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Sports › Re: Mike Tyson Punches Annoying Passenger On Flight by DrTee1(m): 7:21am On Apr 22, 2022
Useless GOAT.

Cannot fight real professional boxers in the ring anymore. Declared bankruptcy.

But can punch a hapless drunk in a plane!
Heck!
The price of popularity is that all manners of people would try to reach you. Responsibility should ensure that a gentleman social figure should be able to embrace it all - when positive and if negative - with candour and grace.
Romance › Re: Lesson From The Jada Pinkett And Will Smith Marriage Saga by DrTee1(m): 1:27pm On Apr 07, 2022
Just WOW!

Like WOW!!

WTF MAN!!! grin
Politics › Re: Buhari Says He Will Sign Electoral Bill If NASS Makes The Necessary Adjustments by DrTee1(m): 5:33am On Jan 06, 2022
Besides direct primaries, there is also the contentious issue of electronic transmission of results, which is also receiving a lot of objection in several quarters. They claim that about 300 LGAs have no facilities to transport results electronically. I don't think that assertion is either true or insurmountable.

I hope the President does sign these amendments however, with the option of direct or indirect primaries as the parties may deem fit per unit time.
Politics › Re: Buhari Says He Will Sign Electoral Bill If NASS Makes The Necessary Adjustments by DrTee1(m): 5:32am On Jan 06, 2022
Besides direct primaries, there is also the contentious issue of electronic transmission of results, which is also receiving a lot of objection in several quarters. They claim that about 300 LGAs have no facilities to transport results electronically. I don't think that assertion is either true or insurmountable.

I hope the President does sign these amendments however, with the option of direct and indirect primaries as the parties may deem fit.
Family › Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by DrTee1(m): 6:39am On Dec 27, 2021
Jazzman01:
So no one has mentioned female circumcision?
Unfortunately.

11 pages of text, only one person mentioned the most basic anatomical reason that is still persistent till date.

In fact, most/many girl children who have had some form of genital mutilation can indeed keep the vows of chastity before and AFTER marriage quite better...

The consequences are however some of what is being discussed. It isn't the only reason, but it is certainly one of the reasons.
Nairaland General › Re: What Calms You Down Whenever You Are Angry? by DrTee1(m): 6:17am On Dec 15, 2021
The words 'I am sorry', especially when deployed genuinely by the person saying it - and for a first time mistake/error.
Education › Re: Laspotech No Hard,just Buy Textbook, THE MANAGEMENT Is Looking For This Guy. by DrTee1(m): 3:36pm On Nov 27, 2021
airexx:
What wrong has he done?
Co-ask.

Education is not supposed to be 'hard'. The study guides are usually in textbooks.

Classroom notes are 'texts' handwritten in 'books' by students anyway.
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been With Someone Who Has More Sexual Appetite Than You? by DrTee1(m): 8:37am On Nov 21, 2021
onegig:
Pained? Why would i? I am more disgusted and feel absolute pity for the women around you. I hope you tell your wife the pains of labour she felt or would feel is actually she "acting up". I hope she does us a favour and smacks your face with backhand.

If your claims of being a doctor or health practitioner is true. Then your initial takes even makes it worse.

Just listen to your self. That Pain threshold can be calculated eliminates the pain and response to such?

"Pain threshold can be calculated and mitigated?" "Men would do childbirth with fashion." Lol.

How about we do a test and ram your ass hole with a pestle and wait for you not to flinch?
Calm down. Your blood is 'hot'. I am not your problem. Go face it with your aggression and wahala.

At least I do not sell electrical appliances like you, so I know about the pain of labour, menstruation and other thresholds of pain.

This conversation isn't about labour, neither does it suggest that labour pains are negligible. Your rage is about my assertion that the pain associated with labour is not something that the men folk would be publicly singing everyday if men were to experience that physiological occurrence. You do not like that, your problem, not mine.

Your woman, or the women in your family possibly smack their men when they do not like their perspective to discussions, so I can understand that your misplaced gender identity may come from a place of chronic abuse of some sort.
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been With Someone Who Has More Sexual Appetite Than You? by DrTee1(m): 7:55am On Nov 21, 2021
onegig:
Absolute rubbish.


