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Useless GOAT. Cannot fight real professional boxers in the ring anymore. Declared bankruptcy. But can punch a hapless drunk in a plane! Heck! The price of popularity is that all manners of people would try to reach you. Responsibility should ensure that a gentleman social figure should be able to embrace it all - when positive and if negative - with candour and grace. |
Just WOW! Like WOW!! WTF MAN!!! ![]() |
Besides direct primaries, there is also the contentious issue of electronic transmission of results, which is also receiving a lot of objection in several quarters. They claim that about 300 LGAs have no facilities to transport results electronically. I don't think that assertion is either true or insurmountable. I hope the President does sign these amendments however, with the option of direct or indirect primaries as the parties may deem fit per unit time. |
Besides direct primaries, there is also the contentious issue of electronic transmission of results, which is also receiving a lot of objection in several quarters. They claim that about 300 LGAs have no facilities to transport results electronically. I don't think that assertion is either true or insurmountable. I hope the President does sign these amendments however, with the option of direct and indirect primaries as the parties may deem fit. |
Jazzman01:Unfortunately. 11 pages of text, only one person mentioned the most basic anatomical reason that is still persistent till date. In fact, most/many girl children who have had some form of genital mutilation can indeed keep the vows of chastity before and AFTER marriage quite better... The consequences are however some of what is being discussed. It isn't the only reason, but it is certainly one of the reasons. |
The words 'I am sorry', especially when deployed genuinely by the person saying it - and for a first time mistake/error. |
airexx:Co-ask. Education is not supposed to be 'hard'. The study guides are usually in textbooks. Classroom notes are 'texts' handwritten in 'books' by students anyway. |
onegig:Calm down. Your blood is 'hot'. I am not your problem. Go face it with your aggression and wahala. At least I do not sell electrical appliances like you, so I know about the pain of labour, menstruation and other thresholds of pain. This conversation isn't about labour, neither does it suggest that labour pains are negligible. Your rage is about my assertion that the pain associated with labour is not something that the men folk would be publicly singing everyday if men were to experience that physiological occurrence. You do not like that, your problem, not mine. Your woman, or the women in your family possibly smack their men when they do not like their perspective to discussions, so I can understand that your misplaced gender identity may come from a place of chronic abuse of some sort. |
onegig:Oh! This one is so pained! Phew. No be me do you o. I don't even know of your challenges. Lol. Your identity reads 'male' but there you are writing about trying menstrual pain, which you have never experienced if you are male - except of course, if you are a female FRAUDSTER hiding behind a male identity. I have handled deliveries of hundreds of women in Northern Nigeria really - if that is relevant to this conversation. The threshold of menstrual pain or that associated with uterine contractions in labour is actually calculable - so don't bring your misdirected emotions to it, and it isn't my job to teach you what you do not know and frothing at the gills over. In all, I hope you find peace. You need it. |
CorperKola:Off your mic. You are writing facts too boldly. You'll be accused of being emotional and sentimental by the religious bandwagon. But yes, your thoughts align with mine. Mayflowa:Another red flag from the 31 minute interview. You are also right. The man put on a religious garb but it was easy to see through the fact that he had being bribing his way from constructions in England. Why is he the only one where approvals have mistakes on number of floors - in England, America, South Africa? Only him? A man with only a HND in Banking & Finance saying Nigerian building consultants only know theory? So when they requested for a 1000kva generator, he installed 800kva and even sold it to replace with 500kva. I see a man given to cutting corners. CorperKola:Come receive a hug Corper! |
gorgeousnogo:Dear Nogo, Good evening. Let me try to attend to your posers line by line: 1. The husband and wife virtually never get home at the same time. The average man works HARDER than his Mrs/spouse to feed his wife, his children, his extended family, his wife's extended family plus run the home to meet the woman's social and societal expectations. Recall that women generally marry UP the social ladder. 