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Politics › Re: Dele Momodu Shares Throwback Photos Of Late MKO Abiola by DrTee1(m): 8:08am On Apr 10, 2019
nevilbot:
Guy you get eyes. That's truly oba Adesanoye, my late king. Didn't even see him until you mentioned him
He was mine too. smiley
Politics › Re: Dele Momodu Shares Throwback Photos Of Late MKO Abiola by DrTee1(m): 8:07am On Apr 10, 2019
SunnyskyTG:
You are right Sir! The Nigerian youths are carried away with Fraud and sophisticated Prostitution.

I think we are basically involved in this negative acts due to ignorance, the Nigerian youths are basically into the dark acts due to the fact that we are unfamiliar with a different and positive method of making things happen.

We have majority of the youths in churches and mosques, we've done the things we were told to do by the so-called Religious Leaders, nothing seems to change, instead we were told to cling on hope while we donate the peanuts gathered through hardwork to the so-called Religious Leaders. The so-called Leaders are fending off our donations after using the Fear factor to pierce through our Psychology.

One thing I believe is that Change is Inevitable, once the people find a new Lightful way, they'll be ready to ply it.

Majority People have been calling for Revolution, I asked a few what kinda Revolution they are asking for, majority were emphasizing on Political Revolution. I think different though, our Political challenges is just a product of our poor foundation as a people. If we truly want to behold true Revolution in Nigeria and Africa, it must be Fundamental.

We have a great job standing before us to work.

May Heaven help Us. Amen.

Shalom.
You are a brilliant guy @Stillthebest. I just read every single comment you've ever with on NL - and putting that by your NL signature, I really think we agree on very many fronts.

I'll like us to talk more and get to relate more, especially on social development as it affects Nigeria. Do you use Twitter?
Politics › Re: Dele Momodu Shares Throwback Photos Of Late MKO Abiola by DrTee1(m): 7:26am On Apr 10, 2019
formular2002:
U dont need bashing. What u need is to know.
MKO Abiola never threw bible into the ocean. It was all propaganda. ITT was not his personal company, he was a staff that rose through the ranks and with a stroke of luck (helping the ITT corporation recover some huge debt from the FG) His personal company, RCN is still operating. The only issue he had was his political alignment with forces against the Late Awo towards the 1983 election. They both reconciled in 1989 where Aw christened him OMOBOWALE. That was what ushered him into SDP for the HOPE 93 Campaign.
MKO ABIOLA could not rule Nigeria partly because of his campaign for "Reparation" which did not go down well with world powers most especially, the USA and other well documented issues.

Had he been allowed to actualize his mandate, I believe our story in Nigeria may have been different
RIP ABIOLA
You are an elder, and a wise man.

Can we speak, please? I'll love to learn from you.
Politics › Re: Dele Momodu Shares Throwback Photos Of Late MKO Abiola by DrTee1(m): 7:09am On Apr 10, 2019
johnie:
That's Pa. Adekunle Ajasin.
Yes. I was indeed mistaken. Thank you.
Politics › Re: Dele Momodu Shares Throwback Photos Of Late MKO Abiola by DrTee1(m): 7:49pm On Apr 09, 2019
akinhanger:
UNFORGETTABLE... Chief Moshood Kashimawo Olawale Abiola...

https://all-gists..com/2019/04/Dele-Momodu-Shares-Epic-Throwback-Photos-Of-MKO-Abiola.html?m=1
That's Baba Alayande, if I'm not mistaken.
Then to Baba's right, behind is late Oba Festus Ibidapo Adedinsewo (FIA) Adesanoye, the late Osemawe of Ondo Kingdom with his wife, Olori Anike to his right in yellow headgear.

On Chief MKO's left is his late wife Kudirat.
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Reacts To Nigerians Importing Pizza From London With Their Phones by DrTee1(m): 12:40pm On Mar 29, 2019
new2012:
Of course you're something else, your sarcasm is below par, just concealed insults
Thank you.
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Reacts To Nigerians Importing Pizza From London With Their Phones by DrTee1(m): 8:53am On Mar 29, 2019
new2012:
At the end of the day, you're as guilty as the people you oppose and you're mental capacity is still below normal
Now I see this is something else.