Try menstrual pain for 1 hour then come back here and type this rubbish.

Also the Fulani women talk is half truths. Don't say what you don't know. How many Fulani women have you experienced giving birth? Yes they might by their body structure and infant size not experience much pain. I have witnessed home births from women down south without even a word and i have had to send a Fulani student to the clinic because of menstrual pain.

We all have thresholds of pain and it would vary from women to women. To actually now belittle child birth pain as just some women "acting up" isn't only idiotic but wicked.

If Men go through 1/4 menstrual pain or 1/10 labour pain the world would have created a machine to stop menstruation and give birth outside the human body.

Can't imagine an adult with access to the internet would type what you wrote up there.
Oh! This one is so pained! Phew.
No be me do you o.
I don't even know of your challenges. Lol.

Your identity reads 'male' but there you are writing about trying menstrual pain, which you have never experienced if you are male - except of course, if you are a female FRAUDSTER hiding behind a male identity.

I have handled deliveries of hundreds of women in Northern Nigeria really - if that is relevant to this conversation.

The threshold of menstrual pain or that associated with uterine contractions in labour is actually calculable - so don't bring your misdirected emotions to it, and it isn't my job to teach you what you do not know and frothing at the gills over.

In all, I hope you find peace. You need it.
Properties › Re: TVC Interviewed Femi Osibona, Owner Of 21-Storey Ikoyi Building (Throwback Video by DrTee1(m): 9:16am On Nov 05, 2021
CorperKola:
I watched the interview, and it was just full of many red flags , carrying gospel singers and pastors to your construction site. All these tells the story of a stupid person who thought spirituality could replace the physical laws of the universe. i generally avoid people who talk like that because they are either stupid people or deceivers or a combo of both
Off your mic. You are writing facts too boldly. You'll be accused of being emotional and sentimental by the religious bandwagon.

But yes, your thoughts align with mine.

Mayflowa:
He said he doesn't listen to his engineers and consultant. That they put too much on factor of safety making him lose money.
Another red flag from the 31 minute interview. You are also right. The man put on a religious garb but it was easy to see through the fact that he had being bribing his way from constructions in England. Why is he the only one where approvals have mistakes on number of floors - in England, America, South Africa? Only him? A man with only a HND in Banking & Finance saying Nigerian building consultants only know theory? So when they requested for a 1000kva generator, he installed 800kva and even sold it to replace with 500kva. I see a man given to cutting corners.

CorperKola:
I watched the interview, and it was just full of many red flags , carrying gospel singers and pastors to your construction site. All these tells the story of a stupid person who thought spirituality could replace the physical laws of the universe. i generally avoid people who talk like that because they are either stupid people or deceivers or a combo of both
Come receive a hug Corper!
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been With Someone Who Has More Sexual Appetite Than You? by DrTee1(m):
gorgeousnogo:
My dear, even if the husband and the wife comes home the same time, I agree with the other commenter that ‘a man can eat and go straight to bed’ but a woman can’t

Should I list it for you,

- she has to check on the kids, bath them, ensure the whole family eats and put them to bed

- if the kids are like 1-5 years , she doesn’t sleep straight, the kids will keep crying and sometimes she ends up sleeping in their room just to ensure they get to sleep (which some kids don’t and the mum ‘most times’ gets to stay up with them’

- she has to get up early and cook food for the family (pack lunch boxes for the kids), bathe them, prepare them for school (on top the kids crying and making it hard for her. Some husbands sleep through it all)

- she will then take them to school before going to work (because the average Nigeria family don’t all have cars - so school run Na keke or if the school is close, trekking)

- come back, prepare dinner, wash food flasks and uniform. Do assignments etc


And the cycle begins all over again the next day…

So most times, marriage favors the man more because after work they go home and sit in front of tv, say goodnight to the kids, expect sex and then sleep

But a woman….. let’s not even argue that abeg

Marriage Na work work work for women even if you get rich husband, you will still be up at night breast feeding your newborn 5 times in the night while the hubby sleeps away
Dear Nogo,

Good evening. Let me try to attend to your posers line by line:

1. The husband and wife virtually never get home at the same time. The average man works HARDER than his Mrs/spouse to feed his wife, his children, his extended family, his wife's extended family plus run the home to meet the woman's social and societal expectations. Recall that women generally marry UP the social ladder.