2. The 'men can go straight to bed' is all but overaching fallacy. Very few men can go straight to bed, or simply come home to bath and watch TV. There are very many house chores that married men can/often help their wives with. I sweep, clean, bathed the neonate, iron clothes, wash the vehicles, fixed or arrange all gadgets and installations, maintain same etc. 3. When I was 3, my mum never had to sleep in my room, really. My brother was freshly born at that time. By the time he was three, neither me nor him slept in our parents' rooms, of course, except we were ill or something. When mothers however, as this entire conversation is about anyway, shift marital and family attention to the children as priority, all these become a difficult thing and she'll find excuses to overpamper the children with time and attention. My parents simply dismissed us to our bedroom after night prayer back in our day. Nobody cried for attention and everyone slept, whether there was NEPA and fan or no NEPA and the kerosene lantern was at its lowest ebb. So what's new? 4. Get up early and cook:. Okay. Is Oga lying in bed when she gets up early? Oga is also often awake to assist with bathing the kids, dressing them and all - or out of home early to hustle traffic/work. Lagos is bustling by 4.30am every day and there are more men on the streets by those early hours of the day than women, innit? You wouldn't hear/read men complain about waking early anyway or helping with kids. Only husbands like Ned Nwoko, far older than their wives and with a relatively large harem may not help with child(ren) welfare at that age 1-5. 5. Let's talk about the school runs. Who is the school bus driver or keke driver? A man: someone's father from another family and another woman's husband. That's if the biological father isn't dropping the children with his vehicle. My point: it is an exclusive women preserve. What is in washing dishes? Any gender can quite rightly do that, but where the man pays for everything at home, or the lion share in most Nigerian homes, you do not expect him to contribute to house chores as much as his wife. He works hard and often funds the home heavily in lieu of this 50% domestic chores expectations. In the West where both spouses share finances equally, chores are similarly shared equally without fuss. Washing machine are in most homes, so let's not go into clothes washing chore as some female bugging. I think I may have addressed every item you raised. Let me now shock you: I know married women with no kids at all, with their own cars and careers who still do not 'serve' regular sex in marriage. They watch TV, internet and want to sleep after 'a hard career-day'. What excuse would you quite formulate for that? Remember that the entire article is about NO MARRIED MAN, not one, saying that his wife's libido is more than his. Not one. Not even a 60 year old man where all the kids are out of home, at least the age 1-5 child excuse wouldn't be there... Na scam. I may be wrong, but I think there is almost NOTHING women do that men cannot and have not accomplished in history without much fuss, except what they are biologically incapable of doing e.g carrying pregnancy naturally. Women should reflect on these things. It is the reason why there would always be side chics till the end of the world in most places. Women often change priorities in marriage and leave the man short-changed. P.S: About breastfeeding babies at night being work: Hello? I mean let me break that down: work is force multiplied by distance. Force is mass multiplied by acceleration due to gravity. So the person on top during the said sex works hard and that can quite be calculated is weight multiplied by distance (or length of his phallus) multiplied by acceleration due to gravity multiplied by each stroke required to reach ejaculation multiplied by number of ejaculations. This can be converted to values in Newton, Calories, Joules or kilojoules - to determine the amount of work done or energy dissipated. Yet, you'll possibly never hear or read men complain. Women make it look like the men enjoy the sex more. Another one: when the cotton bud goes into the ear, where is the enjoyment? The bud or the ear canal? Scientifically, the vagina has relatively more nerve endings to transmit pain or pleasure than the penis. That tells you who possibly enjoys more. The force of the person doing the thrusting, which I have demonstrated earlier, is largely borne by surface on which the person receiving the thrusting is lying on, which is then transmitted to the floor. Meanwhile, don't women generally prefer more muscular and taller men for that purpose? New fathers hardly get good sleep. I remember going to work every day with bloodshot eyes when my baby arrived years ago because the little one woke us up every other hour for attention and breast milk. It didn't matter who did the breastfeeding. Sleep was distorted for both of us - and the woman is usually on maternity leave in the first three months anyway. As of then, paternity leave didn't exist in Nigeria. I do not think it has been implemented yet - not as of 6 weeks ago at least. |
NoToPile:In court, you'll be a badass lawyer! You are hinging on technicalities: the 1% and making a huge case out of it.As much as a man wants to sleep at home, he actually doesn't. I wrote all that in my last paragraph. The woman usually makes up for the less work in maintaining the family by providing the funds in catering for the children and kitchen. Men happily switch those roles in developed countries, and high brow Lagos anyway. There are few men who do nothing at home, if any. Usually, with grown kids and nannies, there's little work on the home front for the woman's exclusive attention in today's world especially with washing machines in every home and the average Lagos family buying food on the streets rather than cooking in their small houses. ![]() There's nothing special about working class couples splitting the bills. More often than not, it is split according to earnings - and most women marry upwards, to men who earn more than them anyway. |