Do have a pleasant day.
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Reacts To Nigerians Importing Pizza From London With Their Phones by DrTee1(m): 7:01am On Mar 29, 2019
new2012:
Like I said eventually you'll grow up, growing up is not just abt age.. A few posts ago, you were preaching morals-something you lacked.
You've got energy Meth, really, to dissipate. smiley

You can have the floor, senior citizen. cool
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Reacts To Nigerians Importing Pizza From London With Their Phones by DrTee1(m):
new2012:
Your sarcasm is low level... Calm down, you'll grow up in due time
Thank you Meth(uselah)! grin
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Reacts To Nigerians Importing Pizza From London With Their Phones by DrTee1(m): 4:01pm On Mar 28, 2019
new2012:
What has Christianity got to do with this? How can you accuse someone and then do exact same thing thereafter?

You expect some level of morals from someone yet you're worse?

Wtf @ the sycophancy!
I'm having a hard time finding your cogent point. If and when I do, I intend to address same very politely.

Warm regards.
Politics › Re: Reno Omokri Reacts To Nigerians Importing Pizza From London With Their Phones by DrTee1(m):
But what does Audu Ogbe's first degree have to do with this all, even if every other criticism is true?

There are too many people who read a different course as their first undergraduate degrees before taking a different career trajectory in life. Too many.


The current Minister for Trade and Investment, Dr. Okechukwu Enelamah earned a Bachelor of Medicine, Bachelor of Surgery (MBBS) from the University of Nigeria, Nsukka in 1985. He earned a Master's degree in Business Administration (MBA) from Harvard University in 1994 where he was a Baker Scholar and Loeb Fellow.[3] He is a member of ICAN (1992) and became a CFA in 1997.[4] He earned Dean’s List honours in his MBBS graduating class at the University of Nigeria (meaning he was one of the best graduating medical doctors in his undergraduate class), and was awarded national prizes in the Institute of Chartered Accountants of Nigeria (ICAN) examinations. (meaning he had one of the best qualifying results as a chartered accountant when he changed career).

Enelamah worked as an Audit Senior and Consultant with 1988 at Arthur Anderson (now KPMG Professional Services). He later worked in the New York and London offices of Goldman Sachs in 1993 before joining Zephyr Management as an investment manager where he rose to Principal in the Johannesburg office between 1995 and 1997.[5]

Enalamah founded African Capital Alliance (ACA), a private equity firm, in 1997 where he served as CEO until his appointment to the Industry, Trade, and Investment portfolio in November 2015 by President Muhammadu Buhari.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Okechukwu_Enelamah


Minister Audu Ogbe's work description is Politician and Farmer, according to Wiki. As of 2009, he was chairman and managing director, Efugo Farms, Makurdi.

Even if he lied about people importing pizza from England, what does that have to do with his undergraduate degree? Reno was once in government. If they had converted Nigeria to Rwanda, not even UAE or Malaysia, in effectively handling the politics and economy, his party and principal wouldn't have been voted out of office.

Finally, it may not be false that some Nigerians, the super noveau-riche, may indeed be importing pizza from England when they crave for it. It may be an infinitesimal fraction of our population, but it doesn't mean it cannot happen - for crying out loud.

Didn't a Nigerian artiste release a hit track about travelling to a European city just for a meal?

Sometimes, or often times, Politicians get abysmally low in going against themselves. Interestingly, they do all that to get the attention of the public. In their closets, they are all friendly and they respect themselves.

This is a Reno who parades himself as a Christian leader by the way. Where did he read that Jesus did this?
Celebrities › Re: Ifu Ennada admits she 'lied' about making N5m a day by DrTee1(m): 2:25pm On Mar 27, 2019
NickDamani:
Wow, you mean you wrote this all centred on her lies and for that she can't be trusted? That's really terrible.

Its obvious you are clue marketing but all the same I wish you all the best in your opinions.
I wish to remain "clue marketing", as long as it leaves me with my honour.

Advanced illogical impressionage = fraudster marketing.

If that's marketing to you, a true society deserves no part of that.
Politics › Re: Mueller Report: Atiku Congratulates President Donald Trump by DrTee1(m): 5:42pm On Mar 26, 2019
What!

This picture is Photoshop. Did Atiku photoshop himself shaking Trump at the Garden?

