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odimbannamdi:
Someone, out his benevolence, went out of his way to give such detailed posts based on his commendable experience and this is what you have to say??

You condemned his post without giving a single reasonable counter-argument?

Na wa o. People sef!

Imagine this man? Some people flabbergast me....

If u are so knowledgeable of the topic in question? Why don't u add Ur counter argument?
There was no outright condemnation of his opinion, I just gave my own opinions of the topic in question. I don't have to give a counter argument, there is no mandation on my part to give one.

nelsonoba:
When they tell you not to be lazy and to study and read wide so you won't be left behind, you'll say they are trying to make your life difficult. But look at you now......ordinary information that is readily available online, you can't even Google it to verify. Mr man go and copy and paste the iran deal terms here let us all see if what I said is not inside it!!

Why would I do Ur homework for u?

Michellekabod2:
i think I agree with ubunja here. Sex is the only power a woman have over a man, that puts him in her control,if you are in charge of it(and not it being in charge of you) ,you have some power to yourself. When you sexual drive equates his,them you are no more a master or the one in charge of the sex,you are both slaves then.


The op used the word "husband" but I believe the chasing of a woman should continue after marriage.

PS:this is from my own lens,don't apply to everyone though. Things are really evolving fast. But I think you should heed to this if you aren't sure your spouse has evolved

Sex is only power if used as such. It is not the only power a woman has over a man and vice versa. It is not only women that can use it as power, men can too.

nelsonoba:
Oga stop deceiving yourself. Go and search for the details of the Iran deal. Read it for yourself and stop waiting for CNN to tell you what to believe. The details of the deal are online and you can search for it. I read mine online to confirm after hearing what Trump said about it. This is the difference between most of us who Support Trump and haters like you that entirely depend on the likes of CNN and BBC to tell you what to believe. Don't be lazy! Search for the deal online by yourself, study it like I did and then come back here to tell me if what I said about the 14-day notice period is a lie. I challenge you on this!

Be deceiving urself online sharing misinformation and lies

nelsonoba:
One thing I've found out is that almost all the people who hate Trump are people who don't study carefully before they jump on something. From your statement, it's very obvious you don't even know the terms of the nuclear deal......that is why you actually believe it was a good deal simply because Obama said so. Now, let me educate you a bit;

One of the terms of this deal says that if the Inspectors have any need to inspect any of the nuclear sites to monitor compliance, they must notify the Iranian authorities at least 14 days ahead of inspection date. Do you know the implication of that? It means the Inspectors WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO CATCH THE IRANIANS WHEN THEY START VIOLATING THE TERMS OF THE RESTRICTIONS, BECAUSE IF THE INSPECTORS HAVE A SUSPICION THAT SOMETHING ILLEGAL IS GOING ON AT NUCLEAR SITE A, THEY HAVE TO TELL THE IRANIANS THAT THEY SUSPECT THAT SOMETHING IS NOT GOING ACCORDING TO PLAN IN NUCLEAR SITE A, AND AS SUCH THEY NEED TO INSPECT. THEN THE IRANIANS CAN SAY "OK, WE HAVE HEARD YOU. YOU CAN ALL COME IN 2 WEEKS TIME TO DO YOUR INSPECTION". THEN AFTER THE NOTIFICATION, THE IRANIAN AUTHORITIES CAN SIMPLY MOVE TO NUCLEAR SITE A AND REMOVE ALL EVIDENCE OF WHAT THEY HAD BEEN DOING, PREPARE THE PLACE TO LOOK NORMAL. THEN AT THE APPOINTED DATE, THE INSPECTORS ARRIVE AND THEY WILL NOT SEE ANYTHING WRONG. THEN THEY MARK THE IRANIANS AND GOOD AND COMPLYING WITH THE TERMS OF THE DEAL. THE INSPECTORS LEAVE, AND IMMEDIATELY AFTERWARDS, THE IRANIANS RESUME WHATEVER ILLEGAL THING THEY WERE DOING BEFORE!

No sensible human being would attempt to catch a thief by telling them when they plan to inspect their property to ensure nobody is stealing at that time. It is gross foolishness to believe you catch a thief that way. But I'm sure CNN or BBC where you get your news from will not explain this reason to you, and they will be fooling many of you who are their "faithful viewers" into thinking Trump is stupid, Trump is an idiot and he just tore up a good deal that was working perfectly.