NoToPile:First, not everyone is in Lagos. Lagosians tend to think their small landmass is all of Nigeria. Lol. Secondly, you seemed to skip the crux of my final paragraph analysis and dwelt on the outlier. Indeed, the average man works twice as hard as the average woman in today's Nigeria. Underline average: 1 in 2. 5 in 10. 100 in 200. The hardest jobs are male dominated, isn't it? Someone recently joked that beauty products have women headlining their advertorials while men are the poster boys for analgesics. The joke tells a deep message. A man works till he enters the house. At home, he wants to bath and sleep. The average working man - you are right - wouldn't necessarily be able to have sex every day. Primarily, as I wrote earlier, good women should be sexually compatible with their husbands and should before then, have express channels of verbal and non-verbal communication to know when the man wants to be served the midnight dish and when they want it from their men. There is no excuse about a woman working at home. Men maintain the houses anyway: electricals, wiring, cars, repairs, gadgets, lifting heavy objects, installations etc in the house is often left for the male gender who often doesn't complain. Let's not talk about buildings and house rent. My point is that nobody does it more. So there are no excuses for the scam sex that dries off after marriage by many of female gender in our society. |
oyatz:I wouldn't think this is entirely true. I have read a research work conducted by a Sociology and Demography lecturer as a part of her PhD project where cultural expectations of older and married women as pertaining to sex across different cultures in Africa and Asia was reviewed. Effectively, there were two findings: those that align with your postulation and also encouraged polygamy, being that the men married younger women and left the older women to care for the family and children - and the other finding where women were allowed to pursue their sexual needs inside and sometimes outside of the marriage (especially when married to older men or men with many wives who did not touch them). If necessary, I could search for and quote the said research project. Regardless, it is the 21st century where men and women are equally educated and given equal rights as well as freedom of expression. Women are expected to marry their best male friends - ordinarily - with whom they feel at greatest peace and communication with. So this excuse would really not arise, if that is so. |
oyatz:I think this is fair. I like this robust response. Now, it is a woman's personal fault if she marries a man who does not work at least AS HARD AS she does. When that is not the issue, then it is assumed that the man works just as hard from morning till night, as the woman. What many women do need to understand is that sex is an antidepressant and a natural relaxant for a man. It has little to do with whatever exists in pornography. At the end of it anyway, pornography is filming sexual acts between men and women in many instances. Regardless of how hard the average man works, he is usually available to have at least one round of intercourse on the average day. It helps to relax and sleep and wake up with a clear, balanced mind ahead of the next day's work. Get it, the way to a good marriage is said to be a full stomach and an empty scrotum. A sexually starved or frustrated man is scientifically proven to have higher than average levels of testosterone and androgenic hormones. This drives their alpha masculinity and sees them aggressive. The one who enjoys regular normal sex, whether from his wife or side chics is likely to have low or normal levels of testosterone and similar androgens running wild in the bloodstream. In many marriages, women even use sex as a weapon of family negotiations. This repulses many men and opens the door wide open to extra marital affairs. When women learn these things, life would be a lot easier for both parties. It has little to do with porn. If you are male, imagine having to solve algebra when you have blue balls. You can never succeed. A poor man is not to be refused sex by his wife, really. When it comes to hustling, the average woman does not hustle as hard as her male counterpart for daily bread anyway, so what is the special thing about a woman working hard all day like the average man does? Do women hawk or do business harder than men? |