That would signal some desperate tactics!
Celebrities › Re: Ifu Ennada admits she 'lied' about making N5m a day by DrTee1(m):
NickDamani:
You are speaking your own opinion which is very nice and there is freedom for that. There is nothing deceitful about it because she didn't stand by the statement. She came out openly to say its not true but just her future projection. Whether deceit or not, she has a product to sell. If you choose not to buy her product because of the statement, you are just going to be minus one from the millions that will end up using her products. We Nigerians like taking very normal stuffs too seriously and many people need to change that sort of mentally. They only sew the picture of something from one angle and never bother to see it from different other angles which is very very bad.
Thank you.

Ifu didn't stand by what? She didn't assert what? The lady who kept repeating "I'm not lying to you" before the cameras!

Her Instagram comment is damage control. Live before the cameras, she lied and even after Ebuka and everyone chuckled, she asserted her falsehood. It was aired only yesterday.

For her to put up an Instagram post today, long after she told the lie. as the programme is pretty-recorded, and the plain face with which she eviscerated those lies (for those who watched it) means she is an artful con star - and shouldn't be trusted.

The key to business, add the success of same, is Trust. Anything divergent from that is akin to fraud: intellectual or actual.

Indeed, if 'millions' were buying the product, she wouldn't have had to lie. That many do not know whatever product it is at all is the reason the lie was identified in the first place.

The first thing children should learn is honesty. The childhood rhyme is:

Wherever you go
Wherever you be
Do not say YES
When you mean
To say NO

In Proverbs 14:34, we read, “Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people".


I am one person.
Ifu is one person.
You are one person.

None of us has two heads.

We are all regular people, ordinary single identities before our Creator, who would come in the fullness of time to review our lives.


https://www.instagram.com/p/BvclAIoAqn-/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=7kb3fxbcb2nu
Celebrities › Re: Ifu Ennada admits she 'lied' about making N5m a day by DrTee1(m): 11:31am On Mar 26, 2019
NickDamani:
In my field we don't call that a lie, but a power shooting marketing strategy. The statement brought a whole lot of attention. Then she used the attention gotten from the statement to make more people know about her products.

Right here in South Africa, a company I market for has just asked me to reach out to her because they are now interested in her products.

Sometimes it takes an unbelievable statement or action to get you the right customers for your products.

For her now we can nickname her the 5million daily haircare products.
Are you sure you are not Ifu Enada posting under NL anonymity?

Come, have you heard the Yoruba adage "Ilé tí a bá fitó mo, ìrì ni ó wo" ?

In simple English, it means, "everything built on deceit, no matter how tall, would easily collapse."

Ifu lied - and it is shameful. It would take her nowhere far.

Ever heard of Captain Strasser of Sierra Leone? Or any perenially successful deceptionist? It always come crashing.

So it doesn't matter if the interest is from Mars and Venus, and not simply South Africa, that lie has robbed her of an essential virtue she needs in business: Trust.
Science/Technology › Re: Adebayo Alonge Wins DeepTech Global Challenge, Cries by DrTee1(m): 4:25pm On Mar 20, 2019
Congratulations Bayo.

Keep making us very proud as Nigerians.

We've got to continue to show the world that is some honour and quality in the Nigerian DNA, if we are allowed to exhibit it in a well planned and organized society.
Health › Re: Woman Mocked For Being "Pregnant" Over 5 Years Undergoes Surgery. Graphic Photos by DrTee1(m): 7:38pm On Mar 07, 2019
Eberex:
Yeah i have. My younger sis had it, but it didn't stop her from giving birth to two issues now. I know the size varies which is why surgery come in.

I really feel for them.
The feedback information is welcome. Often times, people with fibroids can carry pregnancies which co-exist with the benign tumour that fibroids are, to term. It usually isn't a significant risk factor to getting pregnant.

It often depends, like you quite rightly posited, on the size, number, location in the uterus, and other factors, really


However, your NL ID reads that you are male, or is it my eyes?
Health › Re: Woman Mocked For Being "Pregnant" Over 5 Years Undergoes Surgery. Graphic Photos by DrTee1(m):
Eberex:
But why is fibroids common today? In the days back it was women who were in their menopause stage that usually have it. See young ladies these days having it.