2. The 'men can go straight to bed' is all but overaching fallacy. Very few men can go straight to bed, or simply come home to bath and watch TV. There are very many house chores that married men can/often help their wives with. I sweep, clean, bathed the neonate, iron clothes, wash the vehicles, fixed or arrange all gadgets and installations, maintain same etc.

3. When I was 3, my mum never had to sleep in my room, really. My brother was freshly born at that time. By the time he was three, neither me nor him slept in our parents' rooms, of course, except we were ill or something. When mothers however, as this entire conversation is about anyway, shift marital and family attention to the children as priority, all these become a difficult thing and she'll find excuses to overpamper the children with time and attention. My parents simply dismissed us to our bedroom after night prayer back in our day. Nobody cried for attention and everyone slept, whether there was NEPA and fan or no NEPA and the kerosene lantern was at its lowest ebb. So what's new?

4. Get up early and cook:. Okay. Is Oga lying in bed when she gets up early? Oga is also often awake to assist with bathing the kids, dressing them and all - or out of home early to hustle traffic/work. Lagos is bustling by 4.30am every day and there are more men on the streets by those early hours of the day than women, innit? You wouldn't hear/read men complain about waking early anyway or helping with kids. Only husbands like Ned Nwoko, far older than their wives and with a relatively large harem may not help with child(ren) welfare at that age 1-5.

5. Let's talk about the school runs. Who is the school bus driver or keke driver? A man: someone's father from another family and another woman's husband. That's if the biological father isn't dropping the children with his vehicle. My point: it is an exclusive women preserve. What is in washing dishes? Any gender can quite rightly do that, but where the man pays for everything at home, or the lion share in most Nigerian homes, you do not expect him to contribute to house chores as much as his wife. He works hard and often funds the home heavily in lieu of this 50% domestic chores expectations. In the West where both spouses share finances equally, chores are similarly shared equally without fuss. Washing machine are in most homes, so let's not go into clothes washing chore as some female bugging.

I think I may have addressed every item you raised. Let me now shock you: I know married women with no kids at all, with their own cars and careers who still do not 'serve' regular sex in marriage. They watch TV, internet and want to sleep after 'a hard career-day'. What excuse would you quite formulate for that?

Remember that the entire article is about NO MARRIED MAN, not one, saying that his wife's libido is more than his. Not one. Not even a 60 year old man where all the kids are out of home, at least the age 1-5 child excuse wouldn't be there... Na scam.

I may be wrong, but I think there is almost NOTHING women do that men cannot and have not accomplished in history without much fuss, except what they are biologically incapable of doing e.g carrying pregnancy naturally. Women should reflect on these things. It is the reason why there would always be side chics till the end of the world in most places. Women often change priorities in marriage and leave the man short-changed.

P.S: About breastfeeding babies at night being work: Hello? kiss Do our sisters make a complaint about everything? Should men complain about sex being hard work? Yes, the intercourse we are talking about: do you know it is very hard work for the person thrusting - usually the man?

I mean let me break that down: work is force multiplied by distance. Force is mass multiplied by acceleration due to gravity.

So the person on top during the said sex works hard and that can quite be calculated is weight multiplied by distance (or length of his phallus) multiplied by acceleration due to gravity multiplied by each stroke required to reach ejaculation multiplied by number of ejaculations. This can be converted to values in Newton, Calories, Joules or kilojoules - to determine the amount of work done or energy dissipated. Yet, you'll possibly never hear or read men complain.

Women make it look like the men enjoy the sex more. Another one: when the cotton bud goes into the ear, where is the enjoyment? The bud or the ear canal? Scientifically, the vagina has relatively more nerve endings to transmit pain or pleasure than the penis. That tells you who possibly enjoys more. The force of the person doing the thrusting, which I have demonstrated earlier, is largely borne by surface on which the person receiving the thrusting is lying on, which is then transmitted to the floor. Meanwhile, don't women generally prefer more muscular and taller men for that purpose?