Imagine what false information u are peddling. Am sure u believe this lies u just said? Pls give us a link or a PDF of the document where u for that information from. That is why I don't consider what any Trump supporter say as truth cos they wallow deep in only conspiracy theories without any concrete proof. Am sure when u send us a like, it would be someone's podcast or a link to a conspiracy theory pundit.

presidency:
STATE HOUSE PRESS RELEASE

WE’LL POSITION UNIVERSITIES TO PRODUCE QUALITY GRADUATES– PRESIDENT BUHARI

President Muhammadu Buhari Thursday in Abuja said Federal Government will give more attention to improving personnel and infrastructure of universities to produce quality graduates, assuring that education will, henceforth, be a top priority in development goals of the country.

President Buhari, who received leadership of Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) led by Prof. Biodun Ogunyemi at the State House, said effective and efficient operations of universities will go a long way in improving the economy, especially with focus on science and technology.

The President urged members of ASUU to assist the Federal Government in realising the target of improved education and credible certificates by complying with ongoing verification and validation of human resources in the universities, which will guarantee optimum output.

“The future of the country depends on quality education and our certificates must be credible to inspire confidence,’’ he said.

President Buhari said constitutional provisions should be carefully studied and adhered to for more harmonious relationships, and standards that will promote efficiency.

The President directed the Ministry of Education to put in more effort in ensuring that Nigerian universities are properly funded, with adequate infrastructure and staffing.

In her remarks at the meeting, the Minister of Finance, Budget and National Planning, Zainab Ahmed, said out of the 137,016 academic and non-academic staff members of the universities, 96,090 have been enrolled in the Integrated Payment and Personnel Information System (IPPIS), urging ASUU to encourage the remaining 40,926 members to comply with the process.

She said a desk has been opened in the Office of the Accountant General of the Federation for registration of university staff, assuring that peculiarities of the tertiary institutions will be accommodated.

The Minister pointed out that many anomalies were discovered in the university structures that have contributed to the increased cost burden, which include staff working and earning pay in more than one university, contract staff on payroll of the government, tax reductions on PAYEE and multiple employments.

Ahmed said some universities had rushed to recruit more staff before the IPPIS registration commenced, which was then detected.

“While it is clear that ASUU has peculiarities, it should be recognised and rightly accommodated, and the allowances will be made, and not leaving the university out of IPPIS because of the peculiarities,’’ she added.

Secretary to the Government of the Federation, Boss Mustapha, urged ASUU to comply with IPPIS in national interest as his office was already in the process of streamlining all issues of human resources in government.

In his remarks, the President of ASUU, Prof. Ogunyemi said the educational sector needed more Federal Government attention, noting that implementation of agreements over the years will go a long way in improving the quality of education in the universities.

Prof. Ogunyemi said:

“Nigerian universities can make meaningful contributions to addressing the challenges of the country (economy, security and corruption) if given the opportunities. Appropriate funding level, competitive conditions of service, university autonomy and academic freedom are critical to creating such an atmosphere.

“With adequate and effective education, particularly university education, Nigerians will be less susceptible to manipulation, our economy will grow and problems of insecurity and corruption will be drastically reduced,’’ he said.

The ASUU President said Nigeria could learn from countries like China, Malaysia and Singapore that have encouraged universities to drive their educational development through tripartite linkages of government, industries and universities called Triple Helix Principle.

On IPPIS and university operations, Prof. Ogunyemi said the Federal Government’s Visitor initiative to the universities, at least once in five years, was the best guarantee for monitoring accountability processes that include internal and external audit processes.

The ASUU President said the IPPIS will be a “disruptive intrusion’’, adding: “IPPIS violates the laws of the federation, violates university statutes, and violates agreements between the Federal Government and ASUU.’’

“The Government should welcome ASUU’s ongoing innovation of a robust system of human resource management and compensation, called the University Transparency and Accountability Solution, which will address peculiarities of universities and end inappropriate recruitments.’’

The Minister of Education, Adamu Adamu and Labour and Employment , Dr Chris Ngige, assured that the Federal Government was committed to improving the educational sector, promising to work closely with ASUU.

Femi Adesina
Special Adviser to the President
(Media & Publicity)
January 9, 2020

Says person who no go school who in pikins dey school abroad. Weldone u dey try!