What is wrong?
It has always been common, especially in females who are of reproductive age and not 'exercising' the uterus by carrying pregnancy. So to answer your question, yes, women delay childbearing these days, for many social reasons.

Meanwhile, the female reproductive tract 'expects' itself to be 'serviced' from as early as age 18! In fact, it is held by a school of thought that the best age range to bear children is between ages 18 & 22!


It thus goes on to explain that many older women you see on our streets with big (distended) abdomens may actually be carrying asymptomatic fibroids - and not only, but coexisting with, fatty tissue in the abdominal region.

As much as 50-70% of black females would have fibrotic tissue in their uterus at some point in their lifetime anyway. The difference is usually the size as well as the presence or absence of symptoms.


Now, that's a simple way to put it.

You may want to google Epidemiology of Uterine Fibroids', or simply 'Uterine Fibroids' - and you'll find more answers.
Health › Re: Woman Mocked For Being "Pregnant" Over 5 Years Undergoes Surgery. Graphic Photos by DrTee1(m): 7:04pm On Mar 07, 2019
PrettyCrystal:
A 32-year-old woman living in the suburb of Mushin in Lagos state, has narrated how her life was a living hell due to a medical condition.

According to the woman, her big stomach plagued her for over 5 years, without knowing she had fibroid.

She revealed that everyone in her area calls her 'Iya Ibeji no boy friend' (a woman pregnant with twins) and she thought there was a spiritual problem in their family due to the fact that her elder sister had the same fibroid.

The woman underwent surgery to correct the medical condition as the massive fibroid was removed.

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/03/massive-fibroid-removed-from-lagos-based-woman-after-5-years.html
Who notices that it is the same hospital where the jaw mass removal that was also on the Nairaland Front Page yesterday?

Same picture watermark, same theatre walls.

This is a regular occurrence in our hospitals, really. Sometimes, a doctor or surgical team do as much as 4 of these procedures during a working day i.e under 8-12 hours, with barely any breaks in-between.
Health › Re: 'Now I Can Expose My Face'; Lady Says After Removal Of Head Tumour. Graphic Pics by DrTee1(m): 5:03pm On Mar 06, 2019
ChangeIsCostant:
A woman is overwhelmed with joy after undergoing a surgery to remove a tumor in her head which she had been carrying for eight years now.

According to the woman, the growth made her feel bad with low esteem as she tried to cover it up with different hairstyles.

Below is what the excited woman said after the successful surgery at Owo in Ondo state.

This is the best day of my life. I have carried this tumour in my head for about 8 years. It makes me feel bad with very low self esteem. All my hairstyles are made to cover this shame. I have been to plenty hospitals to no avail.

When I head there was free surgery coming to Owo I told myself my solution has come that whatever it takes I will register. I came in and I was thinking I was going to even pay for registration then alas!!! every thing was free. From my test to my surgery then my take home drugs.

Now I have a new face. I can expose my face and smile better.


See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/03/woman-undergoes-surgery-to-remove-tumour-in-her-head.html
That's Rev. Dr Martina Ariyo of St. Louis Hospital, Owo , Ondo State - in the picture.

I can't identify the surgeon however.

These are some of the very many needs for medical services that Nigerian practitioners handle - and they are all emigrating now...

It is well.
Family › Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by DrTee1(m):
goldenboyofpsy:
I couldn't resist your depth of insight and wisdom. please, I will like to discuss personal issues with you but I opened this account with my previous e-mail. How can I reach you?
I wish I could share my email address or phone number, but such things are quite risky on NL.
Family › Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by DrTee1(m): 2:02pm On Feb 26, 2019
Daeylar:
Nah I consider that sexism tongue grin just kidding



Lool, it's all right.



But you didn't state that. sad

It was general, why did you now see the need to state that men are marrying semi professional harlots? Especially since you recognise that male semi professional harlots are marrying female semi professional harlots?

Cheers cheesy
I must have written several dozen sentences attending to both genders. I possibly didn't wrote the exact sentence you wanted to read but that's not taking anything away from my intention or the message of my contributions directed towards both genders.

wink
Family › Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by DrTee1(m): 1:51pm On Feb 26, 2019
Capensis:
The expectation that there are people that are naturally good forever is the illusion that we live in. It is expected that you will find perfect fit that you will be with, for better or for worse. That is not true. You must engineer your environment and relationships to fall in line with how you want your home to be. The music, the ambiens, the arrangement of furnitures everything. I know these to be true and it is what makes a man successful cos how you do one thing is how you do everything.