AgentGoat:Says who? Do you have some scientific proof of same? Does childbirth reduce the hormones or pleasure nerve endings? Why are there so many sugar mummies and Cougars? Why is gigolo an informal job? Guy, get it: the women who claim this never exactly loved their husbands for WHO their husbands are. They got into marriage for what they wanted to obtain from the man: a plush wedding where they dance (and contribute little or nothing financially), the societal esteem of being Mrs something, a man to take care of their responsibilities etc. When children come, their attention shifts completely to the new creature that is entirely dependent on them. The women then invest all their attention on the child(ren) for the same reason as with they got into marriage: to get an assured future from the children when the children grow! Meanwhile, the man is slaving himself and working extremely hard to pay for the children and family upkeep and development. He is hardly ever around at home as a consequence, unlike the mother. Guess what? The mothers subsequently appear to the children as the more caring parent and are often 'preferred' by the child(ren), regardless of their gender. Look, if men could share the pregnancy, labour and breastfeeding role with women, men would be doing it the 'designer' way, trust me. Don't think I'm thrashing about. A lot is said about the unbearable pain of labour - until you see Fulani women in labour being completely silent all through. When you experience that, you'll know it is not entirely unbearable after all. Like I wrote earlier, we have been scammed by women a very long time ago. We live all our lives and die for them with, often times, little or no acknowledgement of same by the female gender. Rather, they'll project their cases while men suffer in silence and project bravado. |
Gentlemen of Nairaland, have you all noticed that no married man has written on this thread to say that his WIFE's sexual appetite is more than his? I think the reason is that stolen water is sweeter. Even the Nymphs stop being generous (to their husbands) once they are 'safely' married, more often than not. They may resume the generosity with side-boys for extra cash while married, but would hardly ever daily pester their husbands for intercourse even if they did so before marriage. We have been scammed as men. |
claremont:You read and dwelt on only half of the report. You can use any drug prescribed for your use as an athlete by a Dr, but MUST apply for a therapeutic use exemption (TUE) if the drug contains substances on the WADA prohibition list published annually. This is public knowledge. It doesn't matter if the drug is for Malaria or hypertension, asthma or depression. Drugs that can provide competitive advantage or diuretics that can mask the use of drugs with competitive advantage are all on the prohibition list. The entirety of the Sporting World knows this. Of course however, the athlete and or his National Federation/International Federation can approach the Court of Arbitration for Sports (CAS) for a review if they feel hard done. Recall that the captain of Enyimba, Austin Oladapo was caught in similar mix recently. There is no space for such excuses as ignorance of the established laws of free and healthy Sports. |
Whitemoney has been a gentleman on the show. He deserves to win. Angel is better not commented about. |
Was always worried about her skin that appeared quite bleached. Wishing her the best going forward. |
You mean that Nigerians in London still latch upon this unscientific idea of calling 'fire' upon known and perceived 'enemies'? This is an alien culture! We expect that when they live with those who brought the religion to Africa, they would have learnt the 'normal' way to serve God in the White Man's way! Heck, some of these people would still be calling fire upon enemies if they make it into heaven, certainly. And for those who make it to the left side of that divide - ultimately, well, who would you call fire upon? Cos their brains are already wired to call 'fire' and 'death' upon 'enemies'! |
Here is the story of the rich making more money from the lopsided system we run in Nigeria where there is no social security net or structure for those in the lower socio-economic classes. For one, this narrator had rich parents with 'connections' adequate to sponsor him/her for education in Canada and USA. That's the upper 2% of the Nigerian society. To invest a lot of hope in such story as this for those with beginnings outside of that socio-economic class may be a recipe for depression. If opportunities like this were readily available for the average citizen, we would have less male internet fraudsters and female semi-prostitutes amongst our large youthful population. There would also be less interest in FG N-Power 15,000 or 30,000/month schemes. Even the National Assembly gets into huge rows over 1000 units of N20,000/month jobs in every LGA. Here is a young person netting sweet millions and attending N150k Dorime parties. I wish! |
Women can be very interesting. Same person, possibly the same day but totally different appearances/impressions. One picture in green, her mammaries appear so large they are almost occluding her throat, barely allowing her gold pendant somewhere to settle - in a Gbe s'oke style that leaves you wondering 'kini Aunty yii nwa kiri gaan' Set yin ti le jare. Aunty no gree, she pushes it into your eye as she touches the puppy. Oops, the melons must not pop out. ����In another picture, she's looking like that sweet Aunt we all love to have, our sweet godmother we always long to see. I prefer the latter. Happy Birthday Ayo Adesanya! |
Read all 17 pages over a week or so - in between my schedule. Happy Birthday Tourist123. You took us on a fun ride. All the best! |
BRATISLAVA:Thank you. |
If more married women read this and work hard at it, many marriages would survive better. The soul of any marriage is usually about a full stomach and an empty scrotum. An unhappy man wouldn't discharge his scrotal content at home - and all men need to do that regularly. It is what leads to the Chidinma Ojukwus of this world, you know. Men have their own problems, but it can be easily avoided by marrying good men for character rather than money. Women own the marriage - and the home. |