New fathers hardly get good sleep. I remember going to work every day with bloodshot eyes when my baby arrived years ago because the little one woke us up every other hour for attention and breast milk. It didn't matter who did the breastfeeding. Sleep was distorted for both of us - and the woman is usually on maternity leave in the first three months anyway. As of then, paternity leave didn't exist in Nigeria. I do not think it has been implemented yet - not as of 6 weeks ago at least.
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been With Someone Who Has More Sexual Appetite Than You? by DrTee1(m): 5:17pm On Oct 30, 2021
NoToPile:
Loool, its Lagos and others grin

The bolded is what I have been saying, let's flip it, ' A woman works till she enters the house. At home, she wants to bath and sleep' . we both know its impossible but a man can do it. Except you are saying we don't have women who work and get home at night.

This negates your last paragraph, someone is actually doing it more - now it might not be the case of every family at least to a reasonable percentage let's say 60-70% this scenario always play out.

Let's not mention rent and school fees, lots of families share these bills in recent times.

My point is I feel a female who has to work all day to provide money and still has to 'work' the homely jobs after getting home is doing more than a man who works to also provide the same money only, as you know he can come in bathe and sleep but she can't.

Anyway I understand if you don't understand my point.
In court, you'll be a badass lawyer! grin You are hinging on technicalities: the 1% and making a huge case out of it.

As much as a man wants to sleep at home, he actually doesn't. I wrote all that in my last paragraph. The woman usually makes up for the less work in maintaining the family by providing the funds in catering for the children and kitchen. Men happily switch those roles in developed countries, and high brow Lagos anyway. There are few men who do nothing at home, if any. Usually, with grown kids and nannies, there's little work on the home front for the woman's exclusive attention in today's world especially with washing machines in every home and the average Lagos family buying food on the streets rather than cooking in their small houses. cheesy

There's nothing special about working class couples splitting the bills. More often than not, it is split according to earnings - and most women marry upwards, to men who earn more than them anyway.
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been With Someone Who Has More Sexual Appetite Than You? by DrTee1(m): 4:23pm On Oct 30, 2021
NoToPile:
I understand your 2nd and 3rd paragraphs perfectly, how sex relaxes men and all that but I just want to point at the bolded.

It's actually special when you have to hustle hard like a man and still come back home to start all over again working.

That's what makes it special , The man that is available for one intercourse daily most likely has no more work at home ( this is for a sizeable amount of men) the woman who might be unavailable for intercourse has worked as hard as a man out there and will do more work when back home, its not rocket science she will be tired, she's human after all.

Except there are pallatives,help etc it will continue to occur or as some women do they will just let you do the do while they just lie there some men will also complain about that too, that the woman is not responsive during the act.

The problem is a lot of men like you have stated don't see anything special in a woman working hard all day as a man does as they don't understand that the work still continues at home until men understand this point, issues like this will continue to occur.

This is also a reason why as bad as the economy is and all hands need to be on deck to provide income for them family ( in reality how many men can provide ALL the family needs in this buharis economy) I try not to fault full time housewives, let them stay at home do the work all day , try and rest in between , let him go and bring the money we will all spend and hopefully she will be more available for once a day intercourse as making money is not her concern .

Wait first do married people really have sex daily ? In this same Lagos.
First, not everyone is in Lagos. Lagosians tend to think their small landmass is all of Nigeria. Lol.

Secondly, you seemed to skip the crux of my final paragraph analysis and dwelt on the outlier. Indeed, the average man works twice as hard as the average woman in today's Nigeria. Underline average: 1 in 2. 5 in 10. 100 in 200. The hardest jobs are male dominated, isn't it? Someone recently joked that beauty products have women headlining their advertorials while men are the poster boys for analgesics. The joke tells a deep message.

A man works till he enters the house. At home, he wants to bath and sleep. The average working man - you are right - wouldn't necessarily be able to have sex every day. Primarily, as I wrote earlier, good women should be sexually compatible with their husbands and should before then, have express channels of verbal and non-verbal communication to know when the man wants to be served the midnight dish and when they want it from their men.