You must understand that epigenetically, your role-playing and acting will at the long run become an active character for anyone who is ready to alter his lifestyle to establish the fantasies as reality. So in essence, my recommendations work perfectly in the Otedolas, Adenugas and Dangotes world, because time is planned at sigma level. Besides, no one has more time than billions who have structured calenders to accommodate everything.

It might interest you to note that these gentlemen you mentioned do much more than what I explained, and it is the secret to success. Nothing as great as peace at home. When it comes to the massage thing, it is a mandatory part of every billionaire's life. They give massages, they get massages and have an in-house spa with attendant of they desire, but I am saying massage is a daily part of a functional home and I am saying that because I am 100% sure. Take a peek into the life of Tony Elumelu and the rest of the high-flyers that you know, and you will signatures of what I am telling you here. I do not say this as fantasy but because I know it to be true among the upper-class.
OK. I've learnt one new thing today: cool . A massage room is a necessity in my project.

By the way, Mrs loves a massage - and I suck at it so badly, not because I'm not medically inclined to understand it, but because we are both tired after the day's work and night bath for me to resume that responsibility before finally sleeping! I guess she'll say a quick prayer for you if she ever gets to see this - the man who convinced Baba to consider massaging a priority. grin

That said, there are good people in this world. People who are responsibly oriented in thoughts and actions at all times. There are people who are Christians and Muslims (I live by the Christian Faith by the way) or even traditional religious people - who live morally upright lives. Yes. It may be rare, but I've seen it. I also try to live the life.

In the western world, it is more common than it is in Black Africa. Ironically, there is less focus on religiosity in the developed world as it is in the significantly-corrupt Black Africa.
Family › Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by DrTee1(m): 1:41pm On Feb 26, 2019
Daeylar:
DrTee1

You can quote me I don't bite. grin

I'm still modifying my post. Will add more examples as I see and will add the monikers of everyone who made those posts.

However you did say men are marrying semi professional harlots,

Unless the men marrying them are virgins. Then these men are also semi professional harlots.

Trying to shame women while acting like men are angels that fell from the sky is what I refer to as misogyny
grin

I hope you don't consider it misogyny that I didn't quote you. cheesy

I couldn't picture and spell your moniker at the instant I was typing that.

Yo are right however. Men have their own share of the immorality before marriage blame and I made no attempt to deny that in my comments.

It was quite general, for both genders.

Cheers dear.
Family › Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by DrTee1(m): 1:12pm On Feb 26, 2019
Capensis:
Thank you DrTee1,

Marriage is a real job. I mean it as it sounds. A real career, the longest carrier we might ever have. Even after retirement, we are in this marriage career if we ever want to be happy.

Just as in any career, it requires specialized skill-sets designed for professionalism and mastering.

We must identify the fault systems because there is always a fault system in any system processes. We must accept that things will naturally go bad, and MUST go bad except we identify the fault systems and engineer processes to fix them and do actually troubleshoot for prospective fault systems and ensure we protect the system with serious firewalls and ensure that it dont go bad.

Marriages are going bad, because partners have introduce ego into the equation. Husband is a husbandry job. We must understand that we are shepherds, and must follow even the last calf into the ditch and bring it out. That is how to be the best master - a wise Master.

How we do one thing, is how we do everything. Because the Universe is an interconnected computing system. If this man was a good husband at home, there is no way he would have lost his job. It is the same strategy that he applied at home that he applied at work. And it is called being a snowflake.

HUmans of Nigeria should erase the erroneous impression that they deserve something. The fact that you married the woman does not mean you deserve the pusssy. That is what our tradition informed us, but it was never true, it is just that they had control over women and were enslaving our grandmothers. I personally hate slavery, so even my house-helps are treated with utmost respect. So, I ensure that my home systems are managed.

Money itself is the root of happiness, but it does buy somethings that you make you happy, yet there is a way to make a woman very happy even without money, and that has a lot to do with mind control using legitimate tools.

Learn to dominate your women with excellent strategic romances, sex, chores, lies, truth, science and even fiction.

