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demelza: Its already being quoted so I have to leave it.
Thanks anyway

YW.

demelza: You could help me out.
I am ready to learn

Maybe you should just remove the *PERUSING*

demelza: No way will I allow someone go perusing through my phone all in the name of being in a relationship.
Everyone should mind their business

*PERUSING*. How does that fit in that sentence....<DOUBLEFACEPALM>

sanb: Lol; same applies....

Why should it be what women want all the time. What about the dudes or don't we matter?

sanb: @Op; this is a question that’s been asked several times…. but it’s good guys need clarity on what women want…as a woman, I’ll give you some tips and I’m pretty sure other women would agree with me…..

·We need to feel that we can trust you and we need to know and feel that you can trust us as well;
·Make us feel good, as we want to experience a meaningful, emotionally and fulfilling life with you..i.e. make us feel that we're on common ground with you;
·Be your true self and don’t pretend; cos we have the instinct in us to smell pretense from afar;
·We know we like nagging; but be rest assured that we women hate to see a man nag; best believe we have some men who know how to nag more than even a woman;
·Give us your support..i.e…let us feel that you’re the first person we can turn to when we’re in need, without fear of lectures or disinterest from your side;
·When we hurt, we want you guys to listen and resist the urge to offer advice unless we ask for it…i.e. be considerate, thoughtful, and kind;
·Compliment us and mean it; cos that compliment goes a long way in making us feel good about ourselves;
·Try not to take us for granted, neither ignore us; cos it infuriates us;
·Show your joy in spending time with us; cos we need to feel that you appreciate doing so;
·Be our greatest supporter i.e. back us up 100% cos that’ll make us know that we can always count on you;
·Most of us never forget things; and if you’re angry with us my advice would be to walk away and take time to cool down, or you might say something you will regret;
·DON’T EVER TRY TO COMPARE US WITH OTHER WOMEN; COS WE’RE UNIQUE IN OUR INDIVIDUAL WAYS…(Purposely typed this in caps);
·Include us in your dreams and tell us about them; when you share your life with us, it make us feel part of you; and
·If you treat us the way we deserve to be treated i.e. by showing respect and valuing us; then be rest assured that it’d be reciprocated.

Lastly, note that a happy caring guy makes a happy caring woman….all the way….

Hope the above tips helps in your quest to know what we women want……from SANB’s perspective…

What about what men want??

lorretta u: Women want happiness.
And while yes money can make one's life on earth pleasant,it can't buy happiness.
I know that for sure now
I've seen rich men and poor ones too.
I've loved a dirt poor man and we were very happy while it lasted.
Of course maybe we'd have been even happier if we had all the comforts we needed then.but trust me if that money were to be in the pocket of another man then,I'd have gladly stuck to my man and his poverty.
What am I saying?
We women really do like money and luxury and since men discovered it,there are just a few who work to improve on themselves.they all believe "if I've money,I can have any woman"
So they only concentrate on making money at the detriment of other good qualities.and by the time they are done,they've only suceeded in turning themselves into the biblical rich fool
That money can't buy them love.it only buys them names such as
Mugu1.
We want a man who's world revolves around us.(Selfish?) Well yea. We don't ask for what we can't give in return.
A woman just wants to be loved. She wants to know that inspite of the fact that she's not as beautiful as beyonce,she's the most beautiful woman in your world.

I like this.

deols: I wonder what it is you worship and what that teaches you?


I banned you for insulting someone's father and you still come here to rant about it?


aren't you ashamed of yourself?


The day you are banned for NOTHInG, come and make a case for it.

You should be the one who's ashamed and not me for abusing your power and being segregative. My response was tickled by a hateful statement on that topic I got banned. Someone used a slur and a very provocative derogative term on me and you expect me to turn the other cheek while the other user wasn't banned and I was for being human.

Maybe you should Fucck off you bloody sociopath. Go stick it up yours.

NL member: Deols is better than maclatunji. I think she's a nice sweet gal that is trying to do right to non muslims and at the same time keep from offending Allah.
Maclatunji on the other hand is a power crazed extremist that doesn't bother hiding his hatred for non Muslims. I don't blame him though, he thinks he's obeying allah by being so intolerant. There is actually a verse in the quran that instructs muslims to be harsh towards non muslims.
Here it is;
"O ye who believe! Fight those of the disbelievers who are near to you, and let them find harshness in you, and know that Allah is with those who keep their duty (unto Him)."

There is also another quranic verse like that which instructs muslims to not take any non muslims as friends.

I find it hard to believe that the same Deols who awarded my truthfulness with a ban on an issue not relating to religion or Islam in particular is the "sweet" little thing you speak of. I have made it a value on being inert on religious matters for personal reasons.

Half of the MODs on this forum are power hungry and crazed extremist in their own way. The showcase of their power is just their way of inadvertly telling us how immature and low-minded they are. It's like making a servant a king or handing a real life ammunition to a kid.

They fail to understand that this a forum and there's no way you could curb the opinion of another just because it differs from yours. I have never been against Islam but Mclantunji and other Islamist fundamentalist/extremist on this forum has pushed my tolerance level further to a more advance negate value.