There is no excuse about a woman working at home. Men maintain the houses anyway: electricals, wiring, cars, repairs, gadgets, lifting heavy objects, installations etc in the house is often left for the male gender who often doesn't complain. Let's not talk about buildings and house rent.

My point is that nobody does it more. So there are no excuses for the scam sex that dries off after marriage by many of female gender in our society.
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been With Someone Who Has More Sexual Appetite Than You? by DrTee1(m): 3:03pm On Oct 30, 2021
oyatz:
1) In this part of the world, our culture demands that women minimize the ways they express their sexuality especially married women.

2) Teenage girls generally have higher sexual libido and strength than married women.
I wouldn't think this is entirely true. I have read a research work conducted by a Sociology and Demography lecturer as a part of her PhD project where cultural expectations of older and married women as pertaining to sex across different cultures in Africa and Asia was reviewed.

Effectively, there were two findings: those that align with your postulation and also encouraged polygamy, being that the men married younger women and left the older women to care for the family and children - and the other finding where women were allowed to pursue their sexual needs inside and sometimes outside of the marriage (especially when married to older men or men with many wives who did not touch them). If necessary, I could search for and quote the said research project.

Regardless, it is the 21st century where men and women are equally educated and given equal rights as well as freedom of expression. Women are expected to marry their best male friends - ordinarily - with whom they feel at greatest peace and communication with. So this excuse would really not arise, if that is so.
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been With Someone Who Has More Sexual Appetite Than You? by DrTee1(m): 2:56pm On Oct 30, 2021
oyatz:
You are right to some extent.



However, for struggling families ,child birth coupled with raising children while working hard as women reduces sexual appetites.


Sugar mummies and Cougars are fairly well to do and have enough money to take care of their problems thus have free time to think of 'enjoying life with good sex'

Women that are carrying children on their backs, hawking from morning till night while carrying consummer products on their heads,who get home in the evening to prepare (poor) dinners for their families don't have the luxuries of watching porn and trying to practicalize what they see on porn sites.
I think this is fair. I like this robust response.

Now, it is a woman's personal fault if she marries a man who does not work at least AS HARD AS she does. When that is not the issue, then it is assumed that the man works just as hard from morning till night, as the woman.

What many women do need to understand is that sex is an antidepressant and a natural relaxant for a man. It has little to do with whatever exists in pornography. At the end of it anyway, pornography is filming sexual acts between men and women in many instances.

Regardless of how hard the average man works, he is usually available to have at least one round of intercourse on the average day. It helps to relax and sleep and wake up with a clear, balanced mind ahead of the next day's work. Get it, the way to a good marriage is said to be a full stomach and an empty scrotum.

A sexually starved or frustrated man is scientifically proven to have higher than average levels of testosterone and androgenic hormones. This drives their alpha masculinity and sees them aggressive. The one who enjoys regular normal sex, whether from his wife or side chics is likely to have low or normal levels of testosterone and similar androgens running wild in the bloodstream.

In many marriages, women even use sex as a weapon of family negotiations. This repulses many men and opens the door wide open to extra marital affairs. When women learn these things, life would be a lot easier for both parties. It has little to do with porn.

If you are male, imagine having to solve algebra when you have blue balls. You can never succeed. A poor man is not to be refused sex by his wife, really. When it comes to hustling, the average woman does not hustle as hard as her male counterpart for daily bread anyway, so what is the special thing about a woman working hard all day like the average man does?

Do women hawk or do business harder than men?
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been With Someone Who Has More Sexual Appetite Than You? by DrTee1(m): 8:11am On Oct 30, 2021
AgentGoat:
Child birth kills sexual appetite gradually.
Says who?
Do you have some scientific proof of same?

Does childbirth reduce the hormones or pleasure nerve endings? Why are there so many sugar mummies and Cougars? Why is gigolo an informal job?

Guy, get it: the women who claim this never exactly loved their husbands for WHO their husbands are. They got into marriage for what they wanted to obtain from the man: a plush wedding where they dance (and contribute little or nothing financially), the societal esteem of being Mrs something, a man to take care of their responsibilities etc.