Cletus77:
Meanwhile the Prime Minister of Canada also believes from Canadian and other intelligent sources that the plane was shot down by a missile, and may be "unintentional"

The leaders of Canada and the UK called for a full and thorough investigation into the crash, which killed all 176 people on board.

https://www.bbc.com/news/amp/world-middle-east-51055219

This information is false. German internal affairs has stated that their was no German citizen in that flight.

NwaAmaikpe:




A woman must NEVER open the mouth given to her by God to ask her husband for sex unless she was married from a brothel.
Only a man does that.

As a husband, the day your wife opens her mouth to tell you that her kpekus is hungry should be the day you chase her out of your house because no responsible woman who was conceived from the sperm of an intelligent father and the egg of a decent mother does that.

It shows that she is a nympho. If she can beg you, then she can beg your friend too.

However, a woman who does not want to go through the hassles of begging her mother-in-law to help them draw up a Sex timetable can convey her preek cravings to her husband through non-verbal communication which is termed in BedRule 101 as TripleBL or 'Basic Bedroom Body Language'.

A decent wife who wants her husband's submarine to sojourn in her Bermuda Triangle can just spread her legs and plead with him to help examine a fictitious razor bump on the tip of her canal using his finger then gyrate her hips like the blades of a low-voltage powered blender while biting her lips like hard Suya as he does this.

Or she can roll from her end of the bed to his using his body as wedge but ensuring that either her Gluteus Maximus brushes against his 'Omenuko' or her mammary glands bumps into his hand each single time.

A real husband who truly thinks through his preek will react positively to either of these scenarios.

But the best bet for a stubborn husband who is unable to read the writings on the wall is to pray to God to send down the spirit of Conji to trouble him till he can sleep no more.

If all of these fails, she should masturbate or look for either a pastor, a neighbor, an ex-boyfriend or a colleague in whom she can 'confide' her sexual woes to.

U are talking BS

ubunja:
you used to have women, now you just have "friends" . Yet you convince yourself you've improved. Hilarious.

hilarious. U are trying to goad me. Doesn't work on me. Cheers!

czarr:
Age is not wisdom although with age comes understanding, but I've seen the old make stupid decisions and the young make smart decisions....so this is definitely not an age matter...your opinions are largely subjective. the older someone is the less likely they are to want to unlearn and relearn,change becomes hard and so they fight it like you are doing.

I do like Ur reasoning so far and u are actually correct in somethings. Though age is not wisdom but experience helps one understand things better and makes one less likely to be spontaneous.
The kids @ubunja and @hardon show lack of maturity in every comment they post. Some of my older friends and I had lots of laughs reading some of their opinions on our guys night out. Their opinions are so funny and stale that one wonders at such myopia in their reasoning.
Anyways on more serious note, one expects children of their ages to actually have such opinions so not all is lost. Am sure as maturity sets in their general outlook would broaden. Then again one can only hope.

ubunja:
you have more female friends than before? Someone is enjoying the Friendzone a little bit too much,seeing you no longer bed these women.

Little boy, that's not my priority. Know Ur aim in life and go for it. Friendzone is subjective based on one's own perspective.
Hope this helps u.
Cheers

ubunja:
if women were really as deep and complex as you claim they are they wouldn't be losing their virginity to thugs and becoming babymamas for jobless players.

Its a shame that you admit when you became an "asshole" women flocked to you, yet in the same breath you extol the values of being opposite of an asshole.
Smh.

We all know You only changed from being a Player when a girl tried to commit suicide after you outplayed her. Don't talk about maturity and all that bs. You just got overcome with guilt. And that guilt has turned you into a Major Simp.

Such a childish comment!
In life it's more than u urself and u but more about people and Ur relationship and association with them. It take a while to get that perspective and it requires a mature mind to understand it.
What u understood from that experience I shared shows one how Ur thinking and psych is and it's full of BS that u must have to unlearn. A pity they don't teach it in school.
Best way to learn is experience and when it has dealt u a hard blow, u will see better beyond Ur nose and outside the smell not Ur own mouth.

ubunja:
Its a shame that you admit when you became an "asshole" women flocked to you, yet in the same breath you extol the values of being opposite of an asshole.
Smh.