Ensure that you win. If not, men like me will take your wives and there is nothing you can fucccking do. Trust me, when I say that. grin
Thank you, Sir.

Kindly permit me to make a few clarifications.

I think that your comments above, which I captioned as some strategic role-playing in a bad marriage are best only for a bad marriage and only for a short period. Indeed, they aren't sustainable on a long term basis. No man can pretend for too long. No human being, especially in marriage, can pretend for too long. Pretence and such deceitful existence are only possible in flings or short-term relationships. In that case, playboys and playgirls would excel.

Also, I personally think that deceit, lies and such falsehood, while they may be fanciful and attractive, are usually unsustainable. To cover one lie, a man or woman needs another 7 lies and on and on. All structures built on foundations of deceit and slothfulness are but friable and cannot genuinely stand the test of time. the test of time in this OP's case is about 5 - 8 years of marriage, that's inferring or assuming that his last child is 2-3 years and he had been coping fairly nicely in marriage until then. so when you say that you could/would take all the women/wives of men who do not follow certain life rules that you have posited, I think you may indeed achieve all that - but for a short period of time.


Eventually, the hen would come to roost and you would find all your strategy, where it involves fiction, lies, deceit and make-belief, to be castles built on sand. The scales would fall off the eyes of the woman eventually and she would either port or begin to misbehave - or the man would dump her before the scales finally fall - thus completing a circle and bringing everything back to square 1.

In essence, I think that while I appreciate all that you wrote in your initial comment which I quoted, I think they are are possibly short term measures for anyone who has lost his job and found himself in a loveless marriage. It wouldn't work for, say Femi Otedola or Akinwunmi Ambode, for example. Where would you expect a successful business tycoon who has a very dutiful and supportive wife to expect her husband to massage her at home on a 300k massage table every day? Or to have sex and tell sweet eyeball-to-eyeball stories thereafter on daily basis?

So in essence, I encourage everyone to be honest and live by upright moral values (at all times) to himself or herself. Deceit/fiction/falsehood might 'win' for a short period, but at the end, 'na' always "God (go) win." Yoruba people say " Ti iro ba sa lo fun ogun odun, ojo kan soso looto yoo ba." When literally translated, that means "Even if falsehood reigns for 20 years, it would take only a day for the lie to be busted and the truth would be revealed."

Like attracts like. For singles out there, if you are good and conduct yourself in a responsible and morally upright manner in your doings, you are unlikely to marry a wolf-like character - except you didn't do your due diligence in dating, or you allowed fanciful things or some blind/illogical spirituality or some inordinate counsel make lifetime decisions of marriage for you. Let each man or woman use his or her brain. Marriage is some real deal and each person would be in it[b] alone[/b] with his/her spouse.

Anything false/untrue/ingenuine/counterfeit, whether in character or action, would never stand the test of time - and it is always important that people planning to go into successful marriages know this. Don't ever go out of your way to impress a lady/man. Be yourself. For every woman, there is a man - and vice-versa. Who sang that song? Adekunle Gold "There is a woman for every man..." grin

P.S:

For the good lady who picked out only one line of the several lines I wrote to label misogyny, I leave that to posterity to judge. If anything at all, I fully believe in gender equality and affirm that men and women, husband as well as wives, are EXACTLY equal before the law - and the homefront and the general society should be run with that knowledge at the back of everyone's minds. As many rights and privileges as a woman has directly or indirectly, a man should be allowed to enjoy - and women with mental and/or operational capacity should never be denied any placement/opportunity solely on the basis of their distinct gender - and vice-versa.
Family › Re: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by DrTee1(m):
Capensis:
Will you pay attention and stop this victim mentality. It is either you will take advise, since you brought this matter to the court of public opinion, or you will narrate your experience, believe your wife is the worst woman and conclude that you are leaving a marriage. You are sounding emotional and your feedback system has totally clouded your judgment.

Pay attention:
Being a husband is a full-time job. Just like any job, it comes with serious responsibilities and repercussions if you fail to understand how the game is played.

1. It is your responsibility to get the money, pay the rent, pay kids school fees. You are the chief medical officer of your home, so everyone's health including your wife's and kids', are under your care.

2. You are the chief security officer of your home, you must check that all doors are locked at night and ensure the safety of everyone in the family.

