they told him what happened.

Brother was very angry and felt disrespected by his wife who could have reported to him to handle the issue.

Aunty doesn't work so brother provides everything down to maggi.

Brother told wife to apologise to his brother, aunty said never. That the house is hers.

Brother in-law jejely carried his kaya and left without telling anyone.

Brother has told his wife to leave his house since she cannot accommodate his family members but feels free with her own family members.

Aunty feels her husband is being unreasonable and seeking advise on how best to proceed.

Please members of this group, advise her please ���

WillyWonda1:
I quite understand you well. But you see there's limit to which you can be patient. This man literally frustrates my work. He assigns works that I'm not supposed to do at all to me and I do with all diligence. This is an organization, and there are ways things are done. But he wants to always show himself.
I don't regret my action in any way at all.