U need to know that there is nothing wrong in setting Ur boundaries (this doesn't make u good or bad, player or no player) this just makes u principled. Women flock around principled men. I have more female friends now than before and they know and respect those boundaries.
There is always a turning point in a person's life. The experience I shared was a turning point in my life, I will not have u make mockery of that experience. Anyways it's actually irrelevant what u think or what I think cos everyone would retain their opinions. But I see u threading a dangerous path that may destroy u and whatever happiness u may have gotten in the future.
Ur headache Ur problem.
Cheers!

czarr:
I don't agree, the reason ubunja is popular here is because alot of guys can relate to what he says, people are not stupid. So I don't believe he sells fallacies.

Good luck with that. When I was his age, I had my own perspective of life and women that was more matured than what I see u people swallowing here. It's sad to see younglings like urself and those charlatans being misled.

ubunja:
Nice Guys tho

Time is the best teacher. Ideas u peddle now changes as u mature into the kind of man u will be. Don't be quick to decide or form an opinion of complex creatures like women. The heart of a woman is deeper than an ocean. Even wise men can't explain why a woman who hates the father of her child can love the same child (with so much devotion) who happens to be a splitting image of the man she hates. Cheers

czarr:
Don't ask women how to get women, ask men successful in getting women...women may tell you what they believe is the truth because they want to be seen as not shallow minded, but what turns them on is always opposite of what they say.

Probably but not all true. No one knows it all but it's all clear that children like @ubanja, @hardon are all selling fallacies and myopia.

Godhead4:
https://edition.cnn.com/2020/01/07/business/oil-prices-iran-attack-iraq/index.html

Looks like that is the beginning

Jodha:
A man promised to take a married woman to a trip in Venice, Italy ..look how Nigerian married women flooded his comment section with their qualifications and pictures...

Naina men should step up their game in marriage....spice up yhur marriage....most of the women out there are bored and tired of working effortlessly..

The man didn't put conditions to his proposal so it's free for all. Nothing about duties in the other room so has nothing to do with whoring

Another silly post from wannabe primal males

Subduer:
Let Iranian mullahs STRIKE just one American target & see what'll happen.

Any weapon in Iran is for SUBJUGATING their own citizens. Iranian political economy can't sustain external war for six months.

Those Nigerian terrorists cursing Trump must know that DRONES possess their GPS coordinates. This is not same as stealing Oil money.

Best u don't wish for that. Designating the US forces as terrorists is a big step in going to war with them. It means if they catch them on their border, they will strike first. Ur prayers should be with the families of the youngmen that will be caught in the crossfire

KingAzubuike:
there was a period people like you once claimed Nigeria had the best land force on earth . During my nysc then in camp, one was even arguing nigeria had the best army in the world

drnoel

Lol, na wah for that person sha. Anyways why u put my name for this post na? I don't understand

KingAzubuike:
Ever since this bullshìt started, many nairalanders have shown their true colors. They've shown that they know nothing and carry empty heads.

One was arguing with me that Israel is more advanced than China in military technology

Another said Israel has a stronger military than Pakistan, India and turkey.

Another claimed Russia begs Israel for technology.

Another said Iran is no match for Israel and the Persians would be crushed like a bug.

. Well I can't blame them . 2018 Shiloh I was there live when Oyedepo claimed Israel was the most powerful nation on Earth and they have an economy that cannot be rivalled. Many of you shouting and screaming Israel up and down know nothing about international politics and how it's works and are only religiously sentimental. That small country is only a puppet of the western world created to distabilize the middle East. They get rewarded with weapons here and there for their loyalty and asslicking. It was worse during the regime of Ariel Sharon and that of olmert. The same Israel isn't even among the ten most powerful military in the world yet someone had the guts to say after Russia and USA, they come next lol. If not for the substandard Machatz-1 drones they produce and export to needing nations like Saudi Arabia which are inferior to their rq5 and mq1 counterparts as well as their Tavor rifle, and the tips they get from their sugar daddies in the west, nobody would have been saying all these.

Hilarious!!
Go to Facebook and see dem internet warriors unleashing their ignorance

Absoj:
On the contrary, The congress itself is killing The American people by not taking decisive steps to curtail threats to Americans in diaspora. Not all crises requires soft handling and compromise, or negotiations. What is need end is to locate the threat and take it out, then we all rest. The democrats infested congress isn't thinking about America's future and safety. Theyre only concerned with compromise. Legalising nonsense, gay, abortion, porous borders.. Abeg democracy isn't absolute freedom; afteralll freedom itself requires control and conscientious ness to enjoy.