3. You are the chief romance officer, you must master how to play women with sweet words, give her massage every evening, and make sweet love to her during the massage sessions, and I mean this. Get a massage table, it goes for about 180K to 300K for a good one. If you cant afford that, then buy massage mat. Prepare the oil and get some candles.

4. You must join her in the kitchen, even if there is a maid to do the chores and help her out, you must learn this. Wash those plates sometimes.

5. You must lie down with that woman on bed after sex, hold her face, and tell her truths and lies of how you love her. Then if you have nothing more to day, do some gossiping with her. Stroke her nicely and tell her how hard you are working to ensure your family is financial stable for the next 100 years.

6. You must stop thinking like your ancestors. Define your own path and ignore customary and traditional ways of running your home. Times have changed. Why wont you fetch water and wash your own hand. Seems she is the one doing all the kitchen work and you are the African man waiting to be served. It is not mandatory, besides do you know if her mother used to serve her father that way? It might be she got a different kind of training.

7. Do not ever think you have done enough, cos you havent done jack. If you feel that your wife is cheating, then rent a place somewhere else and move towards a different location. It does not matter if you own the house you are living now. Go and rent someplace nice for a year and move there and change your children's school so as to forget the shame and embarrassment your quarrel may have caused. If it is your house, you can return back after a year.

8. Always remember that most women are like babies. You must master how to lie to them if you know that truth will hurt. Learn all those skills from yahoo boys how they control white women and use it for your marriage. If you do it right, your wife might be giving your pocket money sometimes and you all will fall in love again.

You think your wife is bad? You have no idea. No one will tell you what is going on in their homes.

Master how to manipulate women, and you will control them like a intimacy gadget.
Dear Capensis,

First, i must thank you for taking time out to write out such bold thoughts of yours on a forum like Nairaland. It is impressive to read people who are knowledgeable and can put it out in nice language writing freely and for no financial returns. It isn't very common in Nigeria, as against what readily obtains in Reddit and Quora which are quite Western.

That said, I wouldn't join the bandwagon of those castigating you. Indeed, my opening message of thanks is as sincere as it comes. I must tell you that I have saved your post as "Tips to surviving a bad marriage" on my computer hard drive. OP has made the cardinal mistake by marrying a bad girlfriend. OP possibly can not/does not/is advised against divorce as an option. SO what you have written for him are the effective radical changes and roleplay that he could consider in order to survive and live in an otherwise distressing situation he has found himself - and I fully agree with you if this is his situation.

The first rule before going into marriage is DO NOT MARRY A WOMAN FOR ANY REASON IF YOU ARE NOT ABSOLUTELY AND OVERWHELMINGLY SURE you can live with her strengths and weaknesses, attitudes and proclivities for the rest of your life. Never marry a woman because your family or a Pastor said/advised (these 'Men of God' are often times modern day dibias/babalawos) or you feel indebted or obliged or feel the society expects you to. When the shit hits the fan, you would be all on your freaking own!

But the OP has gone past that stage already now, and the preceding paragraph is for singles. For a man with three kids, he now must take a very different and careful course, and that is why your advice may be the best thing from the textbook of survival in a bad marriage. It involves a lot of role-playing, bending over backwards and ego-ripping, but it is possibly important to take one (or many) for the family, at least for the children. OP must now take the role of the wife and let the domineering woman take the role she wants/seems to prefer. It is a lot worse that he has lost his job currently.

Even the best of wives might occasionally misbehave when dealing with a man who doesn't bring anything significant to the family's table. Women are weaker vessels that often do not cope well in the shoes of men.

That's why the single men out there today must be very careful. If you want a good wife, you must prepare yourself too as a good bachelor. There are no good wives in those women you go to clubs and drinks, smoke and dance seductively with. You cannot catch a dolphin in a river, no. They are in the seas. It is the same way you cannot expect to meet the best of women at beer-parlours or clubs. What you attract is what you get.

I have not written about Churches or Mosques in choosing a life-partner. All good and bad people go to Church on Sundays, maybe mosques on Fridays too. Attending Church on Sunday for most people is a part of their weekend ''owambes'' that begins with attending a Christian wakekeeping on Thursday, a burial ceremony owambe on Friday afternoon and the club at night, A wedding "owambe" on Saturday afternoon and Church "owanbe" on Sunday mornings before resuming work again on Monday morning. In today's world, values or virtue are hardly/rarely seen or perceived in the larger percentage of the church-thronging people around us - and they are in their millions!