When children come, their attention shifts completely to the new creature that is entirely dependent on them. The women then invest all their attention on the child(ren) for the same reason as with they got into marriage: to get an assured future from the children when the children grow!

Meanwhile, the man is slaving himself and working extremely hard to pay for the children and family upkeep and development. He is hardly ever around at home as a consequence, unlike the mother. Guess what? The mothers subsequently appear to the children as the more caring parent and are often 'preferred' by the child(ren), regardless of their gender.

Look, if men could share the pregnancy, labour and breastfeeding role with women, men would be doing it the 'designer' way, trust me. Don't think I'm thrashing about. A lot is said about the unbearable pain of labour - until you see Fulani women in labour being completely silent all through. When you experience that, you'll know it is not entirely unbearable after all.

Like I wrote earlier, we have been scammed by women a very long time ago. We live all our lives and die for them with, often times, little or no acknowledgement of same by the female gender. Rather, they'll project their cases while men suffer in silence and project bravado.
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Been With Someone Who Has More Sexual Appetite Than You? by DrTee1(m): 10:58pm On Oct 29, 2021
Gentlemen of Nairaland, have you all noticed that no married man has written on this thread to say that his WIFE's sexual appetite is more than his?

I think the reason is that stolen water is sweeter. Even the Nymphs stop being generous (to their husbands) once they are 'safely' married, more often than not. They may resume the generosity with side-boys for extra cash while married, but would hardly ever daily pester their husbands for intercourse even if they did so before marriage.

We have been scammed as men.
Sports › Re: Paul Olumide Kehinde Banned For 30 Months For Anti-Doping Rule Violation by DrTee1(m): 6:46am On Oct 12, 2021
claremont:
Those medicines are commonly prescribed for HBP. The ban could have been avoided if the athlete had informed the committee of this condition which is common amongst middle-aged black men. I can't figure out how a commonly prescribed diuretic will make an athlete perform better.
You read and dwelt on only half of the report. You can use any drug prescribed for your use as an athlete by a Dr, but MUST apply for a therapeutic use exemption (TUE) if the drug contains substances on the WADA prohibition list published annually.

This is public knowledge. It doesn't matter if the drug is for Malaria or hypertension, asthma or depression. Drugs that can provide competitive advantage or diuretics that can mask the use of drugs with competitive advantage are all on the prohibition list.

The entirety of the Sporting World knows this. Of course however, the athlete and or his National Federation/International Federation can approach the Court of Arbitration for Sports (CAS) for a review if they feel hard done.

Recall that the captain of Enyimba, Austin Oladapo was caught in similar mix recently. There is no space for such excuses as ignorance of the established laws of free and healthy Sports.
TV/Movies › Re: Who Wins BBNaija Season 6: Whitemoney, Liquorose, Pere, Cross, Angel, Emmanuel? by DrTee1(m): 9:21pm On Sep 27, 2021
Whitemoney has been a gentleman on the show. He deserves to win.

Angel is better not commented about.
TV/Movies › Re: JMK Evicted From The Big Brother House by DrTee1(m): 7:12pm On Aug 29, 2021
Was always worried about her skin that appeared quite bleached.

Wishing her the best going forward.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Neighbours Call Fire Brigade After Hearing Nigerian Shout 'Holy Fire' In London by DrTee1(m): 1:33pm On Aug 23, 2021
You mean that Nigerians in London still latch upon this unscientific idea of calling 'fire' upon known and perceived 'enemies'?

This is an alien culture!

We expect that when they live with those who brought the religion to Africa, they would have learnt the 'normal' way to serve God in the White Man's way!

Heck, some of these people would still be calling fire upon enemies if they make it into heaven, certainly. And for those who make it to the left side of that divide - ultimately, well, who would you call fire upon? Cos their brains are already wired to call 'fire' and 'death' upon 'enemies'!
Career › Re: The Privileged #nairalife Of An Investment Banker With Multiple Side Businesses by DrTee1(m): 2:06pm On Aug 17, 2021
Here is the story of the rich making more money from the lopsided system we run in Nigeria where there is no social security net or structure for those in the lower socio-economic classes.