Looks like there are many hotheads on this topic.
But it's not warmongering or hotheadedness that would save the day. I can assure u, it's also no trump. Hat or like the guy but the way things are going will only lead to war.

MylezKayn:
1. Trump didn't declare War. Am sure u meant to say hasn't yet here. The problem with that is one can't wait cos he is unpredictable. Which is in this case
2. Trump took out a terrorist who has killed Americans.I don't disagree with u here but he could have kept Congress informed which he didn't
3. He is trying to defend US unlike a fmr. US President who sent money to Iran at night. [color=#000099] On this one we both disagree. Obama was a patriot and way more democratic than Trump would ever be. Am sure u know that so u statement is surprising

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27Pushing30:
Seems you don’t understand AMERICAN CULTURE ... in the US cuLture only Americans are allowed to kill Americans any other nationality becomes designated a terrorist and hunted down till death.

The late general ordered an attack that killed an AMERICAN... nothing happened

It emboldened him to order an attack on American embassy (SITUATED IN THE GREEN ZONE)

Imagine what he would have done next? Don’t think like a child, go and read history!
nobody wants another war , nobody wants anotherwar Naxo them allow hitler collect lands that were initially redistributed after germany’s First loss

Nobody wants another war , nobody wants another war Naxo dem allow hitler fully rearm the German army and virtually overrun Europe until the fortunate events at Stalingrad and Normandy.

Nobody wants another war and that’s how Russia annexed CRIMEA and is actively trying to annex Donetsk too.

Do you know some of the things Iran has done so far? The oil tanker? Attack on Saudi’s main oil facility? Did America strike back? Killing an American is something else. It’s a red line

Whatever affects the US affects us! Only an adolescent doesn’t even know such, the AID, Grants, international airspace, oil supply, Forex market, internet access, business/finance etc

See just sit down abeg ...

@fortunate events at Normandy and Stalingrad; I will remind u that more than 3 mil people died on both sides of that war.
I don't know where u stand on this discuss but Trump's war efforts has to be curtailed if he decides to keep Congress (the other arm of government) at bay. The presidency doesn't have war powers, that power rests with Congress. Am not against the action taken but against proxy war Trump is fightit with his own people.

Zuorom:
The Democrats are very foolish, anyway, the foolish motion is not going anywhere, it will be dead on arrival in the Senate

Probably but I do hope not cos if the senate dies it down, it sets a bad precedence for the next presidency who may not have majority in the senate. Remember that when u take sides

MylezKayn:
FTC
Why is it peppering Nancy Pelosi that Trump killed a Terrorist who was responsible for the death of Americans such as Ambassador Stephens? Sometimes these Democrats act as though they are on the side of Terrorists rather than USA

Don't be naïve. War power has always being with Congress. What is peppering Pelosi as u say is that Trump purposeful kept them in the dark at all times with effrontery. So they now have to show him who is boss.

urblackpearl:
Hello Everyone,

I would like to join Dec AOR group.

Thanks

Do they now have Dec AOR group?

wasseynewest:
Hmmmm........Ordinarily I would have just let this lie but for my name that was mentioned. It's normal and acceptable if you say you don't learn anything from the group because not everyone on the group are dedicated. The good thing is, you still passed and it's our joy trust me. And with the over 500 IELTS success WE have recorded since I created the group, C'mmon! If to you, we're not impactful, I bet there are several that will say otherwise even on this our platform.

All the best boss. May all our dreams come true.

Just do eyes right and move on.

Mgbadike80:
nope, i want to apply there but while researching about the city, i came along a very disturbing news report about students housing shortage there, you can read about it here https://www.universityworldnews.com/post-mobile.php?story=20171012125813184

Yes the shortage is terrible. Many students have to live far and commute in and out. Prices of 1 bedroom apartments skyrocketed. Look for someone on ground to help u secure the apartment before u travel.

0yewale:
ON THE INITIAL QUOTED POST

Earning 450 Euro per month should be sufficient to keep you up (Housing - 250, Insurance - 110, Feeding - 90), if you are in normal German cities and not the advanced ones (Berlin, Hamburg,Frankfurt, Munich, Stuttgart etc.) and of course it also depends on preferences e.g someone that will eat out most times cannot live on 90 Euro for a month (anywhere I will say.)