I think Seun needs to school and tutor this MODs in real life how to become moderators and not be biased, egocentric individuals and make them understand just because a user's views differs from theirs, it shouldn't amount to a ban. He should also be careful who he chooses as MODs.

Mclantunji and Deols get turned on whenever they showcase their authority and powers as MODS without any conclusive reason. You don't see MOD's on religious matter pertaining to Christianity or Paganism being this cruel when a user goes a little out of line and yet they say Islam is tolerant of others. They're just bunch of gays hiding under religious hypocrisy. Fucck them all.

ichidodo: Point of correction lagos was never a colony of portugal but the benin empire, it was a slave port( little why portuguese slave traders loved the area) bini warriors traded yoruba slaves to d 'portuma' in exchange for trinkets,liqour,mirrors etc after the aboltion of slavery it went into d protectorate of d British.We d last barbarians have made a giant leap and have seized the 'heart' of lagos from d British.So who now owns Lagos? The civilised slaves or the barbarians from d east?

@Bolded. Interesting. So you mean to say Lagosians are civilized slaves? Small wonder they're too prickly.

You pro-Lagos narcistic-I-am-above-all-Nigerians should please shut the fucck up. I'm actually surprised lagos was amongst the list of cities in the world. Reason so for my surprise is because I don't think lagos has the appropriate characteristics of being called a proper city and if you all want the reasons, I would gladly do so if you ask.

In comparison that shithole shouldn't have made that list. The reason I suspect it made the list is because Nigeria has no true city. Lagos is more like a highly developed suburb with additional ghetto and slums.

I'm no pro-Trinitarian but it would be educational if you could prove Jesus and GOD are one and the same.. There's no harm in gathering more knownledge which it seems you have overflowing.

[quote author=PAGAN 9JA]ok Thanx for the advice my brother. THe emails are not there. I was anyways considering that second option.[/quote]Ok then, try then give me a feedback.

[quote author=PAGAN 9JA]MODS! [/quote]Check the email account you used in creating your NL profile. Your emails would be there waiting I think.

If it still isn't there, try editing your nairaland info with a new email address. Gmail works better. I get my PMs in my gmail account all the time.

Truth about women.

demelza: Yes Arnold was the standard in the Neandarthal era not now. We have gone metrosexual.
BTW, I dont think my name sounds like what a dude will bear.

Metrosexual = Closet Gay. Any male do who pay too much attention to his looks and fashion instead of his physique is closet gay.

So this is what envogue now and what girls/ladies of this generation go for.. It's pretty absurd knowing there are well built and handsome guys out there yet some ladies still ignore that and go for 'pretty' guys who look very much like girls.

What happened to guys like The Rock, Michael Wahlberg, Brad Pitt, Keanu Reeves and others.... Very macho/semi-macho guys...

demelza: Eeeewwwing at that over-sculpted body of Arnold, its too goddamn much.
I will pick this Asian guy over that a 100 times over.
He is too cute for words.

Arnold is a very good representation on how a man is supposed to look and the new Michael Wahlberg is cool too.

BTW, I thought you were a dude?

If you've read the terms and agreement, click YES...

Clicks YES..

If you're 18 and above, Continue...

Clicks Continue.

He looks too feminine. Is this what passes out as handsome these days? What happened to when a man looks actually like a man?



Sum tin Wong

This is nice.

It's been so long since we've had a positive news on FP. Maybe the young chap would turn out to be the next Steve Hawkins and help unlock the mystery surrounding our galaxy/universe.

MODS, this is the kind of information needed to be displayed on the frontpage.

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lorretta u: well this isn't one of those battle of the sexes thread. Just a sincer search to find out how guys view unwanted attention.that's all. Thanks y'all

I like the profile picture.

texanomaly: Hahahaha...

Only broke niggaz would say water is the best drink like nigga WTF

Right now, I'm having a jug of beer made for four.

Diluting my beer with red bull energy drink..

I'm planning on topping it with some soda and mineral waters.

I'm eating straight of the can food tonight.

I'm ending my day with a packet of cigarettes.

And waking up the next morning with a cup of coffee and some cigarettes and I'm still alive and healthy like a boss .

Fucck what science says, no ones controls how I live but me.

P.S: Do the direct opposite of what I wrote if you want to live long..

Psylas: Who remember †hє names of †hєƨє bombs?

I think one of those atomic bomg was named "The Fat Man"

The question is stupid and irrelevant...

How would I feel if a girl loves me and the feeling is not mutual - Nothing..

@OP: You're proposing the question to the wrong audience. Kindly rephrase your question to the feminine gender.

I love Beverly.....NOT!!!

Nigerians were morally inclined and disciplined till a military dictator decided to flood the country with oil money. That was the beginning of the end for Nigeria. There's no solution even if we embark on a revolution. Reason why I say so is because if we wipe out the corrupt leaders and bring in new leaders from the grassroot, once they get that taste of power, it would become abused. They themselves would become corrupt or even worse. The only plausible solution is if we were colonized again or all our affairs and governing should be done by the western world.. Just saying.

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