For one, this narrator had rich parents with 'connections' adequate to sponsor him/her for education in Canada and USA.

That's the upper 2% of the Nigerian society.

To invest a lot of hope in such story as this for those with beginnings outside of that socio-economic class may be a recipe for depression.

If opportunities like this were readily available for the average citizen, we would have less male internet fraudsters and female semi-prostitutes amongst our large youthful population. There would also be less interest in FG N-Power 15,000 or 30,000/month schemes. Even the National Assembly gets into huge rows over 1000 units of N20,000/month jobs in every LGA.

Here is a young person netting sweet millions and attending N150k Dorime parties. I wish!
Celebrities › Re: Ayo Adesanya Celebrates 52nd Birthday With Lovely Pictures by DrTee1(m): 6:36pm On Aug 11, 2021
Women can be very interesting.

Same person, possibly the same day but totally different appearances/impressions.

One picture in green, her mammaries appear so large they are almost occluding her throat, barely allowing her gold pendant somewhere to settle - in a Gbe s'oke style that leaves you wondering 'kini Aunty yii nwa kiri gaan' grin Set yin ti le jare. Aunty no gree, she pushes it into your eye as she touches the puppy. Oops, the melons must not pop out. ����

In another picture, she's looking like that sweet Aunt we all love to have, our sweet godmother we always long to see.

I prefer the latter.

Happy Birthday Ayo Adesanya!
Travel › Re: A Nairalander’s Road Trip To New York by DrTee1(m): 5:58pm On Aug 11, 2021
Read all 17 pages over a week or so - in between my schedule.

Happy Birthday Tourist123. You took us on a fun ride.

All the best!
Family › Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by DrTee1(m): 7:30pm On Aug 10, 2021
BRATISLAVA:
One of the most revealing posts on the forum.
Thank you.
Family › Re: How To Increase Intimacy In Marriages by DrTee1(m): 5:17pm On Aug 10, 2021
If more married women read this and work hard at it, many marriages would survive better.

The soul of any marriage is usually about a full stomach and an empty scrotum. An unhappy man wouldn't discharge his scrotal content at home - and all men need to do that regularly.

It is what leads to the Chidinma Ojukwus of this world, you know.

Men have their own problems, but it can be easily avoided by marrying good men for character rather than money. Women own the marriage - and the home.
Sports › Re: Enyimba Stand By Banned Captain, Austine Oladapo by DrTee1(m): 6:35am On Jul 30, 2021
A lot of backlash here is because of ignorance. Unfortunately, ignorance isn't an excuse in law or medical sciences.

Prednisolone is a banned drug in Sports. All Sports Physicians SHOULD know this. It doesn't matter whether it is abused in Nigeria or bought freely over the counter in Nigeria or not. The World Anti-Doping Agency (WADA) code has the drug on its list of banned substances as its use is against fair play in Sports.

That written, prednisolone, like most steroidal medication, can be used by a player/athlete if absolutely necessary AFTER the Sports Physician/Club Doctor has requested for and filled a document called THERAPEUTIC USE EXEMPTION (TUE) which is sent to the competition authorities on the same day the drug is given to the player or immediately afterwards.

I have worked as an international doping control official for CAF in the past, so this is basic knowledge. The team doctor knows all of these - and these questions are asked by the Doping Control officer from the player and his/her team doctor before the urine sample is collected after the match. It doesn't matter if the player has had a million negative doping tests previously.

He had a banned drug in his system without a TUE form WHEN THE SAMPLE was taken. Any other explanation AFTER the result is released is inconsequential. The forms filled during doping control tests specifically asks the following, more or less, among others:

What drugs is this player currently on?
Does he have a TUE form?
Are there specific drug declarations that the player/team doctor wishes to reveal at the point of testing?

This is just for education.

Indeed, Nigeria should conduct routine doping control tests in the football league. It is the reason why many ex footballers are not compatible with the society after their careers end - as many players in Nigeria play under the influence of many medications to boost their performances. In many instances, these drugs are harmful in the short, intermediate and long term as well as often unnecessary.