Women today are ''slaying'' proudly, whatever that means. Men are marrying semi-professional harlots[b][/b] from apps like Instagram et al. Men should ask themselves within the first month of meeting a lady if she ticks their boxes for a wife and mother of kids. Once that fails, then the marriage is condemned to be problematic - and these roleplaying changes may be necessary for survival in such situation as that which the OP has found himself until he gets a job and can command finances again.

As always, women and money are usually friends. You'll rarely hear of the wives of rich African men threatening to divorce their husbands anyway. grin

Regards.
Celebrities › Re: Michael Jackson Wore Condoms To Prevent Him From Wetting The Bed – Doctor by DrTee1(m): 3:28pm On Feb 21, 2019
MissRaine69:
Let me explain
There are different types of catheters . Sheath catheters ( condom catheters) are used as a short term solution especially during and after surgery. Now MJ would not be able to wake up to use the toilet like you and I would do at night because he was under general anaesthetics. He was knocked out cold by that mofo!
Thank you for providing enlightenment on this dear.

Dear all (who might not understand),

It is a sheath catheter, otherwise called "condom catheter." It is quite different from the barrier device employed before sexual activity bearing a notably similar name but without the word 'catheter'.

This article provides better explanation:
http://www.healthtalk.org/peoples-experiences/long-term-conditions/living-urinary-catheter/condom-catheters

It is often employed for people with urinary incontinence and it is usually safer than the intra-urethral alternative as it is non-invasive. That's where it derives its "condom" sobriquet from - for its similarity.

Kind regards.
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by DrTee1(m): 2:18pm On Feb 14, 2019
deepwater:
This was where Drtee1 problem started from. And i am certain this formula will #BringBackOur error.

You need to know how to apply the Time T



Oga calm down, nobody is querying your intellectual capacity. What is happening to you is that you refused to read this thread from the beginning, the answer as been issued long before now. You are just paying the price as the man of the moment. By the way Happy Val!
I simply didn't read the thread from page 1. Indeed, very few people could have done that - to read 300 pages before getting information that I directly asked from one kind person on the thread.

Thanks dear. Happy Valentine too.
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by DrTee1(m): 2:14pm On Feb 14, 2019
Agbaletu:
Apply this formula:


I = PRT/100

Where;
I = Interest (Upfront interest)
P = Principal (The amount you are investing)
R = Discount Rate (%)
T = Time (Tenor)
Thank you very much!
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by DrTee1(m): 12:26pm On Feb 14, 2019
MCeemajesty:
Let us be gentle on DrTee1, he already claimed naivety in the introductory part of his message. I believe he now has a better understanding of per annum(p.a) interest rates.
Thank you.

I just got to my Pc to see 7 mentions - and with so many negative comments - or were they cyber-teasing?

It was untoward cyber behaviour from those who did that, really - as it was an innocuous question that was possibly explained better in my last comment.

As to querying intellectual capacity because a simple question was asked, for those who did, it indeed tells a lot about such individuals.
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by DrTee1(m): 12:22pm On Feb 14, 2019
Agbaletu:
It does not work like that my brother. If it were to be so, I won't be locking over 20m for 364 days. The 10% is for one year and not just for 91 days.
Thank you Agba.

You are truly agba[i] jare[/i]

So kindly explain the 91 days thing to me. My thought was that it paid a lower interest rate because the TBill investment was locked down for only 91 days...

S I reasoned it out in a Compound interest thing with the impression that once that matured and was returned/released, it could be put in all over again..
Investment › Re: Treasury Bills In Nigeria by DrTee1(m): 10:32am On Feb 14, 2019
Agbaletu:
Got 14.25% from Zenith Bank as usual for 364 days tenor.
Dear Agbaletu,

I'm quite naive with this, but kindly clarify my thoughts.

I'm wondering, why put your money away for 1 year (364 days ) for 14.5% interest when you can put the same amount in the same investment (Treasury Bills( for 91 days with 10% interest that can be immediately re-ploughed in for another 10% (interest + capital) this giving a larger compound overall interest when that is done four times (91 * 4) rather than simply 364?

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