There will be months where you will get those menial jobs and there will be month where you won't get any, it is not a given. Imagine, if you have gone three months without a job (menial or not) and the one that shows up next falls during your exam months .. will you take it and hustle it with exams? or you drop it and hope that you will get another or maybe go five months with a job? Regardless of whether the job is menial or something that has to do with your professional career. E.g I know those that cancelled semester(s) just because they want to go for internship/work, especially if it has to be in another city or state. Don't forget that getting a job is not a given (full time or not, menial or not), you have to seek and earn it (it is easier to say that I will only work full time during the semester break than anything .. ) This is the type of scenario that plays out in reality and why people often say combining study (relatively hard on its own) with work is very hard and as you can guess, people will make different decisions when they are face with similar scenario "as wetin dey pursue us different".

ON YOUR POST

There are jobs everywhere in Germany as much as there are no jobs everywhere... the questions are, are you qualified for the ones that are available (skills: language, previous working experience, ability.) in the area? .
On German women (not sure I have the range on this though.), they are not so different only that we have different culture which means how we generally view things. e.g relationships (work, friendship, romantic etc.) is not the same just like it is different for both Yoruba, Hausa and Igbo. Independent living is a way of life around here whereas in Nigeria it is more of a community living (where you know everyone on your street and they do same..lol.. here, you might not even KNOW people in your flat/building). If you are interested in crossing that bridge, you will need to unlearn, learn and relearn appropriately when the time comes.

In summary:

1. Regardless of whatever anybody will tell you here or somewhere else, how well you are going to enjoy Germany during or after your studies really depends mostly on how fast and well you are able to improve your GERMAN PROFICIENCY. Your previous working or living experience, your abilities and professional skills and also, whatever made you leave Nigeria.

2. The best thing (after God) that can happen to anybody moving to any of the cities directly from Nigeria, is to have and know people you can trust 99.8% on ground who can give and explain the realities to you before concluding on choosing any of the cities. The reason is that, the dynamics (work-type availability, visa renewal requirements, studying in the city, flexibility etc) is not entirely the same for each state/city even though there are similar education standards obtainable everywhere. Trust me, the experience of a Nigerian study in Berlin is not the same as that studying in Wernigorode or Kassel.

3. Whether you have/get No. 2. or not, you still need to adapt every info that you get (even the ones here) to your personal situation. E.g If you are married with kids in Nigeria and you are soaking in advise like that without proper evaluation from someone who is single and they are still sending money from Nigeria.. OYO oo because the fact is, your realities are not 100% the same. We all don't have the same experience, skills and abilities. This might be weird but as you come in, try as much as possible to get in touch with (if any) fellow Nigerians (that you can trust one another) and form a relationship with those that you are sure you have similar objectives or from similar "background". The Nigerian community is still relatively minute in Germany compare to other nationalities (my observation) and also varies from one city to another, and trying to figure out everything, getting all information, all by yourself might just literally kill you.

4. I know it is easy to cast the blame that Nigerians are terrible blah blah blah, poor at accommodating others, always hiding information, selfish etc.. when you sef land and you face the realities on ground ..you can choose to do as it pleases you.. we are all product of our experiences , I can only wish you nothing but that you only have good ones.

5. This might look funny, You cannot do every available menial jobs oo ... forget the 'pseudo' hustling spirit you think you have in Nigeria, menial job here is HARD (physically and mentally).. so please know your limit o, don't come and kill yourself in Deutschland and please again, don't think you can work hard like Germans or other Europeans.. just make sure you are always putting in your best (at least until you properly fit in) and again, PLEASE KNOW YOUR LIMIT.

6. Heheh .. you can't really save your BA o, like you want that 8 or 10k to still remain like that? ...(I am not saying it is impossible o but but... )

chai.. this is getting longer than I wanted ...
Regardless, Germany is a great land, the question is, are you ready for what is about to hit you ?

Bro, your advice was terrible in some places but seem fine in other places. Maybe it is time some Nigerian Germans open a thread about life in Germany as an immigrant. This could help deflect the disparity between studentship and those already living legally in Germany

Anyways there is no playbook to identify who is good or bad. Being good or bad is not gender or racial or ethnic related, anyone thinking so is just being plain rascist, ethnophobic or sexist.
There are just do's and don'ts, nothing more. Noone knows it all but we all have to learn to read our surroundings and make a clear decision how to handle each situation as it presents itself.
Cheers