Long term use of Prednisolone, as commonly as it is abused, for instance, can cause severe adverse effects in chronic users/drug abusers. Such include adrenal suppression, kidney damage, predisposition to fractures, water retention in muscles etc which can really lead to major injuries and/or disabilities sooner or later etc. All these take a long time to show - and the abuser may not easily link it to the drug until a Doctor reviews the drug history of the person in the hospital to identify these.

I hope Nigerian Sports authorities can ring major changes in Sports Medicine and routine investigations in Nigeria in the light of this Oladapo unfortunate development as well as the ban of 10 Olympic athletes over their failure to have routine drug tests in Nigeria. Apparently, Oladapo and the athletes didn't know this would happen.

However, there are Sports scientists and Sports Physicians with experience and expertise in Nigeria who know. Nigerian Sports administrators know these people. We should engage them to do their work.

Professor Anugweje is the number one name in Sports Medicine in Nigeria. We didn't have to wait till the Olympics banned our athletes for failing to do out-of-competition tests, despite qualifying for the Olympics on merit, before we put up a structure in place manned by professionals, to do what we knew we should do.
Health › Re: 54gene, Nigeria’s Health-tech Firm, Makes Wef’s Technology Pioneers List by DrTee1(m): 4:52am On Jun 21, 2021
Come on Genies! Proud of you all.

#SybilIroche
Business › Re: Court Convicts Bank PHB's Francis Atuche, Ugo Anyanwu Of ₦25.7 Bilion Theft by DrTee1(m): 6:26am On Jun 17, 2021
Vaughanlanrewaj:
Very valid and intelligent points. I think our legal system is largely to be blamed for it. The case has taken more than a decade and I won't be surprised it goes on appeal and on to the supreme court, taking more years. N25Billion in 2009 was $172.4m which is currently worth N77.6 billion today. That fund was used to fund wastages along with unquantifiable waste of man hours. Why should it take 10 years to establish the difference between professional negligence and criminal negligence for a publicly quoted bank that is under supervision of regulators and auditors? shocked It's completely preposterous and a huge drain on us all. The justice system is way too slow and is encouraging resource allocation inefficiency. The judiciary needs to help us in this country. If they don't do their work more efficiently, the system will eventually consume them too.
Thanks for sharing this. I didn't want to go this deep initially.

When we dig deep enough, we'll find out that Atuche and co only possibly stepped on some toes or fell out with some co-conspirators to have been brought to this point.

It is all 'sakamanje', in my view. Sakamanje means 'make belief' in Lagos Urban lingua.

The Nigerian system is monumentally flawed. The richest of the rich ALL have stories like this. There's hardly a clean billionaire in this country. It is a class system that seeks to enrich an ultra-minute corrupt few so as to maintain the now-weaponised poverty as some political armoury that never runs out of ammunition.

Consider this, for instance:

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10165892940685144&id=645765143&sfnsn=scwspwa

The speed or otherwise of the Judiciary is only a symptom of the Cancer. Nigeria is on life support. The mills of Law all over the world grinds quite slowly, but is expected to grind finely. In Nigeria, it grinds slowly and is often ambushed to break down midway.

Consider Orji Uzor's conviction and its magical overturn!
Business › Re: Court Convicts Bank PHB's Francis Atuche, Ugo Anyanwu Of ₦25.7 Bilion Theft by DrTee1(m): 11:31pm On Jun 16, 2021
This is very revealing.

It is both good and bad. Good in the sense that some maladministration has been identified and proven in court.

Bad that it got this bad before the extent of maladministration in the bank was identified. That's also an administrative flaw by the agencies, ministries and departments of government that should have oversight responsibilities over the bank.

If only this was done in every government institution...
Politics › Re: Have You Ever Voted In A Shrine? INEC Relocated 9 Polling Units From There by DrTee1(m): 2:43pm On Jun 16, 2021
Johncuppa:
It means you didn't read.
They actually did, including mosques and palaces.
Good afternoon.
It is the culture of our people nowadays, quite unfortunately, not to read and digest information before reacting or responding.

You are right. The fellow simply failed to read the article. 'Too long' is the oft-available excuse!

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