A lot of backlash here is because of ignorance. Unfortunately, ignorance isn't an excuse in law or medical sciences. Prednisolone is a banned drug in Sports. All Sports Physicians SHOULD know this. It doesn't matter whether it is abused in Nigeria or bought freely over the counter in Nigeria or not. The World Anti-Doping Agency (WADA) code has the drug on its list of banned substances as its use is against fair play in Sports. That written, prednisolone, like most steroidal medication, can be used by a player/athlete if absolutely necessary AFTER the Sports Physician/Club Doctor has requested for and filled a document called THERAPEUTIC USE EXEMPTION (TUE) which is sent to the competition authorities on the same day the drug is given to the player or immediately afterwards. I have worked as an international doping control official for CAF in the past, so this is basic knowledge. The team doctor knows all of these - and these questions are asked by the Doping Control officer from the player and his/her team doctor before the urine sample is collected after the match. It doesn't matter if the player has had a million negative doping tests previously. He had a banned drug in his system without a TUE form WHEN THE SAMPLE was taken. Any other explanation AFTER the result is released is inconsequential. The forms filled during doping control tests specifically asks the following, more or less, among others: What drugs is this player currently on? Does he have a TUE form? Are there specific drug declarations that the player/team doctor wishes to reveal at the point of testing? This is just for education. Indeed, Nigeria should conduct routine doping control tests in the football league. It is the reason why many ex footballers are not compatible with the society after their careers end - as many players in Nigeria play under the influence of many medications to boost their performances. In many instances, these drugs are harmful in the short, intermediate and long term as well as often unnecessary. Long term use of Prednisolone, as commonly as it is abused, for instance, can cause severe adverse effects in chronic users/drug abusers. Such include adrenal suppression, kidney damage, predisposition to fractures, water retention in muscles etc which can really lead to major injuries and/or disabilities sooner or later etc. All these take a long time to show - and the abuser may not easily link it to the drug until a Doctor reviews the drug history of the person in the hospital to identify these. I hope Nigerian Sports authorities can ring major changes in Sports Medicine and routine investigations in Nigeria in the light of this Oladapo unfortunate development as well as the ban of 10 Olympic athletes over their failure to have routine drug tests in Nigeria. Apparently, Oladapo and the athletes didn't know this would happen. However, there are Sports scientists and Sports Physicians with experience and expertise in Nigeria who know. Nigerian Sports administrators know these people. We should engage them to do their work. Professor Anugweje is the number one name in Sports Medicine in Nigeria. We didn't have to wait till the Olympics banned our athletes for failing to do out-of-competition tests, despite qualifying for the Olympics on merit, before we put up a structure in place manned by professionals, to do what we knew we should do. |
Come on Genies! Proud of you all. #SybilIroche |
Vaughanlanrewaj:Thanks for sharing this. I didn't want to go this deep initially. When we dig deep enough, we'll find out that Atuche and co only possibly stepped on some toes or fell out with some co-conspirators to have been brought to this point. It is all 'sakamanje', in my view. Sakamanje means 'make belief' in Lagos Urban lingua. The Nigerian system is monumentally flawed. The richest of the rich ALL have stories like this. There's hardly a clean billionaire in this country. It is a class system that seeks to enrich an ultra-minute corrupt few so as to maintain the now-weaponised poverty as some political armoury that never runs out of ammunition. Consider this, for instance: https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10165892940685144&id=645765143&sfnsn=scwspwa The speed or otherwise of the Judiciary is only a symptom of the Cancer. Nigeria is on life support. The mills of Law all over the world grinds quite slowly, but is expected to grind finely. In Nigeria, it grinds slowly and is often ambushed to break down midway. Consider Orji Uzor's conviction and its magical overturn! |
This is very revealing. It is both good and bad. Good in the sense that some maladministration has been identified and proven in court. Bad that it got this bad before the extent of maladministration in the bank was identified. That's also an administrative flaw by the agencies, ministries and departments of government that should have oversight responsibilities over the bank. If only this was done in every government institution... |
Johncuppa:It is the culture of our people nowadays, quite unfortunately, not to read and digest information before reacting or responding. You are right. The fellow simply failed to read the article. 'Too long' is the oft-available excuse! |
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